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davien:
foolinlove, can't you tell you're being baited by trolls?

I like arguing sharpens my mind.

harsysky:
I dnt knw if I should cut open your head and put it clearly. You mentioned hate, didn't you? Now, you called God who stipulates that everyone loves even his enemies. Let's assume men are your enemies, won't you for God's sake love them?

Okay. I really intensely dislike thr behavior of men. Better?

ForeverYoung197:
I'll cut his dick off. So he will stop whoring around.

Amen. I wouldn't go that far, but it's funny.

The relationship would definitely be OVER.

harsysky:
More contradictions but now with God in the picture. God prefers you love everyone before coming to HIM. Why the prayer, " FOrgive us as we forgive those who trespass against us".

Dnt bring God in the pix of Hate , pls.

I still don't see any contradiction.

God IS love. And maybe I am being hasty in saying I hate men, but my choice us to avoid relationships. I am actually still in love. But I see so many men doing the wrong thing and breaking hearts. I hate it.

I don't date women, never have, and so I can't hate them because they nevet did this to me.

I will celebrate a loving union of soneone else and ve happy for thosr who have found true love.

So where am I contradicting myself?

Amthol:
This has really been enlightening in my own opinion i think this would have served as the topic of the write up better


" NO CONTACT RULE: THE INGENUITY OF A HEART BROKEN LADY"

To be honest it must be really tough on you going through all that, yet i feel you still the same person as before despite your no contact rule to feel secure, well it might have been working for you, but nothing has changed, you only left from one extreme point(loving blindly) to another extreme point (not loving at all), in that case[color=#000099][/color] you can kuku be a NUN then. just a word of advice, work towards achieving a balance in your life.

People are confusing my persinal choice with this thread.

I'm not saying cut yourself off from love. I'm saying that in order to heal yourself from one heartbreak, you need to cut yourself off from the one person that broke your heart. Not cut yourself off from every person and every opportunity to love again.

If you're not heartbroken, then you need not practise thjs rule.

harsysky:
If you Don't hate love as you claim and hate men, you are contradicting yourself.

How so? The love of God is better than any. Men I don't like, but I have the love of God...

Withambition:
I really feel your pain. Life is just funny because I know some guys out there looking for ladies like you. I seriously wanna learn from you.

What exactly can I help you with? What would you like to learn?

harsysky:
Not a farmer who has made known how he/she hates farming, for there is no good in it. It's gonna take insanity to believe such farmer.

I never claimed to hate love. Just men. Huge difference.

tete7000:
Read some of your comment with another dude and was surprised after what you claimed to have gone through you could offer someone this advice. Don't you think people should be truthful to themselves at all times? Why say yes when you intended no? Why not advise the guy to be honest he is not interested in dating someone who has another guy, that he can't play second fiddle? If we all will be honest and truthful with ourselves I believe there will be less pain, less heartbreak and less sorrow in the world. My thoughts.

See my above reply.

Jexbabs:
No!,that won't be a maturd thing to do.

Just tell her the truth ''you're ok with it if you really are'' or ''you're not ok with it if you're not''.

Well if you care about someone you want their happiness. But it doesn't mean you put your own pride on the line.

Yes, you have to be ok with it. But you don't have to agree.

It seems he cares a lot about this girl so it will be hard to get over. Read my thread about the no contact rule.

@tete7000

harsysky:
It's now I know why you hate men. One who hates people shouldn't give advice on love issues. If you can't love, how then do u give away sincere advice. First of all, handle your emotions. U are caging yourself. It's like you are in ur minds prison cos of men. You just don't have to hate us. After all, have you dated 1/1000th of the whole men in your own country, why then the generalization from just few folks?

I feel for you foolinlove. Your hatred even makes you act very aggressive at tiMes and very normal also. I was even surprised the advice you gave in a thread I opened. I was like "Foolinlove! Writing great about love?" I couldn't believe it. I had to make sure someone isn't using another "foolinlove" monicker.

I can't tell if the guy who ditched u is worth it or not. I just know that from all your comments, whether harsh or normal, you're a nice person.

So if a farmer retires then they can no longer give advice on farming?

Why throw yourself at a guy? Once they get your v they leave anyway.

When a guy says he's not attracted to me there's onl y one feeling - RELIEF.

2016: worst year so far. It goes from worse to worser to worst so easily. Don't know how I have survived 6 months into it... maybe my life has been cursed?

I want one thing in bed : breakfast.

I'll tell you that for free.

Yes, I exist. You're welcome.

Withambition:
Haaa! This is serious! Anyway...it's well. Really, everybody have their individual experience(s) but I want to know your own experience that just make you to lock-up totally like that. In fact, it's as if you don't mind killing if it is criminally inconsequential.

I don't see yout analogy.

Killing? Never. I made a choice that I will never be heartbroken again. Being in a relationship and not loving the partner is really wrong. If I am in a relationship and do fall in love, there arr no guarantees that it will not end in heartbreak. Hence deciding not to be in a relationship. My personal choice is all.

This rule ia not saying that you have to lock up to everyone. Just that one person. It's so you can move on properly.

Phasesone:
What one guy did to you does not state who you will be for the rest of your life.... the fact he broke your heart means he couldn't differentiate between something precious and something he could have a fling with....

All the same just one romance should cloud your judgment... Because there are many more bad men out there and many more good ones too...

I love to know your real name??

Iy wasn't one romance, it was all of them were pretty bad. The most recent was just the very last in a long string of bad men. He wasn't the first to break my heart buy he'll be the last!

Wizzyblack3:
Chaii, you must have used that trick to eat recharge cards o,,,, even something better. Guys don dey mumu since 18DC

I have never ever accepted money or any other financial gain from anyone I dated.

croSStodds:
Thought you asserted you would remain single for life

I will. I just wish I had met him in my past.

vizkiz:
that is probably weed not God

I don't smoke weed anymore, dude. I refused some from you remember? That party...

Breadmaker:
sighs.



It is obvious that a brother really dealt with you. That's bad of him but pls don't give up yet

It's sad. I've been alone 4 years and in love with a guy that doesn't care if I exist or not. Maybe I should try again. So afraid of being heart broken again. Too old to make another mistake.

donbenedict:
i'll chat u up on whatsapp soon ok..

Ok

That girl is a boss!

Better than my old trick of sending internet porn with the face cropped out.

donbenedict:
lol what did God tell u?

That I'll be alone and never find someone that loves me truly.

donbenedict:
he is so for real.. I hope this will change ur mentality about men

Not all guys are bad I guess. But doesn't mean I van get one for myself. God has spoken already.

Maybe it's because women are sick of putting up with cheaters and guys can't control themselves until an older age. Or they hide their cheating better in older age.

WOW. Is this guy for real? Wish I'd met a guy like this. Decent. I'd have married the sh!t out of him

lordizak:
Username shows so.

You think I'm foolish for not cheating?

youngboi:
Re u serious?

Yes...

If they were a pain in the ass you should have dropped them first.