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You need to cut off all your exes.

Show some respect for your current guy's feelings. If he doesn't want you talking to them, don't.

They are EX for a reason.

Withambition:

Why sad?

No. Love is the only criteria. Everything grows from love and respect.

louken:
Good. You will keep meeting your kind. No one will do it to you

I hope never again :/

emeijeh:
Very difficult to see.
Get a man that is not wholly perfect, and work on him as the years go by.
There is no Mr. Perfect nor Mr. Right

There is Mr Perfect *for you*, Mr Right *for you*.

Each person has one other half... it's the way God made it. Apparently.

emeijeh:
See who said she hated guys...
Hhhhhhhhmmmmm #change

I want best husband ever. As described by op

Akjr:
guy cry blood.. Upload ya pic or inbox me. N if u like impersonate ur sister

You don't understand sarcasm, do you?

halfricanadian:
True talk true love all d way.

It gets to a stage in life u care bou ursef well being cos if u lose it to death worrying about others u will never have it bck #YOLO

You think like me.

What exactly would it look like to treat her "like a girl"?

Phasesone:
Isnt smartnsensible not better than foolinlove now?

Yes. Well done :|

DJHANDSOME:
hey i didn't particularly say that...

Bra only make boobs look good whole they're on. They have no lasting effect.

Boob shape is determined by genes and breatsfeeding and surgeries...

DJHANDSOME:
a world without bra will be a bad one

U fukk wit girl wit bra still on? Smh.

Two fried eggs nailed to a wall.

Real beauty is inside.

Ps. Bras don't prevent this, they just make it look different temporarily.

Phasesone:
An interesting point...

But you should know that improving on your weakness doesn't mean you should change who you are..... But it means you should not let people use it as an advantage over you....

Self improvement is not changinh WHO you are, it changes your skill set.

Quality of life is better with bettet skills. For anyone.

Halimi24:


1.U post comments d exact way STUPEDINLOVE does
2.STUPEDINLOVE was always on NL just like u
3.STUPEDINLOVE was always obsessed wit discussing race esp black&white pple & men
4.U spell ur words dsame way STUPEDINLOVE does
5.I have mentioned STUPEDINLOVE more than 100 times on dis thread yet she hasn't shown up 2 defend herself cos u are STUPEDINLOVE

Omg. Whatever man. Expose away.

I'm white, female, well spoken and not stupid. I'm not the only one in the world.

And I'm not obsessed with race, I'm more obsessed with relationship advice... if u care to peruse my posts.

Phasesone:
That's interesting... A woman thats economically minded would lead a family and even a nation..... so do you think we should improve on our weakness or conclude on it and leave people to use it to control us?

Everyone should *try* to improve on their weaknesses, but not to the point of craziness.

Halimi24:

STUPEDINLOVE don't play games wit me girlie unless u are ready 2 get exposed

Pictures,past posts& all

Go for it. I havent given anyone mu pic. You'd be exposing someone else...

Halimi24:

U are getting hot&bothered cos of trolls

VINSHU is dat indian guy STRAHOVSKI1

GREEN66 is WHOGOSCAM &SEARCHING4LOVE

FOOLINLOVE is STUPEDINLOVE&WHITEGIRLONNL

Trolls everywhere

I'm not a troll. I'm too pretty!

Phasesone:
Authority does not make you stronger... its just what you do with it.... A wise man would use his authority to build bridges and create establishments which could sustain him whenever he loses his authority...

But a lady would use that authority to enjoy the things of life and get back at everyone who made her suffer... When you loses it... she become a nobody...

So Why are Ladies so Weak when it comes to relationship matters and economic matters

I disagree.

Not all ladies.

I consider myself economically minded. Maybe not wise when it comes to love. But every individual has different strengths and weaknesses.

Phasesone:
In Nigeria I don't think the Medics are capable of performing such an operation.... she could have to be flown to the States or maybe India... But still if she is returning to him for such money, I think he would see through that...

Maybe she is coming back because the person who she was with (the one who took away her virginity) did not accept her when he found out that she was epileptic. so she is returning to somehow who she thinks could accept her at her current state.

Maybe. Who could ever determine based on one side of this story. Op let is know how it goes.

If u really need advice (trolling) pm me. I posted suggestions but got banned :/

Phasesone:
Thank you (that why i said I would do more research)

There are some operations depending on the type of epilepsy. Success isn't guaranteed in any brain surgery though, it's dangerous too.

Maybe that's what this girl is after... money for brain surgery.

Phasesone:
First of all we know that another man has eaten her cake...
Secondly, Epilepsy can be cured (Just let me do some more research)

Thirdly, I think the fault lies in you mostly, because you gave her some space (maybe too much space) and this made someone that has been trying to get her for so long to get a chance....
Fourthly, Although it would be nice to know a good woman through the fact that she is a virgin, its no longer a requirement....


So, I think you should allow the your mind to give her a second chance...... But be more watchful this time

Lastly, Check her health status, (when some girls lose their virginity, they do it without condom. Wanna know if she is clean)

If she is testing you then you have passed right. If she isn't... all still ends well

All true, except epilepsy cannot be cured only managed.

dukeprince50:
that greene66 is actually a lady who calls everyone kid no matter your age, i begin to wonder if she is an ancestor or a museum herself

Ah. Well Europeans are renowned for their racism. Look at Denmark. Ew.

abbeyology88:
That's lovely. Despite ur color. I love dat.

I have a good heart! Even if I'm pasty af

dukeprince50:
my dear beauty lies in d eye of d beholder, i've met few whites with ''wtf character'' i prefer black, that indian mofo grene66 or whatever is an apology to colour. I wonder what colour that is.

He's from India, so technically even though he's briwn skinned, he's caucasian.

abbeyology88:
I don't know why I always Love you, friend.

U comment is just so peaceful. No discrimination.

I have a lot to give. Insight, love, everything. I bring what I can...

HateU2:
I thought u dey abuse guys upandan

I want the husband described by op.

Darnyel:
Is it the last mate that you are still attached to? If the answer is yes, then what made him different from the ones before him. Just curious anyway.

Yes. I really need to move on. Or so everyone says.

kamel4real2015:
You have time replying those bigot it's in there blood,and the lady is ugly like a church rat atleast check yourself before castigating other race.

I'm not castigating anyone...