What I understand from what I have just read are as follows:
1. You are under a societal pressure particularly from your family to marry considering that age is not on your side.
2. You have dated this guy for over a year.
3. Base on his control of choices of clothes and other things you would need for the marriage, you fear he will have control over you in the marriage eventually.
My Take 1. Take your time to know him well 2. Be ready to be a submissive wife so as to have peace in your marriage, else do not venture into it in the first place 3. Do not allow people's opinions to push to anything you are not sure of. 4. Be open minded by talking to him about what is troubling you. There must be good communication at every point and step of the journey or things will get messy at a point. 5. Good luck on your journey
This man is the biggest scam of a president I have ever seen. He purposely posed for this picture so as to distract you from the massive loots he looted away. Before he became president his cows were so thin, now they are fatter than Asari Dokubo . Aba to you o!
Children of hate, Incase you don't understand the simple English sentence 'GO HOME', Let's break it down for you.....
Dem say make una WAKA!!!! unfortunately, you are just a kid who's battling to red in between the lines. So now that the judge ask the legal solicitors to go home, the case is over right? You nor just well at all. E be like you go need go back to Akara school.
With immediate effect, Will you guys hold each other's hands, line up and GO HOME please and stop disturbing cyberspace 😉?!
[/b] Lol 😃. You know dem too wells. [b]See as dem line up like primary school students wey dey sing poem above 😃 😀 😄
Trendishine: The fake news peddlers are here in nairaland in their multitude... They know the mandate is not for babablu and he must surely return it or leave it and run. Peddlers of lies on court proceedings do not even have their principal in court to answer for himself or even following what is going on!
It is obvious from the body language of INEC who's suppose to be a neutral umpire of the election, taking sides with the APC, and Tinubu candidacy. This is the first time in my life I have seen such anomaly and impunity. Let the courts decide at the end. I'm very afraid the judiciary may be compromised.
This news is so fake. This event is one I have been monitoring since morning and I can categorically tell you Obi's evidence was not turn down or thrown away by the Court. What the court queried about is the sorting order of forms ECA8. The court admitted the evidence and even marked them as exhibit. Don't mind fake news peddlers
Why won't it be the most productive Assembly for you? Afterall they approved you reckless and abysmal foreign borrowings of enslavement. Failure like Buhari
Letsmeet: Please everyone, what's your opinion on this? Is it wise to date a young lady from a divorced home? If She is very nice, quiet, respectful, the most understanding person in the world, doesn't even quarrel. Has a good job and many other good qualities. But if her parents are divorced, and live in the same area, and she lives with both of them. What is the likelihood of her divorcing in future? Anyone with similar experiences please?
. Is divorce an airborne disease? Is it contagious? My brother, you must pursue your relationship with all positivity especially if you are cool with the girl. It is all about how you iron things in your own marriage that will determine if you will be divorced or not.
Solofresh2: There is this lady friend of mine. We have been friends before she even got married and she is aware of my single status. I have decided to remain single until am ready for marriage.
So she told me how her husband has been maltreating her and she told me her husband is cheating on her. She told me she has always admired me but don't know how to tell me.
Though I noticed this but decided to overlook it. She said she wants a tight relationship with me and I should keep it secret, telling me she finds me attractive. I was just surprised because I never expected her to say all this.
However, I told her to resolve the issue with her husband and talk things out with him but she seems to have lost much interest in her husband who she has two beautiful girls with already.
Sex is not a problem for me as I know where to get it, but having sex with a married woman is a no no for me.
What do you guys think over this issue?
Bro run for your life. David and his household started having difficult experiences after God through prophet Nathan judge David for having sex with Urial's wife Bethshaba. Avoid married women. The consequences of having sex with a married woman are dire. Be warned. Tell her if she's not cool with the husband anymore and do not wish to talk things out with him and seek ways to improve on her marital life, she she opt for divorce and if and only if she's divorced and has returned her bride price, then you can go ahead and bang the hell out of her.
Mrkrobz: Hello Nairalanders! What will you advice him?
Bernard is thinking of relocating to another city to start a new life. He is confused on how to go about choosing the right partner, because all the ladies that keeps coming into his life are only interested in him for his money.
If everything you said about your wife is true, then it may be she's truly cheating on you. I think there's a communication disconnect between you guys that's why things degenerated to that sorry state. You say you are not harsh and provide all your family need, but truth is, that's not enough to make a woman love you wholeheartedly and be loyal. Do you bang her well? Do you show her love sincerely? I think you should have a talk with her and know what's really the issue. Put these charges before her and tell her you have notice the changes in her since she started receiving strange calls at night and listen to VN from a man. if she does not change afterwards, then she can go Bleep herself.
You didn't tell how old he is. Although wisdom is not determined by age, but age is a factor in determining maturity. Anyways there's this saying, " a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. " Truth is you guys did not really go deep enough for you to understand yourselves. Or he was pretending to be a cool guy until circumstances proved otherwise. But I will not really fault him base on this one-sided narrative. e fit be say d way ur people take dey talk to am nor still gel. Anyhow, just thank God for everything. Maybe you guys are not meant for each other and there's a way destiny play certain unforseen roles in our lives. I wish you the best of love.
I feel your pain. But disliked where you asked; "what's wrong with men this days?" I don't like such generalization. You should know by the actions of your ex that he's a child in thinking. I wish you the best of love.
If na me, I go kiss my bride so passionately at the front of her parent. Infact I go even raise her gown up, shift her pant then begin to thrust in and out in presence of everybody while they spray us money.
Their greatest nightmare is Peter Obi that's why they pick holes in everything he says as if somebody is perfect. keyamo is trying to incite the NLC against the labour party candidate and he knows bringing up this sensitive issue of fuel subsidy removal will incur the wrath of NLC against him.
Miravik900: I want to break her heart so badly I'm planning on impregnating her and denying the pregnancy I just want to see her cry with pain
How old are you? Making such decision of impregnating her and denying the pregnancy just to get back at her is the most senseless decision ever. Why don't you call the relationship off once and for all?