tamdun: Really? I no just trust us at all, u released someone that kill 200 people because he's too fat? I tried to connect the dots but... Una wan use the guy cause chaos again
JovialJune: In Nigeria, men are kings because the law favours you all, In the abroad, equality is king, and our women use it to their advantage.
The problem you guys have with wives from naija who went to the abroad is your failure to lord over her as it was in naija, y'all still want a lady of servitude who will abide by your rules and wishes cos of what you're used to forgetting obodo oyibo nor send you
It's simple, when you bring your wife over there, just know it is no longer a master slave norm but an equality, relinquish your right as being the head, you'll live your life peacefully,
I have peeps over there, and they're doing just fine.
I wish you understand better this SHIT honestly na only black women carry an for head. If you don't know, Blacks are the ones with high rate of divorce and not even the white. Do your research my dear don't bite the finger wey go feed you.
tobechi74: Exactly. It becomes a transaction. It is no longer generosity, or kindness or true love. There is nothing wrong in either but we should not confuse the two. Prostitutes openly discuss their terms before hand. But in relationship of this days, we make so many assumption under the disguise of love. Relationship of today is ls domestic partnership. You fulfil my want , I fulfill yours.
The girl has gotten what she wanted. She leaves and society calls her an ingrate .
God proved his love for humanity by sacrificing for the benefit of humanity. True love is in giving a part of oneself for the benefit of that which he loves. False love seeks to own the object of love. False love uses the object of love to satisfy his own need.
Relationshipe of today is based on false love. Women use men to satisfy her desire for a child, financial security etc. Men use women to satisfy his sexual urge and render domestic service. We ban prostitution. Relationship is disguiseded prostitution. Our goal is the benefit and not the individual yet we deny it.The difference is the duration and sincerity. Prostitute has no feeling for you and you know it. In marriage, you both think you are in love when you love with the benefit the relationship brings. Take away those benefits and fight increases.
And you all believe this nonsense from NASA. I laugh, see the White Man does everything in hispower to be relevant please dont be fooled. Their is no Christmas star. Just another stupid hoax
Well he did well by killing her if not she for come dey form boss if the guy dey cry beg her and on still she got still pray for forgiveness. what a world
emekaayomide: The co-covener of the Bring Back Our Girls campaign and one of the active voices during the #EndSARS protest has warned that Boko Haram will start attacking the southern part of Nigeria when they are done with their mission in the northern region.
NeoWanZaeed: OP. DO U THINK THE CURRENTLY POOR MAN CANT MAKE IT? AND DO U THINK THE CURRENTLY RICH MAN CANT GO BROKE? If the poor guy CAN take care of family \u and him/ basic needs marry him. MOST GALS HERE NO GET LIFE AND TOO MANY BOY KIDS HERE. ignore s0me idiotic c0mments
I believe this part of your life should be private but Sha you be bigger so what do we expect.
You are successful and made so its gonna be fun raising a child not like pipo living in slums where the don't know where there next meal will come from.
Very true but base on figures like if you in Canada you won't feel that you spend too much because again you would be given the best quality unlike back home in Nigeria.
Again its when when you come back to Nigeria you nice you spend much for basic things.
MrTAnonymous: Girls Are Quick To Lose Feelings When A Guy Makes These 4 Mistakes
Girls are very observant, there are certain things that put them off or on when they chat with a guy online. Girls are like locks waiting for someone with the right key to open them up.
Below are 4 mistakes guys make when chatting with a girl online,
1. When guys confess their feelings over text too quickly I understand that when a guy has feelings for a girl, it literally hurts so much they want to tell her how they feel really quick so they just confess their feelings over text and expect her to agree to be his girlfriend immediately. No, this is a mistake you shouldn’t do. Rather you should watch how things play out between you and her and if you notice that she might be having feelings for you then you can ask her how she feels about you.
2. Sending “nice guy” text By nice guy texts, I mean the overly repetitive ones where you check up on here every now and then. For instance, you keep sending her texts like “have you eaten?” “How was your night?” “What did you eat?”, etc. These kind of texts are boring and would make you appear needy.
3. Being too available When you are always in her inbox, you are already giving away too much. It would make her get tired of you quickly and you have already eliminated any form of mystery you had and the chances of her missing you. Girls love guys who are mysterious, who are like puzzles they want to figure out. I’m not saying you shouldn’t check up on her, do so but still give room for mystery.
4. Giving up too soon Most girls like playing hard to get not because they don’t like you but because they love the chase and attention you give to them. Most guys simply give up because they weren’t patient enough to get her to open up to him.
Nice try but for me the No4 is just so overrated. Honestly for me if i ask you out over a long period of time and you be forming hard to get, look when you finally accept i swear i no go take you serious at all. Don't waste my time.
sreamsense: The problem with contemporary young generation is that many of you were born into your families when morality vacated your family homes. Being strict is different from being wicked, he is discipling you as his own children so your future can be better, you are here ranting he is wicked.
Many of you just like places you will not be tamed so that you can do whatever you want like forming cult groups on campus, turning campus to Olosho house. If he is not strict and people still allow to do whatever they like, these spoilt rats will still come back here to complain and cast aspersions if any bad thing goes wrong with the school. Go to Catholic schools and see descipline, you these spoilt rats.
Your fathers get money, but lack morality, so when your fathers finally dumb you into CU as correctional center, you begin to misunderstand 'strictness' to ' wickedness' because your fathers failed to even show you '101' of moralities before you left for school because your families lack moralities in the first place. If you like to become wayward and hates descipline, no need of going there, go to federal and state universities and do what you like. Judas Iscariots!
Somebody is sweating to make you great, you call it wickedness! Spoilt rats! Go to volatile areas in North and ask for the meaning of wickedness!
My brother you said it all. wonderful and great you are. You deserve some cheer
Buhari and gang done set the move up just to make am look like he is not incompetent but baba we know say na your handwork. See the nonsense, una no even smart to arrange the matter. Still yet you are incompetent baba
Misslilbootay: I am not a virgin because the guy I dated before made it seem like sex was the only thing that could keep him. Unfortunately, that is another story of its own.
Recently, a friend of mine came and asked me if sex was necessary to keep a relationship. She told me the guy has given her everything she needed in a man but he couldn't stop asking for sex. She said that she wasn't ready to compromise her faith that premarital sex was a sin but she didn't want to lose this guy as he felt that her refusal to have sex with him meant she didn't love him.
The question I'm throwing now is 1. Can a man stay without sex in a relationship and wait till she is ready. (As in this case, she wants to wait till she is married) 2. Why is sex so important to men in a relationship? Do they see it as reciprocating of love especially when they spend heavily on the lady? 3. Also, most men wants a decent lady. Here is a lady who wants to keep herself for her husband but the boyfriend sees it as she manipulating him. Since you guys want a lady that isn't a borehole, why do you demand for sex when you are not sure if it will work out?
Your intelligent opinions will be appreciated.
My opinion is that its cause of the way ladies behave and as such most guys don't want to loose his spending which is in some words immature. On the other hand if no trust it would make him want to Bleep you once on site because he believes once you not there you gonna Bleep someone else. other again is that most guys hangout with the wrong crew which have the worst ideas about relationships i mean what they know is sex. some as a guy watch the company you keep,