₦airaland Forum

Gender equality

just2endowed:
should the state have business in running e-hailing taxi business?

Is this not a misplaced priority?

You dey mind them, that's why they killed Opay. The thing is this very one will be run such that they will have the highest shares and make more profit from it.

This order can not be enforced. Buhari himself knows this. It's just a distraction tactics, another futile way to placate Nigerians who are tired of the menace of herdsmen without the government appearing of doing nothing.
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The order is like telling a neighborhood ravaged by cultists that the people should shoot any cultist they find with gun..lol. How is that realistic? How many cultist walk visibly with gun even though we all know they own guns. isn't such order ridiculous if that's the measure put in place to rid off cultism?
Another question is who are to shoot the cultist or criminals on sight? Is it the general populace who don't own or know how to shoot guns?
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Is there any police or security outfit specifically designated to scan for cultist, or in this case , to scan the bush for herdsmen weilding AK47 in order to enforce this order? Do you expect herdsmen to brandish their AK47 in public space on hearing this order, cos we know police won't go to the bush to hunt for them..so how is it going to be enforced then?
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Nigeria is just full of rubbish and deception. And some dull-brained citizens can't see through the lies and mere distraction of this order.

The Nigeria people who live like slaves and love to smile while suffering are beginning to realise the power in protest....in time maybe they will join heads nation wide to protest against bad government. Smiling while suffering slaves of Buhari

sapphiere:
God make I jam this kind of man in my life IJN Amen

Just to sell your coochie for Tfare...smh..vagina people will never prove you wrong

CaveAdullam:
Even if you break up with her, she still won the game because she has benefited greatly from the parasitic relationship you willingly and consciously accepted to be the robust host.
I'm not in great doubt, I'm very sure she has plan B, C... on the row that she can swing to when you eventually decide to put a halt to the relationship.

It is difficult for you to break up because you've fallen victim to the sunk cost fallacy: " I have spent and done so much in this relationship, if I should exit now it will not be too beneficial. Let me wait a little longer maybe things will change for the better, after all patience is needed in any relationship". This fallacy you proved greatly by seeking a pastor/counsellor.

Another rope still anchoring you to such catastrophic relationship is the "illusion of sex". Despite your great contributions she still dangles the carrot before your eyes, satisfying you with empty romance. Here, she truly discovered your vulnerabilities and exploited it to the fullest. (Except she's a virgin and of which you've physically determined to be true). If not, your simping knows no limit. Even if she's a virgin, that doesn't guarantee your typical foolishness in the relationship. Who knows if she's not giving it out freely to one alpha player.

My friend, elevate and look pass the sunk cost fallacy and put a away the bait of sex aside. Even if the sex is later granted it still won't worth the wait or the expenses you've incurred. Sex at this time will be a useful method to keep you in her tenterhooks. So, braze up and get out of that relationship. Let her exit your house and take all your belongings to your present location.

In any relationship, the one with power is the one with little investments. Let a woman show genuine desire for you and choose you and she will greatly invest in such relationship.

Let go off that leech!

Thanks.

OP: [quote author=bwambasolomon post=99588596][/quote]This comment up here is best advice you can take....It is something I would have written even in a more caustically insulting tone than the commenter here used.
If you like..take it, or don't.. na premium tears go end it..
And meanwhile, you seem to know little about relationships and women I'm not sure the next woman won't exploit this vulnerability of yours. You need to man up and go learn what it really means to be man and impervious to women manipulation, otherwise...so much premium tears to come....

Amotolongbo:
That is an omen that he is about being crucified in few days time, like it was done to Jesus

And there's omen that you are his Judas Iscariot.

Okay

Congo is the most gifted and richest in natural resources in the world. But they are among the poorest in the world. Their untapped deposit is over 24 trillion dollars ..
Their problem is failed and oppressive leadership and the influence of Western powers on their resources...
If their leaders are willing, they can become the richest country in the world...
Africa seems to be cursed they have everything but they are the poorest...Europe have nothing compared to Africa..but they are the world giant..which way Africa?

PS: We are still under colonisation but we don't know...all our wealth is under the control of our politicians who are indirectly being controlled by Western powers...
We need another kind of struggle to really decolonise us completely..For. now we are under economic and political colonisation.... Only if the majority know this, they will fight and hunt the politicians to liberate themselves.

Another jamboree setup by the Janjaaweed governor...
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slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Isoright....

sowore has always been a pussy ass niggarr...and he is a gonna remain a pussy ass niggarr
Fighting for his own damnn interests
Same moda fuckkker that destroyed Jonathan now wants freedom
He ain't gonna see no freedom...pussy ass moda fuckkker

Ori e ti daru...Eran oshi

bigjackass:
did your father also light matches and burn your private part

No father shd do dat

professore:
not always true, we praise some who we think have integrity and are in the best marriage, and yeah, we are right.

Do you know live or go around with them? Do you know their secret...such ideal marriage are rare..very rare..

TiglathPILESER:
You are simple a fool for typing this...

The thought of your wife being fvvcked by a random deek is actually making you go crazy...Then be a good husband otherwise, better deek will fvvck her and nothing, I say nothing will happen...Ozuor
Even when u are the best husband... sometimes it doesn't matter for a woman who is bored of ur single preeq..Ode

Numerouno94:
Did he also lit a matchstick around ur private part?
Some ppl must find ways of justifying evil.
Lemme assume u din't read d article; u based ur comment on d headline.

Yep I dint read the article

My father used to beat me with wire when I was that age cos I was stubborn...So, perhaps no big deal.

adekayo1234:
When a post like this manages to garner this amount of likes, you'd agree with me that it's either many people have their brains upside down or the world itself has turned upside down. Is this supposed to be a solution or what? Your concluding phrase was even more appalling jeez

You are the one too boxed in the illusion of the ideals of marriage that u can't face the brutal side of it...Pele...u will learn the hard way. Shebi you think na you moral pass...
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The concluding phrase only hopes u can be pragmatic or realistic about marriage problems in such a way as to deal with it with tact so u don't break your marriage or lose your mind....Many people cheat while still maintaining deir marriage and deir mental health..na wisdom and coping strategy.
.I don't expect you to understand..cos u see everything through black and white or a linear rule.

AyoolaIgwe:
So what's your point? We should marry but have it at the back of our minds that last last cheating will happen "codedly"?

whatever u make of it.. Goodluck....

bb

LastProphet:
Any young unmarried person that reads these experienced narration of yours ought to pay you for the priceless advice. I often laugh when I see young people that think the marriage they see on Facebook is the real marriage, I laugh. The fundamental problem with marriage is that it's against nature, nature abhors doing the same thing forever, nature loves changes but marriage says stick to 1 person forever. That's why I advise young people to focus on their own success as an individual first, don't see marriage as the focus of your life. Go out and be achieving even before marriage, so you won't put all your expectations on marriage that's nonsense.

Many of them think I'm only here to encourage infidelity..but if that's the way they see it then fine...Maybe I'm also the one that pushed the OP to write her present situation in marry which mirrors the problem of thousands other young marriages....Abi I'm the person who pushed those disillusioned partners to try out cheating just to drag themselves from depression...Most Nigerians hate reality...
From the plenty likes generated by the comment...u can bet it was by married couple who have gone through the experience

Rapture4real:
You shldnt have ended with "May God..." because God will not support what he is against.Your counsel is wrong. If you are a child of God, dont follow this advice. Infidelity is evil and has its own dire consequences which will appear later in the future and affect the children if care is not taken.People shld be careful what they consume here. Op, give it time and prayer, it will balance itself talking from a 16 yrs marraige experience.

Your 20 years of marriage can not decide if your partner has cheated or not...does year of marriage prevent ur partner from cheating..uare a baby

afrika:
It is obvious this person is single, not married, cant prove it and rides on married young girls.

Wish you luck BBC.!!! Rhoda is there and vulnerable

Look at this baby....your type will cheat and still convinced themselves they dint... chronic liar!

I want something challanging.. something whose success will largely depend on me. In programming how far you can go depends on how much u put into it...and understanding the architecture, language and working principle of computer in our age is an one of the highest level of knowledge around

Acecards:
Did you by chance attend your sec school in Edo state ?

Lol..why you ask..make I know fess cos everything don be

Do general cleaning of your room, wash your bedsheet and pillow thoroughly, sweep and mop your room to reduce the chance of being bitten by insects, cockroaches, rodents and bug... Thank me later

E be like say na every year Timi Dakola dey do 40th birthday

sylve11:
So if bandits re-invade the school and kill 10 students, which we aren't praying for; it means the governor will have to rename the school again after the 10 students, isn't it?

They should tell us what they are hiding jare.

Why should they allow bandit reinvade it .. aren't they supposed to beef the security of the school up

Sisterhot:
A Christian or a pastor would have said the lord made the spainard enemy ( the Kenya Athelete) to lose , our lord is good .
Adaibeku and freespirited this is y no pastor is good and This is y no soul in VOSOD will like to come back to earth stinking of Selfishness

It's a serious one...I doubt if the morality displayed by the Spanish athletes can ever be find in Africa.... that's what I call love and one of the highest sense of goodness and morality u will see anywhere.

who cares...Lori iro

Sisterhot:
...Good morning ahasco , dammyz101 freespirited Uncleck, liposure ( Christian ) , jadden ( christian) , akamariner , adaibeku , starfire08 etc

Who be Sisterhot again o....soon we go see sisterhornyy

BKayy:
F*ck southern unity.
On behalf of reasonable people, we want them to teach Yorubas a lesson.
Even if it is for a year

I'm with you....even though I'm a southerner....Yoruba are the only people who don't care about their own...once they go to schl they become selfish and individualistic...to the point of acting moral, just, posh and sophisticated, speaking useless grammar to support unity when they are obviously dying and suffering from that one Nigeria....I want them to suffer so that maybe their eyes and brain go open......myopic lots!

Xpress24:
what are u saying?Is there anything like white lie,did i in anyway said it wasn't a lie?

ok