₦airaland Forum

Righthussle:
Wike is the only good thing about this government.

how?

Marcathy is a mumu man

Ikaeniyan0:
She fled from Nigeria.

ooh just shut up!
As if anything would have happened to her here in Nigeria.

Praxis758:
So you’re directly saying we should keeping encouraging the tradition of impunity and indiscipline in the civil service?

It seems you’ve not fallen victim of the rot and evil services by these civil servants.

It takes a a determined leader to set the pace for an institution to follow.

A good example is the warning by the minister of interior that he won’t allow a situation where issuing passports will take forever to get. Do you think the senior immigration officers will be happy with him? No! The simple reason is because those wicked officers profit from the pains and agony of we helpless Nigerians that patronize their offices.

the corruption in civil service is a drop of water in the ocean when compared to what these evil politicians, ministers, Governors, lawmakers and president do.

That's my point.

Let the president and governors lead with the fight against corruption and watch how civil servant fall into line.

Praxis758:
Effecting change in a corrupt system will definitely attract attacks from those benefiting from the rots.

They won’t try this with wicked Wike.

just shut up!
Who is effecting the change?
So Umahi is your new corruption fighter?

Umahi lacks the moral right to effect any change because he is part and one of the corruption.

michael1508:
If him turn against them now,dem go shout don't touch women

I will advice my wife to stay away from this kinda madness. Because a lot could go wrong.

If that man was to be crazy those women go receive beating and nothing go happen.
The public should learn to stay away from family and domestic issues.

henidord3:
taaaaah close ur mouth what do u know about career 😏

supported, his dirty mouth....

Donaldoni:
Let's be patient. The refineries - Dangote and Port Harcourt - would soon commence operations. The pain will be shortlived.

Have you asked yourself what Tinubu did with the money from subsidy removal?

Ekpekus:
Make Terem Moffi take am easy o....

Apart from Club football, Mbappe na the face of France football.
Again, for achievement Mbappe na Moffi senior man.

so Terem Moffi should not celebrate goals anymore because of Mbappe? Is France the only place where people play football?

Which achievements does Mbappe have that he won't allow others celebrate their goals in peace?

Even Messi will not interfer with people's celebration how much more a "No body".

kelvinunilag:
They have finally lost their voice, thank God na everybody they suffer am.....

Them go use firewood they cook very soon.

This is just the beginning

SPRINCE001:
Messi will win

Bolivia is wicked. This is a strategy to keep them tired and exhausted all through the game.

Unknown to them, Messi is the oxygen of modern football.

Lol......

Kestolove:
Marrying to many wives is vanity

Marrying of many wives is the reason he lived for 95 years and didn't died young.

Nonywendy:
I have been dating this my girl friend since 2017. She made me fall and believe in love, she ticked all the qualities I desire in a woman. When I we started dating she was in her 200L, and everything was going on smoothly. Now this is where the issue lies,
When she went for service in another state, I started noticing some changes, wen she comes back home during holidays I used to go through her phone.(note: she has access to my phone and I too).
So one of those period I realised she is seeing another guy in the state where she is serving. I confronted her and she opened up to me and confessed. I forgave her.

Then after like 4months again, I later noticed she is also seeing another guy different from the initial one I noticed, she denied that but I had to do my deep investigation and got an evidence, she opened up again, at this point I broke up with her and moved on. After like one month she came back begging for forgiveness, It took me time to heal and I forgave her.

Then this last one that broke the camel's back, I noticed she traveled to the state where she did her youth service for something and all this while I thought she was staying with her sister, not knowing she was staying with the first guy she dated while serving whch she apologised. She stayed with her for three good weeks. How I realized was, I called her line one early morning arnd 3am and a guy picked the call asking me who I am. At first, I froze cos I haven't been in that kind of situation, I calmed down and explained everything to the guy, and the guy also told me she has been with her for the past three weeks and that's the girl friend too. I was shocked. I have broken up with her finally cos I don't think forgiving a cheating partner is worth it.
The first time she cheated, 90% of my friends advised me to dump her ass and move on but I had to forgive on the basis of nobody is perfect, but this third time is a no no.
Now she has been begging and asking for forgiveness that she has really learnt her lessons. At this point I'm just so mad that I don't want to forgive her.
Now the big problem is that I'm always seeing her in my dream, I have not really moved on cos it's not easy for me. I have loved her for solid 6 yrs plus.
Note: all the family members from my side and her side are fully aware of our relationship and have approved but they are not aware that I have broken up. If you are my shoes will you forgive her for this very last time or will her cheating continues?
Your advise and suggestions will be well appreciated. Thank you

there are three conditions (offences) I will never forgive a lady, no matter the level of love I have for her. Everything will just die naturally.

1. A lying woman
2. A cheating woman
3. If I feel unsafe with her (risk of being killed or an enemy). Break any of these and it's over dear.
So I wonder how men who are in relationships with cheating ladies do that. God forbid! You are even lucky she didn't come home with infections. Spits.....

NaijaRealtor:
1. Right from when she was about three years old, she would always pray for me to make it so she can come stay with me.

2. Been married for like 7 years and we have 3 kids. My wife was on my neck to bring my niece to come stay with us so she can assist with helping to look after the kids once they all return from school.

3. Because I know how many ladies treat children that aren't theirs, I refused to bring my niece over. So after much pressure from my wife, I approached my sister and her husband and pleaded to allow me train her as she'd always prayed.

4. Weeks after her arrival, my wife started complaining about her attitude and stuff. I refused to yield to my wife's suggestions that I take my niece back. It almost caused quarrel between us.

I felt it was too early to judge her. She's just 12 years old.

Her Attitudes:

A. She would fold and keep pants stained with my 1 year old poop in the laundry basket until it starts bringing out maggots, then we would search the whole house for the source of the foul smell until we find it and throw away affected clothes, disinfect the house and all.

B. She, yesterday wiped my 6 years old son with iron buckle on the belt and his head nearly burst open. He complained of severe headache and we are still treating him.

C. Final straw was, while we were in the office today, my 6 years old started to throw up. He was sick. This girl just laid on the couch and instructed a 6 years old to go fetch the broom, mopping stick and packer to clean the mess.

My son was very weak, but he went to fetch these items and cleaning the vomit. Because he was very sick, he kept on throwing up and cleaning at the same time. All these while, this girl laid there relaxing until my wife came home and washed my son up and cleaned the floor.

When I came back this evening and learnt about the stuff, I quietly asked her why she'd behaved like that and she said it was nothing.

I really don't know whether to let her stay while I try to coach her or take her back to her parents.

I seriously need advice.

Sorry for the long epistle.

I felt it was too early to judge her. She's just 12 years old.

A 12 year old? A child that needs care and training at this age.
Shouldn't be taking care of your children sir.

Send her back to her parents.

So? You wan kill am?
Kill him na, so you go rest.

If a husband steal from em wife na crime shey? I believe he started stealing from you when you stopped assisting him with cash.

Go and apologize to him asap

LoveUdie:
Pastor Bisi Adewale

Lots of Men are making mistakes in their Marriages, this is making life difficult for their wives and Children. We need to examine this and tutor all Men to behave better.

Here, I will be exposing 8 Mistakes of Many Men in Marriage:

1) SLAVE-WIFE MENTALITY: It’s not funny to know that lots of Men see women as slave, servants or something close to that. They believe women are good for nothing but sex, baby making, house chores and cooking. They operate with that kind of mentality with their wives. Many believe a wife should only be seen not heard, it’s really funny the way some men treats heir wives.

2) PUTTING FAMILY OVER WIVES:
Lots of African Men are fond of this, they put their extended family first, they even make their wives to slave for their extended family members. Some beat or even divorce their wives because of their siblings. This is totally wrong. It’s madness to allow your family Members who are in their own Marriage to destroy yours, it’s high level of foolishness to allow your siblings to take over your marriage.

3) SPERM DONOR MENTALITY: Lots of men are more-or-less sperm donors in their marriages, apart from getting tingling their wives pregnant they have no other roles in Child bearing and rearing. Whenever babies cries, It’s very common to hear Nigerian men saying, come and carry your baby, don’t you hear your baby is crying?,most of the time only women attends Children parties in School,only mothers attend PTA meetings and many other events in School, Men thinks they are too busy to do that what a mistake?

4) CLASS TEACHER ATTITUDE: Lots of Men believes their wives have nothing to offer, they believe they are wiser, stronger and better than their wives. So they develop Class teacher mentality, whereby they are only ready to teach, lecture and tutor their wives. To them their wives should not advise them. This is very wrong, God planted your wife into your life to complete you, if you don’t listen to her you are missing a lot.

5) LIVE AND EAT ATTITUDE: This is another bad attitude of many men. They believe their duty at home is to eat, watch Television and sleep. Anything in the management of the house does not concern them. They believe only women should cook, boil, clean the house watch the plates, fetch water bath the Children and dress them up, this is another very funny lifestyle of many men, they should please note that this is 21st century and improve.

6) WIFE BATTERING: In some part of Nigeria wife battering is seen as a norm, so many men are in this habit, some women where maim or even killed in the process. I wonder what kind of Man will beat a woman he promised to love, care and cherished if not an animal-like man, wife battering is barbaric and should be condemned by all.

7) MEN-SEX MENTALITY: Lots of men also believe sex is for men, women should not enjoy it, so they approach their wives with horse rider mindset, they have no plan to make their wives enjoy sex but to do their thing, enjoy themselves and go their way, this is very unwise and unkind to women.

CAT MOUSE SEX ATTITUDE: With Men-sex mentality most Men develop what is known as Cat-Mouse attitude towards sex. They grab their Wives the way Cat does grab mouse and begin to sleep with them, no romance, no pre-intimacy, no good or kind words, no mind for the ladies they are sleeping with, it is very unfair.

Men should wake up to the reality of modern life and improve their relational ability at home, loving and be loving and caring thereby becoming better husbands and fathers.

You will not fail in marriage in Jesus name

this is trash....

Wives submit to your husbands at all times for he is the head of the home. this is the foundation and principle guiding every marriage. However, if you think you can't submit to a man or see him as the head, just remain for your papa house.


There is no two ways about it... Ask our mothers how they were able to stay in marriage for 40 years. They did not achieve this feat with this wack write up about men.

Now see this trash...

5) LIVE AND EAT ATTITUDE: This is another bad attitude of many men. They believe their duty at home is to eat, watch Television and sleep. Anything in the management of the house does not concern them. They believe only women should cook, boil, clean the house watch the plates, fetch water bath the Children and dress them up, this is another very funny lifestyle of many men, they should please note that this is 21st century [/b]and improve.

Any woman that turns her husband to a dish washer is not supposed to be married.

Our fathers were never dish washers, don't let any lazy woman turn you to dish washer.

This "[b]This is 21st century" this sad statement is the reason women can't stay married anymore.

oz4real83:
This is one reason the NPF is unable to effectively fight crime, there is almost zero percent intelligence . I have never seen this "gun" before but a simple Google search of the name told me what it is and its uses . The NPF is behaving as if it were a nuclear bomb device , they should have also searched google to avoid this avoidable embarrassment

otundo police. It's for sports and games. Fatality rate is zero. Only bruises and pains.

They made it look like it's a bomb!
Lol.....

viyon02:
Must you lie to defend Tinubu? NYSC was established on 22nd May 1973, by General Yakubu Gowon.

it shows you the kind of irresponsible touts and street Arabs supporting Ebola Tinibu.

Tinubu support base has always been empty headed men and women.

babyboy4every1:
What did Russian athletes also did wrong when fifa banned every Russians from sport activities? I condemned this act from iran if the story is true but, the west caused most of this things.

did they call west or Russia in this thread?

Hate begets more hate.
Clean and sanitize your heart and soul from so much hatred.

Tofax:
So it is the raw rice from India they mill in Nigeria and brand it locally produced rice.
please someone needs to throw more light on this

Buhari deceived Nigerians, with locally produced rice propaganda to score cheap points.

Addme:
Nice, Obaseki they have thrown you the challenge, hope you'll gladly accept it .

FG will borrow money to build infrastructure in the north. Build roads in the north. But will allow state Governments to build in south.

Even if the money would be refunded, is it fair to the south?

okoroemeka:
democracy is working but the wrong people are in charge,it is clear to everybody in Nigeria both living and dead,that mr Peter obi is what is needed in to lead this country,

as beautiful as Democracy.
Black man has turned it into a curse and something that can't work.

EbolaTinubu:

Useless roadmap from Useless and brain dead government

Nigerians go pay tax tire.

iwaeda:
We are waking up to realities of 1960s, 70s, 80s and early 90s. To tell our selves the truth, the kind of democracy being practised are not giving hope to the populace.

this is why I support a new system of Government.

Democracy as beautiful as it is, is not working in Africa.
A new system of Government should be tried.

Hahahahahahaha.... haahahhahahaha.....

If Democracy is not working, why not try another system of Government?

Just a question sha

masseratti:
the worst democracy is way better than the best Military rule.. I guess you were not born when the
Military was in power in Nigeria.

why would you want the worst democracy, when you can actually have the best?
Slavery mentality!!!

masseratti:
Gabon is not part of ECOWAS, I just don't get it why you guys celebrate bad things just because your candidate lost an election.. Am not a fan of Bongo even tho. His father ruled Gabon for almost 40years before he died now his son want to continue his legacy of lifetime President oh well.. He sure do has a mentor in Putin.

but he said the truth na?

What is democracy without first having a true and fair elections that reflects the will of the people?

Answer me!!!

If democracy is not working let's try another system of Government.

UnfairLife7:
another lowlife jonkie spotted

na your papa and mama be low life!

Versitee:
I have been feeling like my husband has been cheating on me with our neighbors daughter. She is just about 23 years.

Yesterday which was Sunday, I went to our neighbors house around 6pm to ask if I could use their oven.

Their compound is not fenced so I just walked in straight to their backyard if I would see the man's wife.

I overheard this girl making a call. Apparently she was the only one at home and she wasn't expecting anyone.

She was asking the man over the fone who was sexualy better between his wife and her.

My attention was arrested immediately. I stopped to hear more of the conversation. When I had enough, I made my presence known. She quickly hung up and tried to put up an innocent face.

I also pretended like I heard nothing, I asked to use the oven and left .
Getting back home, I was worried if that was my husband that girl was talking to, so I decided to find out.


I got my husbands fone later that night and went through the call log. The time that girl was making that call was few minutes past 6. I checked my husbands fone and there was a number he called around that time.

The number was not saved on the fone so I decided to call that number on my own fone and my true caller identified the number as "Vicky hookup".

Guess what, the girls name is Victoria.

I was surprised because I have the girls number saved on my fone. But I guess the number I have is for her family and friends. The one my husband has is for clients.

I opened his WhatsApp and found no chat with the girl, so I decided to check his telegram. ( Normally I don't like telegram so I never open it on either my fone or husband's)

My husbands telegram was locked. I was surprised cos that is the only app locked on his fone.


To cut the long story short, I found a way to open the app, and I saw his chat with that girl.


It pains me to say that my husband has been having sex with that girl without protection.

I want to go for HIV test tomorrow. Please how do I confront my husband about this.

Also I am scared I might be infected with an sti.

And so what if your husband is knacking outside?

Is he the first man to cheat?
Are you the first married woman that her husband would cheat on?

Oya go and kill your husband because he is cheating. Ok Buy rat poison or use knife and stab him when he is sleeping then your mind will rest, Mumu woman.

See stop disturbing us with nonsense here.
You even went ahead to search his telegram and whatsapp.

Oya divorce him let's see who will marry you or that man that won't cheat on you when you finally lose your marriage.

A wise wife, would advice him to wear condoms finish.

Do

FuckTheMod:
Common sense is indeed not common...
You need to start seeing beyond your nose...

You are the proverbial slug. A slow, lazy and useless animal called "Idiot, heavily infected and infested by all kinds of diseases and insects, yet it goes around from grass to grass, tree to tree cleaning and eating up shit and waste of from other animals, but failed to clean up himself, unaware that his own body is a refuse dump"

You are a Nigerian, you have not done anything to better your country, but you are busy chasing shadows.

This African proverb is the only way I can make you realize you are an Idiot. A lazy and a useless animal.

Do you even know that there is an animal called idiot? See your picture below 👇

That is what you are!

FuckTheMod:
Beautiful!
This real and right trading.
Not trading over useless and USA-worth-attached papers.
THE FALL OF UNITED SNAKES OF AMERICA IS EMINENT.

of what use is rupees to a Nigeria business man doing business in Nigeria?

Will you accept rupees in place of U.S dollar?

Nigerians should rather focus on the many problems bedeviling Nigeria.

Nigeria in the 60s was far ahead and doing better than India.
But look at Nigeria today. Nigeria is nothing but an empty shell.

Our problem is not the dollar or the U.S, our problem is having corrupt men and women occupying everywhere in the decision make of this country.