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nurex01:
What is the most useless and
annoying punishment a man thinks he
can give his Wife?

A) Silence.

B) Deprive her of sex.

C) Beat her.

D) Refuse to eat her food.

E) Leave the house for her Without
telling her Where you are.

asking her not to cook his meals for six months, that he would cook himself...

would be grateful if anyone can help with useful tips please!

Benita27:
He failed to say what she has been emotionally blackmailing him with. The only relationship I see here is "Friends/exes with benefits", if she had nothing on him he won't be feeling bad when she accuses him of not caring and he won't be sending cash when she demands.

some girls/guys get so emotionally attached that even after break up,they still get drawn to their partners..... and these people are easily taken advantage of by those partners that left them...

for the guys they can demand sex from. these girls as they please cos they know she would fall for them easily...

for the girls if they notice how much the guy still feels after break up, they take advantage of that,sweet talk him to give them when they ask...

hello everyone...

I need someone to please tell me the type of questions asked or expected during oral and written interview for account officer in an hospital!....

ebusfav:
Frank Edoho's wife, Sandra who is also a mother of three has taken to social media to ask the public what age daughters should be taught having sex for money is bad.

According to Sandra who has a 13-year-old daughter, this question became neccessary because little boys and girls in private jets, expensive hotels and vacations is now interpreted as success.

Here's what she wrote;

http://www.lailasblog.com/age-parents-teach-daughters-not-sex-money-frank-edohos-wife-asks/

at most from 7years, depending on how fast the child grows and the exposure and environment in which the child is or grows up in...

for some it can be 5/6years...

myright:
http://dailypost.ng/2017/07/30/biafra-ipob-members-confront-obiano-church-chant-no-election-anambra/?utm_source=dlvr.it_dp1&utm_medium=facebook

Just so unfortunate that they've taken this to the Church...

lonikit:
There are lots of things that people do to hurt another. The christian leaders preach that we Should always forgiven and forget. In my own case I easily forgive but I don't forget whatever you have done either to hurt or to impress me.

Does the fact that I don't forget mean I have not forgiven the person that hurt me.

Is it even possible to forget?

Forgetting isn't really possible....

But I think forgetting deals in this context.....
Repeatedly using it every time to that person you claim to have forgiven....

Forgiving and forgetting is also lirk like forgiving and letting go and not using it against the person or as a reminder in the future.... Because the moment you make reference to that it simply shows you haven't forgotten

olasaad:
Shina peller sitting room is wow.....l love it

Its just so simple and not crowded...and the lemon makes it look warm

Priscy01:
A couple based in NISE town of Awka South local Government in Anambra, beat a 7year old girl with electronic wire after she was caught watching a porn movie that was reportedly kept carelessly by the couple...

Read the post by Osho Gbenga Ebuka below...
''The Girl whose name is Mmesoma Ana who is from Abakeliki Eboyin State.. saw a Plain CD and inserted it into the DVD..

Unfortunately it was a Porn Video that the couple had kept carelessly... MR Ali saw her at that moment and started to beat her and later the wife joined... They beat her so Bad that someone rushed to help her...

On getting there he tried saving the girl but was chased by the Mr Ali with a Cutlass while trying to escape he sustained an injury...

The girl was later rushed to the hospital by the people who saw the good Samaritan that tried to save her, he then explained to them..... I am Osho Gbenga Ebuka aka Hoodie Ganga''



Culled From; http://drinosblog..com/2017/07/7-years-old-girl-beaten-with-electronic.html

The couple are very stupid for flogging that girl,abi what were they thinking!

They should have flogged themselves for being careless...

[quote author=Tallysmallz post=58857255]I'm not excusing any of the sexes. Good pm[/quote

Pointing that out is better because it looked that way! Evening

Tallysmallz:
Deal with the truth. Go hustle not gropping around for what's under the skirt. There is more to life than that.

Ladies also are after the thing in the trouser.....that's why most of them slay to get attention... There's more to life than that...

The truth is that nobody is a saint... Both are guilty...

Chidex2442:
Capital...... And plan b nko

Capital is up to you and depending on what you want to do...

Plan B...it also involves all of those write up....

MrNollyzone:
Evangelist Mike Bamiloye of Mount Zion Films Productions posted this deep message a while ago, please read: . . . .

Why do SOME Beloved Sisters suddenly lose their senses and Focus on their WEDDING DAY?
THEY CHANGE THEIR APPEARANCES VIVIDLY AND ALMOST BECOME UNRECOGNIZABLE....Because it's their Wedding Day and It's just Once and For All
THEY COVER UP THEIR UPPER CHEST IN CHURCH ONLY TO THROW AWAY THE COVER AT RECEPTION....Because it's their Wedding Day and it's just Once and For All.
A Beloved Sister fixed her eye lashes that made her face looked like a Cat,.....Because it's her Wedding Day and it's just Once and For All.
A Beloved Church Worker wore a topless Wedding Gown that almost popped out her Breasts as she danced joyfully....Just Because it's her Wedding Day, and it is Once and For All.
Then...Then.... WHY DO THEY SUDDENLY BECOME THEIR NORMAL MODERATE SELF AGAIN FEW DAYS AFTER THE WEDDING?
Why Do People Prepare more for their Wedding Day than for their Marriage Life?


http://news.nollyzone.com/mike-bamiloye-condemns-christian-ladies-look-different-wedding-day/

God bless him....

So right....

More focus is given to wedding day...
When the marriage starts 2-6months they start having issues....1-3years they start planning for divorce....

If couples given more time, determination,commitment,focus and energy to planning for their marriage (life after wedding), I believe marriages would last better and grow stronger....

kingJoya:
Happy sunday nairalanders, I am curious, whenever something tragic happens. It is attributed as God's will. Recently my cousin's wife died after an illness of just three days at a very young age, 34 year old to be precise. This has left my cousin and the entire family very devastated. Now my anger is that, everyone keep saying its God's will. And my question is, why will God allow this , why will he allow my cousin to be alone at his young age, why did he leave the kids motherless at their tender age. Is God really aware of all this tragic happenings?

He's omnipresent.... He sees and knows all things....

If you read your Bible you will know why He let's things happen....

Most of the things happening are caused by man....

God gave us the right to freedom.... Though we misuse it....

For every decision we make whether good or bad there are consequences...even when God forgives us....

Spend more time studying the Bible and ask God for understanding and better answers to this question He will reveal it to you...

Vivos:
Nigeria can ruin and frustrate someone's destiny eh....Welcome to the club sir. We've been experiencing it for long so it's not a new news

Has Nigeria ruined and frustrated yours?... People are gaining and succeeding,some are even establishing new businesses.....

Some are losing and closing...

Its left for you to choose what you want to be your motivation....

Leonbonapart:
Sorry Mr Legend no vex. We have a cursed president, everything has turned upside down in Nigeria since he assumed position. People die like chicken.

Oga no vex, in the days of Jonathan it was not so

Nigeria sold their head to buy cap

Sir am not sure you read this post at all...

It said documents show that in July 2013 Becker held shares in an oil and petrol firm in Nigeria. But the investments tanked and last month he was declared bankrupt. John Briggs, Becker’s lawyer, told the London court: ‘He is not a sophisticated individual when it comes to finances.’

It probably was in Jonathan's time...

ijustdey:
http://sunnewsonline.com/13-year-old-boy-hangs-self-to-protest-mums-abuse/

parents should be very careful about the type of words they use on their children no matter the gravity of the offence.....

Uncles and aunties...every older one around kids be mindful of the insulting words you use on your nephews, nieces,neighbor's kids or any other kid around you....

The boy was already complaining about life and the mum just confirmed everything by saying who cares if you hang yourself....

The tongue has power...be careful what you say generally to anyone!

Erere250@gmail.com

dammyluv911:
Please My Friend Needs Advice Urgently

A friend of mine got herself pregnant by a male friend of hers. Initially the guy wanted her to get rid of it and she has been warned about abortion. The guy later accepted the pregnancy and promised to take care of her and the baby.

He said it should better be a female child. The guy said he will collect the child but he won't marry her claiming he does not love her. My friend is now in love with this guy and she wants them to bring up the baby together cos she does not want the child to pass through what she passed through (she was brought up by a single parent).

This guy claims he does not love her and he doesn't want to see her with any other guy, he asks questions whenever any guy calls, he cares about her welfare and a times complains about her dressing or even dictate for her on the clothes to wear.

Pls it there any way she can make the guy love her?

She needs to sit him down and discuss with him properly to know where she stands

He doesn't want to settle with her and he doesn't want someone else around her,his controlling.... She doesn't have to see that as he loves or cares about her....she needs proper definition of her place and she should be bold enough to say what she wants and be sensible enough to know if its in line with his wants...so that when she start seeing some funny scenes she wouldn't be heartbroken

I guess the preg hasn't gone far, because as time goes she might experience some changes, she may see some things she never expected....etc

sinaj:
lol I will eat nau. This is a diff. case. It's just that I dnt like it when men enter the kitchen frequently

OK....

Is it only people from IMO that can apply if no....can I get a mail to send cv

sinaj:
I dnt knw o!

I just dnt like it

when you're some months gone and you can't really do some normal stuff you do,and you need a nice meal....outta love and care hubby makes a nice meal for you!

YOU NO GO CHOP AM?

MAXIMAL123:
Nice one
But I have a question ooo
Who will Marry this his baby mama now

she's married to the gentle pastor by her side

listenersky:
I just discovered my fiancee has been cheating on me. I discovered the chats she had with a married elderly man ,she initially denied it but she confessed after I showed her the evidence i had. We have been dating for six years and we did our intro early this year. We have picked the date of our wedding which is in few weeks time. People have been invited.

Her relationship with this elderly man didn't start now, she made me to understand that it has been going on for years. Now she has been begging me to forgive her and not put her to shame because PEOPLE are already looking forward to our wedding day.

Wedding preparations already in place. Infact preparations already 80% done. I'm really in a state of confusion right now because I don't know if I should go ahead with the wedding out of pity. And I am also scared that if I marry her out of pity, I might not love her the way I should as the thought of her being unfaithful over the years will never leave my head And how am I sure she's not cheating with more than one man?

Pls nairalanders, matured advice needed at this time.

Sir you knew now for a reason, saying no might be difficult but that's the best thing to say and do now to save you from problems in the future...

You won't love her,as you wished you could,marrying outta pity is dangerous... And harmful....

Call her and talk to her and let her know it can't go ahead,call your families together and let them know....cos bros if you go ahead with this you might end up seeing another side and it would cause you problems moving forward

CrescentMoon:
The first time I became aware of me falling sick was in 2007. I was 26 at the time. Since then it has been a myriad of medical troubles.

It has been cycles of malaria, bacterial infections, disc problems and headache. Every night, I take drugs before I could be able to sleep. I always have antimalarials, antibiotics, nonsteroidal anti-inflammatory drugs and muscle relaxants handy. If malaria symptoms occur, I would take antimalarials and there would be improvement within minutes. And would then complete the dosage in 3 days. By fourth day, symptoms of bacteria infection would occur; I would take ciprofloxacin and get relieved within minutes. Once I complete the dosage, headache would strike, and once aspirin is taken, I get well. But I would keep repeating aspirin every night until gastric ulceration sets in. I would then buy omeprasole and cimetidine to treat ulcer. While ulcer treatment is ongoing, malaria would strike again, and I would take antimalarials. If antimalarials don't work, I would know that the symptoms are bacterial and take antibiotic. If there is no relief, I would combine antimalarials and antibiotic and there would be a relief. It has been like this since 2007. I don't go to hospital again because I have grown to know these symptoms and what doctors would prescribe.

For the past 2 weeks, I have been battling 'herniated disc' problem in my lower back. It started the day I bent down suddenly and I heard a snapping sound at my back bone. I started using norflex, calcium supplement and diclofenac. I feel mild relief because I can't stop my daily hustle to rest while the disc heals. If I dont work in a day, I won't eat or pay bills.

Note that I undergo HIV test almost weekly.

How do the poor tackle medical problems in this hellhole of a country?

Lalasticlal.a, please help me move this to fp.

If you can send me a mail I would like to make a suggestion and if you can give it a try....erere250@gmail.com

josju:
Good day all, I really want your sincere views or experience on the issue of dating a lady in her early 20's. I met a girl aged 20 has finished OND and just going for internship two months back and she seems to be the right person for me, her maturity, concerns and love shown have been commendable. Am 28 and would love to have her as a wife but my fear is if she wouldn't change from this good,homely responsible girl as she grows older.
I on my part will never cheat on her as I strongly uphold the one boy one girl relationship.
Question now is has anyone experienced or seen people that dated a girl of that age and age difference that work out well?
To mature older ladies how many of you are still with the lover you met at your early 20's?
From age 20 can a lady really be sure of what she wants in a lover and stick with a loving, faithful and caring partner without the urge to explore at some point in time?
Your mature and sincere response would be appreciated.

KANU the baller is older that his wife with about ten years,she was about 20when she got married to him, I have seen lots of couples with a lot age difference.

Its about the two of you,if she's fine with it and your OK with it go ahead,but from the way I see it,you might be the one having issues with the age difference....

I have seen ladies date guys with that age difference or more and these guys tend to treat these girls like their baby sister,they try to stamp that authority thing that says am far older than you so you must do whatever I want....that's very wrong...

Sir be able to define what you want,talk with her and get what or how she sees it before you jump into wanting to date her

praxisnetworks:
Advices are needed... Egunmogaji.. and co

Land.....it appreciates with time and you can get more for it if you build on it for rent or even decide to sell it later...its an asset....you can end up buying a car later from this

Car....depreciates with time loses value,its a liability....

Tobiloba21:
I want to study educational administration and planning... For masters most schools are asking for 2.2 as entry level.... Some 1 told me I need a minimum of 3.00cgpa for it

minimum of 3.0 for masters anything less you do PGD first before you go in for your masters...

Arian11:
the man that denied a 16 year old girl refugee is a bastard and a fake fool....doing pastorprenuership and them deeper life be claiming holiest of holies...hypocritical cunts...mtcheww

its wiser to speak and react when you have concrete information on a story, you don't just go about ranting

Me too,am in port Harcourt/bayelsa

kekakuz:
Having a cool mother in-laws is something most people would like but its turning to something else for me.
When ever she is around, she picks my phone and immediately enters my WhatsApp messages.at first I felt she make a mistake but last night makes it the 5th time it's happening.

yesterday, I slept off in the living room and by the time I woke around 12am, I discovered my phone was not by my side. I searched for it everywhere and when I still could not find it, I proceeded to my wife's room to pick my wife's phone and call my line, to my amazement, I saw my mother in-laws on my phone.

I was angry at first but I had to control myself i collected the phone and I discovered she was in my email and Facebook messaged and she even knows my unlock pattern.

am tired of this but I don't want to disrespect her. how do I deal with this.

Download hi security from play store,get all your applications passworded...

Is six packs compulsory, ....what's the location....