Chidex2442:
Capital...... And plan b nko

Capital is up to you and depending on what you want to do...

Plan B...it also involves all of those write up....

MrNollyzone:
Evangelist Mike Bamiloye of Mount Zion Films Productions posted this deep message a while ago, please read: . . . .

Why do SOME Beloved Sisters suddenly lose their senses and Focus on their WEDDING DAY?
THEY CHANGE THEIR APPEARANCES VIVIDLY AND ALMOST BECOME UNRECOGNIZABLE....Because it's their Wedding Day and It's just Once and For All
THEY COVER UP THEIR UPPER CHEST IN CHURCH ONLY TO THROW AWAY THE COVER AT RECEPTION....Because it's their Wedding Day and it's just Once and For All.
A Beloved Sister fixed her eye lashes that made her face looked like a Cat,.....Because it's her Wedding Day and it's just Once and For All.
A Beloved Church Worker wore a topless Wedding Gown that almost popped out her Breasts as she danced joyfully....Just Because it's her Wedding Day, and it is Once and For All.
Then...Then.... WHY DO THEY SUDDENLY BECOME THEIR NORMAL MODERATE SELF AGAIN FEW DAYS AFTER THE WEDDING?
Why Do People Prepare more for their Wedding Day than for their Marriage Life?


http://news.nollyzone.com/mike-bamiloye-condemns-christian-ladies-look-different-wedding-day/

God bless him....

So right....

More focus is given to wedding day...
When the marriage starts 2-6months they start having issues....1-3years they start planning for divorce....

If couples given more time, determination,commitment,focus and energy to planning for their marriage (life after wedding), I believe marriages would last better and grow stronger....

kingJoya:
Happy sunday nairalanders, I am curious, whenever something tragic happens. It is attributed as God's will. Recently my cousin's wife died after an illness of just three days at a very young age, 34 year old to be precise. This has left my cousin and the entire family very devastated. Now my anger is that, everyone keep saying its God's will. And my question is, why will God allow this , why will he allow my cousin to be alone at his young age, why did he leave the kids motherless at their tender age. Is God really aware of all this tragic happenings?

He's omnipresent.... He sees and knows all things....

If you read your Bible you will know why He let's things happen....

Most of the things happening are caused by man....

God gave us the right to freedom.... Though we misuse it....

For every decision we make whether good or bad there are consequences...even when God forgives us....

Spend more time studying the Bible and ask God for understanding and better answers to this question He will reveal it to you...

Vivos:
Nigeria can ruin and frustrate someone's destiny eh....Welcome to the club sir. We've been experiencing it for long so it's not a new news

Has Nigeria ruined and frustrated yours?... People are gaining and succeeding,some are even establishing new businesses.....

Some are losing and closing...

Its left for you to choose what you want to be your motivation....

Leonbonapart:
Sorry Mr Legend no vex. We have a cursed president, everything has turned upside down in Nigeria since he assumed position. People die like chicken.

Oga no vex, in the days of Jonathan it was not so

Nigeria sold their head to buy cap

Sir am not sure you read this post at all...

It said documents show that in July 2013 Becker held shares in an oil and petrol firm in Nigeria. But the investments tanked and last month he was declared bankrupt. John Briggs, Becker’s lawyer, told the London court: ‘He is not a sophisticated individual when it comes to finances.’

It probably was in Jonathan's time...

ijustdey:








http://sunnewsonline.com/13-year-old-boy-hangs-self-to-protest-mums-abuse/

parents should be very careful about the type of words they use on their children no matter the gravity of the offence.....

Uncles and aunties...every older one around kids be mindful of the insulting words you use on your nephews, nieces,neighbor's kids or any other kid around you....

The boy was already complaining about life and the mum just confirmed everything by saying who cares if you hang yourself....

The tongue has power...be careful what you say generally to anyone!

Erere250@gmail.com

dammyluv911:
Please My Friend Needs Advice Urgently

A friend of mine got herself pregnant by a male friend of hers. Initially the guy wanted her to get rid of it and she has been warned about abortion. The guy later accepted the pregnancy and promised to take care of her and the baby.

He said it should better be a female child. The guy said he will collect the child but he won't marry her claiming he does not love her. My friend is now in love with this guy and she wants them to bring up the baby together cos she does not want the child to pass through what she passed through (she was brought up by a single parent).

This guy claims he does not love her and he doesn't want to see her with any other guy, he asks questions whenever any guy calls, he cares about her welfare and a times complains about her dressing or even dictate for her on the clothes to wear.

Pls it there any way she can make the guy love her?

She needs to sit him down and discuss with him properly to know where she stands

He doesn't want to settle with her and he doesn't want someone else around her,his controlling.... She doesn't have to see that as he loves or cares about her....she needs proper definition of her place and she should be bold enough to say what she wants and be sensible enough to know if its in line with his wants...so that when she start seeing some funny scenes she wouldn't be heartbroken

I guess the preg hasn't gone far, because as time goes she might experience some changes, she may see some things she never expected....etc

sinaj:
lol I will eat nau. This is a diff. case. It's just that I dnt like it when men enter the kitchen frequently

OK....

Is it only people from IMO that can apply if no....can I get a mail to send cv

sinaj:
I dnt knw o!

I just dnt like it

when you're some months gone and you can't really do some normal stuff you do,and you need a nice meal....outta love and care hubby makes a nice meal for you!

YOU NO GO CHOP AM?

MAXIMAL123:
Nice one
But I have a question ooo
Who will Marry this his baby mama now

she's married to the gentle pastor by her side

listenersky:
I just discovered my fiancee has been cheating on me. I discovered the chats she had with a married elderly man ,she initially denied it but she confessed after I showed her the evidence i had. We have been dating for six years and we did our intro early this year. We have picked the date of our wedding which is in few weeks time. People have been invited.

Her relationship with this elderly man didn't start now, she made me to understand that it has been going on for years. Now she has been begging me to forgive her and not put her to shame because PEOPLE are already looking forward to our wedding day.

Wedding preparations already in place. Infact preparations already 80% done. I'm really in a state of confusion right now because I don't know if I should go ahead with the wedding out of pity. And I am also scared that if I marry her out of pity, I might not love her the way I should as the thought of her being unfaithful over the years will never leave my head And how am I sure she's not cheating with more than one man?

Pls nairalanders, matured advice needed at this time.

Sir you knew now for a reason, saying no might be difficult but that's the best thing to say and do now to save you from problems in the future...

You won't love her,as you wished you could,marrying outta pity is dangerous... And harmful....

Call her and talk to her and let her know it can't go ahead,call your families together and let them know....cos bros if you go ahead with this you might end up seeing another side and it would cause you problems moving forward

CrescentMoon:
The first time I became aware of me falling sick was in 2007. I was 26 at the time. Since then it has been a myriad of medical troubles.

It has been cycles of malaria, bacterial infections, disc problems and headache. Every night, I take drugs before I could be able to sleep. I always have antimalarials, antibiotics, nonsteroidal anti-inflammatory drugs and muscle relaxants handy. If malaria symptoms occur, I would take antimalarials and there would be improvement within minutes. And would then complete the dosage in 3 days. By fourth day, symptoms of bacteria infection would occur; I would take ciprofloxacin and get relieved within minutes. Once I complete the dosage, headache would strike, and once aspirin is taken, I get well. But I would keep repeating aspirin every night until gastric ulceration sets in. I would then buy omeprasole and cimetidine to treat ulcer. While ulcer treatment is ongoing, malaria would strike again, and I would take antimalarials. If antimalarials don't work, I would know that the symptoms are bacterial and take antibiotic. If there is no relief, I would combine antimalarials and antibiotic and there would be a relief. It has been like this since 2007. I don't go to hospital again because I have grown to know these symptoms and what doctors would prescribe.

For the past 2 weeks, I have been battling 'herniated disc' problem in my lower back. It started the day I bent down suddenly and I heard a snapping sound at my back bone. I started using norflex, calcium supplement and diclofenac. I feel mild relief because I can't stop my daily hustle to rest while the disc heals. If I dont work in a day, I won't eat or pay bills.

Note that I undergo HIV test almost weekly.

How do the poor tackle medical problems in this hellhole of a country?

Lalasticlal.a, please help me move this to fp.

If you can send me a mail I would like to make a suggestion and if you can give it a try....erere250@gmail.com

josju:
Good day all, I really want your sincere views or experience on the issue of dating a lady in her early 20's. I met a girl aged 20 has finished OND and just going for internship two months back and she seems to be the right person for me, her maturity, concerns and love shown have been commendable. Am 28 and would love to have her as a wife but my fear is if she wouldn't change from this good,homely responsible girl as she grows older.
I on my part will never cheat on her as I strongly uphold the one boy one girl relationship.
Question now is has anyone experienced or seen people that dated a girl of that age and age difference that work out well?
To mature older ladies how many of you are still with the lover you met at your early 20's?
From age 20 can a lady really be sure of what she wants in a lover and stick with a loving, faithful and caring partner without the urge to explore at some point in time?
Your mature and sincere response would be appreciated.

KANU the baller is older that his wife with about ten years,she was about 20when she got married to him, I have seen lots of couples with a lot age difference.

Its about the two of you,if she's fine with it and your OK with it go ahead,but from the way I see it,you might be the one having issues with the age difference....

I have seen ladies date guys with that age difference or more and these guys tend to treat these girls like their baby sister,they try to stamp that authority thing that says am far older than you so you must do whatever I want....that's very wrong...

Sir be able to define what you want,talk with her and get what or how she sees it before you jump into wanting to date her

praxisnetworks:
Advices are needed... Egunmogaji.. and co

Land.....it appreciates with time and you can get more for it if you build on it for rent or even decide to sell it later...its an asset....you can end up buying a car later from this

Car....depreciates with time loses value,its a liability....

Tobiloba21:
I want to study educational administration and planning... For masters most schools are asking for 2.2 as entry level.... Some 1 told me I need a minimum of 3.00cgpa for it

minimum of 3.0 for masters anything less you do PGD first before you go in for your masters...

Arian11:
the man that denied a 16 year old girl refugee is a bastard and a fake fool....doing pastorprenuership and them deeper life be claiming holiest of holies...hypocritical cunts...mtcheww

its wiser to speak and react when you have concrete information on a story, you don't just go about ranting

Me too,am in port Harcourt/bayelsa

kekakuz:
Having a cool mother in-laws is something most people would like but its turning to something else for me.
When ever she is around, she picks my phone and immediately enters my WhatsApp messages.at first I felt she make a mistake but last night makes it the 5th time it's happening.

yesterday, I slept off in the living room and by the time I woke around 12am, I discovered my phone was not by my side. I searched for it everywhere and when I still could not find it, I proceeded to my wife's room to pick my wife's phone and call my line, to my amazement, I saw my mother in-laws on my phone.

I was angry at first but I had to control myself i collected the phone and I discovered she was in my email and Facebook messaged and she even knows my unlock pattern.

am tired of this but I don't want to disrespect her. how do I deal with this.

Download hi security from play store,get all your applications passworded...

Is six packs compulsory, ....what's the location....

PrinceFola:
Scheduled to write Monday too.......
Gonna send PQ to you
OP, where are you living?

Good day....please can you send the pq to me....ereretola@ymail.com.

Thanks

Papiikush:
He never signed your divorce papers but went ahead to marry Tonto?

Wait, I am confused...what is the essence of the divorce right now? Bìtch just wanna be famous

For her to remarry it's the proper thing she's doing

smartty68:
Feasting on other people's sweat. Doomsday has finally caught up with you.

Actually feasting on his own people.. ...

TINALETC3:
so a full grown man cn b raped 2

Yes.. .at gun point.. ..and in an unconscious state.. ..

rhodalite:
Guys is it possible?, let's share our opinions

YES

lytech1:
She start calling me some months ago telling me about her husband incompetence(financially broke and not responsible)

sometimes,she ask for financial assistance which i manage to render on most cases.

She also felt sorry for letting me go(she was impregnanted by the guy,that leads to our breakup)and always seek for forgiveness.

She pay me a visit 3days ago and start demanding for sex which i manage to resist.. She pleaded and cry but i make realize my concience wont allow me do such a thing.

Though,she is the reason why am still single(coz i found it hard to love since we path ways).. She has been calling ever since asking me to make love with her even if its just once to shows have forgiven her totally...

My concience is against such.....
Fellow nairalandes,
what can i do to stop her....?

Your first mistake is giving her money

Your second mistake is giving her the impression you want her

Your third mistake is giving her shelter and comfort


You better get yourself a future and stop drowning in your past.....

I once had this with a married ex but I am glad I gave her the impression that since you married do everything possible to love your husband in all totality, whether good or bad... .i told her that if anything happens between them I will never accept her, thank God she listened, she didn't have to come to my house or ask for money, my phone was enough to do the communication. Her husband was aware we spoke on phone.. .

Today she's doing really well with the family.. ..

Don't be the reason a home gets destroyed. ..

creative11:

It’s always a good idea to be totally open to your wife. Let her know your plans, movements, visions and thinking. This will help her to connect well with you and get along with you as your wife and Mother of the house.

Despite the facts that you should be totally open to your wife, there are 9 secrets that you should never reveal to your Wife. Let me open your eyes to them here:

1) BAD THINGS YOUR MOTHER SAID ABOUT HER:

Maybe before you married her or after your wedding, your Parents might have told you some things they don’t like about your wife for one reason or the other.

You have to be careful the way you talk to her about what they said. You may correct her without telling her who said what or say it in such a way that she will not get hurt by their words.

If you say it the way they said it, you may create eternal enmity between them.11 Secrets Man Should Never Reveal To His Wife


2) BAD THINGS YOUR FAMILY SAID ABOUT HER:

Like your Parents, your siblings, Uncles, Aunties etc might have said some negative things about your wife in the past, handle this with care, lest you create a battle that may outlive you between them.

3) YOUR TERRIFYING DREAMS:

It is very easy for a woman to wake her husband up to tell him about her nightmares and terrible dreams. 11 Secrets Man Should Never Reveal To His Wife


It’s not bad for a woman to say this to her husband, but it is not always good for a man to share terrible dreams with his wife that may not allow her to sleep.

You can tell her to pray or pray together concerning the dreams but avoid giving her the graphic details, lest you scare her. 11 Secrets Man Should Never Reveal To His Wife

4) HOW YOUR FRIENDS REALLY FEEL ABOUT HER:

You friends might say unkind words about her.If you relay it the way they presented it; your house may become a no-go area for such friend.

5) YOUR DIRTY FEELINGS ABOUT HER:

Avoid speaking out your negative thought about her when you fight If you utter all that is in your mind in time of conflict, you will hurt your wife greatly and destroy your home


6) GIRLS THAT ARE EYEING YOU:

Once in a while, you may notice some ladies who are really after you and see you as their source of “crush” despite the fact that you are married. You don’t just go ahead to tell your wife about this, for a lady to show interest in you may not necessarily means she is after you.So, be careful. If you tell your wife about it, she may not handle It rightly and can begin to suspect you and fight the innocent lady.

7) HOW YOU REALLY FEEL ABOUT HIS MUM:

Her Mum may not be behaving very well by your standard, but that is how she’s been behaving and raised the damsel that you married. So, it will be bad to tell your Wife that her Mother or Father are not well behaved.

HOW WHAT PEOPLE SAID REALLY HURTS YOU:

Some people will say something that will hurt you greatly. Please, avoid saying how it hurts shedding tears in the process. If you end up forgiven the person your wife may never forgive somebody that makes her husband cries.

9) HOW WHAT PEOPLE DID GREATLY Hurt YOU:

Just like the case above, people will do something that hurts you, but must avoid sensationalizing it to your wife. Please, always downplay your hurt so as to make it easy for your wife to forgive people.

10) NAMES OF GIRLS YOU HAD SLEPT WITH:

It will be totally wrong to show her the list of those you slept with before you met your wife. She doesn’t need that information, they are your Ex, please move on

11) PAST SEXUAL ENJOYMENT:

Likewise, you need not tell her what you enjoy in other ladies to motivate her to perform better in the bedroom, that will be very wrong.


http://www.dailyfamily.ng/11-secrets-man-never-reveal-wife/

A sensitive and observant wife will notice majority of these points without you telling her....

Some men can be scared of dreams too, so it's not still advisable to tell the man some dreams in details... There are wives also that can give you right meanings to some of your dreams, it's all about knowing and understanding who you're married to...

About the sexual part, nothing wrong in telling her, it's left for her to decide to stay or leave, it's better for her to hear it from me than hear it outside... ..

secretsuccess:
my name is joshua a chemical engineering graduate. it is so difficult to survive as a hardworking, honest and God fearing person here in Nigeria. After my NYSC i have been struggling from place to place, looking for opurtunities. i always shuttle from lagos to portharcourt...thinking that one day it will be well. i just discovered that it will never be well..

When we were in secondary school we were told to get a good course..my parents were happy when i got chemical engineering..then in school it was get a good result..that was no problem, i got a second class upper.

Ater service it was get certified..ahh, no wahala.. i got my NEBOSH certificate..then again some said it was connection..ok, i joined lots of proffesional whatsapp groups after much work, i even had to pay for some...funny enough the so called proffesional group failed woefully.

twice i was called for a job brief..twice i was rejected..the first reason was because i am igbo the woman saw my name and her countenance changed though she dashed me 2k and told me the usual words i would get back to you..ok, fair enough. The second was in portharcourt i was rejected because
of my church..Roman catholic.. hmmm. A young man was also rejected for same reason he kept on complaining while i was just laughing..though later i begged him for #100 for my TP, he gave me sha.. he is a nice man.

ok. i had to go back to the drawing board..met some people and they said i should just do further courses..oooo! course again, ok.. no wahala. i begged my mum to sell her bike for 110k so i can add 30k and do process safety and loss prevention..she accepted.. i sold the bike and did the course.. yet, no interview call. i said ok let me visit companies and give them the cv..my brother no show.

i sat still again..and then reviewed my cv..paid 2k for push CV to review the cv..still no luck.. downloaded CV review app used it time and time again. same results.. no calls.

the only thing i get everyday is insults from my Father and some relatives of how lazy and weak i am...this is not fair life itself is not fair..is it not better to die? after working hard in school and after school for about 8-10 years no result for it..

People will always say dont be tired but my brother i don tire... i know many of us have same story, but for me the only thing i can do to make the pain easy.. is write..

Nigeria is not worth it.. did i tell you i briefly went into business?.. but how can you do well in business without long time experience.. it is always difficult..well, the pressure is much and i see that breaking point is close... only God knows Tomorrow.

These days the only thing that comes to my mind is suicide..i have downloaded lots of books to see if i can find a solution.. but none yet.. please if you have good advice for me i am willing to hear it.

thanks
E Joshua

Don't give up sir.. ..when it seems like nothing is working just know your evidence is close, After all you've been through don't give up, don't let discouragement take the better part of you, ...i pray that you will experience a miracle that would make you know that all your efforts wasn't in vain!

Basildvalour:
Before God, he acknowledges decency. That is a good one.

How good is that?
When God is omnipresent,everywhere!

Only females?

apeiron24:
University of Lagos was named Moshud Abiola University Of Lagos and there was a protest. Thanks to God for the success, if not, Some people would be students of MAULAG now..... what an Impertubably Lugubrious pronunciation.

Naming Higher institutions after heroes I not my problem. My Problem is the abbreviation that follows after.....

Imagine Naming University of Ibadan after "Gbadamosi Adeyinka"... which will make it Gbadamosi Adeyinka University......

The abbreviation is "GAU".... which is a bad word situation in Yoruba language.....

..... Jambite would be like "Mo to wo GAU" I have been admitted.....

....Imagine you are in a Church and a Lady is giving testimony about his admission into "GAU"

...She will be like...... help me praise God o.... I just entered GAU......

..... Please our Governments should think about abbreviation o.....

...Anyone here want admission to "GAU"

What baffles me is why they name it after these people have died... ..