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Thank you for that post@Vingeophysicist..and OP be careful not to vent it on the next girl you meet... Every individual is unique in their own way and this happened for a reason so look at the positives in the negative.... Don't fear women.... Respect them.... Trust God.... Humans would surely disappoint you....

TheTrueApostle:
In case u don't know. Those are drugs for HIV patients...




Ladies, please y'all should be careful.

Guys too.. Be careful....

Everyone be careful...

Flickzvill:
what if he used a condom? If its u will u use your naked penis to sleep with a LovePeddler cum inside her and still use the hanky to whipe off the pussy? tink b4 u type

What if... Means you're assuming so you're not sure... Condoms also break... Irrespective of all those.... Your friend is still a part of the ritual...

Be her initiator, teacher her, lead her and direct her and she will cling to you forever....thats if you also respect and value her in the process...

Virgin girls are usually drawn to their first sexual partners....thats why you find out that it's difficult for most of them to get over their ex or break up with their bfs even though they know he's cheating on them...

Your friend too is also a walking dead, because his fluid has been mixed with the girl's own, so whatever happens to those girls happens to him too...hope he wasn't so dumb not to think realize that he's using himself too!

morgan844:
we have been together all these years it was only this year that i travelled if not for the kids i will not even think of her any more

So basically you've lost interest in her....
And you probably have an eye on someone over there...

So why are you hurting badly that she's flirting with someone else, at least someone that would think about her, since you don't anymore?

bchi:
Please nlander I need you guys help.
I'm dating a catholic right now n am about to marry him, I'm scared of becoming a catholic member cos of my background ( the church am worshiping with), we believe in gift of the holy spirit and his presence in us.
I dislike their method of worship and their believe.
I don't know, how i will cope with him cos of his church...
...
... please mature advice.

It's better you talk to him and end the relationship with him, since you're not comfortable with his church... This is an area you would have considered initially, but it's not still late...

One thing I can't encourage or do when I get married is attending a different church with my wife... Some people don't have any issues with that, but to an extent it affects the home and the children...

ksbusari:
I'm confused. Please I need your advice. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a while now and just yesterday she confessed that she had sex with someone I had been suspecting. She told me she had sex with that man for money knowing fully well my financial status at this present time. She begged to be forgiven but don't know what to do.

Pls help pls. This is a girl i really love. Everybody around me already knows her.

is everybody around you dating her too?

forgive her...we can not tell you what to do,do what you think is best for you.

kolawolepet:
A David Beckham fan, Jack Johnson, who spent £20,000 (N9.6m) on surgery to look like his idol, said his obsession nearly killed him.

According to Mirror UK, after spending several years trying to look like the football legend, Johnson said his unsuccessful bid nearly drove him to commit suicide.

Report said Johnson is now reversing his medical work and speaking out to warn others not to follow in his path.

“I tried to take my own life because trying to look like Beckham is a full-time job and is not easy,” he said.

“Trying to look like Beckham nearly killed me and I don’t want others to make the same mistake.”

In his bid to look like Beckham, Johnson, from Nottingham, England, had tan injections every month, as well as lip, chin and cheek fillers, botox injected into his forehead, and procedures for dental veneers.

The 21-year-old paid for the surgery using his Disability Living Allowance, by taking out loans and borrowing money from his brother.

He is now struggling to pay debts of £14,000 (N6.7m) and insists he has learnt his lesson, while he has stopped having all forms of surgery.

Johnson’s story went viral last year and he appeared in news outlets across 10 countries when details of his Beckham obsession emerged.

As he became well recognised, clinics gave him liposuction, botox and lip fillers for free, he said.

“I’m not speaking out because I want notoriety or fame anymore — I’m genuinely doing this because I’ve come out the other side of it,” he said.

“When I was on This Morning Holly or when Phil asked me if I was happy, I told them I was, but really I wasn’t — I was in the worst place ever on the inside.”

Johnson tried to kill himself four months ago by taking an overdose of tablets, but he was found by a friend and taken to a hospital.

He had sessions with a psychiatrist and he learnt he was suffering from body dysmorphia — a mental condition where a person spends a lot of time worrying about flaws in their appearance.

“I obviously don’t blame David Beckham, it’s not his fault,” said Johnson. “I was trying desperately to look like him and it nearly cost me my life.

“I feel like I’m in the best place ever now — and I really don’t want anybody to go through what I have.

“Nobody should ever aspire to look like celebrities to that extent, and I’m an example of that. You need to just be yourself.”

Source:- http://www.exclusivepp.com.ng/i-regrets-spending-n9-6m-to-look-like-david-beckham-man-reveals/

https://i2.wp.com/www.exclusivepp.com.ng/wp-content/uploads/2017/12/474E7DE700000578-5177235-image-m-129_1513208397320.jpg?w=634

Sometimes I wonder what some people really admire in others...
Instead of this nigga to aspire to be successful like David Beckham, he decided to look like him... Now he has debts to pay instead of profits to receive....

Homeyfav:
Is this plot of land for sale in Delta still available?

No, it's not

Mekanus:
Scientists have been correcting your yeye God's mistakes. Isn't your God ashamed?

God gave them the wisdom and knowledge and understanding to do that.....He uses us unto his glory, He will not come down to earth to show himself but He will use you if you are willing and ready to ask for it from Him...

My God isn't ashamed but happy that about 22specialist made themselves available to be used to change the story of this family....

senatordave1:
As a result of infrastructural development carried out by akpabio,akwa ibom has overtaken cross river.cross river is just about calabar,ikom and ogoja.owerri has even overtaken calabar as well as asaba.

So just asaba made you list delta state before Edo state!!!

Do a proper research and I think research also involves hearing what the people living in the state has to say...

senatordave1:
No,the number one state in terms of development in south south is rivers followed by delta and akwaibom states.i have never been to edo state so i cant rate them but ill rate bayelsa as the least.

Edo state should come before delta state...

lodgerill:
Nigerian Lady, with Facebook ID Funmi Adisa, has taken to her Facebook page to slam men and fellow slay queens as she loose her boyfriend to a fellow slay queen.

She also gave warning to other slay queens that she will do anything to get any man she want, and sleep anyone she wants


“Listen up ! I was ones in-love Wiv the nigga I luved and some slay mama came in wiv der hoes life & d stupid bf allowed der shit. Listen very well Slay Mama if you c me with your bf I don’t give a f–k.. Am ready to date anyone dateable and f–k anyone f–kable e fit be your guy oh shotiyee"


http://www.lodgerill.com.ng/2017/12/nigerian-lady-who-lost-her-boyfriebd.html?m=1

She's free to date anyone datable and Bleep anyone fuckable but she should know that it's herself she's doing.... It's her body and life she's messing up and I pray she lives to tell us the story...

frosbel2:
He has to approve it ?? Because he is God ?

Typical cult behaviour

If you read your Bible you will have a clearer understanding


It's just like you having a make sense idea for your company, you can't just go and implement it, you will definitely let your boss(s) know First and also see what you see...

Things of the Spirit needs to be handled properly so that you don't lie against the Holy Spirit

mickeymimi:
Yes it is true >>I think they do that because the bible say > “Every matter must be established by the testimony of two or three witnesses.”...2 Corin 13.13.. because some people use witchcraft or sorcery to give vision..and lead people away from God. You have to test every spirit. to avoid people like Simon the Sorcerer Act 8>

Thank you for that!

ObaFemy:
Well, I'm not a member and I can't say all these are true. But, a pastor-friend of mine who is a member of Deeper Life, and is very gifted with prophecy and visions, once told me no one is allowed to share visions or prophecies, unless such visions and prophecies are validated and approved by Pastor W.F Kumuyi.

He's the head so yeah he has to approve it....
Visions and prophecies have to be confirmed...
Sometimes we say the Holy Spirit said this or that whereas it's just a thought playing in our minds...
His approval here has to do with seeking the face of God to also know if it truly is from God...

If that your pastor friend is the GO of a church and have pastors under him, it would definitely be the same thing...

Like I once said....if the pattern of a church borders you go to another one... there are many churches that fit the style we desire....just leave the church in peace and stop carrying them to social media forums.

savvy12:
Pls guys,I need your advice.
No insults please.

I have two men in my life right now.

The first one is a medical doctor at nauth in nnewi. According to him, he is 37 years old(10 yes older than me) but I still don't believe him cos he looks much older than his assumed age. He looks 40ish. And he is sort of secretive. He doesn't like talking about himself.we started dating last year before I lost my dad.

Things have been going well but the problem is that he has been pestering me for sex. But I'm not ready to have sex with him cos I'm not attracted to him. I went to his apartment as usual last week Sunday and he tried to initiate sex but I refused and told him I wasn't ready for it. He got angry and drove me to the park where I entered bus to my house. Since then he hasn't called or spoken to me.

I'm worried right now. I feel like he will leave me after he succeeds in having sex with me. That's why I refused him sex.

pls note,I'm not a goldigger cos I'm not the type that demand money from guys.He gets angry whenever he offers me money and I refuse.

I am also dating a second guy who is abroad. He lives in Canada. I got his number through his sister who is a friend of mine. We have been chatting for 3months now and he seems like a nice guy. He said he will come back to Nigeria after applying for his citizenship card next year.

I'm confused right now.I don't know whether to forget about the doctor and focus on the abroad guy or should I beg the doc and allow him have sex with me.
I have not had any relationship for a maximum of 2years cos the guys I meet always want from me even I try not to demand anything from them.
pls I need advice.

You can't have two engagement rings at the same time so its one of your bfs

A lady just made a post about how her friend encouraged her to marry her brother abroad and now she's having challenges, you can learn from her story....

From your story I just see that you're not really sure of what you want or need....you're still floating.....

mercy0008:
So I'm serving in this organization and ended up being friends with this guy, we seem to always have something to talk about as we both read books and share an interest in politics. We will go see movies, go watch football and sometimes go bowling too.
After a short time we discovered we sort of started growing feelings for each other, I have not been dating for a year but he is in a relationship.
Now we are both feeling bad because his girlfriend is really a nice girl, at least based on stuffs that i 've heard about her from him, but he claims he cant understand why he is this attracted to me too, said all he knows is he can just be himself around me without any fear or worries about what i think of him.
We are trying our best to keep away from each other but really this is over powering and its not working. Somehow he just finds himself at my place after work(i leave the office before him) till maybe 11pm most times even if his girlfriend is visiting.
Just thought to share with you all, please is there something else i can do.
I honestly don't want to come between him and his girlfriend but my feelings for him hasn't changed.
WHAT DO YOU THINK I SHOULD I DO?

Stop the regular meeting and discussions
Someone can not somehow find themselves in your place, even a spirit decides where it wants to go...

You both are having feelings because you spend a lot of time together... Its normal

So caution yourselves and respect yourselves
Because when something else happens you both would start hating on yourselves....

NB: if I spend time with you that way you will surely develop feelings too....

Don't let your next story be.....and he somehow found himself on your bed and somehow it happened and somehow somehow it now somehow...

Felixabel:
So u prefer him stabbing her husband abi, that is what u girls deserve because some of you ladies can't close ur leg

Why can't the men stop going to open their legs?
You think the ladies are always at fault!

somehow:
And your assertion is purely wrong because a true Christian should never be paying tithe, paying tithe means you think you owe God and needs to pay God (the workings of the law) which relegates the death and ressuretion of Jesus Christ. He ushered in grace which was missing in the era of law where people needed to obey all the laws to be seen righteous.

I repeat again, except you can prove where Jesus or any of the disciples/early Christians took or gave tithe, it's unchristian and not a Christian principle.

So your assertion that a true pastor shouldn't be against tithing is an abberation sir.

Your post was longer than mine so I should be tagging yours an epistle. I only copied and pasted bible verses to counter your cherry picking.

And yes tithing is by force in most Nigerian churches, how?

By coersion, threat of devourers, inducement and enticement. They keep quote Mal 3:10 to put fears and enticement in the minds of members.

Some churches tie Salvation to tithing, same time God's blessings solely on tithing etc.

Some also use tithe booklets to know those who pay and don't so as to segregate, some call out tithers in public just to make them look or feel like true "Christians", some churches give titles to those who are seen as tithers e.t.c

You can't say these stuffs I listed here are untrue.

Everyone reads the bible and get different understanding from it or some people just choose to understand anyway they wish,even none believers read the bible to gain wisdom and knowledge.....

You have chosen to see all that as true because you want it to be so, but its the Holy Spirit that gives divine understanding....

I won't argue against or for the points you have made....what you see depends on how far you look...


If I tell you that as a man you shouldn't be having sex because its not meant to be....you will disagree with me no matter the points I give you....you're very wrong to think that Christians shouldn't tithe.......but you would be very right to say you shouldn't be paying tithe.....

I pay my tithe and am privileged to do that by the grace and mercies of God....no matter what anyone says won't stop me.....

You can influence your circle not to....tithing is a choice....

Everyone that tithes has experienced something extraordinary in their lives and they have personal devotion....and that's why if JESUS CHRIST TARES ....believers would keep tithing....

Thank you and do have a lovely day

somehow:
Why are you mixing up cheerful and willing giving with 'madatory/threat/coercive giving called tithe? Why trying to be clever by half? Trying to act like you didn't know what I meant when I said the disciples or Jesus never paid not received tithe? What you posted up here are all the kind of giving Jesus encouraged. The one you give without coersion.

Luke 18:12 you quoted was a parable Jesus told, you quoted it mischievously to hide the truth, you ignored the preceeding verses just to hide the truth. Here is it in full:

And he spake a parable unto them to this end, that men ought always to pray, and not to faint; [2] Saying, There was in a city a judge, which feared not God, neither regarded man: [3] And there was a widow in that city; and she came unto him, saying, Avenge me of mine adversary. [4] And he would not for a while: but afterward he said within himself, Though I fear not God, nor regard man; [5] Yet because this widow troubleth me, I will avenge her, lest by her continual coming she weary me. [6] And the Lord said, Hear what the unjust judge saith. [7] And shall not God avenge his own elect, which cry day and night unto him, though he bear long with them? [8] I tell you that he will avenge them speedily. Nevertheless when the Son of man cometh, shall he find faith on the earth? [9] And he spake this parable unto certain which trusted in themselves that they were righteous, and despised others: [10] Two men went up into the temple to pray; the one a Pharisee, and the other a publican. [11] The Pharisee stood and prayed thus with himself, God, I thank thee, that I am not as other men are , extortioners, unjust, adulterers, or even as this publican. [12] I fast twice in the week, I give tithes of all that I possess.


Now pray tell, are you a Pharisee or saducee Jesus spoke about here?

Now I see you were misunderstanding my initial post.....I never referred to tithe as mandatory as your statement shows"why are you mixing up cheerful and willing giving with 'madatory/threat/coercive giving called tlink?"

I never said or meant any of that....I simply said a true man of God,called by God can NEVER be against tithing.... Tithing is not by force sir

And I think you didn't read the link in sent to you....because if you did you wouldn't send me this epistle....

tstx:
http://listwand.com/2017/11/7-things-our-nigerian-pastors-can-learn-from-pope-francis/

So you haven't seen all these and more in Nigerian pastors.....

somehow:
I guess the disciples and Jesus weren't men of God then since they didn't give nor took tithe.

I fast twice a week and give a tenth of all I get.'.....Luke 18:12(by Luke)....here he gave


And when I was present with you, and in need, I was a burden to no one, for what I lacked the brethren who came from Macedonia supplied.....2 Corinthians 9:11(by apostle Paul)here he received


But I rejoiced in the Lord greatly that now at last your care for me has flourished again; though you surely did care, but you lacked opportunity. Not that I speak in regard to need, for I have learned in whatever state I am, to be content: . . . Nevertheless you have done well that you shared in my distress. 15Now you Philippians know also that in the beginning of the gospel, when I departed from Macedonia, no church shared with me concerning giving and receiving but you only. 16For even in Thessalonica you sent aid once and again for my necessities.....Phillippians 4:10-11,14-16.....here they received

You can go to this link (http://411tithesofferings.411-cashflow.com/ChristJesusandFreeWillOfferingsHeReceived.html) to enlighten yourself so that next time you do your research before you ask certain questions....

Do have a lovely Sunday

sobmos:
The world needs to read on a certain man named RANDI JAMES. A man who opened a 1million dollars trust fund, to give to any pastor,prophet, medium, or person that can perform a miracle in front of educated and learned scientists.

Can you believe that since 1964, No pastor or prophet has been able to come forward to claim the prize, because all of the prophets that has come forward were all debunked and caught in their lies.

Religion as a whole is biggest scam ever. Don’t misunderstand me. God is very real. But the issue is that, con artists came up with a plan to twist and turn the God’s words to their benefits and gain.

Think about it, some pastors are for Tithing and some are against it. So, God’s words is debatable now abi? Who’s telling the truth now? The pastors that are for tithing or those against? Na wa o.

No true man of God,called by God....can be against tithing...... NEVER....

If any pastor or true man of God is against tithing then he/she hasn't really studied the word of God

God's word has always been debatable right from creation...so all these whole talk about the word of God are not knew in fact more are yet to come.... Its all right there in the scripture.

NEHLIVE:
Port Harcourt-based business consultant, Winifred Iheoma Ofoegbu has declared herself as the Commissioner for Food and Drinks

Posting her official portrait in Facebook, she wrote:

"In a time when hunger and thirst are at an all time high, I will use my good office to ensure that people are well fed all the time and serve as an example to the world. And if you are one of these youth that are lacking ignorance and don't understand something then keep QUITE."

http://m.af1234.com/Af1234/details/lady-declares-herself-commissioner-for-food-drinks-shares-official-portrait

Keep quite abi quiet

Nedfed:
We both live in the same estate, her husband worked with a private company in Abeokuta while we live in Ikeja
For the past 3 days now she as being bringing me food cos she no am a bachelor and she do come to my apartment at times to play cheese and ludo.
The way she dress must time shows what she want and it also seems am having an affection towards her also.
Shud I go ahead?
Kindly advice

Should you be asking us?
Kindly advice you for what?
Are you OK?
Are your senses working perfectly?

HeWrites:
It’s December guys, and most guys are already dumping their girlfriends and giving weird reasons, and one victim of the season is a South African lady.

Twitter user @Miss_Neleh who shared screenshots of chats wrote; “wow. It’s really December guys”!!

http://www.torimill.com/2017/12/its-december-and-this-south-african.html

Don't see this as real...
I can simply arrange with anyone to have this type of conversation and put it online...

From all your comments I see no need downloading that video....

0temSapien:
so what is the purpose of church?

The purpose of the modern church in the life of the 21st-century believer is critical because it fills a void only the church can. If a car needs fixing, it is brought to the mechanic shop. If someone is sick, the health center or hospital is the best place to seek medical attention. Church is where people should go if they are in need of a “spiritual fix.” The curch is really a hospital for sinners and not an exclusive club for saints.

So why would someone want to attend church? Regardless of what is said about churches, people expect that their life problems can be addressed in some fashion or form. With all the weight and pressures of their world weighing down on their minds, people expect the church to provide Bible-based answers that no other institution can provide.

You vote a govt that collects your money (taxes) before the salary gets to your hand, yet in your wondrously, wonderful intelligence, you are on facebook shouting that pastors should
*fix roads
*build schools for free education
*build houses for people to live in
*bring back Nigerians from Libya
*give free food to the poor
*give free money for people to do business

Because some people willingly give 10% to the church. Yet the government collects 30-40% as taxes but I don't see us harassing politicians.

See, it will be great to borrow sense. Think before you speak.

For every pastor you hear doing a good thing in society, there are hundreds more that you hear nothing about.

But ultimately, the purpose of church is not to be a charity organisation. Church is a lot more. The church can do charity but it is not a charity organisation. It can do business seminars but it is not a business school...

#selah

biacan:
Why didn't he knelt down