₦airaland Forum

Beautykate:
I am writing to ask if you can help me to persuade my husband to do less around the house. I am worried that he is going to make himself ill from exhaustion. Also, and it is hard for me to say this to him without being hurtful, I married him for his fun personality not his work ethic and I fear I am losing him to domestic drudgery. I want an equal partner, not a slave.

We have a toddler and a baby, born few months ago. During the pregnancy, I was quite tired and run down and my darling, supportive husband started to do more and more around the house and with our son (and despite a full-time, responsible job, he has always done more than his fair share of housework). I am now breastfeeding the baby, which is tough because he barely stops feeding and won't really nap anywhere except in my arms.

So this leaves my husband doing the shopping, tidying, washing and cooking. He gets up at 6am every morning to get our toddler ready for nursery, with a packed lunch, and he drops him off before he can get himself off to work. Meanwhile, I just sit around feeding the baby!

I feel permanently guilty and as if the only way I will get my husband to do less is if I do more. The thing is that I can walk away from mess and he can't.

I hugely appreciate him helping, but, beyond the basics, would rather see him sleeping or even cuddling me on the sofa rather than trying to be on top of everything. I love my husband – he is truly the sweetest, most loving, most wonderful lover and father, but I find myself resenting the fact that I barely see his fun side these days because he is so tired that he is essentially ill – and I can't help thinking it is at least partly self-inflicted

Why don't you start doing these things with him...it could be fun....shopping, cooking,washing or tidying up the house together...

iykbethany:
I have just 3k and I want to cook soup that will last at least one week for a family of 12, that is me, my wife and our 10 children. My wife is 8 months pregnant and I don't want to disturb her. Please recommend the cheapest soup for a family of 12. Thanks

Ogbono...400
Smoked fish...400
Okra.....50
Bitter leaf.....50
1 crate of egg....1000
Salt&Maggi....100
Pepper....100

Total=2100

Then you can buy some snacks for your pregnant wife just incase she needs to eat something at intervals


The egg is in case the fish gets finished...you can boil to eat....

ublight:
what if she thinks i am chicken livered that i dont have the guts to ask her face to face

Then face time with her and ask her out...there's nothing wrong with asking someone out on the phone *especially when you've seen her physically* ...

Opeyemiebun:
Hmmmm, so I should encourage us getting 2 cars within the next 3months looking at Nigeria's economy and the need to have multiple source of income?.
Waoooh, thanks for the advice!!!

Based on the economy, why don't you get her the car and manage until you can afford to buy another for yourself.

kunleweb:
It is well. Is it CAN planned protest or a Christian sect. Let's fix this confusion

Its a CAN planned Prayer Walk not a protest

budaatum:
Actually, a person of his calibre should be advising the government instead of this silly protest of his. It's not as if he does not have access to those in power!

Sorry. But I am very not impressed!

You really don't have to be impressed because I believe that wasn't his aim.

And you think he hasn't approached the presidency?....

And finally, its a Prayer Walk not a protest!

degamemaster:
The right thing he should have done is to persuade osinbajo to resign in protest to the killings of Christians and others but it seems "Daddy GO" and his co-pastor's "hands" are tied.


Still observing though ...

Since you think that's the right thing why don't you do it?

.....and its a Prayer Walk....not a protest!

Op its not a protest.... Its a Prayer Walk!

Omoakin120:
Hello everyone, I have something bothering my mind for a long time which I need an advice on.

I have a girlfriend who I really love so much, we were friends before I started falling for her, we've been together for long, I enjoyed her company, she's the best woman to me, she's everything you'll love a wife to be in character, caring, love and all.

Unfortunately, I have a problem, and the problem is that, she's not that beautiful to me. I'm a kind of person that doesn't like trying what my mind doesn't fully want, whenever I think of her, it's only that aspect I don't always like.

I've always fantasized of marrying someone very beautiful cos that's what I want. The problem is that this girl is so good to me. I have no problem with her, but I'm only thinking I can get fed up of her with time cos of her beauty which is not up to my expectation and I may likely cheat on her.

Please, I don't know what to do, can I still risk being with her or leave her?

The question you should be asking is...

If you are the best man for her?
Are you worthy of who she is?

Because the only thing that puts you off is her appearance....*not that beautiful* like say you fine!....

You guys should stop giving yourselves unnecessary reasons to leave a good partner... Because in few years time na only una go come back dey talk say una make mistake.

See! If you honestly, truthfully and totally love a woman, her true beauty will radiate in a way you've never seen!

Innobee99:
I met this lady in 2015 though she was very young and still young. She's 21 while am 28. I love and cherish her so much and despite her flaws she's the one I find comfortable to spend my days with. We have been having a lot of relationship issues which we do settle.

There are many issues she puts on which I won't want to mention here cuz I overlook her flaws and focus on her good side.

The problem is it seems she's not ready for marriage at all or maybe because she's still young and want to fulfill her youthful desires. Always want to be a slay Queen, contesting for beauty pageants even without my knowledge.

I have talked to her severally about my desire to marry her but only nod her head in affirmation but I think she's really not ready.

OK, last year we had a serious issue which we broke up cuz it was a real family war. But we later came back to together again despite I was not at fault and cuz of the love I have for her, I went to her mum to apologize over the issue so we can be one again. I told this lady to also visit my mum and apologize too but she has been procrastinating for a year now. She has not visited my family house over the year. Whenever I confront her on why she don't want to reconcile with my family, she will give flimsy excuses of been busy. How can one be busy for a whole one year to say sorry even if it's on phone.

Now, I met a lady few months ago, and I love her so much and she's ready to settle down with me next year December. And I knw this my stubborn babe is a very jealous type and I don't knw how to handle the issue and let her go since I have seen someone who's ready to settle down with me.

My babe is only interested in u flexing with her like taking her out to eateries, lodging her in a hotel for fun, buying her gifts without spending her own kobo on u (I can swear to that). Last year, I spent alot on her birthday but wen it was my birthday, the total of what she got for me was N700. N200 perfume and N500 Nivea Roll on. But that's not my business sha.

For example, this new babe requested me to give her 2k to make her hair for an event in Church which I bluntly ignored her just to test her, not that I don't have the money. Can u believe that this babe have even forgotten she asked me the money? And she talks to me perfectly on phone. She was like babe, if u don't have money don't stress urself ooooo, I'll repackage my hair and still look good to Church. If u don't send my babe money before the due time, she'll stop calling u.

The new babe is not after money or material things. Though I'll send her a reasonable amount today. Unlike my babe, who will bring down hell if u don't send her money before the deadline. Can u believe that in August, she had already brought her christmas list to me to check?

To cut all these short, I need mature mind on what to do on this cuz am confused. U can pour ur insults cuz I don't even bother abt that as far as I get the advise I want.

Stay blessed my beautiful NL family.

It's always better to end a relationship before you start another...

It's always possible that you will find the new girl more appealing to the one you already have...

You were not bold/confident enough to end the one you had cos you just wanted to still have someone at hand... *you have issues with decision making when it has to do with what you actually want*....fix it

You have to call her and talk to her and end things up with her if that's what you want...its obvious that you don't feel comfortable with her and you don't compliment yourselves enough.

Zhuhilat:
It is very easy to say stay, work on it, watch war room. Nobody knows how it feels LITERALLY.
. It is well.

Thanks for the Advice or constructive criticism, I appreciate.

...i once asked a critical question in a bible study one day about marriage and they just kept giving me answers like you've just read here...by the time I took them deeper into the question they all got stuck and started asking me what do I think the solution is...

...truth is that most of us don't try to place ourselves in this person's shoes/situation, we just look at it from the outside and then start saying things which we can never do when we find ourselves in that same situation or even less than that...

...words are very hurting, they're just like beatings too; your husband is not ready to stop, infact he enjoys it and feels that you can do nothing about it and that is why it has continued.

...i won't advise you to leave your marriage NO!...but I can advice that you need space/ a change of environment, to fully recover from what you've been through in the last two years...your mental state has to be refreshed.

...i have seen women that have had this your experience and have tried to make it work...more than 10years down the line...the men have become worse
...there are also situations whereby the men have become better

...you don't have to look to someone else for love, comfort care or attention...Look unto God...theres this peace that passes all understanding that He gives to as many who are willing.

...for whatever you decide to do that is right to God, he will lead you.

blackboy:
Madam. You are a married woman! A wife ! A mother! You are talking of seeking attention outside. Which is worse? A child seeing her mother a good example of a mother n wife while her husband is not appreciating her 100% or a case she sees her mother as a slut whom her husband does not appreciate?
Madam make it work. He no beat you. No carry you hand commot from house again. Make it work. A man you can ask to buy baby food means you can talk to him. Sit him down and talk to him

Words said CAN NOT be taken back, they leave scars just as beatings does; it's very obvious she's trying to make it work.

He needs to try to make it work....they need a counselor

Rach111:
I dated my ex for 6yrs. Who was never proud of me, can't even post my pics on any social media, even the day I did he got angry and removed it.

Have never cheated on him because I hate double dating. Am a virgin and he was a virgin then. we promise to wait till marriage which made me to love him more. I always cook, clean do everything as if I was his wife.

But this guy never showed any signs that he will want to marry me. If I bring it up he keeps quiet over it.

After graduation we came back to Nigeria my grandmother who was like my mother because she was the one who took care of me, was sick I was in the hospital with her for 1 month he never showed up despite the fact that his house was close by. I saw so many signs that I was only wasting my time because he hardly calls even before then we had issues about a girl in his room which he denied everything yet I let it go because of love.

So through my savings from university I went to Dubai got a good job decided to forget about him for good and started dating a Canadian guy who was really nice to me and was willing to wait but my problem with him was that he always calls me sexy and shapy, big botty girl which made me feel like he was after my body because he was always telling me he can't wait to have me on his bed because he feels am too sexy.

Yes, I have great body no doubt, I became confused of the situation and decided to break up that was when my ex started begging for forgiveness that now his working in the bank and his planning to settle down by 2020.

My grandmother died I went to Nigeria and we met I realized he has slept with different girls and was even hiding his phone from me. Acting strange so I came back to Dubai continued my work and the white guy was trying to come back that he won't say things like that because he knows am different but the truth of the matter is that I don't even have any single love for the white guy. I still love my ex but my ex keeps talking to me like am a trash, I got angry and blocked him but he sent me massage on Facebook saying am childish and called me names this is someone who can never say things like that to me before but now he talks to me anyhow without respect because he feels am desperate for marriage because I always want to get married early, am in my early 20's.

Due to the situation all the guys both white and blacks asking me out for serious relationship have said no to all because I feel I can't love anyone again in my life because of my ex I don't know if am in my right senses have tried possible ways to forget him, I deleted all his pictures on my Facebook, always watching movies yet nothing seems to work.

Now am thinking of traveling to any European country look for a good white man so I can forget about him because I know I deserve better than him. I need advice if dating another guy mostly white can make me forget him or it might make things worst since am doing it because am trying to forget him.

Deal with your past properly before you get into any other relationship. Dating someone else to get over what you have is very wrong...it will ware off and your eyes will be so clear that you made a mistake.

So deal with whatever your struggle is now, focus on yourself, heal properly, know what you really want for you and don't just jump at anything that comes your way.

ellalina:
My male bestie confided this in me too. He is also a Nairalander.



I run a sharwama and agent bank outlet for over 3 years and it’s been a good business experience for me expect trust issues with my sales Girl. I have sacked over 6 girls in space of 2 years for attitude and fraud related cases.

One of the days when I have to stay at the shop because my sales girl did not come to work, a young lady walked in with her CV. She said she saw my vacancy outside, I collected her CV and went through it. She is a 22 years old ND holder who studies communication.

I asked her why she would not return to get her HND. She replied that she wants to continue at the National open university where she can work and learn.
I have her 1 week trial and that is the beginning of good things in my business.

She is so consistent, All customers I mean all of them always leave a good remark about her and why they keep coming back. When ever I return from my office to the shop, I notice how people keep giving her tips and she declares it everyday but I don’t collect it from her. Sometimes she makes up to 5K daily in tips.

Fast forward 1 year, I have taken another shop and expanded my business. I cannot remember the last time we recorded shortage in the shop. My business has become so profitable that Am thinking of quiting my job to expand the business as my salary is like 20% of what the shop now makes for me.

To reward her, I picked interest in her education, I bought her the direct entry form at the open university and she has started.

These days I noticed she has suddenly changed towards me. She doesn't ask how my day was, she avoids me and don’t look into my face when we talk. I was really worried because I have grown fond of her. I have admired her as a lady but I maintained a professional relationship.

There are times I want to ask her to follow me to events and outings but I keep controlling my urge. She called that her mum was sick so she would not be available. I decided to surprise her by paying her a visit, she could not believe her eyes when she saw me at her door step with a bag of provisions in my hand. I greeted the mum. The woman prayed for me a lot before I took my leave.

On getting home, I could not understand myself anymore. My experience at her home further boost her interest in my heart. I could not sleep that night so I picked my phone to chat with a random friend online. I saw Lucy was online too. So I called her at about 12:30 am. I asked her why she is not asleep. She said she has an emotional support that has been bothering her for days. I tried to convince her to tell me but she declined, I figured it’s about a guy although I never saw her with a guy or call one at work.

I told her I was worried too and she is the cause. I told her how she has been of immense blessing to my life and how I wish she would play a bigger role in my life. She went silent. She later hung up and turned her phone off.

She called in the morning to apologize for cutting the call. By evening, I was back at the shop. I opted to drive her home but she refused. This was very unlike her so I insisted. As we approached her neighborhood,I parked under a roadside tree. I asked her to open up to me what the issue with her was.

To my greatest shock, Lucy confesses that I was the cause of her issues. I went quiet for a while trying to figure out what she meant. I asked again how am I the cause, at this moment her eyes were laden with tears Lucy told me she could not stop thinking about me and can’t control herself around me. She said she is confused because the feeling she is having for me get her scared.

While I sat and steer at her, I knew I felt exactly THE same way for her. This time I was the quiet one. I just drove her home and back.

I am 29 and she is now 23 going to 24. I have a job and a good business. Why can’t I marry her.

She has helped me grow my business. She is adorable and well trained. I want to ask her to marry me any moment. I am strongly convinced that we can grow together and build a good business network.

What do you guys thing. Is this a wise move?

Go ahead!

landmark86:
Married last month and still find is way into the house.
You leave ur wife @ home 2 fvck anoda pvssy outside, if sum1 fvck ur wife too b4 u return we will not listen 2 ur story oooo.

Later dey will say dey rape her

Meanwhile, am still surprise 4 wat he's looking for in the BBN

It's not really about what he's looking for but what the organizers are looking to gain from the show....wont be surprised if most of the house mates were paid to be on the show.

itspzpics:
A Corp member posted to Sokoto State for his NYSC, has died at the #Wamako Orientation Camp, and his colleagues are saying it was due to negligence.

Fortune Ihe aka Biggie died around 11:30pm yesterday, April 14, 2019, after days of allegedly complaining of headache and general body pains.

According to other Corp members who protested today, the deceased had been going to the camp clinic to complain, but no one took his case seriously.

Gist From Praizenews ; http://www.praizenews.com/corps-member-dies-in-camp-due-to-alleged-negligence/

To all these bloggers it shall be well with you all

Una go just carry news anyhow waka, una no go get better info first.

You guys should stop painting other people/organisation bad all because of attention.

Go and get the real gist of this.

May his soul rest in peace.

Famousbabe:
After sex video of IPOB leader, Nnamdi Kanu and wife chilling in bed and discussing about their sex lives went viral yesterday.

IPOB members have reacted to the after sex video. Some are wondering if it's a crime to have sex with one's wife. While some others are blaming APC government for the leaked video.

An IPOB member, Alphonsus Uche Okafor-Mefor, reacting to the video wrote:

"The video making rounds about the leader of IPOB, Mazi Nnamdi Kanu is not new, it has been in circulation since 2013/2014 and as such nothing to be surprised about. Be advised accordingly, though, that this is a video of husband and wife (Mazi Nnamdi Kanu and our own Mrs Uchechi Okwu-kanu). We note that employing of this cowardly conduct remains in the circumstances the only response-and-panic-control strategy from the already destabilized, panicky Aso Rock cabals and their e-rats to try to regain their battered and tattered image. These hopelessly hopeless retards hacking, invading the privacy of the unstoppable Mazi Nnamdi Kanu would bring the zoo to her knees more than ever before. We challenge these charlatans to publish the videos of their wives.

WHAT YOU CAN DO

Anybody sharing that video is an agent of the zoo called Nigeria, report them on both Facebook and any platform they are operating on and more importantly block them. Be rest assured that we shall unmask the perpetrators behind the fake facebook accounts."

Watch the full video below and see more reactions from IPOB members....

See more

Source: http://www..com/2019/04/ipob-reacts-to-video-of-nnamdi-kanu-and.html?m=1

My only question is how did the video get to the general public from their phone?

There's no need to blame APC or any other person.

starring:
Good day fellow Nairalanders

I met this girl last year July through a good friend, while I was oversees, we started e-dating and everything went smoothly although, we had series of misunderstandings during December last year but we resolved it afterwards

She called me and told me to me about a particular guy that comes to sleep at her room (she's still schooling), she said the guy was her cousin. I had to believe her because according to her, he is a cousin and I don't think they will be romantically involved in anyway.

The guy slept in my GF's room 3 different times that I'm aware of. He spent 5days the first time, the second time he spent close to a week, the third, he slept and left the following day. She told me each time the guy was visiting, this made me trust her and believed that the guy was her cousin.

My GF and I had a serious argument and misunderstanding this January, my girlfriend's brother had to step in and begged on her behalf. GF's brother and I spoke at length and I used that opportunity to ask my GF's bro about the guy my girlfriend introduced to me as her cousin.

Her brother told me they are not related by blood in any way, that they are JUST close family friends and nothing more and moreso, the guy in question once asked my gf out but due to the closeness of the family, my guy's mum playfully declined the request. Immidately he said this, my blood pressure increased, my heart beat increased 100x faster, one million and one thoughts ran through my head.

Though, I once asked her why the cousin always come to her room and stay longer period of days before leaving, the answer she gave me was that the guy is a serving corps member and whenever he wants to visit his family, he branches to her place and spend some time with her before going home (when I was in Nigeria, I do visit my cousins and spend time with them before leaving so I had no issues with the guy coming over if truly they are related)

To cut the long story short, I asked her about the true identity of the guy, she told me the truth and she swore that they did nothing during her so called 'cousin' numerous sleepovers in her room. I forgave her for lying to me and we moved on.

I got back to Nigeria last month and a source disclosed to me that my GF and her 'cousin' had sex more than five different occasions. (I don't want to reveal my source, my gf is an active nairalander)

I called her and told her about what I heard. She denied at first but later told me that they had sex 4 different times while I was away. (I'm dead sure it must be more than 4 times) She said they made out when we had issues during the December time. If this is true, they had sex 4 DIFFERENT OCCASIONS within the space of 31 days. (if not more than 10 times sef)

I'm so devastated right now. We saw over the weekend, she wasn't feeling too well, I picked her from her school to the school hospital and later brought to my house. She spent the night at my place and begged me all through the night for me to forgive her and that she is truly sorry for the pain she caused me, she also begged in the car with tears and mucus all over her face while I was dropping her off to her place. She said she is a changed person and that her life will be meaningless if I leave and that everybody deserves a second chance.

I honestly don't know what to do at this juncture. I don't tolerate infidelity of any kind more reason why I'm straightforward and loyal to her. I told her I have forgiven her because she wouldn''t leave my car if I don't forgive her. She kept crying and crying making passers-by wonder if I'm trying to kidnap her or something, I felt uncomfortable with the whole situation. The truth is that my heart is far from her the very moment she admitted to having sex with the guy while in a relationship with me. I find it highly disturbing.

How do I leave her without making her hurt herself because she may get herself killed once it's obvious that i am gone for good and secondly, if truly she's changed, is her sin really forgivable and forgettable?

Every sin is forgivable if not we wouldn't be alive today.

If you're no more in it, at a later time let her know in a polite manner and end it up with her, however you put it... She might not take it well.

BobbyJayAms:
My girlfriend said no kissing, hugging talk more of sex only communication. But she will one day since six months now but anytime I stop talking to her and she sees me with other girls she gets angry and jealous. Am thinking of ending d relationship. Will it be cool?

End it up if you're not comfortable with it....

But that would be a really interesting relationship...

Where can I find girls like that?

latexxbro:
Let's say you have a chance to spend one day with one Bible character, who would you gladly choose maybe because of a reason and maybe you can also state your reasons for choosing him/her.


Mine should be Elijah or King Solomon but since its only one person required, then I will gladly choose Elijah.

Reason.. How can a man command Fire and also fly up to heaven without dying with that level of closeness to God. Seriously I would really love to spend a day with him.
Let's hear your thoughts.
Happy sunday.

Job

greatman55:
Which one is more important and also the life support in any relationship

1.Sex

2.Communication

3.Romance

4.Trust

5.Faithfulness

Communication...
It can lead to
Faithfulness then trust then romance then sex...because all the others need good communication to be effective

izzy4shizzy:
I have been thinking about paying of tithe and I have been caught in between two thoughts, now is paying of the 1/10th of ur earnings to the church that is referred to as tithe only or paying that 1/10th to some other purpose which u feel more satisfied with..

For example, would it also be tithe if I give my tithe to someone sourcing for funds to treat a terminal illness?

Because sometimes, I don't really think the church needs my tithe but they stress so much about paying. Now the million dollar question is, is it paying of tithe i.e one tenth of ur earnings generally to whatever purpose you see fit or paying it to the church

You don't pay tithe,you give tithe. Giving your tithe is different from charity, if you want to just give to someone do it but don't call it tithe because you will be deceiving yourself.

Wondering if the church needs your tithe or not is something you shouldn't bother yourself about. With/without your tithe the church will still grow/move forward.

Stop looking at the strength of the church or things around you to decide what to do with your tithe.

Take your Bible ask the Holy Spirit for direction, insight and understanding...ask the Holy Spirit questions and your answers will be revealed to you.

No matter what happens /what anyone says can't stop me from giving my tithe to God and also my reason can't totally convince you to give yours, you need to have your personal conviction and when you start abiding by it am sure you will come back to share it with us

Doerstech:
Yes, but he won't become even if Atiku goes East for VP..he needs someone with more clout

So it will be either of

Ngozi

Peter Obi

Soludo

or

Adesina.,....(SW)



It will be any of these 4...

I have nothing against youthful Chidoka who will definitely represent the SE well...but aside youthfulness where else does he fit into the criteria lay down for Atiku VP? on the economy and international reach? that's where NOI, Obi, Soludo and Adesina comes in....

Ngozi is from the south south

LaBozz:
I have been dating this girl for almost a year now and things have been going smooth with us until recently. I just don't know were the desperation for marriage came from. Now we barely have a normal conversation without the marriage issue coming up.

Though I don't have a steady job per say, I am a business man and am able to make myself a good some of money every week which isn't so bad. She is also working and makes around 60k every month. I have been telling her to relax a little bit so we can plan properly and get ourselves ready for the life time journey together, but she won't listen.

Her own is that in her place once a girl has graduated from school everyone is expecting her to get married. She will even bring up issues of the young girls getting married in her church and she is the only single were she works even though she is actually the youngest in her office.

She is just 24 years of age and almost 25 so she keeps saying she set a deadline for herself to get married before 25. The worse part is that sometimes she tries to threaten me that so many guys are asking for her hand in marriage but she doesn't want them, its me she wants.

This whole desperation is getting on my nerve and I really don't want to rush into marriage because her people want her to get married. So am thinking of calling the relationship off so that she can go and marry one of those men she said is asking her hand in marriage and I will wish her all the best.

Just so you know, am not trying to be tribalistic here, she is Yoruba and said that's how things are done in their culture so I don't know if that's true or she is just making all that up.

It's not so it's done in Yoruba
It may be the pressure she's having from home or the fear of you telling her it's over etc.

You just need to sit her down and talk
And if she's still insisting I think it would be better for you to let her go.

YOLO1:
Good day house.
Please, my girlfriend is having her birthday this month. Aside the normal birthday gift, I would like to get her some books on Family and Marriage. Would like to have some suggestions about nice literatures that covers marriage, family, treatment and understanding of the husband, the children, her role and duties as the wife to be, finances in the family and so on.
Thanks

Go get *BOY MEETS GIRL*
by JOSHUA HARRIS

And also get it for yourself
She will love it...

Thank me later.

enuk80:
Hello everyone,

I just want to know....why some girls who have serious boyfriends give their number out to another guy who they just met?

She knows she has a boy who is everything to her yet she gives her number out to total stranger who just talk to her on meeting her.

Is this really proper for a girl to give her number out when she knows she has a boyfriend?

Why can't she say no or sorry I have a boyfriend?

****after giving her number out to guys, they start asking her out and this create problems in her relationship.

It's very proper to give it
Your reason is just too lame.
So if favor com locate am e go tell the person sey e get bf...
I think you're not matured enough for a relationship if you think this way.

Yomzzyblog:
@YomzzyBLog.com

Twitter user, Adufe took to her twitter handle to reveal how she spent the 20k her BF gave her when she was broke.

She wrote;

"My bf gave me 20k because i was broke, i used 10k to cook two different soup turkey/fish stew for him, then i saw a shirt of 5k, i liked it for him so i got it for him then lastly i subscribe 5k mtn so i can Facetime with him..am i normal?"

Wow!! This left me stunned, her boyfriend must be proud of her(wifey material).

Gists via: http://www.yomzzyblog.com/2018/07/lady-reveals-how-she-spent-20k-her-bf.html

And right now you're back to being broke....
Nothing is bad with what she did, but if she kept that 5k for miscellaneous I would have given her 100% wife material....buying that shirt really, wasn't necessary...what you did for him with the 10k was ok...later when you have enough to take from you get anyother thing you desire for him/yourself

mystery22:
What kind of gospel songs take you to the Spiritual realm when you play them. those songs so touching that it make you yearn for God or salvation. mine are

frank edward- drop it at my feet
i don't know who sang this one, you are so glorious.. so glorious in your way...

You are Crowned by Faithful
http://818tvonline.com/2018/06/music-alert-faithful-banuna-you-are-crowned/

Olalan:
Dumb girl she's so foolish as to not have money to transport her self back to her base. Most likely she had a plan on how to spend the Bobo money very well not knowing she's been scammed.

And she took transportation from Abuja and she didn't know she was going to ogun like the drive didn't say it....

She's so dumb and acting like the driver planned with the guy to take her to ogun without her knowledge...

Johnnyessence:
[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font]Woman Who Said Even Though She Is Ugly Her Vagina Is Tighter Than Most Beautiful Nigerian Girls Shows Off And Kisses Her Oyinbo Boyfriend.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NZE2QQCQGus.

So oyinbo bf is now an achievement for you?

Vicrotica:
Suspected members of a notorious confraternity have been carrying on nefarious acts against the innocent students living around the Alakahia village of Port Hacourt. The cultists have devised a means of intimidating the lodge occupants and looting away with valuables. Due to the poor security settings of this remote region, which is close to the University Of Port Hacourt back gate entrance.

In three major incidents, these cultists have made their way into one of the lodges, broke into one of the occupants room and threatened him with guns and other weapons, they now manipulated the occupant into knocking on other inmates door with the pretense that he wants to see them, on opening the door, the robbers storm into the room and beat up whoever is in there and take all available valuables. The unsuspecting inmates would open the door thinking its their friend, not knowing that the robbers are hidden behind. They use cutlasses and sticks to beat up the inmates as they loot any valuable around.

This schemes have been employed to rob some lodges like Philomena Lodge, Ave Maria Hostel and many other student lodges in the Alakahia axis. This has created a state of unrest and trauma among students. The police don't seem to be interested in such case.

We call on the appropriate authorities to interfere and resolve this issue.

Source: https://www.codedgists.com/2018/06/how-cultists-rob-students-lodge-beat.html

I hope the authorities do what is necessary to create peace and safety for the students....

Op this one you used "inmates" so, are those lodges prisons or what?

FraNKAPP:
I'm frustrated. This is the third time that I'm facing this issue. I don't know what I did to my village people. �

Why is it that anytime I cook Egwusi soup, the soup will divide itself into two? The egwusi/vegetables/ingredients will go one side and the water will go the other side. Out of frustrations, I have finished the meat and I'm about to get rid of the soup now. I don't know what else to do. I'm frustrated.

Please, my people, I need your help urgently. How can I make a good Egwusi soup that the ingredients doesn't quarrel with the water? If you have the step-by-step guide on how to make a good Egwusi soup, please send it to me because that's my favourite soup. Make me, *Frank Umeadi* happy, please.

Note: This does not mean that I'm not a good husband material o. I'm just preparing myself and I believe that no time is late.

Thank you so much as I await your positive response.

Contact me next time you want to cook it I will direct you on how to go about it...