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Family / Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by fynex(m): 6:03am On Oct 14, 2019
blackboy:
Madam. You are a married woman! A wife ! A mother! You are talking of seeking attention outside. Which is worse? A child seeing her mother a good example of a mother n wife while her husband is not appreciating her 100% or a case she sees her mother as a slut whom her husband does not appreciate?
Madam make it work. He no beat you. No carry you hand commot from house again. Make it work. A man you can ask to buy baby food means you can talk to him. Sit him down and talk to him



Words said CAN NOT be taken back, they leave scars just as beatings does; it's very obvious she's trying to make it work.

He needs to try to make it work....they need a counselor

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Romance / Re: Ex Boyfriend Problem. So Confused by fynex(m): 2:19pm On Sep 29, 2019
Rach111:
I dated my ex for 6yrs. Who was never proud of me, can't even post my pics on any social media, even the day I did he got angry and removed it.

Have never cheated on him because I hate double dating. Am a virgin and he was a virgin then. we promise to wait till marriage which made me to love him more. I always cook, clean do everything as if I was his wife.

But this guy never showed any signs that he will want to marry me. If I bring it up he keeps quiet over it.

After graduation we came back to Nigeria my grandmother who was like my mother because she was the one who took care of me, was sick I was in the hospital with her for 1 month he never showed up despite the fact that his house was close by. I saw so many signs that I was only wasting my time because he hardly calls even before then we had issues about a girl in his room which he denied everything yet I let it go because of love.

So through my savings from university I went to Dubai got a good job decided to forget about him for good and started dating a Canadian guy who was really nice to me and was willing to wait but my problem with him was that he always calls me sexy and shapy, big botty girl which made me feel like he was after my body because he was always telling me he can't wait to have me on his bed because he feels am too sexy.

Yes, I have great body no doubt, I became confused of the situation and decided to break up that was when my ex started begging for forgiveness that now his working in the bank and his planning to settle down by 2020.

My grandmother died I went to Nigeria and we met I realized he has slept with different girls and was even hiding his phone from me. Acting strange so I came back to Dubai continued my work and the white guy was trying to come back that he won't say things like that because he knows am different but the truth of the matter is that I don't even have any single love for the white guy. I still love my ex but my ex keeps talking to me like am a trash, I got angry and blocked him but he sent me massage on Facebook saying am childish and called me names this is someone who can never say things like that to me before but now he talks to me anyhow without respect because he feels am desperate for marriage because I always want to get married early, am in my early 20's.

Due to the situation all the guys both white and blacks asking me out for serious relationship have said no to all because I feel I can't love anyone again in my life because of my ex I don't know if am in my right senses have tried possible ways to forget him, I deleted all his pictures on my Facebook, always watching movies yet nothing seems to work.

Now am thinking of traveling to any European country look for a good white man so I can forget about him because I know I deserve better than him. I need advice if dating another guy mostly white can make me forget him or it might make things worst since am doing it because am trying to forget him.


Deal with your past properly before you get into any other relationship. Dating someone else to get over what you have is very wrong...it will ware off and your eyes will be so clear that you made a mistake.

So deal with whatever your struggle is now, focus on yourself, heal properly, know what you really want for you and don't just jump at anything that comes your way.
Romance / Re: I'm About To Propose To My Sales Girl, Advice Needed by fynex(m): 9:38am On Jul 13, 2019
ellalina:
My male bestie confided this in me too. He is also a Nairalander.



I run a sharwama and agent bank outlet for over 3 years and it’s been a good business experience for me expect trust issues with my sales Girl. I have sacked over 6 girls in space of 2 years for attitude and fraud related cases.

One of the days when I have to stay at the shop because my sales girl did not come to work, a young lady walked in with her CV. She said she saw my vacancy outside, I collected her CV and went through it. She is a 22 years old ND holder who studies communication.

I asked her why she would not return to get her HND. She replied that she wants to continue at the National open university where she can work and learn.
I have her 1 week trial and that is the beginning of good things in my business.

She is so consistent, All customers I mean all of them always leave a good remark about her and why they keep coming back. When ever I return from my office to the shop, I notice how people keep giving her tips and she declares it everyday but I don’t collect it from her. Sometimes she makes up to 5K daily in tips.

Fast forward 1 year, I have taken another shop and expanded my business. I cannot remember the last time we recorded shortage in the shop. My business has become so profitable that Am thinking of quiting my job to expand the business as my salary is like 20% of what the shop now makes for me.

To reward her, I picked interest in her education, I bought her the direct entry form at the open university and she has started.

These days I noticed she has suddenly changed towards me. She doesn't ask how my day was, she avoids me and don’t look into my face when we talk. I was really worried because I have grown fond of her. I have admired her as a lady but I maintained a professional relationship.

There are times I want to ask her to follow me to events and outings but I keep controlling my urge. She called that her mum was sick so she would not be available. I decided to surprise her by paying her a visit, she could not believe her eyes when she saw me at her door step with a bag of provisions in my hand. I greeted the mum. The woman prayed for me a lot before I took my leave.

On getting home, I could not understand myself anymore. My experience at her home further boost her interest in my heart. I could not sleep that night so I picked my phone to chat with a random friend online. I saw Lucy was online too. So I called her at about 12:30 am. I asked her why she is not asleep. She said she has an emotional support that has been bothering her for days. I tried to convince her to tell me but she declined, I figured it’s about a guy although I never saw her with a guy or call one at work.

I told her I was worried too and she is the cause. I told her how she has been of immense blessing to my life and how I wish she would play a bigger role in my life. She went silent. She later hung up and turned her phone off.

She called in the morning to apologize for cutting the call. By evening, I was back at the shop. I opted to drive her home but she refused. This was very unlike her so I insisted. As we approached her neighborhood,I parked under a roadside tree. I asked her to open up to me what the issue with her was.

To my greatest shock, Lucy confesses that I was the cause of her issues. I went quiet for a while trying to figure out what she meant. I asked again how am I the cause, at this moment her eyes were laden with tears Lucy told me she could not stop thinking about me and can’t control herself around me. She said she is confused because the feeling she is having for me get her scared.

While I sat and steer at her, I knew I felt exactly THE same way for her. This time I was the quiet one. I just drove her home and back.

I am 29 and she is now 23 going to 24. I have a job and a good business. Why can’t I marry her.

She has helped me grow my business. She is adorable and well trained. I want to ask her to marry me any moment. I am strongly convinced that we can grow together and build a good business network.

What do you guys thing. Is this a wise move?


Go ahead!
TV/Movies / Re: Mike Edward's And Wife, Perri Shakes-Drayton: Meet BBNaija Contestant (Photos) by fynex(m): 12:09pm On Jul 01, 2019
landmark86:
Married last month and still find is way into the house.
You leave ur wife @ home 2 fvck anoda pvssy outside, if sum1 fvck ur wife too b4 u return we will not listen 2 ur story oooo.

Later dey will say dey rape her

Meanwhile, am still surprise 4 wat he's looking for in the BBN


It's not really about what he's looking for but what the organizers are looking to gain from the show....wont be surprised if most of the house mates were paid to be on the show.
NYSC / Re: Fortune Ihe: Corper Dies In Sokoto NYSC Camp Due To 'Negligence' by fynex(m): 3:22pm On Apr 15, 2019
itspzpics:
A Corp member posted to Sokoto State for his NYSC, has died at the #Wamako Orientation Camp, and his colleagues are saying it was due to negligence.

Fortune Ihe aka Biggie died around 11:30pm yesterday, April 14, 2019, after days of allegedly complaining of headache and general body pains.

According to other Corp members who protested today, the deceased had been going to the camp clinic to complain, but no one took his case seriously.

Gist From Praizenews ; http://www.praizenews.com/corps-member-dies-in-camp-due-to-alleged-negligence/




To all these bloggers it shall be well with you all

Una go just carry news anyhow waka, una no go get better info first.

You guys should stop painting other people/organisation bad all because of attention.

Go and get the real gist of this.

May his soul rest in peace.
Politics / Re: IPOB Members React To Video Of Nnamdi Kanu, Wife Talking About Their Sex In Bed by fynex(m): 8:14am On Apr 12, 2019
Famousbabe:
After sex video of IPOB leader, Nnamdi Kanu and wife chilling in bed and discussing about their sex lives went viral yesterday.

IPOB members have reacted to the after sex video. Some are wondering if it's a crime to have sex with one's wife. While some others are blaming APC government for the leaked video.

An IPOB member, Alphonsus Uche Okafor-Mefor, reacting to the video wrote:

"The video making rounds about the leader of IPOB, Mazi Nnamdi Kanu is not new, it has been in circulation since 2013/2014 and as such nothing to be surprised about. Be advised accordingly, though, that this is a video of husband and wife (Mazi Nnamdi Kanu and our own Mrs Uchechi Okwu-kanu). We note that employing of this cowardly conduct remains in the circumstances the only response-and-panic-control strategy from the already destabilized, panicky Aso Rock cabals and their e-rats to try to regain their battered and tattered image. These hopelessly hopeless retards hacking, invading the privacy of the unstoppable Mazi Nnamdi Kanu would bring the zoo to her knees more than ever before. We challenge these charlatans to publish the videos of their wives.

WHAT YOU CAN DO

Anybody sharing that video is an agent of the zoo called Nigeria, report them on both Facebook and any platform they are operating on and more importantly block them. Be rest assured that we shall unmask the perpetrators behind the fake facebook accounts."


Watch the full video below and see more reactions from IPOB members....

See more

Source: http://www.thefamousnaija.com/2019/04/ipob-reacts-to-video-of-nnamdi-kanu-and.html?m=1

My only question is how did the video get to the general public from their phone?

There's no need to blame APC or any other person.

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Romance / Re: She Cheated With Her 'Cousin'. I'm Finding It Hard To Forgive Her by fynex(m): 8:38am On Mar 21, 2019
starring:
Good day fellow Nairalanders

I met this girl last year July through a good friend, while I was oversees, we started e-dating and everything went smoothly although, we had series of misunderstandings during December last year but we resolved it afterwards

She called me and told me to me about a particular guy that comes to sleep at her room (she's still schooling), she said the guy was her cousin. I had to believe her because according to her, he is a cousin and I don't think they will be romantically involved in anyway.

The guy slept in my GF's room 3 different times that I'm aware of. He spent 5days the first time, the second time he spent close to a week, the third, he slept and left the following day. She told me each time the guy was visiting, this made me trust her and believed that the guy was her cousin.

My GF and I had a serious argument and misunderstanding this January, my girlfriend's brother had to step in and begged on her behalf. GF's brother and I spoke at length and I used that opportunity to ask my GF's bro about the guy my girlfriend introduced to me as her cousin.

Her brother told me they are not related by blood in any way, that they are JUST close family friends and nothing more and moreso, the guy in question once asked my gf out but due to the closeness of the family, my guy's mum playfully declined the request. Immidately he said this, my blood pressure increased, my heart beat increased 100x faster, one million and one thoughts ran through my head.

Though, I once asked her why the cousin always come to her room and stay longer period of days before leaving, the answer she gave me was that the guy is a serving corps member and whenever he wants to visit his family, he branches to her place and spend some time with her before going home (when I was in Nigeria, I do visit my cousins and spend time with them before leaving so I had no issues with the guy coming over if truly they are related)

To cut the long story short, I asked her about the true identity of the guy, she told me the truth and she swore that they did nothing during her so called 'cousin' numerous sleepovers in her room. I forgave her for lying to me and we moved on.

I got back to Nigeria last month and a source disclosed to me that my GF and her 'cousin' had sex more than five different occasions. (I don't want to reveal my source, my gf is an active nairalander)

I called her and told her about what I heard. She denied at first but later told me that they had sex 4 different times while I was away. (I'm dead sure it must be more than 4 times) She said they made out when we had issues during the December time. If this is true, they had sex 4 DIFFERENT OCCASIONS within the space of 31 days. (if not more than 10 times sef)

I'm so devastated right now. We saw over the weekend, she wasn't feeling too well, I picked her from her school to the school hospital and later brought to my house. She spent the night at my place and begged me all through the night for me to forgive her and that she is truly sorry for the pain she caused me, she also begged in the car with tears and mucus all over her face while I was dropping her off to her place. She said she is a changed person and that her life will be meaningless if I leave and that everybody deserves a second chance.

I honestly don't know what to do at this juncture. I don't tolerate infidelity of any kind more reason why I'm straightforward and loyal to her. I told her I have forgiven her because she wouldn''t leave my car if I don't forgive her. She kept crying and crying making passers-by wonder if I'm trying to kidnap her or something, I felt uncomfortable with the whole situation. The truth is that my heart is far from her the very moment she admitted to having sex with the guy while in a relationship with me. I find it highly disturbing.

How do I leave her without making her hurt herself because she may get herself killed once it's obvious that i am gone for good and secondly, if truly she's changed, is her sin really forgivable and forgettable?

Every sin is forgivable if not we wouldn't be alive today.

If you're no more in it, at a later time let her know in a polite manner and end it up with her, however you put it... She might not take it well.
Romance / Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by fynex(m): 11:31pm On Mar 01, 2019
BobbyJayAms:
My girlfriend said no kissing, hugging talk more of sex only communication. But she will one day since six months now but anytime I stop talking to her and she sees me with other girls she gets angry and jealous. Am thinking of ending d relationship. Will it be cool?

End it up if you're not comfortable with it....

But that would be a really interesting relationship...

Where can I find girls like that?
Religion / Re: If You.Are To Spend One Day With One Bible Character, Who Would It Be? by fynex(m): 10:26pm On Nov 25, 2018
latexxbro:
Let's say you have a chance to spend one day with one Bible character, who would you gladly choose maybe because of a reason and maybe you can also state your reasons for choosing him/her.


Mine should be Elijah or King Solomon but since its only one person required, then I will gladly choose Elijah.

Reason.. How can a man command Fire and also fly up to heaven without dying with that level of closeness to God. Seriously I would really love to spend a day with him.
Let's hear your thoughts.
Happy sunday.

Job
Romance / Re: Which Of These Is The Most Important In A Relationship? by fynex(m): 2:09pm On Nov 08, 2018
greatman55:
Which one is more important and also the life support in any relationship

1.Sex

2.Communication

3.Romance

4.Trust

5.Faithfulness


Communication...
It can lead to
Faithfulness then trust then romance then sex...because all the others need good communication to be effective

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Religion / Re: Would It Still Be Tithe If I Pay It To Someone In Need Rather Than The Church? by fynex(m): 4:55pm On Nov 04, 2018
izzy4shizzy:
I have been thinking about paying of tithe and I have been caught in between two thoughts, now is paying of the 1/10th of ur earnings to the church that is referred to as tithe only or paying that 1/10th to some other purpose which u feel more satisfied with..

For example, would it also be tithe if I give my tithe to someone sourcing for funds to treat a terminal illness?

Because sometimes, I don't really think the church needs my tithe but they stress so much about paying. Now the million dollar question is, is it paying of tithe i.e one tenth of ur earnings generally to whatever purpose you see fit or paying it to the church

You don't pay tithe,you give tithe. Giving your tithe is different from charity, if you want to just give to someone do it but don't call it tithe because you will be deceiving yourself.

Wondering if the church needs your tithe or not is something you shouldn't bother yourself about. With/without your tithe the church will still grow/move forward.

Stop looking at the strength of the church or things around you to decide what to do with your tithe.

Take your Bible ask the Holy Spirit for direction, insight and understanding...ask the Holy Spirit questions and your answers will be revealed to you.

No matter what happens /what anyone says can't stop me from giving my tithe to God and also my reason can't totally convince you to give yours, you need to have your personal conviction and when you start abiding by it am sure you will come back to share it with us
Politics / Re: Osita Chidoka: Atiku's Likely Running Mate. by fynex(m): 11:00am On Oct 12, 2018
Doerstech:
Yes, but he won't become even if Atiku goes East for VP..he needs someone with more clout

So it will be either of

Ngozi

Peter Obi

Soludo

or

Adesina.,....(SW)



It will be any of these 4...

I have nothing against youthful Chidoka who will definitely represent the SE well...but aside youthfulness where else does he fit into the criteria lay down for Atiku VP? on the economy and international reach? that's where NOI, Obi, Soludo and Adesina comes in....

Ngozi is from the south south
Romance / Re: I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend For This Reason. by fynex(m): 10:33am On Oct 11, 2018
LaBozz:
I have been dating this girl for almost a year now and things have been going smooth with us until recently. I just don't know were the desperation for marriage came from. Now we barely have a normal conversation without the marriage issue coming up.

Though I don't have a steady job per say, I am a business man and am able to make myself a good some of money every week which isn't so bad. She is also working and makes around 60k every month. I have been telling her to relax a little bit so we can plan properly and get ourselves ready for the life time journey together, but she won't listen.

Her own is that in her place once a girl has graduated from school everyone is expecting her to get married. She will even bring up issues of the young girls getting married in her church and she is the only single were she works even though she is actually the youngest in her office.

She is just 24 years of age and almost 25 so she keeps saying she set a deadline for herself to get married before 25. The worse part is that sometimes she tries to threaten me that so many guys are asking for her hand in marriage but she doesn't want them, its me she wants.

This whole desperation is getting on my nerve and I really don't want to rush into marriage because her people want her to get married. So am thinking of calling the relationship off so that she can go and marry one of those men she said is asking her hand in marriage and I will wish her all the best.

Just so you know, am not trying to be tribalistic here, she is Yoruba and said that's how things are done in their culture so I don't know if that's true or she is just making all that up.

It's not so it's done in Yoruba
It may be the pressure she's having from home or the fear of you telling her it's over etc.

You just need to sit her down and talk
And if she's still insisting I think it would be better for you to let her go.

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Family / Re: What Book On Marriage Can I Get For My Girlfriend On Her Birthday? by fynex(m): 12:43pm On Oct 04, 2018
YOLO1:
Good day house.
Please, my girlfriend is having her birthday this month. Aside the normal birthday gift, I would like to get her some books on Family and Marriage. Would like to have some suggestions about nice literatures that covers marriage, family, treatment and understanding of the husband, the children, her role and duties as the wife to be, finances in the family and so on.
Thanks

Go get *BOY MEETS GIRL*
by JOSHUA HARRIS

And also get it for yourself
She will love it...

Thank me later.
Romance / Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Give Her Number To Guys When She Has A Boyfriend? by fynex(m): 9:22am On Sep 12, 2018
enuk80:
Hello everyone,

I just want to know....why some girls who have serious boyfriends give their number out to another guy who they just met?

She knows she has a boy who is everything to her yet she gives her number out to total stranger who just talk to her on meeting her.

Is this really proper for a girl to give her number out when she knows she has a boyfriend?

Why can't she say no or sorry I have a boyfriend?

****after giving her number out to guys, they start asking her out and this create problems in her relationship.


It's very proper to give it
Your reason is just too lame.
So if favor com locate am e go tell the person sey e get bf...
I think you're not matured enough for a relationship if you think this way.

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Romance / Re: Lady Reveals How She Spent The 20k Her BF Gave Her When She Was Broke by fynex(m): 10:04pm On Jul 28, 2018
Yomzzyblog:
@YomzzyBLog.com

Twitter user, Adufe took to her twitter handle to reveal how she spent the 20k her BF gave her when she was broke.

She wrote;

"My bf gave me 20k because i was broke, i used 10k to cook two different soup turkey/fish stew for him, then i saw a shirt of 5k, i liked it for him so i got it for him then lastly i subscribe 5k mtn so i can Facetime with him..am i normal?"

Wow!! This left me stunned, her boyfriend must be proud of her(wifey material).

Gists via: http://www.yomzzyblog.com/2018/07/lady-reveals-how-she-spent-20k-her-bf.html

And right now you're back to being broke....
Nothing is bad with what she did, but if she kept that 5k for miscellaneous I would have given her 100% wife material....buying that shirt really, wasn't necessary...what you did for him with the 10k was ok...later when you have enough to take from you get anyother thing you desire for him/yourself
Religion / Re: Which Gospel Song Takes You Into The Spiritual Realm? by fynex(m): 3:37pm On Jul 22, 2018
mystery22:
What kind of gospel songs take you to the Spiritual realm when you play them. those songs so touching that it make you yearn for God or salvation. mine are

frank edward- drop it at my feet
i don't know who sang this one, you are so glorious.. so glorious in your way...

You are Crowned by Faithful
http://818tvonline.com/2018/06/music-alert-faithful-banuna-you-are-crowned/
Romance / Re: Lady Travels From Abuja To "Lagos" To Have Fun With A Guy,See What Happened.PICS by fynex(m): 8:15pm On Jul 21, 2018
Olalan:
Dumb girl she's so foolish as to not have money to transport her self back to her base. Most likely she had a plan on how to spend the Bobo money very well not knowing she's been scammed.

And she took transportation from Abuja and she didn't know she was going to ogun like the drive didn't say it....

She's so dumb and acting like the driver planned with the guy to take her to ogun without her knowledge...
Romance / Re: Woman Who Said She Is Ugly With Big Lips Flaunts Her Oyinbo Boyfriend by fynex(m): 10:10pm On Jul 08, 2018
Johnnyessence:
[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font]Woman Who Said Even Though She Is Ugly Her Vagina Is Tighter Than Most Beautiful Nigerian Girls Shows Off And Kisses Her Oyinbo Boyfriend.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NZE2QQCQGus.
So oyinbo bf is now an achievement for you?
Crime / Re: Cultists Rob UNIPORT Students' Lodge, Beat Them Up And Loot Their Valuables by fynex(m): 10:10pm On Jun 26, 2018
Vicrotica:
Suspected members of a notorious confraternity have been carrying on nefarious acts against the innocent students living around the Alakahia village of Port Hacourt. The cultists have devised a means of intimidating the lodge occupants and looting away with valuables. Due to the poor security settings of this remote region, which is close to the University Of Port Hacourt back gate entrance.

In three major incidents, these cultists have made their way into one of the lodges, broke into one of the occupants room and threatened him with guns and other weapons, they now manipulated the occupant into knocking on other inmates door with the pretense that he wants to see them, on opening the door, the robbers storm into the room and beat up whoever is in there and take all available valuables. The unsuspecting inmates would open the door thinking its their friend, not knowing that the robbers are hidden behind. They use cutlasses and sticks to beat up the inmates as they loot any valuable around.

This schemes have been employed to rob some lodges like Philomena Lodge, Ave Maria Hostel and many other student lodges in the Alakahia axis. This has created a state of unrest and trauma among students. The police don't seem to be interested in such case.

We call on the appropriate authorities to interfere and resolve this issue.

Source: https://www.codedgists.com/2018/06/how-cultists-rob-students-lodge-beat.html

I hope the authorities do what is necessary to create peace and safety for the students....

Op this one you used "inmates" so, are those lodges prisons or what?
Food / Re: I'm Frustrated! This Egwusi Soup That I Prepared Quarrels With Water. Help! by fynex(m): 9:49am On Jun 26, 2018
FraNKAPP:
I'm frustrated. This is the third time that I'm facing this issue. I don't know what I did to my village people. �

Why is it that anytime I cook Egwusi soup, the soup will divide itself into two? The egwusi/vegetables/ingredients will go one side and the water will go the other side. Out of frustrations, I have finished the meat and I'm about to get rid of the soup now. I don't know what else to do. I'm frustrated.

Please, my people, I need your help urgently. How can I make a good Egwusi soup that the ingredients doesn't quarrel with the water? If you have the step-by-step guide on how to make a good Egwusi soup, please send it to me because that's my favourite soup. Make me, *Frank Umeadi* happy, please.

Note: This does not mean that I'm not a good husband material o. I'm just preparing myself and I believe that no time is late.

Thank you so much as I await your positive response.

Contact me next time you want to cook it I will direct you on how to go about it...
Religion / Re: Fake Miracle: Should I Accept This Bribe To Do This Evil? by fynex(m): 6:20pm On Jun 25, 2018
Fakemiracle:
I am a hawker I hawk foam to clean car glass. On Friday this week a man met me that he will like me to do business for him. He said I should not fear he is not a 419. He then paid for all my foam and took me to a restaurant.
He said he just want me to come and act for a fake miracle in a church in Abakaliki. That they will make me up as if I have serious leprosy. He then promised to pay me 300k after the acting. but once I come to Enugu he will give me 100k. Then month end after the prayer when I come for testimony he will give me 200k. I can go and start a business if I want.
.
My friends I will not mention the church for now. Am to follow him on Saturday to the church for the makeup. Am seriously thinking. Guys should I go.? Will they kill me? Will God be angry with me? Please advice. We are moving on Saturday against Sunday.
Should I do this.

What if after doing it... It becomes permanent in your life?.... Will 300k treat you.... ?

For me I would say...Don't do it....
I know you're in it for the money...

Your conscience is disturbed that's why you made this post...
In case you decide to do it, just know that you will continue doing it for a long time....
Romance / Re: I Am In Love With A Woman With Three Kids. Please Help by fynex(m): 3:34pm On Jun 24, 2018
smoke123:
I am 32 now and she is 37. I met her in her restaurant where she helps her friend run the business. Now i love her so much but she left her 3 kids with her mum to lagos after she lost her husband long time befor coming to lagos. I had sex with her and she is very good and i have not married yet. What do i do now?

My mum will kill me if i married her pls member help.

Your mum didn't kill you when you had sex with her...

Are you sure you're 32 because you sound like 22....

When you realize that she's pregnant with her fourth child and your first child, hope you will ask mummy if you should accept it....

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Romance / Re: She Lied And We Broke Up Over The Phone! by fynex(m): 2:04pm On Jun 22, 2018
dukeprince50:
are u talking about Brazil match? I think Brazil match is 1pm, Nigerian match is 6pm

Nigerian match is 4pm
Sports / Re: The Most Handsome Super Eagles Players Going To Russia 2018 World Cup by fynex(m): 1:20pm On Jun 06, 2018
Romance / Re: A Guy Carrying A Lady's Handbag In FUNAAB (Photo) by fynex(m): 8:34am On Jun 04, 2018
Ennyhorlar:
Guys, is this Love or weakness?
According to what i gathered, they're just departmental mates but the guy is crushing on the Lady while the lady is bestie_zoning him

Is it your carrying?
Is it your shoulder?
Is your Gf's bag missing?

It's what he wants to do...

....approco.... undecided

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Celebrities / Re: Man Breaks Efe’s Album Like An Empty Soda Can by fynex(m): 8:28pm On Jun 03, 2018
eezeribe:
Everything about Efe must always be crude... His voice, personality, music... Just everything about him
He needs to be refined...
All those years spent in warri have really taken a toll on him...

POC.... ALL THOSE YEARS SPENT IN JOS...
Celebrities / Re: Man Breaks Efe’s Album Like An Empty Soda Can by fynex(m): 8:28pm On Jun 03, 2018
eezeribe:
Everything about Efe must always be crude... His voice, personality, music... Just everything about him
He needs to be refined...
All those years spent in warri have really taken a toll on him...

POC.... ALL THOSE YEARS SPENT IN JOS...

have you ever been to warri?
how much do you know about warri?

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Crime / Re: Man Kills His Friend, Rapes His Girlfriend In Front Of His Corpse (Graphic Pics) by fynex(m): 7:09am On Jun 01, 2018
stephenduru:
A heartless man has been declared wanted after he killed his boyfriend and raped his girlfriend in front of his corpse..According to report,he killed his friend following an argument.

Source: http://www.trezzyhelm.com/2018/05/man-kills-his-friend-after-argument.html

I just wonder what he was even thinking....some people are just really sick/heartless
Romance / Re: Blood Stains On The Floor Each Night With Her by fynex(m): 11:15am On May 29, 2018
3babes:
I had to create this account now.

There is this girl i meet in while leaving school, I love her so much but after a while i discovered when we sleep together in the room i will see fresh human blood stain on the floor. Most times two drop of blood stains. I ask her she said she never knew how it got there.

Leta she pointed accusing fingers to almost every one sharing the apartment with us so we started praying hoping that God will interven.
She is a good prayer who speaks in tongue, in fact that attracted me to her, cos she prays a lot, at times in hostel she can lock her self indoors praying.
As the year came to an end, all occupant packed out remaining just my friend and I, but still yet we still see the blood on the floor.
Then recently i got a place in another state then invited her to come and see me that same night i saw fresh blood on the floor, in fact it continued for 3 nights she spent.
When she left all blood stop, of recent i invited her again then it continued, I told her i won't continue with the relationship again.
She started accusing me of being responsible or I know something about this blood stain. She cried all through the night and slept out side


This blood stains drop around 10:30pm to 12pm that's what I noticed,
I have seen her trying to check if am asleep by touching at some point.
I have seen her looking at me at middle of night ( when got up flash touch saw fresh blood blood)

Each night if I wake her to see it.. After discussing she will just open her leg for all night sex (she gives me sex to forget all about that)
Before i sleep I will make sure i check every where, use net to sleep, mob the tiles, Check around for clues


But if am awake through the night no blood stains will occur.
This blood stain is bigger than 3 mosquitoes combine, so I have ruled out the possibility of that
It appears in same spot,at times on my power bank.
Most times if I woke up to clean first blood... Another fresh ones drops before morning



Go and discuss this with your pastor, you need deliverance...
Family / Re: 19-Year-Old Orphan Who Refused To Abort Pregnancy After She Was Gang Raped by fynex(m): 11:02am On May 29, 2018
Lakeside79:


Medical history

No adoption agency releases parental history

Get enlightened

Ok
Family / Re: 19-Year-Old Orphan Who Refused To Abort Pregnancy After She Was Gang Raped by fynex(m): 9:28pm On May 28, 2018
Lakeside79:


That's the great thing about adoption it is never revealed to you .. you just adopt a child.amd make the wonderful.child yours

Stop watching Nigerian movies they are bad for ones reasoning

Maybe you should start watching them It's good for your reasoning....it is important and necessary to know the history of the child you're adopting...get proper info ehn!

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