Mrbehave: My relationship with her is one and a half year and we are to get married by the end of this year. The problem here is that am only two years older than her which so many people complained that the age gap is too small that she will get older than me very soon, infact some thought that she is older than me.Our height are thesame and we are not short.
The man who married her friend who is two years younger than her is five years older than me.The boy friends of all her mates and friends are much older than I am.
My uncle who is a pastor advised me that he doesn't want me to be involved in extra marital affairs base on the fact that my fiancee will grow older than me and might loose interest in sex due to aging.
The problem here is that I engaged her early this year but right now I don't have single love for her that even when I travelled I don't want to come back soon cos i never missed her.This my fiancee started a relationship with a guy at the age of 15.The guy deflowered her at teen age, promised her marriage and dumped her after 8 years of being with her and married another girl and now is me her dreamed man who wants to leave her again, so difficult.I have never had sex with her, was only involved in a French kiss with her and sucking of her boobs.
When I started friending her I told my family that it was GOD who spoke to me to friend her just to gain there approval, can you see the confusion here? We live in thesame street with her just three houses between my house and hers and her mother advised that we should never let anything come between us as it may affect the both families due to the closeness.
So many were happy for her for finding me as I am the right man according to them since I have never been laid and I am 28.
I don't just know what happened I felt unattracted to her and lost interest in her and this has been happening for 8 months now but I hid it because seeing what happened in her past relationship I became afraid.
I cried and cried, prayed to GOD to make her loose interest in me but to no avail.The dowry will be paid this month, I don't like it but my hands are tied.
During the engagement my pastor and church elders were present and they endorsed it.
I don't have any problem with her just the issue of age and zero love that I have for her. She fainted several time because of her last break up, hmm am afraid.Please am tired I want a break up but I don't know how.
I would have loved to see your picture... Because am very sure that some women far older than you look younger than you are.....
You know cookie in empire series, she's 47 and recently got engaged by a man far younger than her....
Nobody forced you into this and you saw something in her that made you ask her to marry you, and all of a sudden all the people that didn't see what you saw are now telling you to end it up...all of a sudden you're using their eye sight to look at her....
I think you should give yourself another five years because you're not ready to get married... When you know what you want and can make those decisions then think about marriage!
HRHQueenPhil: ur bible advises u 2 get a wife. do so na.30+ means u are ripe for marriage. dont be too picky. she is a christian, laughs at ur jokes and is quiet is enof qualification
Getting a wife now wouldn't stop the habit, OP is aware of that and that's why he stated in his post that he wishes to stop it before he settles down...
Gullah: Is there anything wrong with an artist who sings 'worldly' songs to perform inside a church? What about the inclusion of comedians in church events?
I've keenly followed a trend in various church events where I've seen secular artistes like Korede bello, Waje, Omawumi e.t.c perform during service, Even when we don't have the artistes performing the songs themselves, it is no longer uncommon to find praise leaders in the church singing secular songs like Phyno's fada fada, Humblesmiths's Osinachi and even songs by foreign secular artistes like R.Kelly ( Storm is over & He saved me) during service.
Regular attendees of the yearly The Experience gospel concerts by The house on the Rock church can confirm that performances by secular comedians have become a regular feature at the concert and many of the other church events organised by some 'Mega' churches in Nigeria.
I must confess that at the moment I haven't yet come to a firm conviction on the rightness or wrongness of this phenomenon in our Churches so I'd rather leave it open for Christians on this forum to share their opinions on this issue.
So what do you think? Is it right or wrong for secular artistes and comedians to perform during church services? Is it also proper for praise leaders to sing songs by secular artistes during service?
OP..... HOW MANY SECULAR ARTIST HAVE BROUGHT IN GOSPEL MUSICIANS AND PASTORS TO COME AND MINISTER IN THEIR CLUBS AND OTHER EVENTS?
Former big brother Naija housemate, Gifty is out with another shade, and this time around she has done some homework about Davido and his girlfriend, Chioma's relationship.
According to her, Davido is doing all he's doing with Chioma for show, and she thinks Chioma is not happy with the relationship. Read as she posted on Snapchat below...
[quote author=Oreofepeters post=67638087]When there's no adequate flow of communication in relationship.
It becomes boring, frustrating and tiring. peharps this is common among the ladies (introvert type), to type long sentence na whahala (lol, gud, fyn, yes, lmao, ok, hmmn). And this attribute can be so dangerous ehn cos you won't know her next plan.
If I there's a girl am interested in and find out she's that way and I let her know and she still keeps communicating that way, I will just ignore her....its stressful when you're the only one talking or trying to initiate a conversation.
PrettyCrystal: The attention of the appropriate authorities has been called to the alleged corrupt practices being carried out by officers at the Nigeria immigration Service checkpoint along Maiduguri - Damaturu road in Borno state. According to reports, the officers are collect various amounts from citizens that do not have a National ID Card without giving them receipt for the payment.
Many online users who have witnessed the issue - confirmed the report as they revealed that the ''fee'' collection has been going on for years now without doing anything about it.
A Facebook user, Sharafuddeen Adam shared the news online. Below is what he wrote;
This shows a Nigeria lmmigration Service checkpoint along Maiduguri - Damaturu road specifically around Jimtilo. The officers are collecting N500 from those that do not have a National ID Card without giving them receipt for the payment. The vulnerable are the poor who use commercial vehicles. Those in private vehicles are not considered by these officers.
RECOMMENDATIONS: 1. Government should make more centers for issuing National ID Card so that every one will have access to it without hardship.
2. EFCC, ICPC, The National Assembly and Borno State Government should take proper measures to stop this corrupt practice.
aristocrazzy: We need to be logical here : According to her post they've only been talking, she never mentioned having sex with him or dating each other.. My point is this girl is totally wrong to have disgraced this man.
She did say they were together for a year....it means dating
She talked about the appearance of his m'hood....so they definitely had sex....
She didn't tell you to read from the bottom to the top.....
Amagite3: Former big brother Naija housemate, Nina has apologized to Bobrisky for shading her and Toyin Lawani.
Nina has now taken to Instagram to apologize saying she didn't know Bobrisky had issues with Toyin and she also doesn't like making enemies.
She wrote;
"I’m generally a cheerful person. I’m usually full of love, life, and happiness. I open my eyes in the morning and feel excited to be alive. There was a time, though, when it wasn’t so easy in the big brother naija house When blinking and breathing and speaking all took so much effort that I thought I may as well give up: I was in a dark hole of sadness and anger and confusion. I didn’t think I was gonna make it, but you rooted for me For the friend who stood by my side through the storm for you Bobrisky the person who could see through my darkness when I wasn’t able to. For the beautiful soul who believed in transformation, who believed in healing, and time, and growth. Who never once judged me for my heartache, grief, and anguish ,naevity . Who, when the world gave up on me , gave me a piece of hope, a breath of fresh air, and a tiny scrap of faith that things might begin to change. For the friend who was delicate with their words and capable of pushing me forward. Who didn’t mind what people where saying against me in dark corner, who actually stood his ground to help me You endured and took alot of insult for my sake,You pulled me through an impossible tornado that I thought was going to eat me whole. You loved me at my worst. You never gave up on me. You saw through my opaque pain. Dear friend, Thank you. But I'm trying to build up my life,I didn't know you had all this difference with Toyin Lawani,but then again when i found out i said to myself..i shouldnt involve myself it's between you two.. And am free with both of you..I hate having enemies.... I'm never ungrateful I have always been grateful for all you did for me and will always be.. I hope you see through my point and understand Thanks @bobrisky222"
zoba88: According to the story shared by Sam,Catholic priests all dressed in blacks staged a protest in Akure over the killing of 2 priests in Benue by Fulani herdsmen.Below is what he wrote...
'Catholic priests on a peaceful protest in Akure against the killings of Catholic priest in Benue and threat to the church and the body of Christ'.
[quote author=NwaChibuzor44 post=67012148]This was the only decent non-igbo contestant in the bbn house. Unlike the likes of oluwabamike olawumi aka bambam. Look at the likes of cee c and ifu, they repped the igbo culture well by not indulging in any immoral act. Ceec went into that house a virgin and came out a virgin. We igbos place proper child upbringing ahead of others. Have you ever wondered why yoruba girls have the highest number of teenage and unwanted pregnancies in nigeria? Blame their parents[/quo
have you ever wondered why we have more baby factories in the East?....
Nawa o....everyone is just giving this video different titles the first one I saw was that he was sleeping with two friends n when they realized they planned to deal with him.....now I don read say e give gel belle.....what would be the next one now
SingleDaddy: OK! , long story short, I really need advice at this point in time. I had an encounter with this particular alhaja, I hope that is correct, while i was in camp(Social gathering) , we eventually got to like each other, because she is always tracking me, while I stylishly do the same..
She's always buying me stuffs and surprising me with gift, and I endeavor to do the same.
After camping, we got to finally meet privately, and we had matured meeting between us. All this while, I never knew she was married, and she never talked about it.
Our friendship seems to be escalating quickly, and personally, I never prayed to have anything to do with a married lady. But with the way situations are, I'm stuck in between the hole of a niddle
She seems to be taking this too far and serious than myself... Please what's your advice and suggestions in regards to this issue.
I would like to quench the flame without breaking the candle.
You know what to do already
If you have to break the candle to quench the flame then do it.
Priscy01: A Nigerian lady has cried out after a man who promised her marriage if she allowed him to have sex with her has suddenly stopped mentioning about the marriage he promised her earlier after having sex with her.
According to the lady, the sex she had with the man leads to pregnancy, which will be due in a few months, but she doesn't know how to tell the man, he is the one responsible for the pregnancy.
According to Victor who shared the post; "She is just 21 and was promised marriage if she open her legs for him to bang her raw. She innocently believed his lies and opened for him. He ate her up over and over again and the thing entered. Now he is no longer mentioning marriage again. What do you think she should do?
Hear her: "Am pregnant will be due in a few months time but the issue am currently facing is that the guy that got me pregnant promised to marry me but yet until now he doesn't talk about marriage anymore. Plz what shud I do ?"[/i]
Ayodele70: Media personalities, Daddy Freeze and Ik Osakioduwa has reacted to news of the only student of Federal Government Science and Technical College, Dapchi, Yobe state who is yet to be freed, because she refused to denounce Christ.
Boko Haram fighters returned the girls to Dapchi on Wednesday, but Liya Sharibu did not make it back to Dapchi apart from the five schoolgirls who reportedly lost their lives.
Daddy Freeze took to his Instagram page to write;
"Sad to see this poor girl and her family go through this... - Where are all those thieving Daddy GOs on this matter? Oh sorry, my bad, it doesn't concern tithes. - The only Christ they are about is the one that fuels their jets, buys their Gucci sweaters and funds the tomfoolery their ridiculous doctrine has shamefully become! ~FRZ - #FreeTheSheeple"
Ik Osakioduwa wrote;
"This morning I pray for the brave young Christian student Leah Sharibu, still being held by Boko Haram abductors because she refused to renounce her Christianity. May God bring you back to us safely in Jesus name. I salute your courage. You are an inspiration to us all. #FreeLeah #FreeWorship"
Harbdulrasaq: Former Special Assistant to President Jonathan on New Media, Reno Omokri has offered single women advice on how to make their partners propose.
The US-based pastor gave the advice on Thursday morning in #RenosNuggets, his early-morning inspirational piece on Twitter.
Omokri said single women fail to get their men to propose because of giving them pre-marital sex.
He added that denying a man sex would only make him more willing to get married so as to have access to the sex.
It all depends on how much he feels about you or how sure he feels he has a future with the lady....if not when you deny him sex he goes all out to look for who will give it to him.....
Amagite2: Controversial OAP Daddy Freeze who unveiled his online church few days ago, has explained the aspects in which his church is different from others.
He wrote...
"I got a lot of backlash from people who said we shouldn’t have included the word ‘Church’ in our logo... well here is why. - If we read from 1st Corinthians the church was not a building, rather the gathering of the brethren. Each time we gather online, whether you agree or not, WE ARE A CHURCH! - ◄ 1 Corinthians 11 ► [17] In the following directives I have no praise for you, for your meetings do more harm than good. 18In the first place, I hear that when you come together as a church, there are divisions among you, and to some extent I believe it. - We need to rise above mediocrity and make things align with their true meaning. Church is the gathering of the brethren and by definition pastor comes from shepherd. - as a surname), "shepherd," also "spiritual guide, shepherd of souls," from Old French pastor, pastur "herdsman, shepherd" (12c.), from Latin pastorem (nominative pastor) "shepherd," from pastus, past participle of pascere "to lead to pasture, set to grazing - It’s our duty to align words with their true meaning and not allow the ‘world’ to define us. Because these words mean other things, doesn’t mean we are conforming to their acquired delineation, rather, we are reverting them to their true meaning. - We are TOTALLY different from other churches in the following aspects: - 1: We do not and will NEVER have a geographical location. The #FreeNation is located in Christ not in any temple. - 2: We absolutely do not collect TITHES, FIRST FRUIT, OFFERING AND WE NEVER SOW SEEDS! However, we receive donations towards specific causes and gifts to support the ministry which I have singlehandedly funded since inception. - Jesus and his apostles were supported by the Mary and Herod’s manager so giving financial support at your convenience is not a bad thing. - ◄ Luke 8:3 ► NLT Joanna, the wife of Chuza, Herod's business manager; Susanna; and many others who were contributing from their own resources to support Jesus and his disciples. - By gifts I mean things like smartphones for transmission, laptops, WiFi modems etc! NOT CARS, HOUSES OR DESIGNER CLOTHES. - 3: We teach the WORD of God not motivation/prosperity."
so his own is now called DONATIONS...its alright Motivation /prosperity is in the word of God...its just the way they preach it.... So I look forward to see the word you wanna preach about...
Johnnyessence: Former president of the Pentecoastal Fellowship of Nigeria and founder of The Redeemed Evangelical Mission TREM church, Bishop Mike Okonkwo, recently admitted he had been wrongfully teaching his members on the very controversial topic, Tithing.
In a video making the rounds on social media, Bishop Mike Okonkwo admitted he had in the time past preached frightening messages to his congregation just to get them to pay their tithes. He admitted that pastors conjur all kinds of things just to get their members to give tithe.
''If you don't tithe, things will be tight for you'' he listed this and some others as the erroneous words clergymen say to get their members frightened to give their tithe.
LifeDrama: As shared by Facebook user, Chinenye Blezoo
She wrote;
"My life page I mate my fiancé (now ex) on July 2014, in Lagos when I visited my sister, the visit lasted for 2weeks. Then on January 2015, we made some relationships definitions and agreed to take it to the next level. We vowed to always be our back bone, our watch words: BE MY LOVE FOREVER! FOREVER! AND EVER!!!
Not long that I mate him, he had business issues with his colleague which leads to his arrest. He lost everything he had. After his detention in police station, I contributed for his release to my capability bcs it was my first month at work, I sent the money to his uncle the same way I was paid. Had it been I had more than that of my salary then, I will give because I doesn’t sleep knowing fully well that my love was in sell. He went back to his village after his bail and joined in village hustle but it didn’t favor him, he told me that he wants to go back to Lagos but no transport, that if he can gets to Lagos, he has a friend to squat with while he hustle for living. I gave him his transport and little cash to feed with for some days. I love him because he is a hustler. I vowed to be his bone when he is weak, even without a kobo, I believed for a better tomorrow for us.
When he gets to Lagos, he searched for work and during the period of his searching for work, I was sending him feeding money for every 2weeks from the little salary I got. It took him about 6months to get work of which he told me to stop sending money to him when he received his first salary. Sometimes that he visited home, he asked me to complete his transport for him that he will send it back to me when he gets to Lagos and at the end he will not. Husband was coming for my hand in marriage but he refused letting me go, he begged me not to live him for another man. Even when I tested him that I was pregnant for the guy that was seeking for my hand in marriage, he asked that he will marry me with the pregnancy, which nobody will know he was not the one that got me pregnant unless I tell anyone. After everything, he visited my mum and begged her not to allow me marry another man, that he will come for me. My mum agreed bcs I made her believe that I loved my guy and can’t do anything to hurt him. At first, he planned to pay dowry on January 2017, but according to him, they didn’t close work on December 2016 so he was not able to come home. On April 2017, he visited and we had our engagement, from there we kicked off our marriage preparations.
On September 2017, he sent 40k to me to start buying things for our marriage, with it I bought some drinks for wedding and some inlaws cloths. I supported him with 40k which I used to buy ashebi’s cloths and my cloths. He called my uncle for dates and 5th January was fixed for traditional marriage, his plans were to monetize traditional marriage in a very low key and boomed wedding, so he also discuss some issues regarding to that with my uncle and they settled. He proceeded and called the vicar for wedding date to be fixed, thou the vicar frowned at fixing date with him on phone, requesting his presence before fixing the date. But he begged the vicar that I will come and represent him bcs he is so much engaged and at far Lagos while am at east and closer, I went and 6th January was fixed for our wedding. The vicar also told me the procedure I will go, the things I ll bring before bans of marriage and the rest of them. I got cert in church, I went to Local Government and made notice entry which they told me to come back after 21days. I did as instructed and they issued me another cert to take back to church, I took it back to church with other church requirements, 3times marriage bans was announce in the church.
I asked my hubby for more money so I can starts buying food items, he kept forming too busy and kept telling me next week to next week meanwhile marriage bans had started going on in the church. I kept asking him for money to avoid things not get too cost in the market because of Christmas, most especially rice and groundnut oil. He told me not to worry that he ll take care of those ones and any other thing that I was not able to do when he gets home, whether they get more costly or not. I accepted with joy and zero my mind in them.
On late Nov., 2017, I started having these strange feelings within myself, I asked God to show me the meaning. I called my sister and told her the type of feelings am having, she advised me to be calling my God whenever the feelings come. I equally told her to asked my hubby some questions, if he is fully out for the marriage…thou I can’t place the feelings where it maybe coming from. I also asked his closest friend Chibuzor Diala to ask him the same question. After everything, they both told me to relax my mind and move on with my wedding preparations, that my hubby assured them that no cause for any alarm.
Wow…I got so many favour for my wedding and I was able to raised 90k from family friends and brother, my loved one ordered for my decoration free, and another lover of me dashed me a bag of rice, which I told my hubby about them all. My hubby lives in Lagos while am at east, our marriage was schedule to hold at east so I was at the centre of the marriage plans. I used the 90k I raised to support my hubby in paying for wedding cake, cooking, wedding accessories and part of video/pix coverage which I paid 80% of the monies involved.
My lovely mum(God will keep you for me), in order to support her daughter’s marriage, withdrawn all that she had, went to market and bought all the ingredients that will be involve in cooking soup for swallow and ofe akwu. Bans of marriage was announced, he asked that I should designed IV and sent to him via waybill which I did, every notices both Local Govt, towns and villages involve, friends, colleagues in working places, fellow students, we shared our IV. He asked me to take wine and IV to parents of the day and chairman of the occasion which I did. He printed our wedding banner in Lagos.
MY BLACK 23RD DECEMBER 2017. On 23rd Dec., 2017, about 5:10am, my hubby called me that he was in the motor going to park to enter bus to east. There was this joy I felt in my heart, that in some hours, I will be with my man. I quickly prayed with him on phone for journey mercies and also asked my mum and father in the Lord to prayed for him. He said that he will call me when he boards a bus. I waited for his call from 5am to 7am, I became worried that my hubby who left to park 5am supposed to have board ticket even the bus suppose to have moved by that 7am. I picked my phone and dialed his numbers, his MTN line was not reachable and his Airtel line was not available. The next thing I heard from network was switched off (deep breath). His lines became switched off from that moment; at first I thought it was a joke. Each minute I became more worried, in total confusion. At about 3:10pm his friend from Lagos called that he was calling my hubby but his lines were switched off. With tears, I told him that it has been the same thing with me since morning. He quickly asked me to calm down that he will arrive by evening. I waited looking at darkness falling without my man beside me. I didn’t control my tears any longer; I wished and asked God that this should be dream which I will later wakeup from. I prayed and cried throughout the night till day; I kept calling his lines each minutes and second but to no avail. Who will rescue me from this…? I quickly called my mum that I’m sinking inside an ocean, she prayed till day…In the morning, I went out to Awka street, with tears I was looking for my hubby, crying bitterly and asking people if any1 saw Henry Uzoma…I became mad without help. His lines were switched off. I sat down on the street and called Chibuzor his friend, I asked him if someone accompanied him to park? The company bus he entered? And if also there was light at the night maybe he did not charged his phones. I also sent his friend Daniel to his compound with the same question. They told me there was light throughout the night till the time he left in the morning. That he did not mention any particular company he was going, that he only said that he will board bus half-way to Benin and from Benin to Onitsha. Nobody accompanied him to park.
On 25th Dec 2017, with help of someone I went to my village. The only thing I wished and prayed for was to die. At a point, I don’t kn what to think again, my brain was full with so many thoughts: Could it be accident? If it were accident someone could have called for identification. I keep on searching facebook for any latest accident. Could it be one chance? If it were to be one chance they could have taking everything he had and pushed him away, he has my number off head, and he could have called me by now. If it were the type of one chance that demands for ransom, they would have call to mention their amount. What could it be? My mind took me to rituals… yes!!! Rituals, they had carried my man and slaughter. Tears filled my eyes. What did I do wrong God why?? Why did You allow this to happen to me?? I was bitterly crying and killing myself…I wished to die… people trooping in to console me, my phone kept ringing every second, his friends in Lagos, brothers and relatives calling to kn if I heard any news from their brother. They all believed that I should be the first he will call if he is been release.
On 28th Dec 2017, I went to his house in the village and his people became more worried seeing me. I went to his mum and dad’s grave and cried bitterly. I begged the spirit of his mum to please bring his son back home (if only spirit sees and hears). His uncle assured me that all will be well. But there was one particular thing I kept observing, on 26th Dec, 2017; I noticed that my guy’s facebook messenger was showing active 20minutes, could this be true? I asked myself. Even the messages I sent on 23rd was delivered and equally read. I quickly checked his whatsapp, the message I sent was delivered but never read. It made me to send another message which was delivered and read in less than 2days. I became convinced that he was alive but at the same time doubting. Someone from his compound told me that he packed his bags to a girls house instead of coming to east, I said no that he cannot do that. A friend of mine who helped in prayer also told me the same thing as his revelation after the prayers, but I still doubted.
5th January 2018, my traditional marriage day. My clothes and that of my bridal train were down. My wedding cake, decoration materials, trad marriage accessories, my wedding gown and every other thing involved. I picked my phone and laid courses on him via whatsapp, that if he purposely did this to me, it will never be well with him… Lo and behold, Henry Uzoma seeing the courses I laid on him broke his silence and sent a voice message to me via whatsapp. Jesus it was his voice!!! What was he saying…Trash!!! No point, he was beating about the bush… I left my house to a far place the whole day. Naza nwanne m you are a true sister. Amaka my friend u really helped. Chikwendu thanks a million. Eby Umejike thanks a lot. Okey you are a darling. My dear sis Onyi you are the engine of laughter, you alwaz make sure I laugh even being difficult. Dear brother Kingsley, I love you a million times. My able manager Joe and wife I can’t thank you enough. My present oga and wife thanks for your encouragement. Chisom and Dindu I appreciate your love. My 2 big mummies Lady Eby and Mrs Ify I appreciate every bit of your time spent with me, trying so much to see I overcome. Sir Mmaduabuchi, I thank you so much, you really wished to change my heart of bitterness to happiness with your 2hands, thanks for everything. My big Daddy Ven. thanks for being there for me, your calls, words of encouragement and prayers always keep my life ahead. I thanked you all that consoled me. I love you all so much. I equally thanked those that gossiped, those that are still gossiping and those that will kick off their gossips from now, you shall carry on. Am not praying that this should happen to anybody, but in your gossips, remember that you may be a victim of this type of circumstance.
On 8th Jan. 2018, I saw a post from his wall saying and I quote; “Some people want me dead on 23rd December 2017, but thank God for saving my life, I will tell the story when I am fit” My man who posted on facebook about the people that want him dead did not call me, when I called, he didn’t pick even when he picked, he didn’t talk.
On 10th Jan 2018, I browse my facebook and saw a friend request with the name “Hmighty Uzoma”. I checked the profile but it was a brand new account. But because the account was bearing my guy’s name, I quickly accepted the friend request. In less than 20 minutes, I saw pictures of my man holding a girl very closely, and they were also in uniform. I quickly remembered the cloth, my hubby after sowing the cloth, snapped with it and sent to me to praise the style which I did, so the same cloth was a uniform sowed with this girl. I quickly saved the pictures uploaded it to his whatsapp and I confronted him…boldly told me to move on with my life, that God will not allow me to die just like that...
I felt down, I was very bittered and my heart was cutting very fast that I found it difficult to breathe… God showed me mercy through my madam, thou I developed heart problem but am healed now. I had picked the pieces of my heart and as I drop this pen, am moving on. Thank God for everything. It is well with my soul. Like a bird flying in the sky, am now free from every pains. I ll join the month of Match to match forward.
My fellow ladies, I believe my story will serve as an eye opener to you. When men are coming your way, be very watchful and careful, on 31st of Dec 2017, I was busy crying while he was in the arms of another woman romancing her. I found out that some of my evidence was upload on 31st of DEC by the girl. Create meanings in every step he make and be observant, I saw it coming, I felt it but I didn’t grab the meanings. Most of these men you see everyday leave fake lives, Most especially when they are a little far from you. I also advice you love with your head not your heart because your heart will get chattered over and over again. Thank you."
sexaddict08: She has been with me for the past one year....faithful n all that...she's almost perfect. 22 and Igbo, and has a good dress sense. Almost anything wey she buy they fit her oooo no matter how cheap. She's got that.
But, she no go school oooo. She can chat n read but not fluently. If i jokingly ask her a random question like 7 x 3...she may not know it ooo, even though she finished secondary school 3 years ago.
She sha love me die, and i actually opened that place... But what do u think of a future with her?? i need advice folks
If she's willing to learn why not encourage her to do that You can marry and train her if you're too scared of training her before marrying her There are many people that are doing well that didn't go to school... You can encourage her to learn a trade...
There are educated illiterates...when you go fit reason say this one just go school waste money... The only thing you seem to notice in her is her educational background... You are there to encourage and help her become better....
The other day we read about a lady(banker) celebrating her husband whom she used the word *illiterate* for... And after 5years she's still proud to call him her husband, though she encouraged him... So what would be your story after 5years with her?
Liliyann: Na local saving box sure pass as things dey go in this country. I can't be working and having monkey and snake enjoy my money,before you know it they will say ant swallowed CBN
Let's not hear that rats ate your savings in that box...
AfflictedOne: Good morning Nairalanders , especially doctors in the house. I have a very serious case of bad mouth odour that has persisted for a long time, at least 8years.
Sometimes I have to brush as many as three to four times a day and bad enough, it will still be there.
Occasionally, I remove some yellowish smelly stuffs from my throat and after sometimes I see them again. Also of late, I have persistent headaches even without fever, even when I wake in the morning expecting to be refreshed, the ache will still be there. I don't know if these are related.
I have seen two or three doctors and normally there give me antibiotics and recommend mouthwashes. Now it is still here an am worried and depressed.
I am in my late 20s and this has affected my life in ways space will not permit me to write. I just cannot function well anywhere because I cannot talk for fear of the odour. My social life is zero, and I am almost always alone.
Please advice me if you have or know someone who has experienced this, or you are an expert or you know something I can do to be free from this. Its so bad its the only item on my new year prayer. I don't want to spend another year in this. Thank you all in anticipation.
This is a new profile, just for anonymity. Please help an afflicted brother. Thank you.
I agreed with you but note that it's your friend we are talking about here and Para venture you'll be seeing her time to time and you will be feeling guilty. Come on bro tell it out. Dr. Ben Carson once said if you tell the truth you would have nothing to cover up the truth you said three year ago.
If I had a relationship with her and we parted ways and she ends up wanting to marry my friend I really don't an issue with that and I have no right to start telling my friend about what went on in my relationship with her... Bro there's no truth to be told her and there's no lie you're covering....
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