martyns303: I shouldn't have to bring this here, but I have exhausted other options.
mid last year I had to make an interstate journey and the only means available was by road. Shared a sit with this girl, around 28yrs old, tall and lighted skinned, didn't take long before we started talking. we got to our destination and thought we should exchange numbers, she was a lively person.
fast forward 2 weeks later, she called me that she needed to attend a wedding and that she's looking for money to buy "asoebi", she was like she wouldn't have called me if she had other options, i understand these things can be important to women, so I sent her N10k, she thanked me, called a couple of times to say hi.
Roughly a month after that, she called me again to say she went to visit someone in another state and what not and now she's stranded. I was going to say No, but my conscience won't let me, I tried to imagine if I were the one stranded like that, so I sent her money again. in all of this, I have never met her again after the first and last time we met.
December came and this girl called me to ask me what's for Christmas, laughed over it and told her nothing. she later sent me an sms asking me to please send her some money, at this point I felt I have had enough. I ignored her sms, she started calling me unending, sometimes I get as much as 15 missed calls from her. I blocked her number but then she would call with another number, blocked that too and she started calling me with private number. just this morning she sent me an sms saying why am I being WICKED. as in I don't understand, she's acting like I owe her or something.
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I am surprised at the number of people calling me names for helping someone. I wasn't looking to start anything with her, I have never given her such impression. I saw a grown woman who I felt was in need and I helped. I am no stranger to help, we have all helped people in different capacity, people we don't know, even here on NL, a faceless forum, people get help.
360frolic: The Bayelsa State High Court preceded over by Justice Nayai Aganaba has sentenced 30-year-old Victoria Gagariga to death by hanging for killing her husband, Henry Gagariga on the 4th of February, 2015, in their Bayelsa home.
In Delivering the case is said to have lingered for 3 years after the death of the deceased, the judge said the prosecution called six witnesses and produced seven exhibits while the defence only had one witness who happened to be the accused.
Going through the records of cross-examination of the witnesses, Justice Aganaba noted that all evidences provided by the prosecution team showed that the suspect was guilty as charged and other facts also confirmed that she was the only person with the deceased as at the time of his death and so she was the one that killed him.
The accused who hails from Brass Local Government Area and is said to be an employee of the Bayelsa Arts and Culture reportedly stabbed her husband on the neck during an argument.
According to the judge, Victoria killed her husband out of jealousy and obsession.
He said;
It is unfortunate that I can only pronounce the sentence prescribed by law. I wish I had the discretion to do otherwise. However, that discretion rests with the executive governor of Bayelsa State. I am only left with the compulsion to pronounce the sentence prescribed by law. I hope that person the discretion would look at the circumstance of this case and do the needful. I hereby pronounce my sentence. My sentence upon you is that you shall hang on the neck until you die. May the Lord have mercy on your soul.
When it happened at 6yrs you closed your mouth and couldn't tell your parents, you grew up and probably tasted more of it and now decided to paint the church as bad forgetting that you are the church not the building you see....
Nigerians on social media have already taken sides, with many picking out their favorite housemates already!
During the Launch show yesterday, 28th of Febuary, the Big Brother Naija Hashtag became a number 1 trending topic Worldwide, beating the grammy hashtag.
Now here’s the thing, folks on Twitter are already wishing one of the housemates, Tobi Bakre is sent packing already.. as he’s a “very popular” clubber, Big Boy and a show off.
Tobi Bakre is a 23 year old banker, who graduated from Unilag, and many are saying the broke the heart of many ladies in that school.
A Twtter user @ChiefWale_ narrated How Tobi also snatched his girlfriend from him 2 years ago.
Chatflick: Hello guys it has been a while.... Please how can someone cope with his girlfriend having a male best friend? From my own point of view, I believe the boyfriend should occupy that space. Most times I call, she is always with her bestie and he tends to listen to our conversation and sometimes even interrupt it. Please serious and matured minds..
PS: She tells him everything, he knows stuffs about her that I don't. I'm not scared of him taking her from me just that I'm not comfortable with it all all and I'm loosing it gradually.
Get your self a female bestie and do exactly what your gf is doing now with her....if she complains then you tell her that that's how she makes you feel too...
If she really cares about you, she would want to work things out with you and fix things up...if not its better you both end it up...
Japhet04: just by typing all this in a bid to corroborate the assertion of a lady has made me to undoubtedly believe that you are nothing but an ass licker seeking for notice
Japhet04: what does it matter, why can't you guys be sensible for once, I said that just as a way of introducing myself, I'm sure if it was quora this insensitive attitude from you would have not been displayed, if you don't have any helpful suggestion Pls kindly swerve.... Sorry for your failed ambitions in law tho..
You could have simply introduced yourself with your name... How does I am a law student help fix the issue....
You don't look like you need help though.... Work on your attitude, it looks poor in public...
IamHeWrites: A Nigerian Lady has taken to social media to share her thoughts and to advise men in relationships to stop acting single.
Making her stance known on Twitter, She wrote: “Please if you’re in a relationship. You should know you’re accountable to your partner. Stop doing things on your own. Don’t switch off your phone then come back like nothing happened. Stop acting single! If you’re not ready to answer to your partner, please stay single.”
She also asked ladies to never allow their men make them look crazy or turn them into mad women for wanting to know their mans whereabouts.
She wrote: “Ladies, don’t ever let your man make you look crazy or turn you into a mad woman for wanting to know where he’s been,why he wasn’t picking his calls, why his phone was off or who he’s been with. It’s your right to know. You’re not a NAG.”
Priscy01: A Malawi Facebook page posted this photo of a Police officer who seems to be forcing a kiss on a young girl at Bingu National Stadium in Lilongwe.
While some users called for the dismissal of the officers, others said there was nothing wrong with what he did as the young girl 'looked' willing and is not a minor.
Now you have given this interview the world knows ...what would people say about your kids.... The same kids you were trying to protect.... Abi since you are with freeze and you have a son for him... Does that mean you don't mind what happens to your first 3 kids?
I don't care about the judgement right now. drsteroid
Doctors, please help me and put me through my difficult time. I discovered that I am pregnant after a blood test, the pregnancy was not up to Four weeks because I was suppose to see my period on 6th of January. My last Period date was 14th December.
I took Miso-fem, 800mg vaginally on 9th of January, there was cramps and pains but no bleeding at all. I took the second set the next day by placing the tablets under the tongue and yet no bleeding. I was scared because there was serious pains but I did not even drop a blood.
On Friday, I went for Ultra Sound. The man that attended to me said that if the pregnancy is not up to 4 weeks, It will not show on the scan. I asked him if I was not suppose to see blood after taking Miso-fem even if the pregnancy is not up to a month. He answered affirmatory that I was suppose to bleed.
I talked to a Nurse, the Nurse advised me to get Cytotec. On Sunday, I bought Cytec. I used it vaginally as well, there was pains but no bleeding. Up till now, I have not bleed after taking Miso-fem and Cytotec. I have been doing exercise hoping it will push out the blood. What could be the problem? Is there any explanation for this? I have not see my period, no blood and my breasts are sore. Am I still pregnant? Will I bleed later?
Mods, I need you to push this to FP please.
Maybe the baby likes where it is and it's absorbing all the drugs.....
Just prepare yourself in case it turns out it's still in there....
Timkizzy33881: I'm married with a kid, we've been managing with hubby's salary nd I've been believing God for a job, now a teaching job of 30k came nd after all the expenses like TP, 10k per month, my baby's fee for d term like 27k, nd lunch am left with little or nothing. I'm tired of staying at home not doing anything or getting any cash for myself but the 30k pay is so discouraging... Am confuse whether to accept the job or not. What's your advice NL.
Thank you for that post@Vingeophysicist..and OP be careful not to vent it on the next girl you meet... Every individual is unique in their own way and this happened for a reason so look at the positives in the negative.... Don't fear women.... Respect them.... Trust God.... Humans would surely disappoint you....
Flickzvill: what if he used a condom? If its u will u use your naked penis to sleep with a LovePeddler cum inside her and still use the hanky to whipe off the pussy? tink b4 u type
What if... Means you're assuming so you're not sure... Condoms also break... Irrespective of all those.... Your friend is still a part of the ritual...
Be her initiator, teacher her, lead her and direct her and she will cling to you forever....thats if you also respect and value her in the process...
Virgin girls are usually drawn to their first sexual partners....thats why you find out that it's difficult for most of them to get over their ex or break up with their bfs even though they know he's cheating on them...
Your friend too is also a walking dead, because his fluid has been mixed with the girl's own, so whatever happens to those girls happens to him too...hope he wasn't so dumb not to think realize that he's using himself too!
bchi: Please nlander I need you guys help. I'm dating a catholic right now n am about to marry him, I'm scared of becoming a catholic member cos of my background ( the church am worshiping with), we believe in gift of the holy spirit and his presence in us. I dislike their method of worship and their believe. I don't know, how i will cope with him cos of his church... ... ... please mature advice.
It's better you talk to him and end the relationship with him, since you're not comfortable with his church... This is an area you would have considered initially, but it's not still late...
One thing I can't encourage or do when I get married is attending a different church with my wife... Some people don't have any issues with that, but to an extent it affects the home and the children...
ksbusari: I'm confused. Please I need your advice. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a while now and just yesterday she confessed that she had sex with someone I had been suspecting. She told me she had sex with that man for money knowing fully well my financial status at this present time. She begged to be forgiven but don't know what to do.
Pls help pls. This is a girl i really love. Everybody around me already knows her.
is everybody around you dating her too?
forgive her...we can not tell you what to do,do what you think is best for you.
A David Beckham fan, Jack Johnson, who spent £20,000 (N9.6m) on surgery to look like his idol, said his obsession nearly killed him.
According to Mirror UK, after spending several years trying to look like the football legend, Johnson said his unsuccessful bid nearly drove him to commit suicide.
Report said Johnson is now reversing his medical work and speaking out to warn others not to follow in his path.
“I tried to take my own life because trying to look like Beckham is a full-time job and is not easy,” he said.
“Trying to look like Beckham nearly killed me and I don’t want others to make the same mistake.”
In his bid to look like Beckham, Johnson, from Nottingham, England, had tan injections every month, as well as lip, chin and cheek fillers, botox injected into his forehead, and procedures for dental veneers.
The 21-year-old paid for the surgery using his Disability Living Allowance, by taking out loans and borrowing money from his brother.
He is now struggling to pay debts of £14,000 (N6.7m) and insists he has learnt his lesson, while he has stopped having all forms of surgery.
Johnson’s story went viral last year and he appeared in news outlets across 10 countries when details of his Beckham obsession emerged.
As he became well recognised, clinics gave him liposuction, botox and lip fillers for free, he said.
“I’m not speaking out because I want notoriety or fame anymore — I’m genuinely doing this because I’ve come out the other side of it,” he said.
“When I was on This Morning Holly or when Phil asked me if I was happy, I told them I was, but really I wasn’t — I was in the worst place ever on the inside.”
Johnson tried to kill himself four months ago by taking an overdose of tablets, but he was found by a friend and taken to a hospital.
He had sessions with a psychiatrist and he learnt he was suffering from body dysmorphia — a mental condition where a person spends a lot of time worrying about flaws in their appearance.
“I obviously don’t blame David Beckham, it’s not his fault,” said Johnson. “I was trying desperately to look like him and it nearly cost me my life.
“I feel like I’m in the best place ever now — and I really don’t want anybody to go through what I have.
“Nobody should ever aspire to look like celebrities to that extent, and I’m an example of that. You need to just be yourself.”
Sometimes I wonder what some people really admire in others... Instead of this nigga to aspire to be successful like David Beckham, he decided to look like him... Now he has debts to pay instead of profits to receive....
Mekanus: Scientists have been correcting your yeye God's mistakes. Isn't your God ashamed?
God gave them the wisdom and knowledge and understanding to do that.....He uses us unto his glory, He will not come down to earth to show himself but He will use you if you are willing and ready to ask for it from Him...
My God isn't ashamed but happy that about 22specialist made themselves available to be used to change the story of this family....
Romance / Re: Why Are Some Girls Like This? by fynex(m): 2:14pm On Feb 09, 2018 
