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Barrister026:
You are the one reasoning it as a competition.

How can I compete with my younger bro that is still in school.

Don't let's stress it.

Barrister026:
No it's not a competition, it's just common reason every elder son of a family is supposed to reason.
My younger brother can't complete my mom's house, then maybe later I start to drag with him, it doesn't sound right.
Besides I want to complete it because it's been there for a long time now.

The bolded has an undertone of competition.

That said, if you think it is your priority in the scale of preference, then do it.

Barrister026:
One way or the other somebody has to develop it, if I the first son don't do it now that am financially stable. Then my younger bro will do it, trust me it won't make sense that way.
As for my mom she's aged already.

You make it sound as though it's a competition of who builds it. Please, don't put yourself under unsure pressure competing with anyone.

That said, as for which one to build first, decide your scale of preference and follow it. The circumstance should dictate which one you should do first

I wonder why some learned ones are not condemning this act in the name of religion. If we are this religious and yet backward, shouldn't this be a wake up call to all?

The things you listed against him are enough to encourage you to move on. The right man will come and please learn not to build your life around humans.

jackals:
.I was just being careful of not making it look like I'm desperate to have him. I already showed him I like him. I think if he wanted things to escalate, he wouldn't back out that way

He is real and expects a lady in her 30s to know what she wants. He's lived in a society where people don't pretend about their feelings so you acting the way you did just sent him off telling him not to force into existence an attraction that isn't natural.

The best you can do at this time is to call him up and be neutral. Ask if he would like to hang out and talk and please don't dwell on your thoughts about not wanting to appear desperate. Just apologize for not responding to his chats and let him know you had a few things come up and thought you had responded that you will get back to him later.

Lastly, let things flow naturally.

This lady is just seeking clout. She has has no hands in why the house was demolished since it was a demolition by the FCDA. The earlier she is ignored, the better for us all.

Whether she is happy or not is her cross however, her reactions indicates she is still pained the young man moved on.

APC2:
My father told me that I should marry another wife before talking about divorce. That when I give my attention to the second wife, my only wife now will regret and change. And I am also considering my son too. I can take care of two wives comfortalbly.

You only want to add salt to injury. If you can't handle one then you surely can't handle more. You need to be more matured before thinking of a second wife.

Why link the news with Tonto Dike?

This guy should be arrested for such an inciting comment however, this will not happen.

Ah! You want to terminate a four months plus pregnancy? You tried luring him to want the pregnancy as it seems you've had your game planned all along. His present condition notwithstanding isn't enough to neglect the pregnancy but we don't know his mental/ emotional state at the moment.

If you don't love your life well enough, please think of the foetus in you. Let the foetus give you the courage you need to motivate yourself to be a better person. As for the guy, I hope he steps up to be in the child's life after s/he is born.

You have laid your bed, please lay on it.

Germi9:
What if Apc flag tinubu and pdp flag atiku and npp flag jonathan who are we going to vote ? Is it not one of the corrupt flag bearer ? The problem is from the party

And what stops us all from involving ourselves from the grassroots? We outnumber the older generation but we choose not to be involved.

Germi9:
And your President is tracing Cow Route across the Country

He is not the only one who should take the blame. Our esteemed governors, national assembly, and all others in power endorsed it. The president alone isn't responsible for our predicaments, we too are.

Who do we vote into out Local Government offices and up? It is a wake up call for all.

Science and Technology keeps advancing.

Why shouldn't he take care of him? Is he unaware of the step son before getting married to the mother? If he is not, then he knew what he was getting into.

That said, why are we always so concerned about who we want to help when we have the capacity to help?

Until there's a real separation of power, EFCC remains a tool I. The hands of corrupt politicians to tackle their enemies.

iLiquidator:
stop speaking grammar abeg. Have you ever been a teacher? If you were given the custody of such teenagers at any point in time, or you experienced their capabilities you wouldn't have said this. Banning phones is the best choice.

I don't subscribe to your thoughts. The challenge is that we are indisciplined.

The school should be shut down permanently. If undergraduates can display this level of intolerance, what do we expect from the illiterates?

youngblaq:
Baba...dis line of hustle make sense o!
Show brothaman road abeg

There are threads in the programming section of NL that provides guidance.

greattybee:
Good PM.
I will like to reach out to you base on Data Science

Messaged you on whats app. 5*****72 number.

What we should teach is discipline. There's no crime using a phone in High School but there's a crime using your phone during classes.

There's also a crime using apps and websites not age appropriate.

Banning phone usage for High School student wouldn't stop the wayward child from being wayward.

Cutting off the head isn't the antidote to headache.

My first real job beside SIWES was banking and now I'm into Data Science.

These fraudsters are a syndicate.

Apparently, they are bothered because this affects them directly.

englishmart:
Seems you're unmarried at over 40

I meant competition.

That said, I got married in my late 30s when I felt I was ready. That was my choice and everyone respected that even my parents although my mom on two occasions tried raising the question.

That said, I am happy I did when I did and we both are happy we did at the time we did.

Guess I should visit Brazil with my family.

Why do the society stress over people's life and choices? It is rare to find people talk about opportunities that could improve lives but will focus all attention on people's martial status, age, or children.

Abeg, na composition we dey live for?

dangoteinlaw:
Tattoos are one thing I find disgusting especially for men. It ia for scums of the earth eg prisoners, wrestlers or fighters ie ppl that adds to value to the universe.

You lie. People's choices needs be respected and everyone is free to do what they want provides it isn't against the law.

sleeksamurai:
Bros be calming down Na. Nice one though. I applaud you.

I have calmed down ooo. Thanks for the compliments.

It's no big deal. No friend, no for in politics.

Apparently, things might never get better with the next president. With the number of people buying the presidential form and they trying to reach a consensus candidate, whoever emerges is obliged to pay back those who are staking their monies on him.

This should be a wake up call for us all.

Yet, the west accepts and welcome the looters who are the main cause of insecurities in our continent with open hands, give their family members permanent residencebecause they invested in their economy. This is the height of hypocrisy.

The next president needs probe all these politicians.