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In a country where the moral fabric is already destroyed, this act only worsens the current situation as it creates a precedent for others in the near future.

How those who live in the third picture copes with daily living seems unimaginable. I remember when they started the Costain Badagry road and were working on Orile axis. The BRT goes through inside of Ajegunle and seeing people bathing in make shift bathrooms in front of their houses in broad day light was amusing. I thought I had seen it all but that was a first.

Guess at our second conversation although we dated for a little over two years before tying the knot. It's been so great but sometimes, our ideologies on privacy/public information disclosure gets either party stressed.

What kind of marriage did he perform with his first wife?

It's time the Senate president gets kidnapped.

pocohantas:
Nothing special

FOR CORE STAFF;

Be less than 26 for most banks.
I think it is only Access that is 24.
Have 2.1 (and above) for most banks, from a RECOGNIZED institution.

Any course you study is your business.

Apply via the portal, a staff (sometimes they allow junior staff drop one or two CVs).

Write aptitude test.
Do interviews- panel and one or two with a senior officer. ED/MD as the spirit leads.

Get into a training school. Score 75% and above for most banking schools. You get paid and fed in your training school with enough activities. You fit forget wetin carry you come if you no dey careful. Too many fine boys and girls forming love wey posting go scatter.

In the training school, your course of study would help. Most business students would understand the terms and won’t struggle to grasp it. Engineering students do better in calculation courses once they pick up the basics.

Get posted to a unit. The top 3 and memorable students tend to get preference. The rest would end up in Marketing or Operations.

Northerners are ALWAYS (98%) sent back to the North. They like it that way.

Connection is just a very negligible few.

The write up seems like that of a person who passed through Access School of Banking Excellence.

All these social media lifestyle sef. Did he divorce the first wife?

Dollywood:
You cook your food yourself?

Yes I do; sometimes, my wife does; other times, we cook the food together. The most important thing though is planning the food together.

Dorwadora:
According to google, the average weight of an adult is 136.7 pounds and in kilograms that's 62.6kg.

God knows if I weigh that much my BF will serve me breakfast .

I weigh 59.7 kg and seriously I'm not happy about it cos everytime Mr perfect always throw jabs at me, calling me fat.

How much do you weigh?
Are you happy about it?
Is your partner happy about it?

You owe yourself your happy first and if you think your weight is enough to be served breakfast, please watch your back always.

And they couldn't shout?

Hopefully that is his real name.

gidgiddy:
Zoom into the two ID's on the floor to know that the entire story is false

Saw that. Just felt like stressing the obvious.

The current government is the perfect definition of colloidal failure. They can't secure the lives of those they swore to and still hold unto power as though their lives depends on it.

Congratulations to him.

Are we sure these are truly IPOB members? The guy on the left back doesn't look Igbo and has a tesbiu on his neck.

Now, I am beginning to believe that government is behind some of the killings they tag IPOB to.

He knew he was going to buy Twitter from time.

Dinner;

Mashed potatoes, vegetable, and creamy shrimp white wine reduced sauce.

Bobbyjay001:
I do help a lot. This is funny at all. I do a lot ve-in f house chores which I can't mention here.

The children do help in their own capacity but remember the eldest among them is barely 7yo.

Wifey does the bathing and MIL is so lean, weak and frail she can't stand on her own without support. We have spent a lot in private hospitals, FMC, Unimed, Akure and other sources of bringing her back to life. Allo no avail. They saw nothing wrong with MIL who's just 66yo.

Even first class laboratories in the city we live in saw no abnormalities in her.

We are just looking up to miracle to happen.

Just hang in there and may God reward your efforts of love.

Johnnycastro18:
well you have some points, but let us not forget that this is a family matter( his in law) and wisdom is needed here, I believe after talking to the wife and she agree( or fail) to advice her brother to change and look for work to do, then the man can now have an excuse to let that boy leave his house since he is unserious with his life. If the man uses force and pursue the guy, he may go back to his family and propagate lies of been pursue by his in law without justification and turn his wife's family against him....

Wisdom is remembering that his integrity comes first. He shouldn't get his image soiled and if the wife chooses to follow the brother, so be it.

If he goes to propagate lies, it isn't his business. Like they say, truth will always catch up with lies although it might take a very long while.

May his soul rest in peace and may he be remembered by his works and how he represented his people.

Bobbyjay001:
I am also in this dilemma. Wifey has been very sick and managing so CE over six years now. Though she goes to work (health officer).

Her mother who was very caring and understanding fell ill last year and has been with us since last April.

Though, we have someone who comes around to clean and take care of the house and they pay is on MIL. (She's a retired civil servant)

Mama has four children. My wifey is third and has a younger brother who for married last year.

MIL's first born is divrcee with three children in their hometown.

He second born lives on the same city with us lives in a rented 2 bedroom apartment with her husband and four children. MIL stayed in her place for two months before she's dumped with us. ( Heard she's been maltreated by her daughter and SIL)

My wifey the third born has been battling with ulcer since over six years and has grown lean. We are family of five living in two bedroom rented apartment. Gave one to mama.
Despite the fact that someone comes around to clean and help and goes back when done, wifey still does a lot of work taking care of her. At times I feel pity for her, with her health condition.

Last born who's ismale also lives in the same with us but claims he can't accommodate mama cos he lives in a room and parlor self contained apartment. He's been so supportive ensuring we lack nothing. He's in charge of Mama's account and drops money regularly for upkeeps. He also comes around at least thrice a week to check mama.

My problem is my wifey's health. She isn't fine and still takes care of her ailing mother.

I don't want to sound like I don't want my MIL around. My children are still young (first being 7yo and last 4yo). The small wahala is taking toll on my wifey.

Don't know how to say it even to my wifey that mama should leave so as to take care of herself.
I don't want to sound ingrate or so.

What are you doing to ensure she isn't stressing herself too much? Oga, you can step in and help with many chores.

Considering the situation of things, you can engage the kids to also help with a thing or two since someone already comes to help with some other house duties.

Johnnycastro18:
I don't think there is a problem in your in-laws coming over to visit you in your house,.....the only problem here perhaps is the fact that despite looking for a job for him he still refuses to work, sleeps all day and chats with white women(probably yahoo,yahoo) who knows maybe that is why he doesn't even want to work at all.......

I suggest you call your wife, seat her down again and express your objections and concerns towards the lackadaisical attitudes of her brother, and if possible tell her what you think about the whole thing, i would expect her to speak senses into her brother after that and if she fail too...you can take action....

She wouldn't and he shouldn't waste his time doing that. Who houses a fraudulent person in his home. That is enough to send him out same day cos when shit hits the fan, his integrity will be questioned.

N.B: Remember many families now support their members doing yahoo and money rituals.

abeniagbon:
I don't have any hate to that, but I hate it when an able person seat down and be doing yahoo yahoo in my house with hope to scam someone when there is a countless of job. At least if I could get him a job and he refuses is that good enough?? To me he had lose focus to game instead of pursue his life. God said he will bless the work of thy hand. Sleeping and waking without doing something in my house is a big NO for me

Don't wait until he implicates you. Give him a seven day ultimatum to leave your house. He's using your house for his illicit business and can implicate you. Should he not leave at the end of the ultimatum, get him arrested.

This is what Yoruba's call "isale oro l'egbin" which implies the source of wealth of many is filthy. Many businesses men in Nigeria use true business as a cover and engage in so much illicit activities.

Lunner:

Pounded yam and white soup.

waistbead:
Cooking step ...

After slicing your atama leaves,put in a bowl pour hot water and cover for 5minutes,carefully drain with a sieve all the water and taste.if still bitter, repeat rinsing.

2:Slice waterleaf and squeeze out the slimmy juice

3: Get palm fruit,wash it and place into a pot add water and cook for 15minutes.place in a mortar and pound,after pounding place in a bowl add warm water.use your hand to mash out the palm juice with a seive ...

4:Cut periwinkles at tails,place in a bowl and wash thoroughly with salt.

Cooking...

Place your meat, kpomo, assorted, stockfish in a pot and cook for 15minutes.

2:pour the palm juice inside this pot with meat,add your smoked fish and periwinkles and let it cook for 12minutes more.

3:Add waterleaf now,put the rest of the seasoning pepper/crayfish/salt..Cook on low heat for 5minutes,add atama leaf into the boiling pot for 3minutes gently stir it.. Taste your atama soup and turn off the heat..

C.c Boda Gboyega....Sorry it came late was busy..

Thank you so much. I'm trying this in a couple of weeks.

Dinner:

Jollof rice, vegetables, and chicken.

No big deal. Na normal things.

Dsalvo:
Why are you surprised? Omokri was Atiku's 2019 election campaign coordinator diaspora. He has been on holiday since his 2019 Atiku jackpot spending his dosh.

It is now time to resume his job and 'hammer' again.

Based on that, it makes sense however, he needs stop criticizing the government if he's a scammer like those in government.

Did he just write Atiku is the best of all the contestants?

Wait, cocaine sef don turn pure water?

Naija, I hail thee.

Quite sad. I hope the mystery surrounding his death is unraveled.