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HealthRe: Brushing Before Or After Eating In The Morning. Which Is Best Practice? by GenderMix: 9:03am On Nov 21, 2023
Brush at night.
Drink water before brushing in the morning to make the stomach alkaline and ready for digestion then you can eat.
FamilyRe: Court Marriage Without Paying Bride Price by GenderMix: 6:31am On Nov 20, 2023
immortalcrown:
I am not sure but I believe the court respects tradition and may insist on payment of bride price before conducting the court marriage. On the other hand, legality is different from tradition. What is traditional may be illegal and what is legal may be untraditional.
This is not correct. You can do court wedding without paying bride price. Infact when i did mine, only 2 of my friends were present to sign as witness. Our parents were absent because we felt it was unnecessary but for them to travel down.

However, bride price /traditional wedding is what our culture recognize. It has to do with recognition of the couples by the families. It's the most important as far as nigerian families are concerned. You may be deprived of certain traditional benefits if you're not traditionally married. Although those benefits will not prevent you from living your normal lives.

If you are a fan of African traditional culture, then you need to do it to promote the culture
FamilyRe: Men Over To You by GenderMix: 9:17am On Nov 17, 2023
kodded:
What happend to baby stroller? huh

Hustle o make you no dey justify poverty tongue
You have suddenly moved from BENZ to STROLLER 🤣😆

You know your problem? INFERIORITY COMPLEX.
FamilyRe: Men Over To You by GenderMix: 6:07am On Nov 17, 2023
kodded:
is that a public building? undecided
And if the only option you have is to park In a public car park before accessing the facility you are going to, will you drive you Benz into the facility because you don't want to carry your child

Again, assuming you are in a mall , will you you not Carry your child or your audio Benz will do the carrying...lol

Assuming you are going for casual walk in a park, you'll still use you benz because you want to evade simple responsibility...

Continue with the ignorance
FamilyRe: Men Over To You by GenderMix: 5:58am On Nov 17, 2023
ukaface:
I know NL men will say, okay majority of NL men will say this is SIMPING😤😤

But then, the comment following that question is right on point.

So our table bringers, can y’all carry your child? And what do y’all think?
It is not simping. Once you understand the benefits of doing something like this , only an ignorant person will criticize you. One thing I noticed about this style Is that it's not conducive for men except the man has a huge bum like ladies 😂 to support the baby.

What many don't know is that it's a form of exercise for the baby's hip bones.
FamilyRe: Men Over To You by GenderMix: 5:53am On Nov 17, 2023
kodded:
Huatle o make you no dey carry pikin for back while your junior brother mate dey drive benz grin
Nonsense

So even if you have a Benz, you will drive it inside a public building because you don't want to carry your kid.

Can you see how you have exposed your ignorance
FamilyRe: Men Over To You by GenderMix: 5:51am On Nov 17, 2023
Evolutionism:
POVERTY is written all over the people in this picture.

Anything that has to do with POVERTY.

I always maintain a distance of at least 100Billion Miles.

I'm out of here Asap.
What has taking responsibility got to do with poverty. Honestly some of you here have a very poor mindset and are very ignorant with high level of pride.

A man can decide to Carry the baby in front or back using a wrapper or baby carrier. Whichever suits you is fine. One advantage of carrying babies like this is that it helps to strengthen their hip bones. Every child deserves this experience in life
HealthRe: High Cost Of Medical Care: Asthmatic Patient Cries As Seretide Sells For ₦52,000 by GenderMix: 10:14am On Nov 15, 2023
Sermwell:
You're a wicked liar!! I just called a pharmacist friend right now when I saw this post and she said it's #50,500

Please give me the address of the pharmacy that sells for 20k. I will buy 4 pieces right now! I'm waiting!
Don't mind him. I suspect he is mistaken saltrol seretide inhaler (which is attached below-7-10k) for the seretide disc that has 60 shots.

I feel for Asthma patients this period
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HealthRe: High Cost Of Medical Care: Asthmatic Patient Cries As Seretide Sells For ₦52,000 by GenderMix: 10:12am On Nov 15, 2023
Sermwell:
You're a wicked liar!! I just called a pharmacist friend right now when I saw this post and she said it's #50,500

Please give me the address of the pharmacy that sells for 20k. I will buy 4 pieces right now! I'm waiting!
Don't mind him. I suspect he is mistaken saltrol seretide inhaler (which is attached below-7-10k) for the seretide disc that has 60 shots.

I feel for Asthma patients this period
HealthRe: High Cost Of Medical Care: Asthmatic Patient Cries As Seretide Sells For ₦52,000 by GenderMix: 10:07am On Nov 15, 2023
VIKTO83:
When did seretide become 50k not to talk of 52k.
U people should fear God for once na.
I just called the pharmacy now and it's 20k.

Why do Nigerians like spreading evil news?
Kindly help with the name of the pharmacy and location.

It is not evil news , it's reality

The last I bought was 58k and that was around September/October... Now it is 65k

Nairaland GeneralRe: Inflation: Which Item's Price Surprises You? by GenderMix: 6:27pm On Nov 13, 2023
Bluearrow:
This is crazy!
U mean from 7k to 58k?
Lol... It was unbelievable initially when the pharmacy told me over the phone around October ...he said 58k , so I felt meant 8k🤣.... Had to check online to confirm it was 58

Now it's 65k....that's close to 1000% increase in less than 5 months

I'm not sure if it's forex wahala or supply/demand economics.... lol

The situation in Nigeria is scary
Nairaland GeneralRe: Inflation: Which Item's Price Surprises You? by GenderMix: 6:01pm On Nov 13, 2023
Around September 2023, Seritide inhaler was 7000

As at October 2023 it was 58,000

As at Today November 13, 2023, it is 65,000-68,000

Jobs/VacanciesRe: My Testimony After My Boss Sacked Me by GenderMix: 2:56pm On Nov 06, 2023
Wujio:
Are you a Christian proper. Can i explain why you are being attacked ?
Can you just SHUT UP.
Nobody has attacked her , you have been the one attacking others.
The investigation people like BronzeTiger and Lawal had been doing is very noble and should be applauded. Do you think it is funny to part away with money to a scammer. it hurts

Why do you think anyone should not believe that you are same as the OP. If anyone is observant, the moment you become active, the abisola person becomes dormant....the pattern is there.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: My Testimony After My Boss Sacked Me by GenderMix: 2:40pm On Nov 06, 2023
Abisolababe:
I have the proof of the money wujio sent to me, the account belong to me and not for anyone , you can do whatever you like as long as I know this is real .I'm not afraid of anything


To those that have supported me one way or the other the Lord will bless you all
And those that send me pm asking me to come for hookup before they will help me the Lord will be with you.
You are obviously the same as Wujio. Been following this thread , i thought i could help too but i felt retraint

Th way you use ....the lord....is exactly how the wujio guy does.

lol. May God help innocent people on this forum
FamilyRe: Anti Snor Chin Straps. 08185391880 Only 1500 by GenderMix: 3:54pm On Nov 05, 2023
As much as snoring is a disturbance, I don't think having This around your jaw is safe. Sometimes some people's nostrils are blocked hence the only way for air passage is through the mouth. So using this strap can prevent such person from receiving air and may kill the person. This is just an observation. No intention to spoil your business
CrimeRe: Mum Of Four Who Refused To Walk Away From An 'Abusive Marriage' Dies by GenderMix: 3:28pm On Nov 05, 2023
While in the university, I witnessed a case of a guy and a girl who cohabitated. The guy will lock the girlfriend in a room, beat the girl severely several times and thereafter they make up and make love. It was quite strange to me. I tried interfering the first time I saw them, and I was cautioned by his friends to steer clear.

This continued till they graduated. I can imagine both getting married later on in life. When fight starts, the neighbors may not understand their history.


In life, there is consequence for every action. As adults who have agreed to stay together irrespective of violent relationship, we must be ready to Bear the consequence of our actions.
FamilyRe: Be Sensitive To Your Wife’s Feelings Too! by GenderMix: 3:36pm On Oct 26, 2023
advanceDNA:
What exactly is stress?? That word is what u women use to push ur husband away ....

Madam... if u are not incapacitated, or sick...u can't be hiding under stress for many weeks, yet u wake up go to work and do everyother thing ........ It's just witholding sex because u want to do so....

.. We all don't feel like paying bills.. we pay it anyways......and like I said earlier..we all don't have to be starving before we eat
I am a man and I get stressed out sometimes. Even if you are a sexy freak, some days are like that.

Remember the lady talked about after giving birth. If you are married you'll agree that their bodies need to heal
FamilyRe: Be Sensitive To Your Wife’s Feelings Too! by GenderMix: 3:17pm On Oct 26, 2023
advanceDNA:
Weda man or woman.....Any one that sees ordinary sex that both party enjoys as pressure has no business being married....

What most women want is to have sex only when u women want it ....that's wrong..

...many of u don't even want ur husband to come close to you.....yet if he does u will get in the mood...so why not let him get u into the mood instead of pushing him away until ur body naturally into mood once a month or once in 6 months...that's just wickedness and controlling sex just because u can....

.. It's not only when u are starving that u eat.. sometimes, u just make effort to eat and still enjoy the food ....
Sometimes you can be stressed and not be in the mood to have sex. Nothing wrong with that if it's once in a while. Marriage is beyond sex
FamilyRe: Be Sensitive To Your Wife’s Feelings Too! by GenderMix: 3:03pm On Oct 26, 2023
SeriouslySense:
grin grin grin
These guys are just too funny on this forum 🤣
FamilyRe: Be Sensitive To Your Wife’s Feelings Too! by GenderMix: 2:56pm On Oct 26, 2023
Chetas81:
Who care, greedy mentality on the beat, NIGERIAN WOMEN ALWAYS HAVE REASON TO JUSTIFY THEIR IGNORANCE, WHEN COME TO MAKE LOVE
It is not. Son of you don't know what child birth entails. A woman's body must change and has to heal over time.
As a man you can kill the urge those moments , you won't die

Besides, some of you should understand that in marriage sometimes sex is more of work than pleasure 😆 jokes apart. You will get stressed sometimes

In all, as reasonable humans we must be considerate in any relationship whether between spouses or friends.
FamilyRe: Be Sensitive To Your Wife’s Feelings Too! by GenderMix: 2:39pm On Oct 26, 2023
It's only a man that lacks common sense that would put the wife under such pressure because of sex.

By the way, can people just drop that crap that once you are married your body belongs to your spouse 😒. For Pete's sake, you guys are 2 different entities and will remain so until you die. Lol

Everything in marriage must be mutually agreed eventhough there can be compromises here and there. You shouldn't force your spouse into sex.

May God grant us wisdom.
FamilyRe: Married Men, I Need Help! Your Marital Experience Is Needed. by GenderMix: 11:46am On Oct 24, 2023
One of the signs of maturity in man is to be able to have sexual urge and still put It under control. Nothing wrong with sexual urge because you are human.

If you see the right woman , you will be attracted to her in All ramifications including sexual urge. Infact it is what will drive your sexual appetite during marriage. So when you say you loose sexual urge , I suggest you check it properly. Sounds abnormal for a woman you want to spend your life with.

I am not saying you should lust after her continuously. There are other important things that should be happening beyond sex desires. You should be emotionally and romantically connected but you should put your emotions in check and focus on the bigger picture😉
FamilyRe: I Need Mature Advice, Please by GenderMix: 6:00pm On Oct 16, 2023
You have chosen the right path. Never ever loose guard. Keep yourself till you are ready for marriage

No amount of temptation should let you give in. Forget about "love", it is just infatuation and will always lead to regret.

Even the one that genuinely loves you will be tempted to have sex with you. It is normal but don't give in. Always talk sense to your lover because at that moment he may not be reasoning properly because down -below does not understand logic. Manage the situation with wisdom. He may get angry but will cherish you more with time. Don't ever be desperate over relationships because you'll soon realize that what you call LOVE is more of responsibility than feelings

Once again I commend you for keeping focus, hang on. Cheers
FamilyThe Tiny Knob Behind Water Dispensing Machine by GenderMix(op): 2:24pm On Aug 27, 2023
Many of us have water dispensers but don't know the relevance of the tiny knob behind the machine.

The knob is to allow for complete discharge of the remaining water when you want to replace the water container 😁

Let's know what you think.

Foreign AffairsWagner Group Leader- Prigozhin Currently In Mali by GenderMix(op): 9:06pm On Aug 22, 2023
Below is a CNN link that says PRIGOZHIN is somewhere in Africa at the moment, however Aljazera mentions specifically that the Wagner boss is currently in Bamako ,Mali recruiting more people into the group with the aim to fight off foreign terror groups like ISIS and Alqeada and free Africa.

https://edition.cnn.com/2023/08/21/europe/russia-yevgeny-prigozhin-africa-desert-intl/index.html

My opinion
This is no coincidence with the coup in Niger. A trap has been set for West African leaders by the west. They'll need to rethink their military strategy and focus on diplomacy otherwise west Africa will be thrown into chaos
TV/MoviesRe: Willy Willy: Nigeria's First Most Popular Horror Movie (Throwback) by GenderMix: 3:45pm On Aug 17, 2023
Nostalgic 😁. Still feeling chills while watching it...lol

More interesting on black and white TV😆
PoliticsRe: ECOWAS Fails To Deploy As 7days Ultimatum Expires. by GenderMix: 3:37am On Aug 06, 2023
Says who?

The ultimatum ends by 12pm today. The Niger coupists won't give in.

By tomorrow expect heavy military presence from ECOWAS in Niger.

It looks like it's going to be a long ride
TravelRe: Crashed Helicopter at Oba Akran, Ikeja (Photos) by GenderMix: 5:29pm On Aug 01, 2023
Pandemonium broke out at Oba Akran Ikeja area of Lagos State, as yet to be identified helicopter crashed into a building, and burst into flames.


The incident happened adjacent AP Filling Station, and United Bank For Africa, Oba Akran.


According to eyewitness, the incident happened at about 3.30pm.

It was not clear as at press time if the pilots of the chopper survived. It was not also clear if there are other causalities, as rescue operation by first emergency responders is on-going.

Men of the Lagos Fire and Rescue Service are being awaited for further emergency operation to salvage the situation.

Details later…

https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/08/just-in-helicopter-crashes-into-building-in-lagos/amp/

https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/08/just-in-helicopter-crashes-into-building-in-lagos/amp/
RomanceRe: Is Jealousy A Proof Of Love Or Lack Of Trust? by GenderMix: 5:51pm On Jul 28, 2023
DECENTBWOY:
I would love to know y'all view of this...
It is neither. Jealousy is a sign of mental illness with a touch of witchcraft
FamilyRe: When You Are In Need And Your Family Refuse To Help! by GenderMix: 4:01pm On Jul 08, 2023
You don't know what entitlement mentality is yet. Must they sort you out. You have asked and they claimed they don't have , yet you are hell bent on forcibly collecting 50k from your "family".

Be wise and live within your means. Go for a rent your money can pay otherwise keep saving till you meet target.
FamilyRe: I Feel Guilty After Bursting My Landlords Tyre by GenderMix: 3:56pm On Jul 08, 2023
You are nothing but a big WITCH
BusinessRe: Customs Plans To Ban Second-Hand Clothes (Okrika) by GenderMix: 3:41pm On Jun 09, 2023
This is actually ridiculous. One of the key strategies to sustainability as indicated in SDG is REUSE. The Nigeria as a country is amongst the countries that signed a pact to the SDG 2030.

The point is , to help protect the planet from climate change , it's important to encourage reuse of used clothing , electronics and other items. That way it will help limit industrial production which has a direct impact on the climate through release of carbon.

Nigerian govt lacks foresight on this regard. If they are trying to discourage importation then it will make sense due to emssion from transportation.

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