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NYSCRe: Corper Sends His NYSC Photos To His Father, See His Epic Reply 'Buy Nice Pant' by generationz(f): 7:00pm On Jun 24, 2019
delishpot:
Good point. You noticed I am very correct.

How it relates to this storyhuh?? He made us see his father's reasoning as it concerns dressing appropriately. The father did not hail his big pri¢k and let it pass. He encouraged him to dress humbly and modestly in a way that will glorify his God. That means his dad is a man of reasoning and humility. A husband and father material 1k yards.

Children of nowadays can not even pick any positive thing from wise words of their elders. I know many of you (maybe even the son in question) see this as a means to draw attention to his pri¢k size. Throwing away the most important lesson in the whole picture


Tell me, is the lesson you learnt from his story only bordered around how big the the boys pri¢k is ? huh angry angry
Now I get you

Daddy is decent - yes

Encourages good grooming - yes

But that one statement doesn't prove his wife is a happy woman na

Doesn't mean Daddy doesn't have one 19 year old unilag student rubbing his belly and slapping his head

Some parents hide their slutty side from their kids because they know it would change the lighting which these kids see them.


Doesnt mean desent daddy doesn't have a demon that mummy knows about and has chosen to overlook
TravelRe: Young Man To Wole Soyinka: Leave My Seat - Tonye Cole, Mo Abudu, Kate Henshaw by generationz(f): 12:16pm On Jun 24, 2019
I'm sure if Soyinka had nicely asked the man would have allowed him

When an elder lacks respect for his grey hairs he would be disgraced one day

Its like putting your hands into the plate of food of a child and taking his only meat because you are an agbalagba

Its called stealing
NYSCRe: Corper Sends His NYSC Photos To His Father, See His Epic Reply 'Buy Nice Pant' by generationz(f): 12:03pm On Jun 24, 2019
delishpot:
Then chewing gum boys of today will be comparing marriages of the normal parents to modern day marriages where they believe that they can live perverted lives and have a happy wife who will accept their whoredom up and down.

When next you boys wonder how your mom managed to stay its either cos your dad was disciplined and mature or he was a Bleep boy who married a woman that stayed cos of her children or fear of what people will say.
You are very correct with what you said

But how does this relate to the story huh
FamilyRe: Marry Within Your Class. by generationz(f): 11:38am On Jun 24, 2019
PrimadonnaO:
Jay-Z!
Exactly
FamilyRe: I Regret Having A Child - Nigerian Self-styled 'bitter Feminist' by generationz(f): 5:18pm On Jun 23, 2019
Which one is bitter feminist again

She's just a Lady who has a personality type more common with men

Always thinking about the "what if's"

I'm glad the story ended well

She married a man who understood her, who understood her personality.

That's obviously why he was so in love with her in the first place and that's why she fell in love with him

Two peas in a pod

Although, her stubbornness helped sha
grin

She's quite lucky. Its not that easy for an "unfeminine" lady in Nigeria to find a man that understands her
BusinessRe: Need Help On Mini Importation Business by generationz(f): 8:48am On Jun 23, 2019
yungchap:
Read my message VERY WELL pls.. I didn't say I wanted a FREE training or Service . My opinion was any Genuine importer who makes lots of Bucks from this Mini Importation Business should not be too Money Driven but show PROOFS at FIRST and Perhaps show some Steps so as to Convnce aspiring folks who are willing to come into this business.

Don't be Surpise alot of this Folks who claim are into this Business have failed but are trying to sell out Ebooks or Guide to people just to make back their money without any PROOF that they are really doing fine!

Which means they don't PRACTICE what they PREACH!!!
Alright

There's a lady on Instagram

Theblackmayowa

She imports and also teaches.


She charges about 5k and promises to give you direct links to factories


Browse through her IG page to know her better
CelebritiesRe: Burna Boy And His Girlfriend Stefflon Don All Loved In Bed After Re Uniting by generationz(f): 2:32am On Jun 23, 2019
Wow Burna has finally brushed his teeth cry

Hallelujah

It seems the babe is having a positive impact on his life.
FamilyRe: Marry Within Your Class. by generationz(f): 2:29am On Jun 23, 2019
truthsayer009:
Lool, I don't agree with your earlier contributions to this thread though, you seem to put every guy in a box & online stories usually shape your mind. The people you usually gather your data from in the Romance section haven't even left the 4 walls of University yet & those are the people you're Judging everyone with. Anyway, you've made your choice.
In other words cheesy you meant to say you are not like them abi?

Then why is there an increasing rate of rich married men cheating with and younger sugar babies if my assertion only covers the internet?
CelebritiesRe: Video Vixen, Kelzchikata Endangers Her Life Twerking Upside Down To Promote Song by generationz(f): 2:17am On Jun 23, 2019
GodSaklek:
Ladies of our generation has gone worst,you can't even single out one as a wife material,that's why am scared to get married,if I got married to one of these hoes, what will remains for me?, emptiness. You will see a future mother to someone will be twerking online,how their future kids will feel if they saw their mother's atrocities online in future,not all of them will have kids in future anyway because yahoo guys has used pants of some of them,some may not have kids because they have damaged their womb due to several abortion..... Internet has destroyed our ladies for us..... 88% of ladies of our generation are selling their Bodies,some are selling online, how i wish I was born In 1930s. SMH
You mean during the great depression or second world war? grin
FamilyRe: Marry Within Your Class. by generationz(f): 2:13am On Jun 23, 2019
truthsayer009:
No, I actually caught you reading.
Issokay o, na so life be undecided
FamilyRe: Marry Within Your Class. by generationz(f): 2:09am On Jun 23, 2019
desvi:
glad to see so many men here expecting ladies to be their best selves
and not ready to pay for "love"
we are making progress
You are not making progress anything grin

Don't let what these guys type here fool you o

If you think I'm lying wait a few months with nairaland and maybe Joros blog as case study ask this question

"Men what do you think is that thing that will help you get your dream girl"


If 99% don't scream money I'll give you address to my house to come slap me

These men's minds are already set in stone. They feel they are nothing and worthless without their dough

These men set the tone and even a girl who wasn't one before would resort to it because of bad past experience


It doesn't matter if they had a faithful girlfriend when broke.

Their dreams must come true when they get that money.

Even if they don't dump her they will cheat recklessly.

That's why I pity girls who think suffering with a man is a guarantee for anything.

Doesn't guarantee sh!t especially if you are not beautiful or shapely

Everyone should study the mindset of the person they are dating irrespective of class
FamilyRe: Marry Within Your Class. by generationz(f): 1:42am On Jun 23, 2019
truthsayer009:
generationz What are you still doing awake by this time? cheesy
Hmm so you remember me

FamilyRe: Marry Within Your Class. by generationz(f): 1:39am On Jun 23, 2019
gforce5:
It was Danjuma's younger brother that married Caroline. Dude didn't have respect for her hence why he could sleep with different women and treat her like poo. After all,what was she going to do? He knew that she married him because of his brother's wealth and name. She wasn't even smart enough to use his connections to set up a business for herself /expand her brand while married. This is what i'm trying to tell Funmiqueen and her ilk. A rich baller will not respect you if you are not on their level and have nothing to offer besides your beauty.
Naaaa He desrespected her because that's who he is . She wasn't his first wife and won't be his last .

Dude is a known chronic womanizer

Please , let's stop looking to blame women everytime the man cheats . we all have mothers and sisters too.

Bill Clinton married within his class and cheated .
Same as JohnF. Kennedy

Arnold swacheneggar
Robin thicke etc
BusinessRe: Need Help On Mini Importation Business by generationz(f): 1:08am On Jun 23, 2019
Lol you want free knowledge for what someone actually spent money, time and data learning ba

I'm not saying you should pay a whole 70k but it is better to pay for an EBook or guide so you won't end up loosing your capital to "Had I known"

Anyways , you can try this person on IG . Google china2naija or chinatonaija and think she was offering free training at some point
HealthRe: I Want My Skin Back by generationz(f): 12:05am On Jun 23, 2019
okrikaboi:
Please fellow nairalanders which body lotion can I apply on my skin to make it look like that of a baby or close I don't want to bleach or get darker just clean skin tone
Google avilanaturale they sell organic skin care products that are safe for all skin types

Note: they don't sell bleaching or whitening creams
CelebritiesRe: Why I Rejected Don Jazzy’s Offer To Come To Nigeria - Uk-based Singer, Folashade by generationz(f): 11:25pm On Jun 22, 2019
Talk true shade ,you just wan use Don jazzy name advertise your single

RomanceRe: Lady Almost Commits Suicide After Dumped By 'yoruba' Boyfriend Of 5 Years by generationz(f): 11:20pm On Jun 22, 2019
The only person I pity in the whole equation is the girls next boyfriend

A whole emotional baggage awaits the unlucky man

She might even return to her abuser if he asks her to

Parents should endeavour to always remind their kids of their self worth.

Make them take challenges and praise them when they do their best encouraging them always.

If you check this girl's background you'll see she lacks a good support system

These things are underestimated
BusinessRe: Caterpillars And Payloaders For Sale by generationz(op): 12:38pm On Jun 22, 2019
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RomanceRe: Woman Shocked To Discover Her Boyfriend Of Two Years Just Got Married. See His E by generationz(f): 10:06am On Jun 22, 2019
Humility017:
bro someone women pushed men to this level.

I am currently having issues with girlfriend now... she is no longer committed in the relationship like she was before...
she no longer show care and interest like before...I have asked her what is the matter only to tell me the last time we meet there were things she observed that she wasn't cool with
she told me some stuffs which does not make sense to me...I have apologized and promised to make up for our next meeting because we are in a long distance relationship...but still she is not committing asking me to give her more time to adjust.
I have been heartbroken since.
my friends have advised me to give in to other ladies in the city where I live showing interest in me...currently walking on starting something with one.
I have asked why girlfriend to let me know I she still want the relationship...she will reply me that it is up to me to decide...
she wants my attention and care but don't wanna reciprocate
which decide...I tell her countless times how I so much love her, we have made plans to get married mid of next year...but now she has changed all of a sudden...

I am getting tired and I can't date two women at the same time...I wanted her to let me if she is tired so that I can move on with the other lady around but she is holding me back.

so right now it's like I will be dating two ladies and still my plans to get married next year...
so you see some ladies with their non-seriousness and non-commitments make some guys double date just to see which is better and more committed
Between now and mid next year you is one year.

So let's assume you start dating the new Lady now and your girlfriend changes her ways by mid next year you guys get married

What will happen to this new lady because its obvious you "so much love " your first girlfriend

One year of deciet

You are just as wicked as your current ggirlfriend

You break things of first before involving someone else
RomanceRe: Woman Shocked To Discover Her Boyfriend Of Two Years Just Got Married. See His E by generationz(f): 9:56am On Jun 22, 2019
Narldon:


Whenever I see your comment, I can always bet you'ld mention 'Altruism and Conscientiousness'.


grin[right][/right] cheesy

Even if it nothing to do with the topic at hand.
That guyband his big grammer sha
RomanceRe: Woman Shocked To Discover Her Boyfriend Of Two Years Just Got Married. See His E by generationz(f): 9:48am On Jun 22, 2019
Flier:
Lol you are very funny,Did you know why he relegated her to side chick or why are you judging without hearing the other side of the story
Some guys who enjoy having sex with you won’t dump you if they catch you cheating or hate your attitude but rather relegate you to side chick
Side chick and he went to see her parents?

I hope you say same to your daughter when a man does this to both of you
CelebritiesRe: Kizz Daniel Shows Up In Paris Really Fly by generationz(f): 10:26pm On Jun 21, 2019
Dandy


He looks great
RomanceRe: Ex Girlfriend now keeps Disturbing Me. by generationz(f): 4:42pm On Jun 21, 2019
BrownCarton:
Hi guys,
This is a follow up to my initial thread where my girlfriend.. Now ex... Asked for a one week space.

https://www.nairaland.com/5164412/she-said-she-wants-space

So a lot happened after the one week space. Honestly, my anxiety got the whole of me, cos she really drenched me emotionally. I found myself becoming a joke of my former self. From the man who will be in control, to the guy chasing for her time. She basically put me on a chasing wheel.

After the space,  I mentioned we were "working" through things for about a week, until when she did the worst. Basically arguing against me in a confrontation with her 'toaster', taking his side and calling me a liar and driving home with him. I did break up on the spot, but she still came back like she didn't realise what she did was the height. I still thought "well, maybe she didn't understand", so at the expense of my self-respect, I took her back but promised myself that when things cooled down, I will give her an ultimatum to cut off with that guy.
Op how was your childhood like?

Did you suffer abandonment from one or both parents or were you abused ?

You need to get to the root of this and seek help asap
BusinessRe: Why Is It So Difficult Having A Shop In Lagos? by generationz(f): 1:46pm On Jun 20, 2019
Conqueror89:
Hahahaha. It is certain that i will get it.
Thanks for the heads-up.
You are welcome
RomanceRe: In A Quagmire Here. by generationz(f): 2:44pm On Jun 19, 2019
Amakavula:
read between the lines here with me Sis, he is assuming her to be some kind of innocent bystander to the sex rather than an active participant.

That she made some mistake, rather than something she wanted and did and will still do, religion or not.

She might love to do it again and again but not with him. As he clearly doesn't attract her enough to give him, hence why she was was liberal about it
You might be right about her doing it with many other guys , however her honesty about how she lost it in the first place is a plus for her in this story.

Many ladies would have cooked up one story or another and jduginf by the Guy's reply to my question up there he doesn't seem to really care about the sex but her educational background and financial background
RomanceRe: In A Quagmire Here. by generationz(f): 12:17am On Jun 19, 2019
CsRockefeller:
Let me be very honest with you and everyone here.

I don't give a hoot, whether she is a virgin or not as long as its in her past. She is a very nice girl one who can be trusted.

However, my concern is with her Life goals, she is about 23, a hair dresser, her mum is late, her Dad is somewhere in Cotonou, her brothers are in Abeokuta, only her stays at Ota.

Right now, there is no plan for her to go to school, not even NCE or OND, she is fending for herself, which is very noble, but, I don't want to shoulder any heavy responsibility right now, If in d next 3 years, I want to settle down, where would she be career wise?

I don't want to use that as an excuse, so that she doesn't feel bad. So this sex thing can be my escape route. Tell her I can't be in a relationship without sex since she wants to abstain, then we all go our separate ways.

At least d Unilag girl has something going on for her. In 3 years time, she will be a graduate of Bio-Genetics, shes younger and smarter.

Even if we don't get to date, at least any investment on her (which wouldn't be high) would be worth it, to herself, her family and the society at large.
Ehn ehn op now you are talking

However judging from your post you got it all mixed up

I'll tell you why?

Spending on a student and sending a girl who isn't your wife yet to school isn't an investment . Its charity work

anything can happen after four years. She will be more mature by then with better experience to choose and if she has no conscience, she would not waste time to discard you if a guy with better prospects comes along.

Economically in Nigeria , the hairdresser is has more prospects.

She already makes money, knows how difficult it is saving and might still have bigger goals. Meanwhile the student still has the mentality that when she is done with school a job will be waiting for her. You know how naija is based on that assertion.


If you play your cards well the hairdresser can have her business and still go back to school part time . All this will be from her pocket. You may not spend a dime. All you'll have to do is encourage her.

Theres a Lady on nairalanders who makes badass braided wigs she sells on the gram for as high as 20k or more
It depends on the marketing she doesn't need a shop

@wigmaniac_international check that out on Instagram


If that girl is hardworking , you have a gem with you.

I suspect though that you are more in love with student and any advice we give here is of no use.

You can know a man in love when you observe where his money tilts towards.
RomanceRe: In A Quagmire Here. by generationz(f): 11:45pm On Jun 18, 2019
Amakavula:
If you ask the first one well, you would be shock she had 5 other guys she had had sex with, the fifth one is currently giving her head on a daily.

None of those ladies have any feeling for you, dude leave them alone.

I pity you be forming Holy ghost there, they will finish you.
So,are you saying a lady can't be celibate after loosing her virginity?
RomanceRe: In A Quagmire Here. by generationz(f): 11:40pm On Jun 18, 2019
@op for the first case , it is quite difficult to judge based on the few things you said about her if she is girlfriend worthy or not. Usually , observations like this on nairaland are usually one sided and don't throw enough light on the personality involved

It is very posssible for a man or lady to stay celibate till marriage.
Maybe the person didn't know a thing or two like they know now. Some people decide to get closer to God ( I mean fasting and prayer) and decide to stay away from premarital sex till they marry. I know men who did this( you know men don't lie about this things ) so if a guy can do it women too can definitely.

However knowing whether she will be faithful to you or not is definitely up to you, we can't judge the situation because we don't know her heart and we are not prophets .

It would take a lot of trust , communication and commitment to keep the relationship especially during this internet age .


As for the second girl if you want to help her don't give her monthly stipends. It might go a long way but after a while it still won't be enough. Instead empower her and watch her.

Students can use as low as 10k to sell eggs,pure water, beverages, sanitary towel and other necessities within the hostels.

If she's tall enough she can work as an usher . School is the best place to start a business ,fail at it , horn your skills and be set for life.
BusinessRe: Why Is It So Difficult Having A Shop In Lagos? by generationz(f): 10:53pm On Jun 18, 2019
Conqueror89:
Bro, whats the code for the 4.5 gig? Thnks
Buy a new airtel 4g sim, register and insert it into a phone ( preferably a small phone)

Send get to 141 and wait for the message congratulating you for double bonus for 3or six months. If you don't get this message then you can't get the bonus

I've always been lucky to get triple bonus not double.
BusinessRe: Why Is It So Difficult Having A Shop In Lagos? by generationz(f): 8:15pm On Jun 18, 2019
Malawian:
.
You have two different networks. one main and one backup. Main One 50 GB, the other 10 GB.
Why not try airtel double or triple data
With my sim I get up to 4.5 gig for 1k lasts for three months.

4k the highest per sub will give you about 29gig
BusinessRe: Why Is It So Difficult Having A Shop In Lagos? by generationz(f): 6:50pm On Jun 18, 2019
MrMcJay:
Newly started tech companies serving customers in the financial sector. E.g, Paystack, Kudi.ai, Piggyvest, Eyowo, Payant, etc.
smiley

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