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imitateMe:
I'd take the money and find a way to have sex without your knowledge.

You want to kill me? You don't know what it is to be a man. Maybe I need to remind you that men don't menstruate like you'll do. We have no inhibitions whatsoever - we are eveready!

Malawian:
For some of us that requires Electricity round the clock for work (Cyber Cafe), you didn't even scratch the surface of our expenses. I spend 1,500 daily on petrol making 36-40k Monthly on Petrol cost alone!!

Then there is the Internet subscription of about 20k per month.

Then the shop rent here is 14,500 per month. (It is a big shop through)

Lawma = 200 per month, OPC Security = 1,000 per month , LGA Permit - 7,700 per year (642 per month)

I have a prepaid meter now in my shop so Electricity bill is low = 1,500 per month ( I used to be charged 10,000 per month on Estimated bills) Money spent on bills is now low, the downside is i no longer use Air Conditioner, which now contributes to incessant Computer damages.

There is the re-usables stationery, ink, toner, Paper, Photo Paper, etc) per month might be between 25-35k. Assuming you don't have to contend with damaged Equipment due to Nepa light fluctuations.

I should leave out the money for Generator repairs since it is occasional. but even that costs at least 15k whenever it is done.

We are already at around 100k.

All that is just basic expenses to keep the shop open.

It is still from your profit that you will pay House rent, School fees for kids and Madam Money (Very Important).

Then there is the feeding money and money to save for unforeseen circumstances (which we dont really get to save anyways).

Then there is the Money for Babe maintenance Otherwise, ha ara gi otu n'azu



Walahi, Wahala dey for shop ownership o, Considering there could be internet downtime, or rainfall that disrupts business activities, or Area boys when they start their perennial fights and shops really close down until their madness cools off.

MrMcJay:
When I was younger, my mum had a shop in Festac. When I finished my JSS3 exams, the sales girl there came to drop key one day that she's not working again. I just took the key and went to the shop, opened it and sat there myself. That day, i made an amount that was higher than any amount sold there by the previous salespeople.

We all thought it was by chance but the pattern continued. That week, i sold quite well and the high amounts declared was consistent. That was when it became apparent that those there before were under declaring sales.

PrinceOgun:
Importing from overseas and selling here via social media (Facebook)

MrMcJay:
There is a payment startup that clocked 1Billion Naira worth of payments processed last year. As at when they clocked a billion Naira, they didn't rent an office, they were working online and from a virtual office.

In this Lagos, except you have compelling reasons to open an offline store, it is better to stay online and advertise vigorously. If you have orders, use delivery bikes. If you have meetings, use taxify.

franchasng:
Bros I am not here to argue with u back and forth, go and study more about animal and human biological science to understand the difference between male and female sexual organs and how they function.

essenceplus:
24/7 Power supply. I'm using almost 12 monocystalline solar panels so I'm generating stable 2-5kva power supply steady. Can we continue this discussion privately?

maybachmusic:
One is producing crypto using machines


Trading is buying and selling online with a broker

Like someone said. Avoid the trading aspect

maybachmusic:
Mining is better jare


Sure of my money.

I setup one in agip estate recently

Constant light

essenceplus:
Babe don't do any digital trading for now especially crypto currencies rather do mini importation bring fancy stuffs from China and sell on digital platforms like jumia konga jiji etc

maybachmusic:
I am more into the mining aspect

If you got the capital


500$ + your good to go

maybachmusic:
If you contacts in a NEPA substation

With constant light


You can set up a decred mining rig and get you're money daily

But this is not your everyday business . so let me keep the info within the cabal

ozoigbondu:
You stole from them and they took back their data and you are pissed

Godoverevery:
Mumu botton you say.....bro I be confirm street I was born and brought up in mushin Lagos....I finished from lautech....so I no be Mumu Wen it comes to ladies.
I have dated alot of ladies dat if you ask me start counting I won't even remember some.
But a man get to a stage in life were you have to move Into dat level of having a family and building a home.....my intention is to marry her early next year.....so I knew wat I was doing not like I was fooled....maybe that why am not angry.

Fhemmmy:
Getting permanent residence depends on many things, BUT once you have your permanent residence, you can apply to be a citizen after couple of years as long as you met all required conditions
Please note there isn't a common answer to all situations

Fhemmmy:
Yes, you can work 8 hours a day while working on your B.Sc but i will NOT advice you to do such, but as a security officer, it will be OK especially in the evening but the schooling will have to be part time.
How many years it will take you to complete your degree depends on you and if you doing full time or part time as well as what program you plan to do

LordKO:
@OP

If not that you don't seem ready to hear the truth or make the marriage work, I'd have given you a feasible solution. Both of you are wrong.

HeliosHay:
Recent changes made on ACX has made it even more profitable to do Audiobook publishing...if you know what you're doing

CsRockefeller:
Gosh!! I never knew there are deep thinkers on Nairaland.

God bless you Sir, you are filled with so much wisdom, may that fountain never run dry.

You have a total understanding of the role women should play in a marriage. You will truly have a happy and long lasting marriage with your wisdom, knowledge and understanding.

I won't say more, than to thank you for sharing this. Now, I know that there are people on this site that are filled with so much wisdom. Have bben seeing a lot of rubbish of late, but, you are a proper man that has understanding and finding the right woman will be so easy for you.

Thumbs up Sir.

Toks2008:
Another ignorant stance.

Is there anyone that is really free from STDs?

You can only be free if you will never ever make love to any man again in your life after leaving a "philandering husband"

So why not kuku start using a condom for that your philandering hubby and switch him to a booty call guy rather than fool your life by leaving a philandering husband with the crazy hope you will find one faithful man out there.

Wait make I even ask you..if by chance you leave an unfaithful husband to another who also gets unfaithful will you start changing husbands in the bid to get a faithful husband?

Sis abeg use your head before you get used again and again by Randy men in the name of finding a faithful husband upandan.

MissJoy29:
Allow them live in denial. That's their speciality

Toks2008:
When i hear ladies rnt about loving a man and a man being faithful to them i just laugh at their reasoning...i call it misplaced priorities.

Yes ladies need to desire the man that will be their husbands but ladies have no business with loving any man...strange but true.

The only thing that is required of a lady IS TO RESPECT THE MAN IN HER LIFE and focus on her life and that of the children if she starts having them.
1 Peter;3 ''Wives, respect and obey your husbands...''

Ephesians 5:22-33 ''Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.

Just get a responsible man to get married to and have kids with and forget about all this love and faithful man talks. As long as you have a guy you desire as your husband and he takes care of his kids and services you relatively well please face front and build your life and that of your kids.

The moment a woman begins to worry herself about whether her husband is faithful to her or carry love for head is the day her problem starts...cos philandering or multiple sex partners is not about a man's age...it is in their gene and any woman who hinges her marital happiness on her husband fidelity should be ready to be the best friend of sadness.

franchasng:
Finding a wife is difficult only to a broke or financially struggling man, and a man who has not truly made up his mind to settle down. Once a guy decides to settle down, he will settle down and wed the very day he wishes

franchasng:
If u are born male, u wouldn't know the privilege u have as a male until u turn 30yrs+.

Men are not scarce but husbands are scarce!

Not all men are marriageable.

All over the world now, marriageable men are very scarce and reason internet romance scam is on the increase.

If u are a Nigerian lady living in Nigeria, don't think ladies living abroad in advanced countries like US, Canada, Australia, UK, Germany, France, etc don't bother or worry about finding a husband, in fact, its more difficult abroad because most guys abroad prefer keeping multiple mistresses and sex mates than getting married.

It is very difficult to find a man with sense, that's ready to marry and settle down, you may think its easy, but time will tell u whatsup.

A woman's greatest challenge in life is finding a reasonable man that will agree to marry her and treat her well while a mans greatest challenge in life is having financial freedom

Imogenn:
I wrote this thread last year about a guy that I had met who was into all kinds of rubbish
https://www.nairaland.com/4861952/god-showing-me-signs
Well after deceiving myself and going back and forth with him, I finally said enough is enough. I broke up with him early last month after i went through pictures on his phone through his email, and I saw that he had taken a picture of my bank card details to possibly steal from me. I also saw screenshots of him having friendly conversations with another girl in his church. Although there was nothing to serious in their chats, I just felt it wasn’t appropriate to have friendly conversations like that. So it’s done and it’s over.

Now I recently just turned 25. I feel like I’m getting to that undesirable age and I just feel that I will never find a serious guy. I feel like I’m never going to find someone, I’m so lonely all the time I’m just fed up. I’m that anti social type that hates being in crowds so it’s sooo difficult to meet people. I’m just fed up of everything. I just feel damaged and I feel like I can’t trust anyone and i don’t want to waste my time with unserious men.

I need help.

Mindfulness:
Which male contraceptives?
How many men will undergo a vasectomy?

Premiumwriter:
Op school is very very important.

Before you think of quitting school for a business, I think you might want to check very well and maybe try to evaluate the business first.

For instance, how much control do you have over the business?

Control is very important. The website you're working on, if they decide to shit down today, downsize or change their policy will it affect you?

If yes, then you have little or no control over the business.

Take my case for instance, I was making good money on fiverr sometime last year. I thought it would last but it didn't.

Fiverr updated their policy, that they will require ID card for verification and they gave only 14 days for you to obtain an ID and verify your account.

I don't have an ID and my account got suspended.

Since then I've been trying to stand up but haven't even been able to make a single sale on the website after creating another account for over 5 months now.

As such it is not advisable that you quit school for it.

Also think long-term. People may say certification is useless but in reality employers still ask for it. Try and get it.

Mindfulness:
I don't know about you but s.ex does wonders to my body.
Besides, what kind of family planning method are people supposed to use, married or not?