Wow, another sick thread from a sick poster! Its interesting to discover the wide range of psychiatric states we get 4 naija! The poster looks like he missed a few hugs at childhood and seeks to find some relevance himself on nairaland . Seun, pls this gets my vote for the stupidest thread of recent times, pls remove it.

Her beautiful eyes and smile attracted, her calmness and composure got me hooked!

Something definitely looks fishy but it might not neccessarily be.

If his daughter is seven (7) yrs old, they were married for at least that much and i doubt you guys ever heard gists from his wife about infidelity.

People sure handle grief in different ways and while i admit that 3months seems a short time to re-marry no one has a right to judge that. For all you know, he might have always thought of it as a mistake jilting her(his ex) in the first place.

Having said that, i can't help but wonder if the 'new' woman too didn't have a life. I mean, how cld a guy jilt you and after like 8yrs he comes back and then you guys are married?

There are many different possibilities from deception to outright foolishness but if you guys are friends and esp church members, then you should be praying more for him than talking about it.

@almondjoy
you're a crazy one, aint ya! lol

@Crazykid
Its obvious you have absolutely no idea wat entails in working in a bank. My fiance works in one and my guy i know better. While there are days they close early (which the earliest is 6:30-7pm), there are many days that its just plain crazy. I most times have to go pick her up from work daily.

@poster
Marriage can work well even if you work in a bank, it all depends on the understanding you have with your man. I many times wish she could get a better job but we work very well with what she has. My problem most times isn't even with the time but the risk related with the job. The time i couldn't stand was wen she just joined and had to do cash pick-up, from CBN and stuff.

Well, i guess its only that bad for those in 'operations', the others like risk management, investment etc only have few moments.

But my own opinion, marriage can work very well for female bankers, i mean why not?

Recharge cards or not, there's something wrong with the words of the poster: from topic to content!

Now this is funny isn't it I started this thread about a year ago, and guess what? i'm back with my girlfriend and marriage is on the cards, the details? maybe on another thread!

j-girl:

I can see we have enough Josephs in the house. Beyonce is too happy with Jay-Z to even let herself out to any of you.

you see, thats why i'd kept this to myself all the while. i know how much Beyonce loves Jay-z, infact i think she screamed his name one time while we were at it , she just can't help getting it from me.

@ Tonim and Spoilt
Didn't you guys hear me the first time? this is the kind of thing that if u did in my secondary school, you'll be crawling in the gutter for days. This is one of the reasons i wonder wat material women are made from,

Threads like this get me sad; thinking about how bad i've been. I can't even count, I started wen i was about 16, her name was Shade, then there was patra, after which many more followed, Recently there's been Beyonce, Rihanna, Gabrielle Union,, _{did i mention the first was Sade Adu?}

What's in a name? It doesn't matter if it's goat head or chicken tail as long as you can deliver as the boyfriend

Yeah Right! I guess its just like ur gurl mis-calling your name as 'mumu' or 'mugu' there's nothing wrong in that so long as she is "can deliver as a gilfriend" crap!

@poster
There's no way i'm taking your post serious cos except u have some speech problems Seun cannot souund anything like Isi ewu, even a 3-year old German wont pronounce it like that!

Me, i would carry my baby on any part of my body, except disallowed by law.

@Tonim and Spoil
Women!!! Wen una go change?!!!

I wont Cohabitate. Don't you know that the Bible says that the, _{thats just to get MILITIA's blood hot} .

I do see where the poster is coming from - he is being a typical Nigeria to the core.
They believe in such things like - if u work in ahotel even as a receptionsit, that you are a prostitute.

Thats just a nija man's way of looking at things

@Adeboo
I'm usually not a confrontational person but this post was outright shallow, you want to chide someone for being stereotypical and u do that by being stereotypical yourself of the nigerian man!

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@Siena Good point. thats why i neva mentioned anything about being sneaky, thats outright bad!

I insist that trusting someone includes trusting them to trust you!

the most important thing for a lady is to dress APPRIOPRATERLY. there are just some places u dont go to with eye-popping jogs or ur undies peeping out from under ur skirt. Gues d clubbers are allowd to show some skin.

Generally sha, if i'm walking on a street on a weekday (esp not Friday) and i see some gurl flashing her boobs, i get quite disgusted. _{can't deny the urge to take a second look sha!}

Phones / texts are private. You wouldn't open your partner's mail, or be pleased if she opened yours,

Private? you've gotta be kiddin. Do you have an official, responsibility-defined relationship with your wife? If there's complete intimacy and trust, why not go through my phone? I've nothing to hide. Besides, i feel its my wife's right to ask questions if i get funny messages (or send them), that shd also help keep my head in check.

I'm not married but my fiance goes thru my phone at will and there's no biggie wit that, there are even times she uses my phone for days. Abeg, i no dey hide anything so no grammar about privacy and all that stuff

@topic
Which kin thing be dis sef? You want to 'snatch' a guy from his two-year old relatonship (and here's me best part) cos you're so 'so sure he's not happy being in it'!!!

Gurl PLEEAAZZEE respect urself and move on with your life hopng for more respectable stuff. Whille i agree that our hearts could play stupid games with us, i believe our heads save us from the folly of our hearts.

@dis guy
Knocking my bro out was definitely not the best way of earning respect and i'm not claiming its even anythng near that. twas just my own way of letting out my 'frustration' at his continuing dis'in me. Nyways, he stil talks abt it till date and dats definitely not nice

@Seun
I believe that wat you cannot die for, u cannot live for, and i mean anything at all! I'd rather not die for my spouse but deciding to live the rest of my life has to be cos they're worth the very essence of life.

haba Omo eko. take it easy, de guy just dey admire you now

now thats a question i'm having to answer in my own life now.

I'm just waiting and hoping i can convince them at some point in time

@poster
Your signature sounds like you're a serious person and thats the only reason i'm replying.

GLORY 2007:

are you an African with a British or American passport,
if you are then think well before you leap.
but if there is nothing to your name it may be love.
am sorry this whole issue of love esp on line can be twisted.
so think pray and tell him to wait, expect if you are desperate to be hooked.

I have to totally go wit Glory, i 4 one don't believe in all these online things but i know i might be wrong. Just do your homework very well, even he has to agree with you that you have a right to preserve yourself.
Has he left the former girl? why? if it was because of you, then be sure that your turn is coming even if its after marriage.

@Topic
Its simple, church is the best playing ground. The ladies/ sisters are mostly so naive and the shout of hallelujah from a guy makes him a saint!

I had the same problem and wat i did? i knocked them down I have two younger brothers and right like you the one just after me just could not give me due respect, wat did i do? i knocked him down, i mean i really beat him black and blue one day like that, Since then, i got all the respect i didn't before!!!

That was a very long time ago but now we are the best of friends and he even stays with me now and we get along very well. I think all of us first-borns always have this pride issue and wanting all of our sibs and even possibly our parents bow for us, Just be patient sha, i don't know if its same for guys and gurls but i feel you guys will get over it and become best buddies later

proverbial:

what
can't you tell she's in love. I mean "the real love, i mean love love . .mutual love, unselfish love and patient love and enduring love and understanding love and trusting love"

Hen-Hen!!! No wonder, don't know why i didn't think of that in the first place!

Sex or food wat are they again?

Omo, wen moni dey there? You didn't specify the age range sha,

Between age 1-7; i thot about my next meal, 8-14; i thot about my next game or newest move in Mortal Combat, Street Fighter etc, 15-19; how to run away from home, 19-23; where my next good grade will come from; 23-now, moni, moni, moni, moni!!!

hats the point, some misplace "love", and make it to be what its not

When you've been in the real love, i mean love love . .mutual love, unselfish love and patient love and enduring love and understanding love and trusting love

Believe me, you'll not want to look back, and you'll see what a desiring feeling it is.

The problem today is that everything that waves by is termed love . . if its "a victim of love" in the sense of being very much in love with someone who is in love with you, there's absolutelty nothing wrong with it

Being a "victim of love" in a case that you're used, dumped, and left heart broken, then its a different story altogether

But this poster's case is the first instant, hence my answer Wink Wink

@cute-ass
thats some deep stuff, hmmm, interesting to see u talk about love like that!!!

luckynzo:

I am 22 years old and has never had a girlfriend because i don't know how to approach girls and am so scared of rejection. Can nairaland plrase help me out.

Its simple, look for a good babalawo, and ur problem is solved!!!

Actually, i dont think u've met the right gurl yet. If you have, even if u're pissing in your pants while you do it, u'll definitely"approach" her. reminds me of my first time asking a girl out, chei!!!