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Bro, I went to university, after sitting for jamb 5 times. when I got to the university, I realized that all those times I thought I wasted meant nothing. People were still very much older than me. even now after graduating and serving after 3 years of graduation due to backlogs in my school, I can still tell you nwanne, while education is important, not having it at the moment isn’t the end of the world.

Focus on your grind and secure that bag, then you can go to school in a fun and even more productive environment.

Nigerian universities na hell fire and rarely even worth it. Grow thick skin and focus on yourself until you stabilize financially. Bro, free all those things wey dey your mind Agu! The grind is the key, focus brotherly!

Your wife is most probably a narc. Read up on covert Narcs. You are cooked unfortunately

Your wife is most definitely a covert narcissist. Read up on that and see if she fits, she most likely will. If so, then run, go no contact and run. She’ll destroy you inevitably.

Secondly, you have to go back the drawing board and understand women. They are incapable of giving you the type of love you require. As a man, my advice is that you don’t remarry immediately.

You need to go on your own path and rediscover yourself. Love yourself more and become more stoic. No woman can ever give you the type of love you think she’ll give you. It’s all a facade. Men needs to learn. Divorce your wife and start building your internal structure for yourself, alone. Before considering any kind of relationship with any woman. When your expectations are low from a woman, in terms of internal stability and emotional wellbeing. That’s when you will truly start living as a man. Good luck, but most importantly, divorce her before you die.

Golferty:
This is strictly for married women

Please how can I manage 4k for a week? I have 2 kids, one is in primary 3, the other one is in nursery and they go to school each day. Will it be possible?
Please mothers on nairaland, how will you stretch it for 7 days especially when there's no foodstuff in the house.

Omo suffer your suffer in peace and leave us alone. Came to a public forum to be disturbing us. Mtcheww

nowhere:
Stay in Nigeria!

Idiot!

Let's goo!

kingthreat:
Because you are trying to make a name as a journalist, you turn a homicide case into a big conspiracy. Started roping important people to drag more attention to your fictitious imaginations in the name of freedom of speech. Your cup go soon full.

Some journalists are becoming annoying in the name of seeking for attention. That is how one lunatic was implying that Mrs. Ataga's boyfriend is Chidinma's guardian and told her to commit the murder. I deal with facts and facts only.

The God of Ini umoren and all the other Innocent Nigerians killed everyday and covered up by evil politicians will punish you and your generation.

ruggedboy01:
fool, don't quote me again to ask silly questions

If I was Chima, I would've had you killed, both you and the other guy

I'm sorry bro, for your pain. She's gone and gone for good. Try not to dwell on the good times too much, else it'll make the pain hurt more.

Truth be told, it is always easy for girls to move on immediately they change environment, always expect that.

Try and live, forget the memories and look forward to better times ahead.

Cheers on your first heartbreak, it never gets easier anyways.

Offorken:
Shabi u de see, him wan drag u join de matter, nwanne this guy needs to be dealt with, I don't know why you're shielding him, he run come nairaland to gain sympathy, it can't work... U'll not see peace

Bro just rest. Rest now ahh!! You are not commando or terminator. No one has the monopoly of voilence. You've repeatedly threatened this guy on a public forum. There's enough evidence to charge you for anything. Just rest and heed to advices and warnings. Use your head for christ sake.
Yes you are hurt, which is understandable, but allow this thing slide and go your way. This won't end well if you go the route you want. You will not enjoy it las las. Just move on with your life and forget both of them, you mustn't necessarily forgive them.

MoneyMusthear:
Let them free the man jor.

shey na because say he record am naim make una dey say all this trash?
The ones wey our polithiefcians dey do, una no fit know but na Dem dey do worse sef!
He work for the money and na im money.

Abeg see my signature

Worked for which money? He is a politician you slowpoke!!

https://twitter.com/fkeyamo/status/1321490921469452290?s=19

Festus Keyamo, posted it on his Twitter now.

Festus Egwarewa Adeniyi Keyamo, SAN is a lawyer and politician who is presently the Minister of State for Labour and Employment.

This is a 2007 Range rover repackaged as a new car. Lmao

Even the Venza he gave his mother is more modern than this now.

Regardless, a gift remains a gift. Congratulations

Quinex2:
So? It's no big deal. Making a first class doesn't make anyone special.

Make first class first na. Olodo!

All of you telling him to quit the girl and forego the job are lowkey wereys. Do you know what Oil job means. And some jobless 18 year olds are busy telling you to leave the potential millions from the oil job because of an unfaithful girl.

Omo, secure that job first, Nigeria is hard oh, don't go and lose a golden ticket because of some infidelity issue.

Instead, after securing the job, you can then leave if you still wish to. As for now, prioritise that job over anything.

Don't say i didn't warn you.

Mad ohhhh

phillip001:
When i look back at this post and comments i just laugh.thank God it ended in praise.

Did you guys later marry?

Aunty make i send my account? Small 3k make i use hold body abeg.

It is so unfair. We are nudging to 7 months of no academic activity. Since the first week of March. This is highly unfair. I am extremely exhausted

Good morning Sir, i can't claim to know what you feel or how you feel it, but i can authoritatively tell you that this shall not last.

Sorry for your loss, may her soul rest in peace.

Keep on keeping on, for your kids, for your family. Hang in there.

This year remains 3 months, but before the end of those 3 months, you will return here for your testimony.

I'm just a young person and i don't have anything to give, but i will dedicate every prayer to you and your family, it's a promise.

Stay strong and stand tall. We all love you.

lekki1444:
SO he lived in ikoyi rent free for 7 years ? lucky man. Rent in ikoyi is at least 2 million naira for just room and palor

You are a very stupid person. I ask God for forgiveness on your behalf. Tufia!! *spits out

femi4:
Yes, Catholic are not born again Christian with their doctrine though you don't need a river for water baptism but it must be baptism by immersion.

You cant be born again and be quoting "Holy Mary pray for me". We were not taught to honour Mary or pray like that

Go to hell and burn there. Idiot!

Oga stop lying, where did Ondo announce nov 2. Bloody liar

Everyday i come on Nairaland, i see different men complaining and it's always about wife or girlfriend. Nigerian girls are really horrible.

Oshoooo:
Please don't take too front page.
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I have been in a relationship with a lady for 5 years, 3 years into the relationship we had distance issue and it was badly affecting the relationship due to lack of trust. Last year I found out she cheated with a married man but she pleaded and I forgave her because I wasn't a saint myself and we both promised to change and be 100% loyal and I've kept my own part of the promise
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The relationship have been shaky since then but we kept trying to make it work and this year we decided to stay together in her new school where she just had admission so we can rekindle our love. I've been down financially over the past years and I decided to start a business in the new town hoping things will change soon. I moved in with her though she just comes around once in a while due to school lockdown, I arranged my little savings and I set-up my shop but I had a little setback (a loan I was expecting didn't come true) and now the shop is stuck at about 70%, and I can't start work until I have everything setup.
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Recently I found out she was talking to another guy (she mistakenly picked my call while she was in his car and the conversation was heartbroken), she came up with ridiculous lies and I tried to play along but it was too heavy in my heart, I tried to confront her about it that her story weren't adding up and I needed to know what really is going on so my mind can be free and was ready to forget and continue the relationship, but that got fatal as she changed it for me and told me she can't continue the relationship any longer.
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She wouldn't talk to me for weeks and on our supposed 5th year anniversary I had to hit to her to make her reason with me but she's saying she doesn't love me anymore and she can't remember when she stopped loving me, she said she doesn't have to give me any explanation (though I know it's because of the simple fact that the other guy got her a new phone after I've been promising her one since she lost the previous phone but I had to put all my savings into my shop) Asked her why she let me come over here when she knows all this before, now she's saying she's sorry she thought it would work out and now I have until school resume to get my own place because we can't stay together anymore, I can barely feed at the moment and was working on completing my shop and this had to happen.
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I'm lonely in a strange town and the only thing on my mind now is maybe selling off my shop and moving back to Lagos to move on

Sorry bro

This is very serious.

Allow him visit you, set up a camera and play along with him. But before then, control your men to be on standby for better drilling.

Record all of his sexual advances, when you are sure a substantial recording has been made, signal your men, make una drill am like thief.

But you just addressed her as your "GF". Is that not going around telling people she's your GF, why cant she do the same?

Today i stumbled upon a long thread on this forum,
https://www.nairaland.com/6036487/23-years-old-no-idea#92495336,
where a 23 years old student was complaining of worthlessness, 'brokenness' and depression. The ensuing tsunami of replies from hundreds of young people across Nigeria, detailing their own depressing life situations, shocked me to the marrow.

It dawned on me that almost everybody from my generation is on the verge of suicide oh�.




So in the first reply to that post, i highlighted my own depressing story, and decided that i should create a WhatsApp group, where young Nigerians came come together to share ideas, opportunities and together we all can scale through. Like they say, no man is an Island, and in connecting with people from all walks of life you get the best opportunities.

PS: No ulterior motives, just wish to make a change since our government don't care about us.

Please drop your numbers, i will add you myself.

Please can the mods move it to front page, you might be saving someone's life today, and preventing suicide.

Dannonye:
Send the link here

Check the original message, i added my number

Sahgs:
Please am new to nairaland and am interested in joining the whatsapp group@gigante and others hw can I PM

Send me a message on WhatsApp 08060991389