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He said he was in Abuja but he lied ... nigga was in town for 1 month, chilling with a bae he said he didn’t have anything to do with . Just a friend !!!

After crying my eyes out .. I simply replied an old post of a guy who told me he loves me and I said I love you too, screenshot the conversation and sent it to him. Let’s be miserable together.

He couldn’t sleep that night . He messaged me throughout the night till dawn to forgive him . Men!! they can’t bear being cheated on but would cheat on you.

it’s the dream you accept to happens to you accordingly . I always refuse to accept any bad dream and even though they are bad , I turn it into positive with my mouth as soon as I wake up physically. If it’s a bad dream, I wake up and say that dream whatever it meant would only manifest good into my life. The spiritual controls the physical but the physical can reject the spiritual fire to fire . God didn’t give me a spirit of cowardice but one of power.

I’m a dreamer ... I don dream well well for this my life . Sometimes I get afraid , most times filled with spirit. God has blessed the tongue to say what it wants and it shall happen accordingly.

I’ve never had bad dreams come to pass by the grace of God in my life . I always vehemently reject and choose to forget them.

It’s what you accept you shall get . It’s what you speak you shall receive . We are all gods in a human form so I reject any works of the devil in my life.

Sapphire11:
OP failed to legalise his action. The person that he borrowed money and himself didnt agree that the bike would be used as a stake.

I’ve reread the story over again .. he said the second guy who detained the bike , they both came to the conclusion that if the money is not paid on time the guy should sell the bike . There was an agreement to sell the bike .

Sapphire11:
Yes. Exactly what I meant by contact tracing. That is if the person that finally bought it is ready to give it back

Yes. What if the guy has spent the money from the purchase of the bike, how are they going to refund the buyer the money so they can take the bike back?

Na wa o. See case !!!

Sapphire11:
OP failed to legalise his action. The person that he borrowed money and himself didnt agree that the bike would be used as a stake.

Exactly!!! Now he is in soup.

Sapphire11:
Maybe you should do contact tracing and see whether you can still get the bike back(with money), if not you have to provide his bike for him. No be the bike owe you money to start with.

I don’t think he’s going to get the bike that way. What he should do is go meet the friend who sold the bike that the owner needs the bike back. After the buyer has been found , they should refund him back his money and take the bike back.

Sapphire11:
Someone borrowed him(OP) money to clear the bike from police station. The person too also seized the bike, and they came to conclusion that the bike would be sold if he(the OP) doesnt pay back. Now the person that borrowed OP money to retrieve bike from police have sold the bike.
The original owner of the bike have payed OP his 15k back, now the OP is no longer in possession of the bike because the bike has been sold.
This bike have suffered

Thanks. I come confused .

aeion:
@Ginaz: The guy who was owing OP and whose bike OP seized and took to the police, just paid 12k out of the 15k that he was owing, remaining 3k. I think the guy is now asking for his bike back, but the other dude who OP borrowed money from in order to have the police release the bike, has sold it.

Thanks for making me understand.

lovelin1993:
the guy paid me lately, and the other guy acted before he paid me

It’s no excuse who paid and who didn’t pay on time . You knew you have sold the bike you should have refunded him his money and just come upfront with him concerning his bike that he came late and you have sold it and let him do his worst .

Instead you have dug yourself deeper into the messier situation at ground by doing otherwise . How the hell do you even think you’re going to get out of the mess? It’s neither you give him his bike or refund him is money and come blunt about the real condition of the bike .

He’s the one at fault for not paying his debt on time .. but you have given him the upper hand to be the victim here by not acting smart.

If I am to understand clearly , you and the other person sold the bike and both have taken the debts owned to each other from the proceeds.

What I don’t fully understand now is, why did you collect 12k from your friend again when you have sold his bike, already gotten the money owned to you from the purchase of the bike?

That means you have collected the money owned to you twice with just 3k left to complete.

You’re a very wicked somebody . Seizing his bike wasn’t enough but you sold it yet still have the guts to take money a second time .

I hope the father of the boy locks you up in prison and allows you to rot in there till you bring the bike. He has paid you 12k , so you must vomit his bike out . Very wicked man.

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mansakhalifa:
I would have eaten that thing with all that salt in it without flinching one bit.

That's my specialty.

It’s not good to be eating salty food like that o. Better stop it.

The highest form of evil I’ve ever done and wasn’t caught it’s steal my mom small change .she won’t noticed too for it is very small amount like 100 or 50 naira .

I felt there wasn’t much salt to the rice and kept adding salt till I felt satisfied. Rice was ready and everyone had to saved their lives first instead of dying from too much salt in the liver.

Too many I can’t remember them all now .

I sounded like a rat. Voice so tiny like toothpick. I hate VN.

Ihatefeminist:
your breasts are embarrassingly small

Your Brain is an embarrassment to humanity .

I once saw someone walking alone on the road wearing white gown at midnight when I went to take a pee . Walking sluggishly . I was a kid then.

majamajic:
U dey data low key since this shotdown

Na once once dem Dey show for area na

majamajic:
Ginaz u don buy data ?

You Dey sell?

madridguy:
My sister leave emotion out of this. I don't know the man so am only airing my opinion but my point is this, no ones knows tomorrow. Shikena

Lolz.. no one knows tomorrow true true . The Person you feed today fit kill you tomorrow so it’s 50-50.

Help people for God’s sake not cos they have something to offer you tomorrow cos you will be shock when the tomorrow comes and they deny your existence.

madridguy:
The man messed up visiting when his friend is not around. I think the madam should tell her husband to talk to his friend to stop visiting his house when he's not around. He can call his friend and reason with him if he need anything but going to his house is wrong.

As for him visiting everyday, no one knows what the man his passing through. Who knows maybe the man his doing that to escape depression which could lead to suicide or something silly. Who knows maybe NEPA has disconnected his power, and he thinks going to madam house, he will eat, watch cable TV, feel relax and even play video game. This is just my observation but one thing i know is that no man will like to beg his fellow man for food.

The said man will be crying inside too. Do you think its easy begging your fellow man money to eat? When you're not physically challenge. Going to a friend house to eat daily is not what any man will wish himself.

May God help us all.

Being emotional always won’t always help us. All these you listed won’t help . If he is financially handicap , what he would do is, seeking for help to stocked his house . Or ask for food provisions like rice, garri , yam or whatever to help him through .

That’s how someone who is organized would do.. it’s not easy anywhere . Even the house he goes to eat, does he knows the efforts it took for the lady and her husband to stock their house? Does he think it’s easy with them too because they have food?

Why do we always have the “me me me “ mentality? It’s not easy for those who provide too!! That man is an opportunist and lack organizational skills for his life . I know when to help people and know when one is misbehaving which this friend is doing .

A black man will use you and reuse you and somehow still make it look like it’s your fault he is suffering . He should get a hold of himself !! GOSH!

madridguy:
Sir HarunaWest, your point is valid but don't expect any ladies in this forum to subscribe to your opinion. You tried your best to control the lady but instead she throw insult at you.

No one knows tomorrow and tomorrow is always pregnant are words that only few people understand. As you've said, the wife may not know their history, who knows the risk, sacrifice the said friend might have made for the said husband.

For a grown up man to be going to a friend house to eat, walahi not a good thing and no one will ever wish for that.

May God help us all.

Is not about him going to the friend’s house to eat but not doing it properly. When you go visit someone , at-least give them some time to have some privacy to themselves. You come in morning then go at night everyday , isn’t it a bit too much? How would you be respected? The Bible even said one should not visit their neighbor frequently. At least they are not starving him despite he is choosy with food in a house that’s not his and with no courtesy whatsoever to bear with his host .

That’s too far for my liking . And let’s not forget she said the friend visits too whenever her husband is not around . Na from clap dem say Dey enter dance.

veave:
Something is wrong with you. In this pandemic, where everyone is being asked to stay indoors and isolate that someone will be visiting another person? I don't want to trade words with you please don't annoy me further. I have not had anytime to bond with my husband all through this period because we have to entertain his friend. So I should put my own needs on hold so that I can please another person? Don't be unfortunate this morning. You hear me abi? Just don't be unfortunate.

Before the pandemic my husband is hardly around due to his job and this man still came to the house severally I refused to open the door because I don't know what you'd be doing in your friends house with his wife when he's not around.
Woh! Don't be unfortunate today.

Don’t mind them dear.. I totally understand you. It can be so annoying when someone is constantly in your personal space with no sense of boundaries.

HarunaWest:
See thrash your talking Yen Yen Yen. Bond with your husband...so Na COVID make u wan bond with your husband nonsense... Bonding that should be an everyday thing. The husband buying the food isn't complaining, but you are complaining. Naso una dey turn devil's advocate if una Marry man. You want him to keep away from friends, do you know the history between him and that friend. You self centered B****.....you shouldn't be married, you don't deserve it.

Have pity on the young wife instead of you to be insulting your head this morning. Who in their right mind would visit a couple from dusk to dawn with no boundaries and sympathy to their privacy? This period of fear amidst the coronavirus pandemic should not be for visitors. The friend is clearly overstepping his boundaries.

So if the food was bought by the husband she should die abi? Is she not the one cooking and stressing 24hrs in the kitchen? I wonder how some people think I swear.

It’s a known fact that families who haven’t been together much before coronavirus got out of control are taking this opportunity to bond and be together. Let her bond with her husband it’s none of your concern if it’s done in a war zone you disgusting element !!! Your anger and self hate won’t let you see the friend is choking her mental health. The friend is the selfish one here , gosh. Once you lot can’t construct a logical argument, you go emotionally sentimental taking low jabs about the provider of the house . Oga na you Dey provide food for them too?

The baba didn’t try at all.. why would he marry a young girl he can’t sexually satisfied?

This is adorable.

Ibrahim chatta

My handwriting is so bad that from the first page to the next, you will see different writing styles your eyes will bring water on my behalf .

Who care? So far I can read and write I’m good to go.

This is so serious . What a way to be made a scapegoat!!!

See wenti party don cause!

That’s very humiliating though .. Burna grow up!

They didn’t let my cousin enter the wedding hall because they felt her wedding gown was too exposed at the top which was a lie cos it was not .

She started crying and ruined her makeup ... we went to look for a jacket for her to cover up so she could enter the hall. The sleeves of the wedding gown were long and jacket sleeves were short.

She looked like nepa people with their cloth about to cut light .

Her makeup stained the back of the jacket so badly we wanted to take it off but no choice .
I ate a cold rice with no meat after all my hard work, no soft drink to even cool down .