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Then I’m in luck then... I always meet AA dudes.

Why are you broke? I thought you said you make money weekly to be broke?

What’s the name of Diana hair called? I really like it .

donbachi:
it might not be his dad...someone very close to u.

I don’t think so.

donbachi:
Tell him and if ur own dad is alive,pray for him also.

Ok . I don’t know where to start from though. I don’t like such dreams .

Answered.

Wow. This brought back memories that year I just got through with secondary school. Hmmm then we used to whine our small waists to the beats with flat secondary school ass.

Is she the shy type ? What I observed was maybe she is the shy type cos I’m like that most times in public. After chatting up and down , I will act very different live.

Well still get to know her better dear... give her more time to be comfortable with you and the relationship. Some people are kinda very uptight .

When you do over sabi too much that’s what happens to you. Something was on its own and you were enjoying light but your over sabi didn’t let you rest. You keep investigating , well you have finally found your answers so shut up and stop complaining. Pay up your nepa bills.

Even they nepa guy said he would do it for you if you bribe him but your oversabi finally caught up with you. Mtchewww.

This is funny and at the same time serious.

crackkhaus:
1. Only you claimed authority has no effect when it's gotten through force or punishments, then you went ahead to advise withholding money as a deterrent for bad behaviour.
Is this not a form of punishment?

2. You also assumed that this wife in the OP or every wife survives solely on stipends from their husbands...which is quite funny considering that if a male had said this, some of you will start claiming independent frogs.
Anyway, you only exposed your mindset and the stage you are in life.

3. In a situation where the woman actually survives totally or partially on this monthly stipend from her husband, what if she uses the opportunity to begin her hoe moves on the excuse that she's not getting fix?
Will you still not turn around to blame the man?


See, just relax and stick to discussing length of hair extensions, and different shades of make-up. This kind of matters seem too complicated for you.

The matter tire me I swear ... o.p can hopefully find other suggestions that suits him or sound reasonable cos they don’t put mouth for husband and wife matter o.

For night na serious drilling for bed go end am. while we are here fighting and stressing ourselves over suggestions , they are busy Making peace under the sheets.

I don wash my hands off this matter .

His is lovely .

How do you think rich men control their wives? do you think they will exchange words and fight up and down?

They simply cut off the financial backup from every angle . You see rich men wives are always humble to the point of death .

Cos they know what they stand to loose and they can’t afford to.

Don’t let anger get the best of you when she comes home, you shouldn’t confront her as exchange of words may occur, you guys may quarrel which would do no good to the already strain tension.

I don’t see your wife apologizing to you one bit for her disobedient act so don’t bother to confront rather be calm and try to find a way to make this not happen again.

As the head of house , your authority is very important . There can’t be two captains in a boat. Tell her in a calm and cold manner to never repeat such acts or she will face the consequences or see the stuff you’re made of as the man of the house.

There’s something about a stern and cold voice that always send chill down my spine when I’ve overstepped my boundaries .

Men , you guys don’t know this . Authority won’t have any effect when it’s gotten through force or punishments . When you give an order as the head of house , be calm while saying it, walk away , go chill and relax.

When you come back and your wife still did what she has said she would , smile , go inside and say nothing. Eat and sleep. Give her the money for house maintenance, give her the money for the kids but give nothing to her , buy treats for the kids but buy her nothing. If she’s the working type, buy everything yourself , making sure you 10 kobo won’t be left for her to use.

Don’t care about a dime when it comes to giving her money. If she like she should carry her hair for 3months don’t care. Women love money, they love eating money not theirs, believe me she won’t be comfortable.

She will start nagging , complaints here and there but don’t say anything. Until she bursts up her emotions then you tell her that this is the repercussions of her disobedience.

Believe me , she will think twice before she acts disorderly towards you.

I’ve not had any valentine experience

Casalinda:
So calling one delusional, makes one a gentleman?? I am sorry I got out of character and drag your parent into this. It is so not my character and I am sorry for that. The abusive comments I get here. It always get to me, I’m human as well. Sorry I talked ill of your parent

If they get to you then stop bringing all details of your life here . Is it everything you post concerning your relationship?

Duh!!! It’s now getting boring.

Mouth odor .i can’t stand that .

Amstupid:
Fucking bullshit blogger ,,,,,,,

Fake pics

Dis is new Justin ( no neck ta too)

That’s him. He has a neck tattoo. when you don’t stay current,kindly allow others to teach you .

You returned it, he brought it back to you. Now you want to return it a second time!!! Please when you have done so 10times already kindly go get a life .

cococandy:
Well then let’s agree to disagree.

If someone lives with me, I want them to feel free enough to eat whenever they are hungry.

In her case, if it’s about finances she and her husband can ask him to contribute or only agree to host when they can afford to.

About feeling too much at home, lol. That’s the whole point. If someone lives with you, they should be able to feel very very at home. Otherwise they shouldn’t come.

That’s why opening your home to long term visitors is not a small decision. Weigh it well, decide and plan how you’re going to finance it, consider if you can stand living with said person for the amount of time they need or want to stay. And then when the decision is made, it’s made. Everyone should be able to live comfortably without walking on egg shells.

Nothing is the same sis. You may be very free and open cos that is you but with other people , you may need to use 6th sense without being told .

cococandy:
I feel like you’re not understanding where I’m coming from. if the person is visiting for a day or two. Then, It’s not out of place to ask.

But if they are living with you (which is what a prolonged visit is) will they ask for permission for breakfast, lunch and dinner for everyday they live with you? Think about it.

Being inconsiderate is a totally different conversation. Like if they eat everything without thinking of others. That’s different.

But if they eat like a normal person would, bearing in mind that they are living in the house with others, there’s nothing disrespectful about it in my opinion.

I stayed good 6 months at a friend’s family house. I never went to the pot to serve without first asking, sometimes I would wait for my friend to indicate interest to eat and we go together to serve our meal. That is respect. Humans are very funny , you think they don’t notice everything but they do.

I don’t want a situation I go and serve at anytime I want then it would bring talks of me feeling too much at home to the extent I serve food “anyhow” or she likes “eating too much ,” na only food she dey go pot go serve”.

There are boundaries and I try my best to follow them in everything I do. So far you are under someone’s roof, so far you are not the one making important decisions in the house ... kindly respect everything that has to do with the owner of the house.

It shows respect and it’s no way demeaning at all to ask for permission to serve. If it is so demeaning then start brining in money for cooking so you can serve as you want .

Don’t go and serve with reckless abandon a food you don’t bring a kobo for. Show some respect and coordination.

cococandy:
I’m sorry I don’t know what to tell you. I’m trying to be sympathetic because you must be troubled to have brought it here.

The question is: Can he not eat when he’s hungry? Does he have to ask you first? If finance is the problem, Maybe ask your husband to discuss with him on how he can contribute. If he’s not in a financial position to contribute then that means you and your husband must provide for him while he’s there. In which case, only have guests that you can afford to care for.

I don’t think it’s nice to expect him to ask permission every time he’s hungry. Unless he’s a minor. And even then I wouldn’t do that. But it would be a bit more understandable since a minor might not be very hygienic in the kitchen and stuff like that.

Food is such an important aspect of life that I’d hate to restrict anyone’s access to it. I think he’d be more comfortable and at home if he can eat whenever he’s hungry without asking permission

That aspect you said it’s not nice to ask permission before he dishes food for himself is wrong . As big as I am, when I go out to visit my aunts or friends I do ask for permission to serve myself .

It’s totally wrong to be in someone’s house and not take permission to serve yourself no matter how familiar you are with the person . It’s called manner!!! cos you don’t know if the person hasn’t eaten or that is the last meal in the house at the moment or the food is being monitored so I could last some days.

It’s very disrespectful. What’s wrong in saying “can I serve something to eat?” When you go to a restaurant, you just don’t walk in there and go to the kitchen to pick whatever you want . You first of all make an order.

When you’re In someone’s house , coordinate yourself very well. Haba!!! The brother-in-law have bad manners. She should have corrected them earlier on than now .

blackwood:
Where did you see salt kill tapeworm?
Have you seen tapeworm before?

Those long worm that are kinda red in color na. And sucking blood worm. I don’t know their names but that’s what I do call them .

When I was little, I think that would be I was in primary 5 and I came home from school feeling severe pain in a particular tooth. I pinched the gum surrounding the tooth with a sharp fingernail till it bled and I applied salt to it. The pain I felt afterwards was so extreme I felt I would faint, I couldn’t move my body.

The pain died down after my body got used to the extreme pain caused by the salt on a raw wound. I Somehow slept off because of the pains only to wake up feeling something moving inside my mouth. I opened it , and took whatever it was wiggling inside my mouth and behold!! It was a worm.

3 came out of my mouth . I had to call my grandmother to see worms coming out of my mouth. We removed them and since I haven’t had toothache till now .

Nobody told me to put salt in my tooth, I was a very curious child. I have seen salt kill tapeworms and felt if I should apply it to my tooth it would kill the worms. Never in my wild and curious imagination would I have thought live worms would come out of my mouth.

I hardly visit people , neither do I want to be visited. Even if I must visit , I keep to time and go home on time . Dramas that come from such situations I don’t entertain as I respect myself so well wherever I am. I’ve not had such experience before .

Beautiful... may God add many more years to your family’s lifespan amen.

You have to ignore people with their bile of hate so their negative energy won’t destroy the beauty of the thread.

I can never understand what is so sweet in eating your nails. I tried eating mine just to describe the feeling but I was so disgusted with the taste of my fingernails in my mouth .

I suffer from intense curiosity though.

Try longrich antiperspirant dew. It helps in keeping you dry for long.

Hmmmm I’m afraid the guy don jakpa o.

Wow, things dey happen for this world o. What could have happened to him?
God abeg o... May evil not befall us.