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Tallesty1: Don't Eat That Food. I repeat, Don't Eat That Food

why not? If he doesn't want to eat, force it down his throat..

Yomieluv: D1ck.

then the prostitutes should be the happiest abi. Since they have varieties of it....

bukatyne: Were you able to get iced fish? [color=#000099][/color]

out of shock, i was only able to catch a crocodile and some crabs...

bukatyne: I myself shock!

I thought she has carried like 10 and knew all the technicalities

exactly my thought o. her last comment hit me like i fell into
iced river. and she said she was taking from experience and OP was busy
thanking her. i just hope he won't go and start telling madam to pound
yam and not be lazy

Domwiz4all: Lolz which woman wont want both? But 80% of successful men are always busy makin more money.

i want both because i will also be bringing both to the table.

cirmuell: that's what happens when younglins who don't know jack sh¡t 'bout marriage rush into it like tomorrow will never come.

you mean young as in age or experience?

I want both.

snazzylove: Nne desperate situation calls for desperate measures. B4 I married my hussy, I used to love like this oo(the I go die type of love), not that I don't still luv him very much though, but not at the detriment of my life(that I cherish so much). When we got married and I started seeing tinz, no be person tell me use water dilute d love small and develop thick skin towards certain things.
Exactly what am asking Adufemi to try out.

na wa for love o

KVN1: Come on guys.must i say everything?

you are on your very own.
to your question--I can't know what i will do

snazzylove: No justification whatsoever. How do I explain this, its difficult for me to explain but I'll try. From all she's saying(Adufemi) she's actually showing hubby dat she's helplessly in love which I think is why hubby is reacting the way he is(my opinion though).
Then for getting attracted to ex, maybe I didn't put it right, but what am trying to say is that probably dat 'leech'(ex) is giving him tough love.
So in essence am saying she should try tough love ans see if it works for her and bring him back home plus prayers.
Hope u undrstand my point now, plus I never said OP is responsible for why hubby was attracted to ex.

okay. but i still don't get it. tough love in marriage? anything wrong in loving your spouse without measure?? abeg snazzylove, no confuse me o.

KVN1: What will you do if your husband brings in an underage girl to your house?

as what?

thorpido: Justification?There's nothing to justify here.He is a man walking the wrong path,abandoning his family for some outside pleasure.He's not thinking if it's right or wrong,he's just doing it.

I was responding to snazzylove where she said the OP might be responsible for why her husband is attracted to his ex

aisha2: To

Isn't literal, charm on her face means she always looked great, on her tongue means she always said pleasant respectful things as has been confirmed by the author, in her heart means she was open and loving hence won them over by her reaffirming love

okay o.

snazzylove: Adufemiiiiii! Haba! U wan die on top love?
I really am sorry and regret to say that you are the one that empowered that guy to treat you like trash. YOU ARE SUFFOCATING HIM WITH LOVE PERIOD!!! NOBODY LIKES THAT, PERSONALLY IT PISSES ME OFF, AND AM SURE THAT IS WHAT IS HAPPENING TO UR HUBBY!
Free him abeg.
Try to harden up and see if you story will not change, it may be what attacted him back to his ex. He doesn't need the 'baby mama' kind of love.
Do ur tin and pay less attention to him, let's see if he won't come back and try to know what's making u tick.

hmmm snazzylove, is there any justification of been attracted to your ex while still married to spouse?? and please i need more explanation on the highlighted...

snazzylove: My hubby? Try this?
Lai lai. He will not wear those shirts oo. No fights. I will politely destroy them.
#JikTinz# Rubbish

temigracie: ...I rest my case then...You are a mother, am not....You have lots of experience, i have none at all....

So you have never been pregnant??

backtosender: Unknown to everyone, before Lola left her parents’ home, she fortified herself for any eventuality, having known that her husband’s family were not happy about the marriage. Her parents had also done all they could to dissuade her from marrying an Igbo man, but their words fell on her like water on the back of a duck. So she knew she had a major battle to face in her new home. Failure was not an option, for if the marriage failed or proved unhappy, her parents would give her the I-told-you treatment. Consequently, before leaving for Nnewi, she boiled herself in a pot of charm. Then, she etched the charm on her face, tongue and heart. The power in the charm was meant to automatically make anyone around her to like her. Anyone she smiled at or talked to was meant to be charmed by her.[/b]

@aisha2- while you are right about the definition of CHARM, but according to this story, what do you see about the highlighted? Because i don't think the OP was using some figure of speech here o.

Though i am not even interested int he story sef.

what a shame

Sagamite: If you want me to be civil,

- Demonstrate you have a brain.

- Be respectful

- And don't fcking try to strawman me.

- And if you do so, when I highlight it, don't try and get pejoratively snide with me.

I don't ignore, I attack!

Better understand that. I don't tolerate rude girls. I put them in their place A-sharp!

congratulations!!!!!!!!

Bunsky: Another Andyblaze..

you can say that again.

SpaceGoat: yes she ask me to pound yam on sunday too sabbath day. during the world cup time she will kill telly , i had to go wash it outside

so your telly has died? RIP to the telly o. And what did you wash with? omo or ariel?

Sagamite: Now we can conclude they are not doing you that badly in your village. So your "opinion" was to strawman me?

You can conclude with whoever you like about how they are not doing you that badly in your village. My opinion is my opinion. If you have contrary opinion, you can be civil about questioning it else just ignore......

Sagamite: So na ghost type the rest of your post?

the only part with question mark is the question i asked you.
The other parts are my opinion and that was why i separated them from the question i directed to you. What else do you want? Please leave me alone.

Phema: ^^^ Exactly what I got him . . .In my dreams

Godmystrength, you should take a cue from moi.

Maybe i can get them for him this night.....in my dreams too

Acidosis: ahaha, forgive me mama..

Sagamite: No 1, there is weight adding that is not someone's fault. And there is weight adding that is someone's fault. Don't try that shyt with Sagamu.

No 2, I am sure I don't need to give justification to most women to dumb men they are not interested in anymore. They are experts in doing so if they can move to better and safer things. They would just come up with some flimsy excuse like "He is not paying me enough attention" "We are always fighting [true, but this is due to her tactical moves to start fights every time shortly before the break-up]" and then you see the real men (in their pretentious "wisdom) start supporting her and blaming him for not paying her attention or not being "mature enough" to handle a woman.



No 3, now please show me where I complained a woman desires a rich man.

O fe strawman Saga Saga? (You want to strawman Saga Saga?)

I only asked you one question which is

Godmystrength: Are you now saying that since a man has the right to complain or even leave his wife that is adding weight because she no longer looks like the woman he married even if the weight adding is not her fault/doing, then a woman is also justified to abandon her husband when he becomes broke since he is no longer the rich/wealthy guy he married?

..........

wetin concern me with all the rest of your stories? Abi you didn't see the spaces (paragraphs) between

Iwo lo ma strawman Saga Saga? (Na you go strawman Saga Saga?) whatever that means... Please keep your shyt to yourself. Thank you.

aisha2: She was your girlfriend on the 28th of august, world cup was in June, very confusing, also last Thursday she was your girlfriend let's say you married her on Saturday, shouldn't you still be on honeymoon?was it on Sunday she asked you to pound yam?

Are you minding him??
So you don't know him on NL?? I just wonder what he is doing in the family section..

shizzleStar: Helen there's nothing really out of the ordinary. Like i said earlier, its all about knowing your man and what he loves(cherishes).

If he is the jewelry kind of man, you could get him a gold wrist watch, gold wrist chain, gold necklace OR an exotic perfume. Thinking aloud now, if he is the type that cuts his hair every weekend or every two weeks and does not have a personal clipper (possible but i doubt that) in addition to a perfume, get him a brand new clipper (original WHAL).

If you dont find any of these satisfactory, i have another idea, one that will blow your man away, but i guess by now you should be able to make a good choice.

interested

onirugbon1: Ok you get b**bs.

Are you looking for b**bs or are yours missing??

pickabeau1: I am but a pencil in the hands of the Creator..

It is easier to say than do

i rest my case then

pickabeau1: Madam... what can i say

Are u not aware the mainstream view for some is that if ur man cheats on you, cheat on him..there are available men waiting on the corner to be activated like remote control.. though in this case there is no male cheating.. the principle still applies..

She should keep up the good fight

Try Try Try again... she is wailing and gnashing cos na one chance she enter

so true.