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aisha2: I love the pepper

i don't like pepper

nickz: what's your definition of tall bro??
cause some people see 5 feet as tall

none of my my yoruba female friends are as tall as I am(I've got a lot)

your ''yoruba female friends'' is not the population of yoruba girls. How many female friends do yo have? 1,000, 2,000,3,000,10,000..................

Tall is tall. that is why i said

Godmystrength: So whose opinion because I have seen lots of TALL, VERY TALL, SHORT, VERY SHORT, AVERAGE heights. You mean you haven't seen any tall ones

plus 5fts is not in my definition of tall.....so

besides, i have got lots of yoruba female friends and i am among the average by their standard (please note that i am NOT SHORT by every standard)

nickz: its not my opinion,how many tall ones have you seen

So whose opinion because I have seen lots of TALL, VERY TALL, SHORT, VERY SHORT, AVERAGE heights. You mean you haven't seen any tall ones

Haywhymido: pls where do u spring out 4rm U will make a gud counsellor.U r in d category of dose ladies i wanna marry, ladies dat can think intensively b4 dey talk or text as d case may be.whenever i come across ur comment here seriously u never disappoint.Ur husband to be will be very lucky to av u.

she is already taken. thanks for the compliment though

logica: Eh ehn? Sebi those things you listed are REASONS. Not so? So it is still a valid question. You are merely providing possible answers.

I remember some silly 19 year olds asking "rhetorically" why a 28 year old man was not married some years ago. I bet they have gotten more philosophical these days.

I never said any question is invalid o

nickz: yes! height!
any probs??

No probs. your opinion o.

nickz: yoruba girls are nice tho

i just think they think way too much of themselves
they know how to love
the educated ones are "out of this world"
and i like them cause(majority) "THEY ARE NOT TALL"

excuse me?? u mean tall as in height or as a figurative expression?

because i don't like washing clothes. I don't even wash my own or my baby's own. The highest i can wash are my underwears....

@OP, since you enjoy doing it/intend doing it, then don't be discouraged. keep it up. Nothing bad in ''Beingunique'' anyway.

5minsmadness: Wait o

Are we talking about attention or erection?

yes we are talking about Attention. lol

imasleek: they're saying i should try and hussle by myself

where in ibadan cos ibadan is big sha

Elantracey: pls ehn oga @ the top just take the pain and read all my posts on this
thread , you can make it easier by just going to my profile and reading
my posts and after that if this is still the only picture you can paint
about me then you're the judgemental person here.

tracey mi sweetie. e don do jare. u have tried. just be watching from the sides. greet GO for me. any update on itohan?

Elantracey: yea I agree but do you know that you just judged me ? There could be
several reasons why I asked that question moreover you don't know what
on my mind before I asked it, I could have just being wondering what
must have kept her think then and decided to voice it out even though I
know no one here has an answer to it , I always try my best never to
take God's place in people's life because I know am not perfect at
all.

okay good. i like you.

silversonuc: d guy na frat man?

what frat?

silversonuc: buh who doesnt knw dat 80% of unmarried ladies today were eida too
choosy, made demselves unapproachable or had unbearable traits dat kept
driving potential suitors away, wen age strts settin in dey strt crying
foul

i don't know

perry2020: Hmmmm re u surecoz I read tru ur story on the counseling thread and
shows ur a very supportive wife with responsibilities.

that i am
supportive with responsibilities should not stop him from
being same and that is why i am striving to strike a balance. my
marriage is not a benchmark for an idea/perfect marriage.

pickabeau1:

i know what i am saying o. After a while what happened
here will happen and people will start saying all manners of
things https://www.nairaland.com/1885602/run-when-woman-says-need#25986682

I doubt if the gf is aware that her bobo doesn't want to marry a yoruba
girl ''unless he is not in his right sense''

alutacontinua: I've been broke for like 2 days now and I'm definitely
All the attention in the universe right now will not make me
Thunder fire attention

perry2020: Nothing crioz now just dat a wife has to be mur responsible
spiritually,economically psychologically,all round. She is responsible
for her kids,her home,her husband (at tyms),wen tinz go wrong wif d kids
the fingers re always pointed to d wives mostly than husbands.
D husband's duty basically is to provide for the family and love them
contribute to raising them in a godly way when he is available.
U as a married woman don't u have mur responsibilities or duties than ur
husband?.

We both have our responsibilities and no one should be over
burdened with endless responsibilities

priest2u: One good way to start is to know the qualities of a non-wife material . For example the poster I quoted just display qualities most men don't want in wife

then i guess her husband is not among most men then abi?

perry2020: I no say u dey wine me now.me sef is kidding u.
And about ur question plz write it in full m nt clear.

This is what you said

perry2020: Husband material is almost same wif wife bt u no d duties of a wife is mur.

and this is my question

Godmystrength: Really? says who? I don't think i know. I want to know

M4gunners: I can only reason with you on someone whose partner died few weeks or days before the

why does it have to be only someone whose partner died few weeks or days before the wedding?

Not all relationships lead to marriage and it doesn't mean that any of the parties are bad or something. Some things just don't work out well and everybody moves on.... If a woman finds herself in a messy relationship, isn't it right for her to leave?
I read somewhere on this NL where a man said he will never take a woman who has dated ONE PERSON for straight 4 years serious....
So many things are involved and only the affected person knows where the shoe pinches.

ndidibabe: Of course, you are right. However, you don't understand my logic.

Please make me understand...

ndidibabe: very simple. If you don't go to school, how will you attract a Medical Doctor or a Chevron Engineer? You want a God fearing man and you are from God? Then, you are on a long thing...

I didn't go to school because i want to attract a Medical Doctor or a Chevron Engineer. I did because i want a good life for myself.
I strive to be close to God because i take delight in worshiping him in response to his love towards me not because of a man.

I have seen engineers, doctors etc get married to stark illiterates and i have seen ''sinners'' get married to choicest husbands etc. How did they attract them? Getting a fulfilling spouse is beyond going to school, building a career and being God fearing...... There are so many GOD FEARING, HIGHLY EDUCATED, STRONG CAREER women that are still unmarried..
Everything is by the grace and mercy of God.

On a light note- i hope the guy i am trying to attract is also going to school so he will be able to attract me and also God fearing in other to attract me as well.........

aisha2: And there are people who have been through much worse,I have a friend who dated all through school and the guy was a medical student, they were together for roughly 8 years when they were to get married. Even at that point she was working and earning very well he was serving, the girl actually interrupted the main wedding, they had to wait till she gave birth for a dna test because the guy was denying the pregnancy, after another 1 year guy turned out to be the father so give and take 9 years gone and it took her a year or 2 to be mentally ready to rate, she married at 33

Tallesty1: hahahhahahahaha. But person for kpai if the visitor no dey dia.

then slapping things go end now abi. End of discussion.

pickabeau1: who sai..u sef tah!.. i will never advocate mind games or divorce as some are wont to do

I say.
Na you sabi....
Anything you like advocate o. OPs go still do wetin they like

ndidibabe: Story story.... I am a 32 year old mother of two handsome boys. As you lay your bed, so you will lie on it. When most girls should be busy 'shaping' their life by having a good Education , building a career and getting closer to God, thereby making themselves 'marriable' , they were busy jumping from one Boy's room to another cooking, washing clothes and fuc...ng as in the case of idowuigbo and her friends on NL. How dem wan see correct Husband marry?

Are you saying all these thing should be done because we want to be ''marriable''

I go to school so that a man can be able to marry me?
I build my career so that a man can be able to marry me?
I get close to God so that a man can be able to marry me?

M4gunners: Let me come in here.To your quastion yes.Any unmarried woman above 35 years of age, contributed to her problems.You can't tell me from her early age of 20 till date no serious Man has come her way.Either She was then selective or busy looking for money no time for serious relationship then.

What about someone whose partner died some weeks to the wedding after a relationship of 7 years,
or someone whose partner impregnated another woman and decided to go for the pregnant one,
or someone whose partner traveled out and after a long wait refuse to come back home or came back married etc.
In as much as i am not disputing the fact that there are some women like you mentioned in your post, i am saying that is not the case with every unmarried woman above 35years of age. every individual case is different.

Tallesty1: lols, who do we blame then?

the visitors ni for doing gbeborun

harrysterol: having a gf is not thesame as been married don't be confused

I know what i am saying. what are you doing with a yoruba girlfriend if you can't marry a yoruba female??

pickabeau1: i no dey..

tah!! you full every classroom o......

jennykadry: Give me the money

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