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Sagamite: Unfortunately, women are not primarily after looks.

When a man gets a warning is when the money he spends on her or gives her falls by 30% and she still has options of decent-looking toasters with deeper pockets, who are ready to commit, care about her, respect her, is tall enough, finished university, has a good job, loves his mother, his mother is not a witch, has no babymama or at least the babymama is out of the picture or remarried, has not more than 2 kids but preferably none, can dress nicely, smells nice, can take her worst BS and still smile at her, says 'I love you' everyday or at least 3 times a week, can cook and is willing to share domestics blah blah blah blah blah.

gidjah: PLS MARRIED PEEPS,how do u cope wit a never apologising wife and a talking down wife,after many appeals?

pickabeau1: It is easier to say than do

Acidosis: Loll, I dunno sir

pickabeau1:


if this story is true.. i laugh doubly

reminds me of some posters here who threaten to have a boytoy on standby if their hubby focks up
Na so e easy

i hope she is not pregnant though...

In life if u start a task n fail, persevere and try again... hope she used protection...

Phema: My sister, these things vary jare. Some hubbies will like a surprise party, others won't. Some will appreciate a card and flower, others won't. My hubby hates parties/crowd with people cheering. And cake? He could barely eat the one I fed him with on our wedding day

So, you know him, you know what he will like. Just identify his need and surprise him with it. It could be his dream car, a land document is his choice location, a key to an already built and furnished apartment

Just something that reiterates that fact that he couldn't have made a better choice than you.

pickabeau1: It is easier to say than do

crackhaus: But remember, one can only get infected by direct contact with someone who's showing symptoms.

chibabe3: the husband is not comfortable with that and assuring
her that the risk is very minimal... he is safe

shizzleStar: ...and you didn't see the 'laugh' smiley to tell you I was catching fun? No need to get serious over this okay!

Nice night Mrs Smartie

shizzleStar: You should have asked properly, the 's' you added to 'girl' made it ambiguous. Yes, 'she' is female.

shizzleStar: this - singular
these - plural

its either this girl or these girls, you should have known that I
preferred to use the plural to refer not just to ladystewie but to her
likes too, the same way she chose to use these men and not this man...

Poor attempt smartie

Acidosis: you get b**bs?

snazzylove: I rest my case too .

pickabeau1: Beating, whipping, scolding etc or else this thread will be spoiled..however its you n snazzylove call..




I think so too

perry2020: Well der re cases lik dis oo,even in churches d wives want to just show off,i remember d case of a lady who uses all her earnings to buy shoes,bag,brazillian hair and all competiting wif d single ladies forgetting ha husbnd is nt dangote n she is ment to be an helper expecting d man to use ez little salary to do all down to even giving her personal allowance despite she is working ha shakara stopped Wen she lost her job.
Ladies plz always try to support ur husband's in any little way u can(fianancially,morally,spiritually etc) dat is d basic reason why till today my dad loves my mum silly n we girls have learnt dat coz it knt be always rossy.
Dh dnt say no dime at home,mayb no dime for u,f she doesn't have a dime she won't have pulled dat stunt.dats d mur reason why men should study women b4 getting married it's nt abt d beauty,physiq,its abt is she supportive,take her out on a date n c d reaction wen u ask her to pay d billz,put her to test n see f she is d kinda lady dat can stand by no no Mata what.my tori don dey too much,anyways forgive her n let t slide(dnt forget to correct her n prove to her dat wat she did was rng before giving her d money. bt f u c she continues to do dat den punish her,ur a man uv got authority over her,wen I say punish her I dnt mean beat her up oo.u no how u husband's punish us nw f u say u dnt av money n dnt bring none der is nothing we can do bt succumb.

pickabeau1: hmm... maybe a new thread should be opened so that the pros and cons of beating can be well discussed

pickabeau1: Fair enough...

As an aside though im curious as to why u assign more blame to the woman

snazzylove: Even the bible said we should not spare the rod and spoil the child. If you read the post very well, she didn't beat on first and second occassion, but on the third, after she probably realized that talking may not do the job.
Yes she was extreme with the pepper stuff, buh am sure she knew its not detrimental to his health besides he's too young to understand.
I want to believe she is a good mother cos she doesn't want her son becoming something else tomorrow or start getting reports from his teachers that he's molesting his classmates in any way.

However like I said earlier, parenting styles differ.

5minsmadness: What ??
How can a normal person drive his wife out just like that!
Some men are not fit to be husbands
Nonsense
Does he think his wife is a slave? What an ignoramus!
The woman should leave the smelly bastard and file for divorce and make sure she collects her children!

There. Happy? Good. Over and out.

pickabeau1: thats my opinion though.. what do you think

pickabeau1: Both sides have some share of the blame

onetouch7: it's Yoruba English." ejo e no fe koja " literally means 'sorry I want to pass'.
Direct interpretation

ayogabriel: Common among ladies compared to guys, when ever someone tells me sorry in this context, I smile and say sorry too, giving a sarcastic look

shizzleStar: beings
all these girls that will murder English and will still not answer the simple question from the op, smdh

oluwabukunola: what! Is he insane or what oops! Sorry about dat. Ahn! Ahn! Which kain man be dat. Hmm God is your helper o.

pickabeau1: Dont blame the men fully.. Some women have been places