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Is he the 26years old guy you said you just met? How many men are you even dating at a time? The same way you have accepted to date him because of money, then you have to accept to marry him because of the same money o.

MissYuzedo: well i met dis new guy in transcorp hilton
he is so cute---- he has cars --a doctor by profession
he is evrything in a man but but but
he is a dwarf
em em em he is taller dan aki and paw paw-
he asked me to date him--cos of money i accpetd
we have been on for 6 months now
and guess wat he is proposing
em em em i dont know if i love him cos i gat phobia
or love
ma paerten might not accpet him ooo
but em em personall how will marry a dwarf chiee
do u all think marrying a dwarf is normal
#bITG

TribalEAST: who's name did I call?

your colleague was calling out people's names and since you said you guys reason alike, it means you support what he did.

dre11: getting used to a moniker that rock the boat of the family section
abeg, u just finding ways to justify ur actions

anyway..... tell me sometimes about 2day activities and which games thread do u visit before in ur former nl life

the scrable, unscrable, ramble threads and the literature sections (to read most of the time)...

Like i said, i am still trying to get used to this moniker going outside the family section. Still undecided about whether to continue using it fully (everywhere) and just abandon the old one. I love my old moniker too and i have friends who know me on a more personal level jare..... I am just hiding behind this new moniker....

See how we are derailing tracey's thread...

TribalEAST: am sorry, we are different but perhaps reason alike.

So you support the calling out of people's names?

soulglo: Buy a vibrator that runs on diesel if you have to. There's no justification to step out on your husband. You knew he was a 2 sec man before you married him.

diesel ke??

eighTHREAD: Nice write up. Cococandy, carefreewannabe, godmystrenght, sambarry etc....look what I found!

What is the meaning of this now why are you calling my name? Kini gbogbo eleyi bayi??

TribalEAST: I don't fancy feminism...I don't don't diss them but try to correct them...I create threads to point out their faults which they hardly counter...the person that tagged you, I believe, is spreading the goodnews.

Oh!! i see. Na you dey send him message abi?

@eighTHREAD - Aimo ise ko, lomu ki omorogun tori bo omi gbigbona o.

The two names even look alike. mtschew

SAMBARRY: na talk be this

Na ''literate'' person dey talk o. Abeg leave him alone

traware the literate. mi o raaye oshi laaro kutukutu o jere. #In 2face's voice, i mind my own biz and i don't give a sh1t......

dre11:
after or before *the two become one*
so, what can make u come out of that place self and do enjoy other sections like u used to before the alien invasion

two already became one long before i got active on NL. I still trying to get used to this moniker after which...

SAMBARRY: abi and when they are caught, they will quickly turn
tables around that you're the one trying to seduce them . Who the wife
go believe before

so to avoid tables turning, the victims keep
quiet and everybody assumes uncle is a VERY NICE man

dre11: observing other forums abi
no wahala when u finish...... make we know
but, the purpose was addressed that time nah

abi sometimes still crop up again ni
I just dey see ur signature for that family threads and threads all over again

maybe i just got addicted to the family section ni.

SAMBARRY: exactly

abi now. plus the ones that will want to rape you. all na maltreatment too.

^^^ they will soon be here. There are wicked uncles too. The ones that will want to inherit their brother's properties including his widow and or send her and her children packing.....each gender with area of speciality in wickedness..

@nikkykay-i doubt if wolewill will want to confess to wifey again if he goes for test alone and it comes out negative. Except he is truely repentant and not for the fear of herpes.

dre11: ..

this moniker was registered to sort out family related issues and so it stays in family section. no chance to be shuttling btw 2 identities . I am just observing for now.

galantjoe: may be u are not married. it is when you marry that u will see the true nature of womanhood.
May be u are still in shallow love. take it or leave it.

If you choose to think alone this lane, please note that it is not only the true nature of womanhood that marriage will/can expose. It will/can also expose the true nature of manhood. Abi you think manhood does not have true nature too?

Well i guess the same way some men have this thoughts, if you dig further, their spouses also have similar thoughts towards them. So i ask myself why stay married if you have to constantly live in fear of what the true nature of man/womanhood has to expose..............

If we want to keep giving bad examples, i tell you we have enough of them to go round both genders

dre11: so glad to hear that
r
tried drag u out since I only see ur post in the family section alone

abi, ur second moniker is active somewhere else ni

I used to be active here(Forum Games) until the NL crash. I have abandoned the old moniker for now. I think i like this new one

dre11: am good sis
aw is the baby and work

baby is fine, work is going on smoothly.

adekanbicv: I need a mature lady above 30yrs around lagos or abeokuta. Interested 08188133139

for RITUALS

ledafaze: Just like the story if a very close friend of mine... After having then first child, his young wife told him that he wants to go and play with guys a bit.... My friend allowed her... She left.... Came back... And he still allowed her to be his wife....


I laff... No be story... It happened here in Lagos.

i no dey believe this one jare....

@man in OP- are you a nigerian?

i have done all expect number 2(drawing of d sun)

dre11: ...

How are you doing? take care

abbey621: You are 100% right, back in my college days I've seen plenty guys taking advantage of rich, naive girls.

good that you understand me now.

soulglo: No ones talking about boyfriends here. You cannot be married and even if you are you most certainly have no investment accounts. Definitely no retirement accounts or even college accounts for the kids. You cannot possibly understand the financial responsibilities both parents have to their kids if you think that expecting to have a plan that would benefit the family unit is scheming. It's called growing up and taking responsibility. What is wrong in saying one persons income could be for running the family and funding the short term emergency fund. The other could be for investments and long term savings like college funds and retirement funds. A plan like that would never work if you both are selfishly holding unto your money or if one spouse knows without a doubt that should the other drop dead they are are screwed. This is why people secretly build houses, buy land etc. why would they be honest when they know that if their spouse drops dead they would have nothing. what the hell sort of marriage is that.

Just like what could be happening here
https://www.nairaland.com/1557237/secret-thing-some-wives
who knows whether that is what is happening to the woman in question.

abbey621: Absolutely! When I say very very poor background, I mean poverty drenched household. Guys from such backgrounds are usually hard working but they are also very wise, most times they look for girls who can help their situation not one who can make it worse.

Also, guys from very very rich backgrounds are less likely to be dependent on their woman's wealth. In fact, they end up being victims because they fall into the hands of girls who will exploit them for monetary gains. Now don't get me wrong there are exceptions to every rule and statistics can be skewed or manipulated but you get the gist....

how does this look? Just know that as we have girls gold diggers so do we have boys gold diggers and also as we have girls chopping guys' money, we also have guys chopping girls' money. So don't be too hard on the girls alone........ Everyone has stories to tell o

Mboi: Only a foolish woman destryos her home with her hands. Marriage is for better for worse. You have to make you fammily comfortable first before others. I believe if they are comfortable,the man wouldn't have made that move to stop the woman. Whatever a man makes or has is for the family but whatever a woman makes or has is for her alone abi? How will the woman feel if the man is building a house for his parents and siblings somewhere meanwhile he still lives in a rented apartment with the wife and children. The man's inlaws are wicked and can kill that man and take over all his property. That man has to be very careful with that wife because the inlaws will be looking for ways to eliminate him as he's now becoming their enemy of progress. All of you that supports the woman cannot tell me you don't know how to do things the right way.

Okay. But are you saying that the man did right by stopping his wife from working and earning a living? Besides, i don't see how stopping the woman from working will make them more comfortable....To me, he has just added more to his burden because it is possible that the woman will be supporting him financially with little from what she is earning but now he has to do all by himself...... There are so many ways of correcting/punishing the woman but the one he choose is just the worst and unreasonable of all......

abbey621: Yes! Yes! Yes! The figure could be as low as 6/10 girls when you factor in girls from very very rich background and as high as 10/10 when you factor in girls from very very poor backgrounds. The second part of your question is simple, the guys might not honor their requests but girls are still going to ask, they feel it is their God given rights as a female.

Are you trying to say that all girls from very very poor backgrounds are going to ask/are asking to be spent on by their men? And that fewer girls from very very rich background would do same? I just want to be sure i understand you clearly

bukatyne: Are you preggers?

*baby 2 on the way

So all rest na BELLE rest ni??

abbey621: It's all about the weakling complex. Most women dream of handsome, wealthy husbands to take care of them, they feel it is the right thing and exactly what they deserve in life. It's only in advanced countries that women are gradually debunking such beliefs. In Nigeria however, husbands or boyfriends are known as caregivers, from hair extensions to monthly allowance; girls are just too ridiculous. For every 10 girls in 9ja, 8 are dependent on their boyfriend or husband, the little money their parents provide or their own personal funds isn't enough to keep up with their extravagant lifestyle, they got's to belong...

I am worried about this your statistic...........8 out of 10 girls?
So that means 8 out of 10 guys are financial responsibly to their girlfriends/wives?

donpeey22: You know the truth but just don't want accept. 99% of women in their selfishness, seek wealthy men for marriage. Even women who are relatively doing well Financially still will not marry a man who isn't atleast as wealthy. It's been known that most married people lose trust way into marriage, don't be Carried away by d lovey dovey thing you are still enjoying as a newly married lady, you may understand better later in your marriage, though i pray yours wont be too bad.

Are you now saying most men are wealthy and that 99% of women seek wealthy men for marriage? So who are the people marrying the poor men? Are they not women also? Like someone once said on one thread ''men are not used to women having the financial power'' in this part of our world........

The woman was wrong to build a house without her husband's knowledge
The man was wrong for stopping her from working and making her sit down at home doing nothing.


On a lighter note, maybe she is a nairalander and has been reading threads like this
https://www.nairaland.com/1872935/why-some-wives-been-denied

But the topic is bias o. It should have something like ''secret thing my friend's wife did'' or maybe ''secret things some people/spouses do'' after all it is not only the wife that can do secret things. Abi what of those men that have children outside and wifey is not aware, or those that build houses and buy cars for girlfriends and mistresses, or have properties that their siblings and/or parents are aware of but unknown to the wives? Abi all these ones are not secret things too?

Somebody is saying that he will tell the wife&papa that they should sell the house and use the money for whatever, so if man impregnates a woman and wife gets to know about the baby, maybe she can advise hubby to dispose the baby and let them jointly look for another woman for the man to impregnate so they can jointly collect the baby.

Maybe the wife is aware that her husband has no plans for her and that she is on her own. Or have we not hear of men that will be buying everything they have in their own name and will be angry/refuse to allow the wife to own her own properties? With the kind of action this man took to punish his wife, i doubt if he isn't one of such men.............

snazzylove: Hahahahahaa otondo laff
Kanwulia & co, you pple will not murder me with this big feet ish

Talking about submission, please let us all "submit" 'ALL' wholeheartedly to our husbands. Submit all that you have, plus house chores, plus taking care of kids, and if possible, plus pregnancy and delivery .

Me I want to be totally submissive oo

If they catch you, na only you waka come o

3cycle: Number of degrees a wife should bag
Not sure if its a sex position

I know o. Don't mind me