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SlimCaze88:
Bros please help me make i chop, I am seriously broke
0029966746 diamond bank

I would have loved to help you but Nigeria is too unsafe. Its hard to trust someone u know not to mention someone u dont

4 whole tonnes? That weighs more than my car

See my own

1 when a friend pranked me with a false GPA over the phone 2,getting robbed at gun point with the cold metal gun touching my abdomen

Experienced that once but at uba and it was the last N1000 in my account and as a student then it was my last hope. Omo if u see the way i vex with hungry and angry face enter bank na once them change am for me sharp sharp.

obekediamondfuto:
works pretty well if u know what u r doing

Yes ooo the paint is still very sharp even after 2 years. I clean once or twice a week.

Elder001:
what these guys don't understand is ladies below 27 aren't serious and matured enough to be in a committed relationship because they feel like exploring their young life hence you can hardly see ladies who've dated only 1guy before getting married.

Most of them that are always complaining are dating young girls. .those kids aren't focussed in life.

they don't have jobs
they're from poor homes
they're not ready for marriage
they're still dependent.. so it will be hard for them not to demand from you.

A young lady saw my number on a whatsapp group and she sent a text, I replied and we started talking I just wanted her to be my friend because I don't date kids and I made it clear.

fast forward to 2months later this girl told me that she used her phone to sew seed in her church so that she can be admitted into uniben so I should send her money to purchase a new one.

lol.. a lady I haven't even met in real life o

I was about to purchase my first car then.. I simply told her that I've more important things to do with my cash and she started disturbing me anyhow,, you know what? I blocked her.


if you want to date a matured and responsible lady that'll lead to marriage

don't expect to find them in clubs
don't expect to find them in social gatherings
they don't tolerate shíts
date matured independent ladies that are above 28 and you'll have peace of mind to some extent.

True but some lie about their age. Some ladies dont trust u with their age if u are far older with 4 to 5 years they increase it. Whats the big deal with age anyway. I only dated 1 girl that was 27 wen i was 22 and no other relationships beat hers. Even though she was older she respected me so much. She had a youthful appearance and u could never tell her age from her appearance.
I never expected her to be 27 till she actually revealed it to me weeks into the relationship. But age didn't make her lose respect, its felt weird wen she talked to be like i was the older one. She really brought herself down and actually obeyed me, we were like a normal couple but along the line we terminated the relationship in a mature way cuz he family was against it and seriously the age gap was too far. Other than her i have not dated any girl above 25 and they can be saints at first but later demons. My conclusion is as a girl grows older the more mature her mind becomes.

If i visit u and see this in ur house amma think you are engaged in fetishism

Someone just broke your heart? Get off your asss and chill with some friends

Elder001:
Yes.. you're right to a very large degree but there are still ladies out there that aren't parasitic.

Especially ladies in state capitals..

I used to have this same perspective of yours till I upgraded to matured 28+ ladies and finally my fiancé.

Ladies above 28years are more focused and more responsible.
they've many things to offer in relationships.. only few demand unnecessarily.

Yes they are cuz thats the time a girl starts getting serious and less selective. Any lady thats 30 and still single may have serious pride or attitude issues and she should check her profile to correct it. Cuz the older she gets the more desperation elevates. For me i feel secure with a girl from 26 and above. If shes older with 2 years. Its ok by me as long as she has the qualities and a decent mind. In truth if a girl really really loves u she grows a conscience and rarely ever demands. Instead she aims to give. Now thats a lady

If u can control your urges u spend less on ladies. Especially on calls. Its not easy its for the best. This op is speaking the truth. Konji is like a spirit that possesses a man's reasoning, i know ladies experience konji but not as much as guys. Its like a natural program in us guys. So finding a means of distraction is the key if u aint got one, get a girlfriend.

My question is why do married men cheat wen they have a wife that gives em for free. Well im not married just asking cuz i dont think its cool

I dont use any detergent. I only use soft cloth and water. If its dust i use 1 bucket of water and i drive a really big car

Haven't seen 5 naira for almost 7 months now

Elder001:
I'm talking about matured stuffs and you're talking about ominitrix.. .where the hell is ominitrix being sold in Nigeria?


Your first line. .so you only mingle with broke ladies(probably young girls)

You tell me, you're the one feeling all fly about an electronic bracelet that tells time and already mutating your ego.

It doesn't matter to me if a lady is broke, what matters is her heart and conscience. if im 6 months older than a girl shes a young girl, right. And dont ask if ive dated older. In truth they are all girls. What u should say is immature girls. That i dont do.

You're an elder and i respect elders. Sorry for the misunderstanding. Its cool u have an expensive watch. I wish i could but i would probably use 5k to get a cheap smart watch and use the balance to fuel my car for the next 5months.

yabas:
I didn't say that I am rich o, poor used here means broke. I'm just managing. I just wanted to get people's opinion on this issue cos I was wondering if it is a general problem or wether my won is a special case lol. But from my findings here, it seem normal for most guys so maybe we should just keep paying the bills and move on. Nothing spoil.

Bro i understand. U are managing and i really admire your efforts, i've been there and im still there. In fact i feel ur case is better than mine

I know u diddnt mention u are rich. And u aint broke too. What im saying is no matter how broke u think u are, u are still richer than some people. Its similar to no matter how rich u are, someone is still richer.

Davido sings 30 billion and we look him as richer, but he cant come close to some guys.

And its normal. Every guy pays.

Elder001:
35k na chicken change sha .. my wrist watch alone is 75k

but.. how many phones have you purchased for your sisters?

Phones weren't so expensive in 2014 man unlike now.
You says phones, my sister is neither broke nor careless for me to buy her phones.
Also You really dont need to get all stinkfly on the price tag of your omnitrix

yabas:
Honestly I dont even know where to start. I am tired of supporting girls financially. Since I started dating women, I cant say I have been lucky. Its always buy me this and buy me that. Phone, laptop, recharge cards, dash me, transport etc, I have done it all. Though when I recently started complaining, my close friend told me that he has also been doing same but didnt want to let guys know so that people will not laugh at him.

After all the expenditure, u still break up with them when you get tired of the demands. Does it mean that MAJORITY of Nigerian girls use guys for money? Or is it just me.

I seriously need a gf that will not ask me for anything. Some of my friends will tell you how they have dated one or two wonderful girls that dont demand for anything but not me, I cant point to any girl that I have dated, that I didnt spend money on.

Guys I honestly want to know if this is a general problem or is it just me. ALWAYS meeting poor women, even now that I am looking for a wife, still meeting heavy demanders that I cant settle with. GOD HELP ME OUT. AMEN.

My dear what if that poor girl you dated later becomes richer than you.

I have dated girls, purchased so many phones i lost count, even my final nysc allowance that was 39600. I used 35k to buy phone for a girl. I have never bought a girl laptop though, if its school i have sponsored. I didn't feel bad about it. Dont let that make u feel bad also i know how u feel. Nobody wishes to be poor.
No matter how rich u are there's always someone richer than u that would think u are poor.
To u she may be poor but to some people she is wealthy.

Its fun to spend on a girl but when u dont have enough its horrible.

Any girl that deserves money from my pocket i will gladly spend on her whether she has or not.

What u should be scared of is a girl that demands without a conscience. Those are the girls i fear.

Funny i remembered one of my date. I purchased so much for her. She requests, i pay. Till one day i was up to the throat. She demanded some money to fix her hair. I just took off my rubber slippers dusted it on her face and walked away. It was so funny. Happened in Delta state. Those girls can hit you with so much bills.

A friend says they aint gold diggers cuz gold diggers digs for wealth. He said they are just DIGGERS cuz they keep digging and digging till there's nothing more to dig then the leave u

Its a welcome idea but its really risky. For people that wanna try it well heres a word of advice do not pick bullets shell, cuz the Nigerian police is always looking for reasons to detain civilians. I know of a man's son that was seen with bullet shells and unluckily for him the police officer he ran into was sadistic.

He accused the guy of been an armed robber and was detained even asked for the gun he used. Some time been detained for some stupid shells. With the high rate of intimidating police officers and mostly sars that are willing to shoot first and as questions later you have to be careful.

Oreofepeters:
When there's no adequate flow of communication in relationship.

It becomes boring, frustrating and tiring.
peharps this is common among the ladies (introvert type), to type long sentence na whahala (lol, gud, fyn, yes, lmao, ok, hmmn).
And this attribute can be so dangerous ehn cos you won't know her next plan.






How have some guys dealt with theirs?.

Personally i dislike LOL

And if a girl replies with OK i just stop chatting for a while till something comes up. Cuz to me OK means im boring but im just replying you.

My worst and most hated is hmmmmmm. Ha i hate that so so much. But i never let em know.

Wikibaby:
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I know some people might take me as a bad girl but I don’t care. I am going to state the fact and hey I am here to have fun

1. She comes to your house with a short skirt or a short gown: some guys don’t seem to understand the signs though. The thing is we ladies are very conscious of what we were, so coming to your house looking like a hot model is a cue.

2. She lays her had on your shoulders or laps: this is a very popular trick we use but some guys are too quick to start kissing and pressing… This is not cool, it makes us uneasy and we change our mind. Why don’t put just take it slow and wait for the right moment then you see we actually repaired for this before coming.

3. Telling you we want to sleep and you shouldn’t disturb: let me tell you a secret guy, no girl, I repeat no girl will ever come to your house if she feels she is tired and will not enjoy herself when she comes (trust me).

4. Saying she will be leaving in an hour time:[b] we are actually telling you to make a move but someone guys don’t get it. Instead they will be begging us to stay a little longer. Durr if I have somewhere else to go that evening, do you think I will come and spend time in your house?

[b]5. We loose off some buttons on our shirt: we want you to feel aroused and make a move but instead you will dip your hands in your pocket and probably start going out and coming in. Then you will be forming bad guy later.

6. We tell you to play a song and we start dancing: if I am dancing in your room, I expect you to join me then along the link you rock me then you know what next to do. But most of you don’t even know how to Dance it is frustrating.


SOURCE: 6 Signs A Lady Wants You To Touch Her When She Comes Visiting

Are you serious.
I have experienced 3 and 4 with lots of ladies so many times I've lost count. Why cant a girl just ask rather they want u to ask and some of us guys no dey reason this format.

As for 1. I will just be restless and probably not look at her. Wouldn't wanna ask for the ultimate favor. Till she tries or if she attempts 5. She don die be that. Amma give her the koko

247frolicboss:
Ikorodu road linking to VI this morning is heavily flooded after the heavy downpour in the early hours of today.


Here are photos of the flooded roads as motorists struggle to swim their cars through.

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Where is the abuja spokesperson. She would be laughing at lagosians right now

Im not scared, i love a competition.

Yes they know themselves.

ksbusari:
I think one gets disappointed if too much of emotion have been invested. I care less nw about them rit nw. it's in their DNA.

Yes, i am very emotional and always loyal in all relationships. Cheating is like stealing to me and my conscience cant handle it, yet these heartless ladies cheat like its some kind of program embedded in their DNA. ladies no matter how much i try. I give em 60% and i take 40% they still misbehave. I know not all girls are bad but the good girls are so rare its like seeing N1000 note on the floor.
Sometimes i dont seem to care but i know its necessary. Just sick of emotional stress

odehaj:
She is 100% correct. Met a friend in church on Sunday and he told me he has been transfered to Lagos from Abuja here, I felt like crying for him because I have lived in Lagos before.

Haha tot its only me

delugajackson:
Lagos and Abuja have many differences in spite of having some similarities as big cities within Nigeria. Both cities are attractive to people from all over Nigeria owing to their different features and characteristics.

But you should have just told us in simple terms that you have richer clients over there. Abuja connection comes to mind.

Haha good one

But she's right about many things like the traffic. Its hell anytime i wanna drive to ikeja from Anthony, it can t 45min and thats not cool. As for the air she is so so right. The air in lagos is so polluted.
I have driven in many cities but in lagos theres always traffic somewhere.

Lagosians over to you.

Rubbiish:
Contractor on what sir?

Electrical installations
Chiller maintenance

Stuff that has to do with installation and maintenance of electrical circuits or wiring.

Michelle55:
[Stop calling people who don't call you. Stop visiting people who don't know where you live. Stop making time for people who don't have time for you. Stop spending on people who don't spend on you(you're not father Xmas). Stop thinking about people who don't think about you, you will make yourself emotionally bankrupt. You can love someone from a distance and I'm not just talking about romantic relationships but all relationships; friends, family, boyfriends/girlfriends. Treat people the same way they treat you and stop over exerting yourself and giving love where it's not reciprocated(it ain't healthy for you biko). Life is difficult enough without having to beg people for their love and attention. The least you can do for yourself is surround yourself with people who genuinely love and care about you.
Most importantly surround yourself with people that don't see you as an option. There's nothing worse than people who treats you like you are replaceable.
It's time for you to live and look after yourself, be genuinely happy and enjoy all the great goodies that life has got to offer you.
Happy Independence!
Mich cares!!!

Thats me, MR NICE GUY.

Please i intend to become a contractor but im really a rookie can someone share some light on how and what i should do?