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Fourthpredator:
Why will you call white people into this topic? Do we spend in euros, why are you converting the money.
We earn money in naira and we spend money in naira
That 275 euros you are talking about, some desperate people in Europe will fvck for that amount for one night
I will admit that the man is not an intelligent person because he should go to the nearest brothel or go to codedruns website if he wants to fvck but you are also out of point by converting the naira to euros

Why... The whole world converts local currencies into dollars or euros. For comparison.
Regarding your post... What can I say. You’re nervous,Mr.Predator. 🙂

eniorisha:
I am cool growing old as my coming children are growing up. I will make provisions for them now for my retiring ages . So I nurse no fear about being 70 and my last born is still in the primary school


Yes, u nailed it about starting all over again, especially for someone like me , who's so socially awkward & somehow physically and romantically repelling to ladies, especially for committed relationship.. As a matter of fact, this is my very first concrete committed relationship. Imagine starting all over again

Who knows when next I'll get another one!

In that case, log out of the forum and get to work.
Not tomorrow. Today.

eniorisha:
The questions are relevant. She's almost 38. That age raises question about her fertility, especially if I favor having as many children as 4. So, dt age, except God's involved, will struggle for 2 sef!

Then, my financial status is a determinant, to some extent too. If I'm bouyant enough, I can haughtily initiate & pay for d divorce.

Having four children is a serious undertaking if you're starting in your 40s.
You have to keep in mind that it's your responsibility to guide them through life — to raise them into real people.

By the time your oldest child turns 25, the youngest might be 18 or 19, and you’ll already be around 65.
Maybe it's wiser to consider having just two children — you started late.

As for her... that's even more uncertain.
If you're serious about her, then start working on having children literally from this very day.

Children grow up very slowly, while we age very quickly.
That’s a real issue.
And as for her divorce — that's just a technical matter you’ll resolve along the way.

If you now start looking for another, younger woman, you're going to lose even more time.
You have to take that into account as well.

Ojagun:
No one mentioned white people on this thread but as usual you lot will always find a way to involve yourselves in everything

#WhiteFatigue

It is joke. 😊



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Bravo. Bravo. The Israelis must be terrified now by your threats.
Go ahead, now cut off a dozen heads and film the whole thing. That’ll scare them even more.
That childish Islamic mentality.

What is the core of the problem?
Support for the Palestinians.
Three countries were helping the Palestinians:
Iraq – destroyed
Syria – destroyed
Iran – “work in progress”

Things are very simple.
The civilized world does not allow Muslim countries to possess weapons of mass destruction.
Does this even need to be explained?

So. It didn’t allow it. It doesn’t allow it. And it never will.

What should Iran do?
Two things:

1. Stop supporting the Palestinians.


2. Address the U.S. and say: We want to produce nuclear energy. We will carry out uranium enrichment under your supervision and your control.



And that’s it!!!!!!
No more war, no more sanctions, nothing. That’s all!

But… the sweet scent of Islam clouds their minds.
Only Pakistan possesses nuclear weapons—and that, under U.S. control.

Because of everything. Here's an example: on this PDF, a woman is looking to get married. She’s looking for a man. She states her age—which is by no means young—and immediately starts listing conditions and demands.
It’s all tragicomic.
To make things even more pitiful, she deletes the thread title and leaves only a dot.
Let’s break it down.

Men value only three things in a woman, and that will never change:
Youth
Beauty
Virginity

Youth lasts until the age of 24.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but we all know its general boundaries.
Virginity—you either have it or you don’t.

Keeping that in mind, let’s return to the example I mentioned:
Youth – none
Beauty – relative
Virginity – none

And from that position, she sets conditions and makes demands?
She changes the thread title? Embarrassed? Unsure of what she wants? (Even just that is enough to cause aversion.)

How to look for a husband:
I am this many years old.
I live here and there.
I work / I do this and that.
I don't work.
I'm a modern woman.
I'm a traditional woman.
I look like this.
I have this and that.
I don’t have this or that.
Men who are interested, feel free to contact me.

Then men reach out.
And then they say the same things she should have said.
And then she either chooses a man—or she doesn’t.

"The state of your shoes reflects the state of your underwear."
Hygiene must be absolutely impeccable.

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Silentgroper:
. You mean they're so wretched and broke that they can't they can afford a bountiful meal for themselves that they choose to go out on a date to do their wobianess

Yes.They are broke.Yes.
They go out with a man they're not interested in just to get a meal.
To eat a meal that's too expensive for them to pay for themselves.
And that is completely disgusting. It causes revulsion.
I don’t have a problem with it — I can pay for whatever you want.
But when I see that, it makes me sick.
https://www.nairaland.com/8128664/real-world-around-me/17#134586473

I don't do anything. What am I supposed to do?
If I'm the one at fault, I admit my mistake and apologize.
We talk about it to understand how the mistake happened, so it doesn't happen again in the future.

eniorisha:
I mentioned it. She's approaching 38. I'm d one helping her in my own little way. She's a graduate and working though, but never enough being single and living alone

Why do you even want a woman like that?
Can she even get pregnant at that age?
You're already too old yourself for a first child.

Maybe it wouldn’t be a bad idea to get her pregnant first — because realistically, that’s the only real reason you need a woman.
Then, once she gets pregnant, you two can deal with the issue of her previous marriage.

You’re both too old for a first child. There’s no time to waste.
What was she doing until the age of 38?

Make the child.
If she can’t get pregnant — you don’t need her.

You're already 40 years old.
You didn’t mention how old she is.
You didn’t mention your financial status either.
Those are important details if you want a meaningful answer.

Since we’re already on such a trashy topic, let’s see...

Let’s assume that all those bundles of cash are in 1000 naira notes — which no one can guarantee, nor is it visible.

Each bundle has 100 notes.
5 × 100 = 500 notes × €0.55 (the current exchange rate) = €275

A disgusting bum is humiliating a girl and waving around €275.

White people aren’t to blame. 🙋🏻

He’s pathetic. A loser. And his face shows it too.
It’s obvious. A very pathetic move full of disrespect.
As if she were some third-rate street wh.ore.

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If you need any clarification, feel free to ask.

And don't f.uck with him if he is not marriage material

You took a bad photo. You're too far away. The sun is shining directly into your face.
As for your figure — you're overweight. You have at least 10 kilos extra.
Figure out what you're going to do about that. I took a glance at your posts.
Women are shy around their husbands/boyfriends because that's one of the key traits of femininity — something that's clearly foreign to you, otherwise you wouldn't even be asking that question.
(The fact that you're from the US is such a massive downside for any high-quality man that you can't even imagine.)

[quote author=IyaTola post=134873004][/quote]Leave him the child. Most importantly, leave him the child and return to your own home.
Get a divorce, give him the child in court, and start a new life.

kkkp:
Why can't the children stay with their father?

Read the family law. What does it say? You surely have access to it online.
In 98% of cases, the court gives custody of the children to the mother.
These are the bitter fruits of feminism.
Mothers are not capable of taking care of those children on their own, and the children end up deteriorating along with them.
This has been proven countless times in practice, and the statistics support it.

kkkp:
A friend of mine is preparing for divorce. He has 2 children.
What are the challenges he is going to encounter after the divorce?

Note: All processes to reconcile differences between them seems impossible. The only option available is divorce.

What challenges will he face?
The court will grant the children to the woman.
Let him try to bribe her into giving up the children.
Let him offer her money. And let him commit to allowing her regular visitation rights—
that the children stay with her two days a week.
He should feel free to try that.
Let him tell her he will pay her every month the equivalent of two child support payments, even though the children live with him.
The children are important because without them, he won’t succeed. He’ll go down with her.
If he pulls that off, he’s solved all his problems.

As for him—
He’s been married, he’s seen what marriage is. He doesn’t need that anymore.
That’s enough for now—I won’t drag the story out.

kkkp:
We are talking about divorce here not money. He is well to do.

Everyone scratches where it itches.
The poor talk only about money.

Caseless:
you didn't even make sense and this was liked by some people. No

What does the part in bold mean?

It means exactly what is written.
I understand that you don't understand me. I don't understand you either.

dkidd:
I think he meant for U to watch the video for understanding

Right.At the same time, with her question, she gave me the answer.Then. A change of topic title. Very cautionary.A lot can be learned about someone from small gestures and actions.