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zubinike:
nwanne @magneto, hustle strong bro. he ga gba December na Lagos? how was your day

Nnaa..... ina anwa mana igbo gi adiro nma like that. I ga akwu ego ole ka mu kuziere gi?

You know this is xmas....a babe gats to make money anyhow...lol

How are you anyways?

How is everyone? Udysweet, magneto, helexito, missbronze, toks ( where in the world have you been).

Been ages i commented here....been busy really. Still thinking of what to do with my xmas. I do need a holiday badly.

nouvelle:
This thread was heating up last night, at some point I logged on and saw 85 new messages.

I took my time and read it all and I have a few observations both from the main discussion of yesterday and generally.

Ok, so some people think the thread is not achieving it's purpose, my question to those that think s‎o is, did you take your time to read the previous pages and catch up? Did you read the part where Siamia the OP specified the purpose of the thread. I applaud fourfunmi because she read all the previous pages and she made up her mind she wanted to be on the thread, I mention her because when she read it all she said so, I don't know if others did.
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The OP specified that this thread was for people to mingle and talk in peace without the mud slinging and fights, cheap talk and petty behaviour that happen‎ on other threads and for me, this was the first thread I saw fit to comment on on NL, then she went on to say that in the process if anyone catches your fancy, feel free to state your intentions and move to the next level.

It's a pity the thread was brought to hook up section hence some people just walk in to drop phone numbers, bbpins and throw words around as if the women here are desperate, like it's a restaurant and you can just order up what you want, as if it's not important to create atleast a rapport first. Where are our manners, Nawa o. ‎

For those who said the thread is 'dry', I'd assume that if a thread is 'dry', you'd just do a waka pass and let the people there be (that's what I do) or if you feel it's 'dry' and you have ways to make it 'wet', instead of just talking about it, lead by example by that I mean, don't just say do it this way or that instead actually DO it the way you feel is better, if people see it as a welcome idea, they'd join in, I think that's kinda how the thread has been so far. I've seen people sit back, kick off their shoes and actually gist

Then the part about feeling the ladies on the thread form, I'd say that personally I feel that the pms some ladies ignored are pms that came from unknown monikers, when I started commenting on this thread, I got a request from a moniker I hadn't seen here, when I looked the person's NL history up, I didn't see any link, I didn't accept it I must confess‎ but then my status is different anyways. We all have our different personalities: online and real life. Some people naturally are very open, others are reserved, some people are naturally private as well and I think it should be respected. I really doubt it that people who have been conversing here will ignore pms. My point here is have a convo first at least a hi hello, so when you send a request, the lady can tell who it's from.

Besides ddshow talked about a get together and some people have indicated interest, I think it's progress, my suggestion is that ddshow actually follows through with the plan and that people turn up, that way, the purpose of the thread is being achieved.

That said, my guys in the house, if you fancy a lady here, do the needful so the ladies have somthin' somethin' to look forward to for the get together. Then let me quote toks2008, the ghost mode thingy will be unnerving for hook up. So I'd toe the line of toks2008 and say it'd be nice if people put up their pictures for a short while when they join (or even afterwards briefly on request and take it down again) for people to see them, we human beings are visual oriented. A lot of people put up the pictures on NL for the first time because of this thread, OP included. The reason I never put mine up is because of my status and I was sidelining as well.
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Stingy missbronze that wants the okpa to herself alone, thank you o, I sight your long throat o, meanwhile have you noticed a moniker similar to yours on NL, missbronzy(sorry missbronzy for mentioning you here o)‎.

Magneto, I like your open mindedness.

Udysweet, I wish say I get someone to hook you up with, me likey you. Hugs.‎

Sorry, for the epistle, it's just my 2 kobo.‎

Making sense as always.
How have you been?
Still,waiting for you to dash me some of tjose free hours

How are you finding the weather? Its been pretty cold since saturday.

Toks2008:
It is with a heavy heart that i bring to you all the passing on to glory of the mum of viviaciousvivi who is one of us here.

MAY HER GENTLE SOUL REST IN THE BOSSOM OF GOD...

Take heart dear and we all pray that God grants you and every member of the family the fortitude to bear her exit from this earth.

AMEN

So sorry viviacousvivi
I really do not have the right words to console you.
I pray that the Lord will console you and give you the grace to go through this period

Its well.

missbronze:
Lol.


duvet can't help in this situation.


Come oooo, I don't think you sabi the kain cold wey I dey talk here.


so tay person ni.pp.le go come strong for nighty.





*picks race away from thread*

Chaiiiiii.....Chineme eeeee. Nne, i follow you pick race outta the thread. Lol

udysweet:
Hahahhahaha. No vex mbok,tot we were in d whatsapp group togeda? D dubai queen in d house? I knw the person was always referred to as Seun. Ha abg pardon me o if no be u,I don go mix up names,lol!
And by d way Amen o,mak d 00000s be in ur acct be to infinity behind d major digits,lol! But wen e hapn,send my cut unto "tithe" things*winks*
Swtdrms sis

lol....now it makes sense.

I am not in the group, never joined really.

But my prayer still stands...lol.

About tithe, we have to ascertain that your ministry is a fertile one. I am highly profit oriented, no gain, no tithe......lol

udysweet:
@nouvelle I no mind o,lol! How you been sis? I quite undertsnad why u ddnt want to join. But its still gud to hav u here,we cld use a bit of ur knowledge in marriage life so dat wen we too settle down (by His grace)we wld hav gotn som ideas to help our homes.
@klassik @DDshow @Toks2008 @Torqque7 @sparkles00@ @fourfunmi @gratefulme40(I presume seun on d group right) @Halexito @bleble(be able colleague in d biz,lol) @vivaciousvivi(I too lik dis name,lol) @Lolu20(were u put head) @magneto (u got super powers too,lik in d comic books,lol) @neoapocalypse(my resurfaced frnd,lol) @bisjosh(our new entrant) @missbronze(abg let's change it to diamond jo,lol) @sonofananimal @bluepearls @melsan @ucnwafor(anoda new entrant) and to @Op,I say a happy sunday to y'all.
@Toks2008,padi mi to sure ju,ema binu simi ejo sir,lol.
And finally,abg I no see Melish again,wat hapnd? I do hope she's ok tho?
I hope u guys hav prepared for d week ahead? Enjoy the remaining part of d weekend. Plenty kisses and hugs to y'all
PS: abg if I no mention ur name,don't be offended mbok,na oversight cause am(I never chop o cos my gas finish halfway and d fud no cook b4 e finish,so my eyes dey see tripple,loool)

Nne....expatiate @ bolded. Me? Seun in the group?

Hahahahah....Chineke biko oooo, make my account like seun's with many many 000000s in my acount balance. AMEN! lol


Nne, how are you?

missbronze:
grarefulme40, my darlingcious darling.


Well gold and diamond have class but flashy, loud, and a lot of attention.


while, bronze is on the calm side, with less attention, and got class too.


That's my personality in real life, I don't like attention.

Thats why I went for bronze as my moniker.


As for the whether, it makes one have naugthy idea in the morning. I mean the harmattan.

Thanks for the compliment.

Lol @ naughty ideas in the morning.

Abeg, I get spare duvet. Let me know if you need it....lol

missbronze:
Hello my darlings.

Hope we all had a lovely day?


I have noticed most peeps here are based in Lag?


Nothing mega sha.

Nice pic Diamond! Lol
Dont know how you'd choose bronze when there are diamonds and gold.

Hope you had a good day yourself.

Mine was good except this crazy weather.

nouvelle:
Yes o, udysweetest, I learnt 'mbok' from you o and I have been using it and yes again, I mentioned you in my diary, hope you don't mind. I had to start a diary to keep track of my activities and to eventually look back and laugh at my earlier experiences plus I like to write and I have so much free time now, I used to be so busy, free time is the reason I have followed this thread page to page, post to post but I just don't comment much because I am married.

Cheers babe, gratefulme40 how are you doing?

My dear, thanks for asking. I am well. Just been a bit busy. Some days i just get so busy that i wish i could have some hours extra per day....lol.

How you doing?

Hey everyone.....how are we? Hope we all had a very pleasant day....

I know its past midnight and people must be asleep now.

Sleep well you all.

missbronze:
A lady of 30yrs has been dating a guy of 35yrs old for sometime now.


They both have something doing, although not that big.


The Lady wants commitment, and, the guy refused to commit. He gives the reason of not having enough money he wants to have yet. therefore, he is not ready to settle down.

The lady is ready to contribute in everything, and also willing to manage. She is not the materialistic type, she is respectful, even the guy compliments her for that.

The guy told her point blank he can marry even at the age of 50 if he wants, so, therefore, he is not in a hurry to settle down.


Now, this lady wants to quit the relationship. Even though she loves this guy, she feels no need being in something that don't have any direction.


Is she doing the right thing.?

Is she being too mean?

The part in bold says it all. The guy wants to break up with the lady but does not know how to say it.
Telling a lady who is already 30 and above that you are not in a hurry and that you can even get married at 50 simply implies that the lady should look else where.
Therefore, quitting the relationship will actually be the right thing to do.
She is simply being sensible by quitting and not mean.

missbronze:
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Babes, funny you.

And, Joseph would have come to open thread on Nl that Mary isn't loyal.

Nne....you got me laughing with this. Hahahaha

Toks2008:
My brother its different strokes for different folks abi how dem dey talk am...

In my school of taught, i find it absolutely repulsive to even woo a lady because you will do sotey woo 2 sisters of same parents in different location and they will now see you as a desperate mofo.

I am a very bold and daring person but when it comes to woman matter,im very careful. I no fit stop woman for road talk to am lai lai and sometimes after your long epistle when you finally have time to sit with one,she will just laugh and tell you..sorry im engaged and i will just smile at her but for my mind i go say "This girl well at all?,why she allow me waste time after all the planning"

I remember the day i saw one hot chic and i decided to follow her cos as i wrote,i will never stopp a lady on the road..so i followed her and told myself that day "anywhere this babe go i go follow even if she enter bus to Maiduguri i go enter"

Aftyer walking very long distance she went somewhere and sat down then i just sighed by her side and told her "sis do you freaking know from where i have been following you?" she was like oh sorry o and that alone got me pissed with that sarcastic remark but i swallow spit kon dey tart convo...

After all said and done, na student and year one for that matter and to make matter worse,na 17 year old girl wey carry body like 30year old and i said to myself..this is it..i can't continue this nonsense...

So my dear its not an esy task expecially for decent minded people like me and i no wan make girls know me as area toaster.

Hmmm...uncle Toks, do people still do this? I mean following a random lady on the road to woo her.

I dont know ooo. Me i dont really take such men/guys serious. In fact, i hardly even give audience sef to such men ooo.

Na when i was a teenager i entertained such......right now, i dont.

halexito:
Cheerfully funny that's you!
I do write sometimes, but I found these somewhere. I love it and I decided to share it. I won't take credit for it. I just copy and paste, so we can all learn from it.
Sweet dreams to you.

Plagiarism! (Lol...i never even see the write up sef. I just saw copy and paste and screamed plagiarism)
Abeg, reference it. Lol.
Good morning. Hope you are well.
Have a very beautuful day.

Onegai:
May I please buy you:one bottle of Schnapps, a bundle of kolanuts, 3 kegs of palm wine, one complete native outfit from any culture of your choice, 2 bearded catfishes, 1 ram,10 white chicken, 5 tubers of yam and a black-and-white nanny goat as my thanks for writing this beautiful and succinct answer?

This reply was so filled with wisdom, that Wisdom itself came out of my laptop and shook hands with me just for reading what you wrote for the OP.

I'll like some bearded catfish biko......lol

ddshow:
Good good Udy...sorry for the late reply, I got an inexplicable ban for antispam bot (i wonder whatever than means)

My dear i am fine.
How are you? Hope you had a good day.

Lol @inexplicable ban. When you the grammar master does not understand......what shall we learners of oyibo do?

Toks2008:
Chai..why you fall my hand nah?

Honestly the older we get the more difficult it is to make a decision in choosing a spouse as iin..no more time for yeye dating which means na heavy risk to marry someone you hardly know...

God will help us

My dear.....its only God that can help one in choosing the right spouse.


True it appears more difficult choosing as one gets older because you do not have the luxury of time to spend dating. However, dating does not guarantee that one will make the right choice.

We have seen marriages between childhood/high school sweethearts turn into absolute nightmares while and that of those who hardly knew each other waxing strong.

Honestly, all one needs is God.

Toks2008:
Lol..see yasef..make you do uick go marry o.

Me I'm married to Jesus lol..

Jesus na man oo......
Na we females dey married to Him.

nouvelle:
I saw too o

Lol...how have you been love?
I have just been watching from the sides.
The ministry has grown so big

Toks2008:
Lets meet you...and see you.

I noticed that many ladies joining this thread are too private...please lets know you and see your pcs abeg.

Hi Toks
How are you? Hope you had a good day?

victor54:
Guy ur nairaland history is terrible

Nna mehn....so, you see wetin i see?

Hi.....happy weekend everyone. Its really been a long week.

Feels good to finally have a day to lazy about in bed all day without rushing out to anywhere......lol

Hope we all had a good, productive week?

Toks, Udysweet, Hooduark (hope i spelt it well), sis siamia and others. I dey hail oooo

Toks2008:
Na liie..your tactics no work..

Oya deactivate your ghost mode and lets know you and as the culture here suggeests,put your pics up for at least 10mins.

Some guys deey complain sey some ladies dy form kvels here...Yes i agre that a lady should form levels and that is cool but at least wait make the guy woo you first..

If you get an email notification from any male her abeg reply and socialize at least then you can start proving levels if he wooes you..kijinko?

Shout out to sis siamia and thee counciil of elders on this thrad are vexing seey we no dey too see you..abeg dey show face..my tiit tat udysweerrie how u dey,gratfulme40,Oloyiinbo ddshow and others wey i no rmember their name i hail oo.

Oga Toks.
Good evening Sir.
Been a while i commented here. Been crazily busy......somedays i just wish i can have extra hours. So many things to do with so very little time.

How have you been?
Udysweet.....sorry ooo about the traffic and the terrible sun.

Siamia....sorry about the malaria. I am happy you are a lot better now.
Halexito, klassic, sparkles and everyone else....i hail

prick35:
Hi,

Its a good invitation to all above 30 & single to speak out.
Its really an age where U can do almost anything fearlessly.

I'm running 62, single, still very young at heart, am on the
look out for friends to chat, discuss various issues, current affairs,
human relations/problems or even advise on sexual matters to youngsters.

Look forward to contributions, querries from one & all like minded.

Thanx.

Peter
prick35@yahoo.com

62? Or you meant to write 32?

Flowwitme:
Am from Abia state and am above 30 yrs

How many yards?

Toks2008:
Means thats all.

Oh...ok. Thanks. Is it a Yoruba word? Saw it first time on NL

Toks2008:
LOBATAN

@ Toks, Abeg....wetin be LOBATAN?


@nouvelle......awwww, thanks.

siamia:
God day everyone,
How was service? Its been a crazy week at work! I see a lot has happened in my work-pressured absence.
Thanks to everyone who asked of me. And welcome to new members of this thread,
Toks 2008, I sight u, welcome back. I know u missed me
Ateke, welcome ooo
And now, I must go and prepare for tomorrow *sigh*
Have a lovely week ahead, and may Ur hand count money in different currencies this week!

Ah...good to see your brakelight ooo. Please be stopping by more often.


Hope you have been good.
Have a great week ahead too

Good to know the thread is back in shape. How's everyone been.

Udysweet..welldone. You have done a good job in keeping the thread alive.

Toks....good to see you back

Siamia (not sure i got the spelling right). How have you been?

@All...hope you all had a good day?

Good morning everyone. Hope you all slept well. Its a beautiful day and i wish everyone a very blessed day.

Toks2008:
i READ THIS FUNNY story on L ikeji's blog and it really got me wondering.

I think the guy needs prayers because this one don pass be careful.

But then i want to ask the guys in the room, can you give your wife a head?

As for me its a big resounding Yes and infact the taught of it turns me on so as adults lets talk

1.For the guys can you give your wife a head?
2.For the ladies can you do that for your husband and when can you say the habit of your husband giving you mouth action is too much?

Note that we are all adults here so lets talk.

Well....Toks, all i can see is a selfish, self-centred man who only cares about himself without minding how his actions affects his wife.

What manner of man makes his wife watch him go down on other women?

On the wife's side, i see a sick woman whose life revolves around the wishes and desires of the husband.....who really does this?

If the husband cannot sleep...he can aswell do a tarry night!

If i were this woman, I wont even be using same cutlery with this man by now.....that mouth is nothing but a gutter.

As for me.....whatever i do with my spouse has to be acceptable to both of us.

fairlyisabel:
goodevening dear. Welcome back. Hope you had a very beautiful day! Joe should come and welcome you

Lol....no mind Joe. Where has he been hiding sef? I have not seen his comment here lately.

Thanks jare. My day was good except the rain. I dont like rains at all.

Hope yours was good too