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ifyalways: Na so una dey miss luck. Do you know who I am? Google "senator Ify . . ." , ogbomosho east senatorial zone.

Anyways, I prefer my congo shined,shone then eaten. I can't compromise on that one lai- lai. At this point, it won't work between us.

I think Daresh is interested but too shy to ask. Try her. Good luck sugar boy.

PS: if you change your mind on "congo procedure" then we might likely meet @ Lagos. You know banana eyelands?

laugh don tear my belle o!

Ify, please, it's too early.
Don't kill me with laughter joor nitori Olorun.


Lol @ preek


YPP, you too abi!

@op, goodluck!

That is politics for you!
No permanent friend or permanent foe in politics!

faceURfront: National what? I doubt if a platform on which d president of a country is bashed with reckless abandon would be considered for d smallest of recognition not to talk about national honours. Me thinks in a dictatorship, Nairaland would ve been shutdown a long time ago

are you saying the president have never been praised on this forum


This is a forum and we have different kinds of people, while we have those who take interest in insultive posts/comments, we also have those who do not insult another poster not to talk of the president. Now taking to one side is unfair. We have those who does and those wh doesn't here, so stop being unfair to NL.
God bless you!

taiwoliu: yes we are muslims but my dad rarely perform is solat, so i'll say he's a ceremonial muslim.

whether ceremonial or practising muslim, the fact remains that he's a muslim, and naturally human beings tend to embrass the aspect of a law or doctrine that is favorable to them. At this time, dont be surprise that your dad will know where to quote in the Holy Quaran to support his action, if indeed he really mean business.
All in all, remain calm, thank God your mum is financially independent.

On the other way, are you people muslims? If yes, them your mum might have accepted it as a "sunnah" in islamic doctorine, which might be her reason for her silence, and in that case too, there's nothing you can do about it. If no, it's just a case of infidelity on the part of your dad, nothing more, and an adage in Yoruba says "ija ni o maa ngbeyin ale".........meaning their relationship will soon hit the rock. In any way, just relax and learn from the scenerio.
May God give you the wisdom to do it right.

Stop worrying yourself, your mum's silence surely has meanings, she knows what she's doing, believe me, her silence alone wont make it comfortable for your dad to bring in the other woman, they may be having affairs outside o, but with her silence, i have more than 60% assurance that your dad couldn't bring the other woman in.

[quote author=isha.salam]Kai. Now im scared s**tless Am 8 month gone n d stories r not helping my BP@all : [/quote]stop working up yourself, that it was painful to someone doesn't mean it would be painful for you, it depends on your mindset and faith, and even if it's painful, at the end of it all, you'll see that the pain is really worth it.
Keep faih alive.
It is well!




@op, childbirth is no child's play o, i'm not in the mood to type epistles. To the glory of God, i've had 3 different childbirth experiences and each of them is uniquely peculiar, but at the end of it all, the pain really worth it.
To all mothers in the huose, may we never have cause to regret having the, and to our daddies, good ones o, God bless you all.
Amen.

@op, you wish to raise up someone you never knew to life, and you forget those who were soooo nice to you when they were alive, what if you think the person you wish to raise up from the dead whom you never knew is/was a very wicked person, and who wouldn't hesitate to show you wickedness when he comes back to life.
I think the devil we know is better than the angel we do not know!

buoye1: ..

oh no!
Not again.

Please, abeg, people should stop re-emphasising on being a pastor's wife, as if a pastor's wife is not a human being, let's just agree that she's wicked, nothing more, she would still have done the same thing if she isn't a pastor's wife, violence or wickedness does not know gender, neither does it know profession, and that is why i always say that sometimes, in some people, religion has no direct or indirect link/impact to their personality or attitude.

She's wicked, and im sure that is how she's going to be wicked to her hubby, kids, relatives and even her collegues.
I wonder what she would have done if it was a househelp that was involved.
May God deliver us from those who are using religion to camoflague/deceive people into believing that they are nice people.

As i was reading, i was just looking at my 5 years old daughter and imagining what that girl of india could have gone through before her dad's common sense returned.




Chai!
The youngest divorcee!
May God have mercy. Amen.

We christians are suppose to be the salt and light of the world, if those of us who are christians cannot show love to those who are not, how can we win them over to God.
The bible says "let your light so shine before men that when they see the light, they will glorify your father who is in heaven"

@op, how are you showing the light with all these your comments Bro, im not judging you o, but if atheists can know that you dont repay evil for evil, how much more you, who are suppose to be more knowledgable in the word of God.


Sincerely, sincerely, i love the atheists, they are realists, they rarely show wickedness, they are most times humane, i've worked with many of them, and no one, i repeat, no one in about 6 that i've worked with that we aint still friends till today, the only thing that it's just left for them is to go through Jesus who is the way, apart from not confessing Jesus as Lord, nothing about them is awkward.

However, i still believe God created us with goodwill; ability to make a choice, and they have made their choice, i dont think it's the prerogative of anybody to condemn the path they have chosen, we can persuade, but not comdemn, we can show them the way by our love and our way of life, but not hating them, because they are also in the image of God.

Lastly, we all need the grace and mercy of God in our lives and we shall all get it in abundance, so that we may be counted worthy on that day. Amen.

@op, it is well.
As you have been advised, find out from the doctor who treated her to know exactly what is wrong with her, what is ailing her, buy the drugs prescribed, use them with faith.

Everytime always lay your hand on her confessing she will not die but live to declare the glory of God, we join our faith with yours and declare that you will come back here to testify on her behalf.


Meanwhile, watch and pray! I think you understand this sha!

[quote author=Hon. SuQ Ma'DIQ]That's Dr Oludare. A lecturer at MAULAG. He is not a Career beggar. He has to survive one way or the other while the ASUU strike lasts. Nawaooo![/quote]walahi!

Let's all just continue to pray for ourselves and others, no one is safe in this country again. Only God knows the people who might have abducted this prof or who authorised his abduction, i just hope he's found alive, hale and hearty, because, im afraid o.

@coogar, dont mind them all, they're just guessing, i know it's not you


@Dayokanu, i wish you happy married life, i pray that the good things a man who finds a wife gets shall not elude you.

Good evening you all.
I've been following this funny thread since it's opened yesterday afternoon, and i've not had the chance of commenting, because i've been soooo busy. However, i must commend every character on this seemingly drama but serious thread, you all have been making my day since y'day and im very grateful to you all.


@op, since you're satisfied with his offline character, i will say goodluck, but, if im the one involved, i will try and dig deeper and deeper, because i think an anonymous forum like this is where i believe one can show his/her real self, something tells me that his online character is his real character but you haven't given him the opportunity to reveal it, one, because for now, you seems to be very nice to him, and secondly, he's trying to return your good gestures, if table is turned around, i tell you that his real person he's anonymously known for will be revealed. One thing i will advise you is that, if you will like to go on, be ready to always be a sheep, be ready to always be nice, be ready not to ever be offensive to him or defensive to yourself, because not doing that may make him to unravel his real self to you.

What to do?
Talk to him about it, explain your discomfort about this his alter ego to him, ask him what you can do to him that can make him show his online character to you, and if he tries to explain what you can do in order not to see his alter egom then just know that he's just hiding his real self till when it'll be needed, and then start from there, i just hope you get my riddles.
May God help you and grant you the wisdom needed to do this aright. Amen.

hooper: TAKE IT EASY..
ASK UR PAPA IF YOU DON'T KNOW THE MEANING OF OPON IMO...
MOFOS!!! ONIRANU ,AMUKUNMEKO, ODE, FOBO RANA OMO....

haba!
Kilode
Take it easy on him now.if he doesnt know something, your best bet is to educate him, not calling him all these names.
Haba!

If the casket no fine, i go ask why, afterall, he was the MIC boss.

Rest in peace to him, and my condolence to the family.

Wow!!!
This is beautiful!!!
I just hope she's like this beautiful inside.

Na wa o!!!
But this is not an evidence of good living sha o.
May God help them, both parent and the child.

HIV no longer kill, it's the stigma and the distcrimination that kills.


However, i believe very soon, drugs to cure HIV is at the edge of successful discovery, and this should be a wake up call for those who might want to die in silence or who might want to commit suicide as a result of being tested + to HIV.

There is hope.
This thread is a good start and i hope it's gonna have positive effects on so many people.

@all, let's show more love and stop stigmatization, let's always bear it in mind that it can happen to anyone, and if it happens to YOU, will you like to be stigmatized?
May God help us all.

Ujujoan: I hail you oh . . .

So if a woman is being maltreated and treated unfairly it must be her fault

No, that is not what i mean, it takes two to tango, no one should feel like he's doing anyone favour by agreeing to marry anyone, what i wrote up there is also applicable to men, when a man treats his wife well, add value to her in all ways, she will feel favoured for marrying him, but the man shouldn'n feel he's doing the woman any favour, spouses are suppose to compliment each other in every area.
That's my opinion anyway.
Thanks.

When men feel they are doing women favour for marrying you, then, something is wrong somewhere.
If a woman is a real woman, acts as a true companion to his man, add value to him in all ramification, he won't ever feel he's doing you any favour for getting married to you rather, he will feel favoured, blessed and fulfilled for having you as his wife.
May God help us all.

chaircover: Folks please its enough. She has accepted her mistake and said it wont happen again. What else do we want from her. By carrying on hounding her, makes us no better than what we are telling her off for.

Please lets all move on.

sometimes, i doubt if some people really accept apology!

May God reward you abundantly.
If not that i dont meet up with any of your conditions, i would have loved to partake, but for those who are partaking, i sincerely wish them goodluck.

@op, may God make a way for you and meet you at the point of your need.

However, i will suggest you start small, it may be an underemployment, but will definitely fill a gap, we all know the condition of this our country, but believe it, starting small can land you in a glorious place, for example, starting as petrol attendant in a petrol station, starting as a teacher in a private school, etc.
I dont have job to give you but this is my widow's mite. Hope it helps.
May God help you

[quote author=kay-one], yes i TRULY love her, and i'm not just saying so 'to pass exam'. i do. i only asked the question for knowing sake, cos my mom's showing too much concern over it and she had examples she always cited each time she raises the issue. you know moms' wahala na

btw, thanks for that prayer you made for me earlier on[/quote]@kay-one, stop working yourself up, this type of issue, e get as e be, God is up there doing what He pleases with us people, He givves us what He thinks we can handle, im not saying scientific researches/work is a myth, but sometimes, it's beyond human comprehension.

With permission from one of my colleagues, i just called her this morning to give me permission to share her story, because she's also a NLDer, but a passive one, she might see this post and be offended, hence, my request which was granted.
This my colleague's father has 3 wives and 13 children........all females, not a single male, and she's now the mother of 4..........all males, not a single female.

So, stop working up yourself.
Delight yourself in the Lord and He shall grant you the desires of your heart, says the bible.
It is well.

Another thing that just crossed my mind now ios that, if the op actually and really love that lady, he wont even think towards that direction.

@op, do you REALLY love that lady?

This is exactly what we call "leading by example". Not "do as i say and dont do as i do" people.
He'll surely get his reward, with an extension to his children. Amen

AnOlAd: Just had my own Baby few hours ago.... Oba gbogbo aye,Baba ese gan... Am dancing am grateful to Lord....

congratulations!
May God continue to provide for you to take care of your little one, protect the little one and restore the mother. Amen.