₦airaland Forum

alanto:
No mind am. Sanusi own na to complain, wetin e don do to help him own people

you are right. instead of him to pick up the challenge and contest for top positions to change the dynamics of his people and landscape, he decided to retire and be regarded as an Emir who are mere tools in the hand of politicians who had deliberately under-develop the same region he is complaining about here and there and he won't call them out for fear of being disposed again.

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 This woman just dash Ned N woke stray bullet oo😂😂😂😂

So those 3 kids has different Fathers. Anyway it is a trap for any man that tries it with her.

But I feel she does not need to display those kids in the video now. She could have said her truth without it.

tunwumi:
The North are always ungrateful.

How will it be if there is no more free money

Don't mind those hypocrites. If that figure is true, imagine that school in Katsina collecting the combine sum of what UI, UNILORIN and UNIBEN got not to talk of the Bayero School and Maiduguri own.

Yet they cry the loudest all because the person in power is not a northerner since he is not doing their bidding or listening to them.

hence they disguise it as a protest and incite their gullible people. People that don't pay tax ooooo in that their region. All the cows the sold or are selling, is the government collecting tax or vat on it?. NO.

I wonder why or who made this country one.

TeddyX:
Yeah, There wasn’t year of graduation initially but few days after submission, I noticed I could edit my profile and made changes. Though I saw where i was asked to reattach my birth certificate.

Please how were you able to add year of graduation? it was not there at the initial and i thought maybe it was delibrate from them since the certificate is attached.

I tried to check now, it says application already submitted. where do I add graduation year.

seunmsg:
It will be enforced and a southerner will fly the party’s ticket. In 2015 when the ticket was zoned to the north, Okorocha from the south was allowed to contest but at the end of the day, a northerner emerged.

Apart from the nonsense that PDP did in 2015 by printing only one presidential nomination form for Jonathan and illegally denying others the right to contest for the ticket, zoning has never been used to stop others from contesting. They would contest but the candidate would still emerge from the region the ticket is zoned to.

You really understand the politics. those who contested knowing that the party has zone the ticket to a particular region get the benefit of being front runners in the government after they lose out as they will be compensated with juicy post to recoup their loss. they didn't contest for people sake ooo. na the game.

kenfarm:
U 2 obviously have an unfinished business

An it can only end in tear for sure.... Madam face front abeg Ahn.
So you are coming to Nairaland to explain yourself now... he was your first love blah blah...Just listen to yourself.

Now if that guy give chance now, obviously you'll cheat on your husband straight up.

your thoughts are like that of a girl just out of secondary school...very premature.

If you don't want your husband, Madam quit the marriage instead of leading him on with your thoughts of MY FIRST LOVE.

I am sure you are already taking the frustration out on your husband either emotionally or otherwise. from your post, you did not talk about having any care for your husband. If you don't love him again let him know and you carry your cross madam first love. DON'T BE HERE AND THERE. it is your type that always shout DOMESTIC VIOLENCE... NA LIKE THIS E DEY START OOO. I HATE NONSENSE BUT I PRAY YOU RECEIVE SENSE SHA.

THJIS ONE DON YA WEERE OOOO.... PARK WELL JOOR. E DEY VEX YOU SAY DEM NO THEY SHOUT YOUR NAME AGAIN AND YOU RE TRYING TO STILL BE RELEVANT. GO JARE.

he does not want to be Hushpuppified now as they keep showing his picture with Hushpuppi

let me kukuma tear up the account opening form i collect from them last week. awon onigbese.

this is excellently useless

Michelle55:
What if he never gets to find out something like that at the first place if only he didn't snoop?
I'm not sure the young lady will appreciate her boss encroaching on her privacy like that..
So he should assume he didn't know anything and let her be

What is bad is bad.... She can die for all you care. If it ever happens that she loose her life in the process of abort or incapable to give birth, what would you feel as a person knowing that you could have at least do something before it gets to that point if it ever did.... Aunty you are wicked. There is a reason why certain things happen, what if it was designed by God that someone should save her from herself?.

It's like you are also a wayward person (sorry to say).

The OP should try and find a way to pass the message however ugly it would be because this is life we are talking about so as not to say had I known.

It is people like you that can cry crocodile tears for Africa. Your husband/ future man should better watch out.

bigseank:
if you finished from Lasu in the 1990 & 2000, years of bababunmi, akesode, leigh & Hussein. Nothing, i mean nothing can shake you in this life. The school has really changed and am a proud alumni. i remeber vividly the academic and non-academic staff protests during leigh and husseins regime, see Juju placed allover the administrative buildings, i can still remeber someone throw a stone at hussein and it met him square on the forehead, or the different cult hits in broad daylight at the school ojo front gate. The tunde salau brutal macheting and all the saga that followed after. i remeber vividly the fall of damilola, i was on campus not too far when damoche fell at the gate. That school made me.

iba oooo iba.... you don see thing ooo

i just hope this guy will listen to wise advice and do away with the girl because it can only cost him more pain and more pain and more pain. it is just not worth it bro. don't just make the mistake.

funshint:
The husband simply can't tolerate living like a pig. He has sensed you're lazy and dirty that's why he's taking it upon himself to do all the chores. Correct husband!

you nailed it i swear and now concience is disturbing her.

How would buhari read this long notebook now.

helinues:
Where do this selfish religion leaders expect their members to get the money from under lock down?

Why are these god of men wicked like this?

they did not put rope in their neck now. so they should stop be gullible as well. its in their hand.

extreme situation requires extreme measures most of the time. this has gone on for too long and people are dying. hence your statement hold no water here.

deewhy13:
av you receive any mail from them after registering cos they promise go sent a mail to complete the registration. its been four days now. no email and no space to complete the application apart from just my name, phone number and email that I enter at the very initial stage. or it's that all about the registration, just kind of confused about the whole tin with this INEC registration

THE COUNTRY SEEMED GONE OO.. Abi which one is you'll be notified when to start applying again after registering. If you are conversant ways of doing things in Nigeria one can't help but feel that something fishy has started already. Sorry for Nigeria oooo.

b3llo:
An experienced elder stateman is talking and a common lizard like you is challenging and intelligent advice. Your post is full of sentiment and senselessness... am sure Ur life depends on minimum wage increment. Do you think running a security unit is cheap Nobody here agrees with your long and empty post.

Oga... Experience of what?.. The one that set the nation back many years or which one. I guess cos you have not lost someone dear to the menace of those guys marauding as herdsmen so you can spew trash. IBB is among the top culprit that mislead this nation. We can't sure remain like this.
Restructure the country...No.
Call for referendum ......... No.
OK let's try and protect our people and region against some of these atrocities in our region... You say No again. So should be at your mercy.

You sound as if your brain has been over colonised. Think young man. Think.

how much did you people pay them for the award....cos it is impossible

shilenji:
if he doesn't point how Will we know what he is pointing too.


........................ ........NIGERIANS..........


if dem no see fault in someone they will sha find a way to create one. lmao

As he his WORKLESS now, at least he does not want to be POINTLESS

LOMBARDY:
Two wrongs don't make a right but 5 does abi? Until he starts getting physical with her then you guys will start saying why she didn't leave earlier

She is free to leave if she feel that is the next line of action as her safety is more important don't get me wrong. but she saying she "feels" he is cheating and so she to has started looking outside. WHAT!!! this implies she could actually be the cause of the husband's action. believe me she is not telling everything. remember when we point a finger at someone, the remaining four is pointing back to us.

Zhuhilat:
How Do I Deal With This Level Of Disrespect From My Husband

Dear all

I and my husband are just 2years in marriage.

Every time we have issues concerning anything, he is always telling me to pack my things and leave his house or he will say things like you are off no importance to me and you bring me no value and stuff and stuff. But after a while he will apologize and say he doesn’t mean it.

Last month, what caused our fight was because my mum sent some food stuffs to us because she traveled and got them cheaply. He was angry because he felt that was disrespectful. And the argument degenerated to him telling me to leave his house,

i got tired, called his bluff and left the house but everyone advised me to go back and make it work., well except my dad. Mind you, this was the 5th time.

On my return, we talked about it(like we always do) and i thought it was genuine, and i said i was going to give it one more try.

Today, we had an argument because of baby food. I told hime to buy on his way back. I couldn’t go out because the whole road was terribly flooded .

But he didn't buy it, and that lead to an argument. And the next thing he told me was to fuc.k off and leave. Or he is leaving. As a matter of fact, he just left the house now 12:00am.

I am actually tired of it all. and right now, i don't think i have any love left for him or this marriage.
I think he is cheating on me and for some reason i am beginning to look outside and crave attention, love and respect from someone else.

I don't want my child to grow up seeing me treated like this but most importantly , i don't want her to think it is okay to accept being disrespected and under valued like this.

Married people is this one of the challenges in marriage or what?

Why cant we have an argument that doesn’t lead to leave my house, i dont need you, you bring me no value and all

Also we are very very comfortable, i work and he works too.

Emotionally, i am done.

two wrong don't make a right... the husband has his issues obviously but she saying she has started looking outside burst the bubble. in the case of the baby food, it is clear that when the man came back without buying the baby food, the lady started venting on him which he retaliated with those his usual words. he may be going through some hard times if she care about him that much she know but all she says is he insult me this or that. she surely disregard her husband as well and the man knows but she won't tell us that here. she is not telling the full story i bet you.

Her mother buying them stuff... very good and nothing wrong with it at all and he should be thankful. but then again comes the woman , it is possible that she has being telling her mother that he does not take care of her and the mother being caring decided to send little thing she can which the husband find out and kicked against resulting to the argument.

Finally nothing should justify cheating please... no need of her looking outside.... If she can't cope and make things work with her husband, she should leave the marriage and go outside fully make herself happy. because cheating would negate everything she said she won't what her child to experience.

stop assuming your husband his cheating, if you find him doing such.... the decision is yours 100%, but on assumption and you have started looking outside... it shows even you too did not really love him from inception.

LOMBARDY:
Pls Goan sit down...I know someone will come here and blame the lady!
Is she not human? Why must the husband be treating her like garbage if he doesn't f*ck outside?
This is the 5th time she left and returned..that shows she is trying to make it work despite zero efforts from the husband.
Nigerian husband's like feeling like a god at the time

How can he leave the house by 12pm without quantitative explanation to his together forever whilst she is still struggling to feed the baby?

two wrong don't make a right... the husband has his issues obviously but she saying she has started looking outside burst the bubble. in the case of the baby food, it is clear that when the man came back without buying the baby food, the lady started venting on him which he retaliated with those his usual words. he may be going through some hard times if she care about him that much she know but all she says is he insult me this or that. she surely disregard her husband as well and the man knows but she won't tell us that here. she is not telling the full story i bet you.

Her mother buying them stuff... very good and nothing wrong with it at all and he should be thankful. but then again comes the woman , it is possible that she has being telling her mother that he does not take care of her and the mother being caring decided to send little thing she can which the husband find out and kicked against resulting to the argument.

Finally nothing should justify cheating please... no need of her looking outside.... If she can't cope and make things work with her husband, she should leave the marriage and go outside fully make herself happy. because cheating would negate everything she said she won't what her child to experience.

stop assuming your husband his cheating, if you find him doing such.... the decision is yours 100%, but on assumption and you have started looking outside... it shows even you too did not really love him from inception.

okosodo:
Yet some southerners will support this man because of islam

the same way some would support if he is a christian now abi... can't you just separate religion out of your blocked medulla. You see why the nation is heading nowhere if this is the best thinking a young chap like you could think. Separate your sentiment from your thinking so you can see clearly and think well or else you'll are nothing but an educated illiterate.

majamajic:
me that train on empty stomach

YOUR BREAK THROUGH IS COMING THEN...

GrabHisBalls:
LOL. On one picture she's dark and on another, she's fair. To be sincere, she looks ordinary. And op, why the hype on Seyi? Seyi that would have bleeped Tacha if she'd agreed? No be him help Tacha pack her pants? His gf should be worried.

busy body of life... show your face make we compare Madam sophisticated who go come pack your own pant now?... see as mumu dey multiply for your head so.

Flashh:
That guy must not get away with this. Since Uber could deny him, it something to tell that the driver is illegal.

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If you check some comments, you would know there are a lot of people, who aren't mentally alright like the driver, on this forum.

They ain't talking about the cruel act displayed by the driver, but body-shamed the victim.[Wish it were to be their sister]

...Talk say you like breast abi waytin. traffic light by 2.am in lagos. normally a reasonable person should not be on street by that time (except in the case of emergency). but because of unreasonable people like her that is why the driver is on the street.worse still she dey go club and probably she no wan pay up as maga never show up. somebody draw mark on her breast by herself to draw attention and instead of you to condemn it, you talking down people who are doing so . bros fear God na.

Na Germany tell you that one abi....we dey wait.