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The problem with accepting this news is that we don't know what is the truth and what is American propaganda?

Ashley86400:
Achraf Hakimi destroyed his own marriage by cheating on his wife several women. And raping another woman.
His wife decided to leave because it was getting too messy.
Make una read the story well and don’t just focus on his wife leaving. E get reason why she no wan do again.

he has been cleared of the rape charge, secondly, would his wife accept to give him 50% of her life belongings if he caught her cheating? ( she's the wealthiest Spanish actress). Everybody should go with what they made in the event of a divorce kpom kwem.

Let's ask Ashraf Hakimi who saved him and who sought to destroy him after just three years of marriage.

Peledonomy:
People are selling 6 weeks broilers for 2k and 2.5k. There is no profit na. It takes approximately #2200 to grow 1 broiler to table size at 6 weeks.

depends on your location, in Onitsha, it sells for 5-6 on the open market depending on size while bulk supplies is from 4k.

Rapmoney:
What should he have said? He should have praised Nigeria as the most corrupt-free country abi? Your username and signature are the opposite of your type of person. Abeg change them.

the guy that you quoted is a paid APC online influencer, you can't expect the truth from him.

Does girls bear Ahmed? Giving that Bola is usually a female name and the document only showed A as her initial, I think further investigative work needs to be done to bring a water tight case against him.

MackyNaija:
Soakaway - complete. Used to refill the foundation, possible saved us at a minimum 4 trips for laterite.
Laterite filling is almost complete, having delays with the plumbing work.

Added pictures from the backside, that's the best way I can identify this construction without confusion.

Costing coming soon, the number of blocks used for the foundation is blowing my mind! Over 2300, how's that even possible?
Anyway, I'll find out if this was inflated when we start raising blocks after oversite concrete.

There are multiple set-ups like for the dining area and also the entry chilling area so not everything was 5 courses for DPC.

over 2300 blocks for foundation is a very serious red flag,that's enough blocks for a simple three bedroom flat complete, your costs are not making sense, I'll look into it later.

A 2% fall in value is nothing, the west is just looking for propaganda, the Naira have devalued by about 400% under Buhari (198-850) while the Ghanian Cedi lost 40% of it's value within a year. The Russians are doing well for themselves.

FRANCISTOWN:
What This is just ... Man! I also have similar stories. I'm thinking of compiling them together into one thread so everyone can see and be on their best guard. I'd like to mention you, I hope you wouldn't mind to share this story again.

sure, I might even share the link to the news if I can find it,it has the pictures and full names of those involved.

FRANCISTOWN:
In this case I think the Woman is getting all of the benefits. What if she kills the man knowing her children are the sole beneficiaries of the man's will and boom the real father shows up, and at the end of the day, it was all setup??

it doesn't work that way besides, it hardly happens rather it's the wife that bore one's biological children that kills him so she can take over his properties, I know of a recent case of a woman with full grown children who poisoned her wealthy husband but as the man didn't die instantly as expected, she strangulated him to death with the help of her boyfriend and then proceeded to sell two of the man's houses to sponsor her travelling to the USA with her much younger boyfriend but the man's relatives were able to smell a fish and paid policemen who provided hard evidence through investigation, the woman and her lover were arrested and confessed to the crime in details, the story made the news then,however, the woman's children were able to have her released on bail and flown to the USA (to continue her whoring) while her male lover was left to rot away in a Nigerian prison. The man was an only son who married early so they were relatively young despite having grown up children. The moral of this story is that a cheating wife would still kill her husband to inherit his wealth through his children regardless of whether he's the biological father of the children or not. A cheating wife is a real danger.

FRANCISTOWN:
They appear less expensive but they are very costly
The bread may be sold at a cheaper price, but what if the bread has been infested with any kind of infection (let's say Lassa Fever, from a rodent's bite). The person will spend infact more than necessary on treatment
Same way with single moms, most of them are less expensive during the first few days of the relationship (some may even cook with their own money and bring it to your house early in the morning) . During all these period they are trying to penetrate your defence line. Once they've successfully broken off your gaurd. They begin to show how costly and why they be single in the first place.
I like the word baggage that you used up there. e dey sound for my ear as garbage. So let's say single moms are full of baggage and garbage.



What? 2kids at 23 . Well there is nothing much I can say to you . @The emboldened already shows that you are a wise man.
But wait, I also got another point of view @The subscripted.
Could it mean that some men know they are sterile so they intentionally go for single moms to hide their sterility

In Igbo culture, sterile men usually go for single moms with kids and automatically adopts the children as he marries their mom giving the children right to inherit his properties. There's nothing wrong with adoption as far as I'm concerned especially for sterile men without hope of biologically producing their own children.

JASONjnr:
It's a very common thing to sleep with any woman, married or single if you know how to constantly get them gifts....

When I got my smart watch, a female colleague, a senior boss, told me of her birthday and was expecting same gift from me.... I boldly told her it will have to shift her pants for the gift to be delivered to her. She gave me a face and a week later she called me and told me why I didn't get her the gift. Told her the gift was at home and that she needed to shift a cotton to receive it. And behold, i did exactly as a I told her.

Women wants money and gifts or surprises..... If you keep doing this, you will earn their love. Then, if you know how to hit the right spot .. they will call you a keeper!

No woman get arouse with a man who feels entitled to their body without doing anything to keep it. Don't forget that you can s#x a girl if she pity's you, probably because you're undergoing some difficulty moments. But she will never see it as a thing! But soon as you attached the sex with gifts, she will always come back for more!

And how would you feel knowing this about your wife? That her love for you is conditional on gifts and that men with the means might be shifting her pants outside the home? Most modern marriages are just scams.

What is the relationship between sex and provision? A man provides for ten years then loses his job or business and his wife starts acting up within six months,she doesn't love the man and is already sleeping or preparing to sleep with men with the money. If the man is sensible, let him walk away from the marriage especially if they already have his desired number of children, let him concentrate his time and energy on building himself and his children. An official divorce is the solution.

FRANCISTOWN:
I'm just trying to be sincere bro. Think about this bro. Let's say you go to a nearby shop to get a loaf of bread.
When you get to the place, there are many loaves of fresh today bread on display but the shop attendant gives you a loaf of bread with a teeth bite traces on it saying , "ehn sir, it's not the fault of the bread o, it was rat that ate it where I kept it. Or someone stole a bite where I kept it".

What will you feel bro, immediately you'll feel irritated, like WTF! Shey you dey whine me ni? Wether it was rat or whoever stole a bite on the loaf of bread is not your business regardless of how less expensive she wanna sell it.
The bite could be from a rodent or someone who doesn't even brush and it's obviously unhealthy.

Likewise with single moms, whichever circumstance put her in that condition is not our business.
Whether the kid lives with her or with the kid father, whenever she goes there to see the kid, they'll have s*x. We deserve the best of everything bro.


We are not the saviours of the world, if she's a Christian let Jesus come and save her, and if she's a Muslim let Prophet Muhammad (S.A.W) safe her.

nice analogy using bread but single moms aren't cheaper because they come with a lot of expensive baggage. I have a friend a friend whom I really like but been a divorcee at 23 with two kids is a lotbof expensive baggage, it's definitely the new husband that would raise those children and it isn't easy or cheap. Single mothers are for sterile men and their likes. You're also right that no single mother would tell you that she left her husband because the man couldn't provide for her due to hardship, she'll rather tell you a story of how he's the devil in human form.

Nna a,this guy is out for them ladies without fear or favour, they deserve it sha.

Under Buhari, the military have been politicised beyond measure, that statement by the army chief was degrading to his office and person due to it's apparent extreme political undertone. Honestly, I have lost all hope in Nigeria, imagine citizens living in perpetual fear of herdsmen, book haram hosting flags and administering territory in Niger state while the army chief was more interested in playing politics of Nigeria against Igbos.

Anambra is trying but honestly, if i ever leave this country, I wouldn't want to invest in her for anything.

FRANCISTOWN:
Let's not even go about the DIY test kit and the blood group, those ones get plenty loopholes well. There is a method I always use, and it has never failed me. The reason it is highly effective is because no one knows the method, if anyone knew about the method, they'd soon find a way around it. The power of the method is in it's secrecy.

Baba,share the secret with us.

Nobody takes Lai Mohammed serious.

FRANCISTOWN:
And the most appalling part of it is that, not everyone will have the money to conduct the DNA test. There are other methods you can use, I'll talk about some in my future threads.

affordable DIY test kits can be ordered online plus the costs of DNA tests would continue to fall( at least provided the free fall of the naira against foreign currencies doesn't worsen with time) please talk about the other methods, I believe genotype and blood group is included.

FRANCISTOWN:
When I was in school in those days, I met 2 different men who never even knew each other. I stand by the oath of brotherhood, I lie to you not my brother. I'll only tell about one of the men.

I think it was my sophomore year back then. Some couple with 2 kids moved into the room opposite to mine's . I am this kinna guy who could stay up to 1year Inna the house without hearing my voice whatsoever (exaggerated though).

One day I didn't have lectures so I was reading a book in my room, I can still remember the name of the book, it was "The Djinn" by Graham Masterton.
My room was the first and also the landlord put a chair by my window where people could sit and gist most times. So on this "fateful" day, I heard someone talking by the window, I thought I was the only one at the apartment as everyone would have gone to their places of hustle, but I wasn't really bothered because the voice was familiar. I tried as much as possible to concentrate on the book. (my earphone got spoilt then so I couldn't just put it to good use and ignore) .

As I was trying to return focus to the book I was reading, I heard the woman say "You, you no dey always hear e don do, my husband sef no dey do me like this. You go just dey rough handle person anyhow, I tell you make you no release inside me, and you still do am". ......(some things here wey I miss, because I dey try mind my business) .... Then I heard again "Okay , if you promise say you no go touch me, I go come collect the money for your house tomorrow".
Bruv! When I heard that, I had to look thru my window, (my window was the kind you could see someone from inside but not from outside unless at night if the bulb was on).
Man! I was flabbergasted , when I saw her.

The following day, as I was washing my clothes outside. I saw the man and we started talking about how primary schools had changed compared to our days when you had to touch your ear with your other arm over your head to see if you were mature enough to begin school. Somehow he mentioned to me that he wouldn't be going to work early because he would be taking his kids to school because his wife went for a friend's party early enough to assist them in cooking and stuffs. Immediately I heard that, I heard the big bell of Florence rang in my heard. So we started talking about the wife and I heard that there was a time , the man went to work, came back home to find that the wife had packed and left with their last child who was 3months old then.

She went like that for 11 months until when she came back and the man gladly accepted her... You see it's a good thing your wife came back, but sir. It won't do you no harm to be on your guard. Just have it at the back of your mind that she can leave again. Even if she doesn't leave, you've got nothing to lose.

Honestly, getting married scares the shit out of me,I guess I would always drum it into my wife's ears from dating times that I must conduct DNA tests on my kids, maybe that would put some fear into her. Modern marriages are mostly scams.

Ebelelivinston:
I got married to my virgin wife two years ago and she gave birth last year December which means my daughter is for months old now
Myself and my wife aren't staying in the same state, though I opened a shop for her where she's residing.Am the type that is addicted to checking my wife's phone each time I visit her.So,one day that I visited her, as usual,I went to her phone and saw a love chat on her Whatsapp with one man, like usual ,I asked her about the chat she told me everything between she and the guy.
The guy is her neighbor but he is not residing at the place where my wife is but that's the family house and he comes back every weekend.He has been disturbing my wife who is holding a baby for sex.We decided to set him up and I told my wife to invite him yesterday when he isn't aware that I'm around.Finally,he came and I caught him red-handed,but instead of attacking him,I decided to advise him.He was thankful I didn't disgrace him.My fellow nairalnders,did I act weak or right?

OGA, your problem is with your wife not the man and you're yet to solve that problem, why would she engage in such a chat with the man and didn't even bother to inform you of her landlord's sex demands from her? Your problem is bigger than you realise. The stupid man should have been arrested and charged to court,the Nigerian police always ready made charges for such people starting with 'engaging in action capable of breaching public peace'.

Tunagee:
Yeah, there was a persistent verbal abuse on my part, so her parents decided i needed to work on my anger. Story in my posts of 2019.
I grew up with this 'i cant tolerate nonsense' mentality.

so you now tolerate nonsense and the potential that she only came back after been used,misused and abused sexually by other men and realising that those men have no interest in marrying her? Honestly, having a no nonsense mentality shouldn't make you abuse her verbally yet been away for eleven months? Wow.

Tunagee:
''A king doesn't beg, I personally hate begging. The moment you beg a woman, you already sold your authority''

Bros, you are full of wisdom. One silly mistake i made some years ago when my wife left. Really, the several begging did not bring her back until i also abandoned her for close to 11months b4 her brain come reset.

Wonderful post that made my day.
I also saw some areas where i erred in this your write up. Nice one

your wife left you for 11 months and you still took her back?

Heroicvic:
hello everyone please I need your candid advice
I'm confused about myself; I don't know what I am.
I can say I'm kind and I'm not, that I'm generous and I'm not... here's my reason

I'm not comfortable giving out my money to people that's not my family, especially ladies (I hate myself when I do coz they never stop asking and I feel I'm not obligated to help) I can spend on myself and my loved ones but when a lady ask me for money I grow furious instantly

and when I say I'm generous, I feel very Happy and fulfilled when I give to the less privileged or someone that is starving on the street even without them asking

I live in school area and most of my neighbors are female who always need your favour almost all the time requesting anything requestable

here is my concern, these neighbors tag me stingy but within me I know I'm not, I'm not just comfortable giving to some set of people

do you think this is normal? what advice do you have for me please? please be kind with your response.. thanks

there's nothing wrong with you,Nigerian girls are professional beggars without appreciation, however, when you're ready to marry,you must be ready to spend in order to attract the lady of your choice, love don't exist in women's dictionary, ignore at your own risk.

MackyNaija:
Instead of doing the aluminum or styrofoam parapet, I'll do the regular concrete one and cry once about the cost

POP in the living and dining rooms are more likely to happen than the parapet. Not too expensive.

Those fiber boards will not happen, too ugly with 2" plank running end to end to hold them in place.

why don't you like aluminum parapet?
Iol @fibre boards, I'll send you a picture later of a tastefully done patterned fibre board later. You have really done your research.

Bye bye to free and fair elections in Nigeria.

MackyNaija:
Plan is to use something like this below/concrete stamping.
Can't deal with paving stones falling apart or grass growing in between them.


Multiple cost cutting measures are planned (still unsure what to do) chief of them are parapet and ceiling pop - both beautiful but cost a lot.

Still I believe in "buy once and cry once". Just do it.

we know have aluminum parapets that cost almost nothing extra for the same look,You can limit POP to only the living/dining room, a good quality PVC or even patterned fibre cement board can be used in other areas of the house.

MackyNaija:
Thanks greenermodels, location is my hometown in Abia state.
There is no estimate and no time-frame to build this, I'll keep funding till it gets completed but I just need to ensure any money spent goes where it's intended. In my head, N15m should take this project very very far.

Nah, not overlooking anything. I have no fear, I just respect the fact that building a house is not a small endeavor but one can never finish what you don't start.
Na so we take start this waka. Small small, it will be completed afterall if was an empty parcel of land this time last month.

you have already done your research very well, 15 million would surely finish the house with modest finishing, this excludes the cost of any external works like paving stones.

MackyNaija:
As it's widely known, the cost is dependent on what you want to build.

Floor Plan was done in multiple iterations, it cost a whole lot as I kept asking for it to be redone until the interior layout was achieved. Cost could range from 50k to 500k (make una no vex, other costs will be more precise).
We started in March 2022 and Completed the plan around January 2023. No rush, na small small we go design and build am.

This plan make sense die, I would redesign it to my taste later, please where in the southeast is this project and what's your estimate for everything? ( I think you're overlooking the cost of finishings such as tiles, plumbing fixtures, electricals etc, that's where most money goes into(plus roofing if going for a high roof).