₦airaland Forum

wonder233:
She is not catching cruise. Its the fact. Women get bored of having just one sexual partner in marriage. I have seen it first hand. Upon all my knacks, styles, lasting in bed, big gbola, good loving, helping out in chores, all round support. My wife still went to spend night with a guy, and by chance I got to find out. And after initially trying to blame me for "pushing her", she later owned up that she was just bored and needed a new flame. And started trying to bobo me that there was no sex, that the guy (her colleague in the office) was just a friend. That she just needed a space to clear her head. I said all those na story for the gods. Clear your head from what? when we were all happy and laughing all week, knack Saturday, Sunday, Monday, Tuesday back to back cos its ovulation period. Then Friday, you up and comfortably spend the night with another guy, without blinking. You see how DNA problems start? Well, the marriage is done. Its a pity cos she was a nice person. But this crossed the line and I'm no simp.

after the divorce, did the colleague she cheated with marry her?

Funkyswagzz:
Lol look at what you people elected... What a shame

what they selected not what we elected.

FatimaAbubakar:
Says an incompetent fool who told us that constant electricity supply isn't rocket science during Goodluck Jonathan's administration.

His federal low cost housing scheme that produced over priced houses that no sane person would buy at the stated prices after wasting billions of naira is a textbook case study of federal level corruption,embezzlement and mismanagement under Buhari APC government. Thieving liars.

MackyNaija:
Thanks but no be say money long o, me na office man but earning in usd is the major differentiator; some money deh remain when month end.

Labour cost is also not expensive in Nigeria so building can be achieved as a bulk of the money goes to materials.

bros,show me the way na, I don tire for this 9ja so tee I de reason to migrate to Benin republic or Cape Verde. This country de very toxic now.

okoroemeka:
ok,you want to come into his life stay 5 years and take half of what he suffered for and leave him for another man,while his mother that nutured him all his life and will stand by him till her last breath will get nothing,shame on you gold diggers,why can't she stand by her man,marriage is for better and worse

she stayed only three years and want more than 50% of all he owned. That lady is 12 years older than her husband and was scheming her options from day one.

That's a real Lagos indigene talking, Who else noticed how the young bloods in the gangs of Lagos movie kept insisting that the gangster lords were not Lagos indigenes but came from somewhere to hijack leadership in Lagos.

ridwanlawal:
First time a man wins the war against women
Adam 0-1 Eve
Joseph 0-1 Potiphar's Wife
Samson 0-1 Delilah
Achraf Hakim 1-0 Hiba Abouk

Johnny Depp won against his ex wife Amber Rose although the woman have finished him before he wise up.

I'm researching on potential countries to migrate to and Cape Verde came up as visa free for Nigerians, any Nigerian living there on this section please respond.

Ashley86400:
Men wrote the law. Question them not me.
Wealth is split after divorce because when you married you became one. All what you own are merged together. When you divorce, all what you own are split. That’s the law.
Hakimi doesn’t know he just condemned himself for whoever he’s going to be with next. No woman will want to have kids or settle down with a man who’s life savings is still in is his mother’s hand. This is not about teaching your wife a lesson, she’s already rich. This just shows he can’t control his life and affairs. That is not a man. That’s a baby.

a million and one women would throw themselves at Hakimi, you need to realise that this guy is a Moroccan, a Muslim, most Moroccan women don't expect to take over half of a man's worth in a divorce nor do they expect to have the man exclusively to themselves. They see his Spanish wife as the devil not him. When Mikel Obi got his Russian billionaire's boss daughter pregnant, his relatives in Nigeria went to the press and made it clear that they wouldn't accept her as a wife after what her mother did to her father through divorce, the girl is still with Mikel today without getting married to him and they're happy together. You should also know that even in the USA, some states laws says that in the event of a divorce, everybody keeps what they made for themselves and only shares properties if any they bought/owned together. This 50/50 sharing is applicable only in some states and men often demand that their prospective spouses wave that right away in a prenuptial agreement, millions of women have signed that agreement. If you love a man and have no ill plans for him,why shouldn't you?

MackyNaija:
The most difficult part of the entire project has been completed successfully.

Cost breakdown incoming (losing track of this, only thing I am sure of is how much I have sent ).
To keep track of costs hard like to physically build the house; supervising Architect deh try.

Superstructure and parapet should not take more than 1 week.

you just de follow up this project bumper to fender, this 9ja economy no reach your side at all.congratulations once more.

JovialJune:
Lol Hakimi will still pay alimony to his wife and child support for his children, as far as he earns £1million every month and there are records of his earnings, he will pay, he can't escape it.

So you below par Nigerian clowns rejoicing on what you have no knowledge about should keep gloating, we are keenly waiting for more updates on this case, can't wait to call out fools here when it has been decided on what she will get in court.

what she would get would be a very small percentage of what she asked for, besides, child support is not paid for life and if he wins the custody battle for the children, it would be the wife paying child support to him, go and read about Brittney Spears.

Areola14:
Direct ur questions to the igbos...they are everywhere. Or better still say it in igbo language..! In less than 5 minutes you will receive 1000 comments....

guy, no carry tribalism enter here, na beg i de beg you o.
NB:I be Igbo o.

Ashley86400:
Even if she didn’t want to drop money. So long as she cheats and didn’t sign a prenuptial agreement, her wealth will be split into two.
Adele did it.

Brittany Spears still pays 20k dollars every month to her ex husband for child support (her kids live with him) for over 10 years now. When billionaire women’s wealth is shared, no one shouts but when men’s wealth is shared una go dey shout gold digger even if the women is visibly comfortable and is just subject to the law. After all she born for the guy and now has to spend the rest of her life raising his kids. He is entitled to give his ex-wife at least to a life of comfort to raise his kids na. Or is he not?

20k a month is mere alimony or child support, Hakimi's wife would still get it except she loses custody of the children to him. Nothing justifies splitting anybody's life savings over divorce, cheating or not.let everybody keep what he or she made in their lifetime.

I'm researching on potential countries to migrate to and Cape Verde came up as visa free for Nigerians, any Nigerian living there on this section please respond.

The problem with accepting this news is that we don't know what is the truth and what is American propaganda?

Ashley86400:
Achraf Hakimi destroyed his own marriage by cheating on his wife several women. And raping another woman.
His wife decided to leave because it was getting too messy.
Make una read the story well and don’t just focus on his wife leaving. E get reason why she no wan do again.

he has been cleared of the rape charge, secondly, would his wife accept to give him 50% of her life belongings if he caught her cheating? ( she's the wealthiest Spanish actress). Everybody should go with what they made in the event of a divorce kpom kwem.

Let's ask Ashraf Hakimi who saved him and who sought to destroy him after just three years of marriage.

Peledonomy:
People are selling 6 weeks broilers for 2k and 2.5k. There is no profit na. It takes approximately #2200 to grow 1 broiler to table size at 6 weeks.

depends on your location, in Onitsha, it sells for 5-6 on the open market depending on size while bulk supplies is from 4k.

Rapmoney:
What should he have said? He should have praised Nigeria as the most corrupt-free country abi? Your username and signature are the opposite of your type of person. Abeg change them.

the guy that you quoted is a paid APC online influencer, you can't expect the truth from him.

Does girls bear Ahmed? Giving that Bola is usually a female name and the document only showed A as her initial, I think further investigative work needs to be done to bring a water tight case against him.

MackyNaija:
Soakaway - complete. Used to refill the foundation, possible saved us at a minimum 4 trips for laterite.
Laterite filling is almost complete, having delays with the plumbing work.

Added pictures from the backside, that's the best way I can identify this construction without confusion.

Costing coming soon, the number of blocks used for the foundation is blowing my mind! Over 2300, how's that even possible?
Anyway, I'll find out if this was inflated when we start raising blocks after oversite concrete.

There are multiple set-ups like for the dining area and also the entry chilling area so not everything was 5 courses for DPC.

over 2300 blocks for foundation is a very serious red flag,that's enough blocks for a simple three bedroom flat complete, your costs are not making sense, I'll look into it later.

A 2% fall in value is nothing, the west is just looking for propaganda, the Naira have devalued by about 400% under Buhari (198-850) while the Ghanian Cedi lost 40% of it's value within a year. The Russians are doing well for themselves.

FRANCISTOWN:
What This is just ... Man! I also have similar stories. I'm thinking of compiling them together into one thread so everyone can see and be on their best guard. I'd like to mention you, I hope you wouldn't mind to share this story again.

sure, I might even share the link to the news if I can find it,it has the pictures and full names of those involved.

FRANCISTOWN:
In this case I think the Woman is getting all of the benefits. What if she kills the man knowing her children are the sole beneficiaries of the man's will and boom the real father shows up, and at the end of the day, it was all setup??

it doesn't work that way besides, it hardly happens rather it's the wife that bore one's biological children that kills him so she can take over his properties, I know of a recent case of a woman with full grown children who poisoned her wealthy husband but as the man didn't die instantly as expected, she strangulated him to death with the help of her boyfriend and then proceeded to sell two of the man's houses to sponsor her travelling to the USA with her much younger boyfriend but the man's relatives were able to smell a fish and paid policemen who provided hard evidence through investigation, the woman and her lover were arrested and confessed to the crime in details, the story made the news then,however, the woman's children were able to have her released on bail and flown to the USA (to continue her whoring) while her male lover was left to rot away in a Nigerian prison. The man was an only son who married early so they were relatively young despite having grown up children. The moral of this story is that a cheating wife would still kill her husband to inherit his wealth through his children regardless of whether he's the biological father of the children or not. A cheating wife is a real danger.

FRANCISTOWN:
They appear less expensive but they are very costly
The bread may be sold at a cheaper price, but what if the bread has been infested with any kind of infection (let's say Lassa Fever, from a rodent's bite). The person will spend infact more than necessary on treatment
Same way with single moms, most of them are less expensive during the first few days of the relationship (some may even cook with their own money and bring it to your house early in the morning) . During all these period they are trying to penetrate your defence line. Once they've successfully broken off your gaurd. They begin to show how costly and why they be single in the first place.
I like the word baggage that you used up there. e dey sound for my ear as garbage. So let's say single moms are full of baggage and garbage.



What? 2kids at 23 . Well there is nothing much I can say to you . @The emboldened already shows that you are a wise man.
But wait, I also got another point of view @The subscripted.
Could it mean that some men know they are sterile so they intentionally go for single moms to hide their sterility

In Igbo culture, sterile men usually go for single moms with kids and automatically adopts the children as he marries their mom giving the children right to inherit his properties. There's nothing wrong with adoption as far as I'm concerned especially for sterile men without hope of biologically producing their own children.

JASONjnr:
It's a very common thing to sleep with any woman, married or single if you know how to constantly get them gifts....

When I got my smart watch, a female colleague, a senior boss, told me of her birthday and was expecting same gift from me.... I boldly told her it will have to shift her pants for the gift to be delivered to her. She gave me a face and a week later she called me and told me why I didn't get her the gift. Told her the gift was at home and that she needed to shift a cotton to receive it. And behold, i did exactly as a I told her.

Women wants money and gifts or surprises..... If you keep doing this, you will earn their love. Then, if you know how to hit the right spot .. they will call you a keeper!

No woman get arouse with a man who feels entitled to their body without doing anything to keep it. Don't forget that you can s#x a girl if she pity's you, probably because you're undergoing some difficulty moments. But she will never see it as a thing! But soon as you attached the sex with gifts, she will always come back for more!

And how would you feel knowing this about your wife? That her love for you is conditional on gifts and that men with the means might be shifting her pants outside the home? Most modern marriages are just scams.

What is the relationship between sex and provision? A man provides for ten years then loses his job or business and his wife starts acting up within six months,she doesn't love the man and is already sleeping or preparing to sleep with men with the money. If the man is sensible, let him walk away from the marriage especially if they already have his desired number of children, let him concentrate his time and energy on building himself and his children. An official divorce is the solution.

FRANCISTOWN:
I'm just trying to be sincere bro. Think about this bro. Let's say you go to a nearby shop to get a loaf of bread.
When you get to the place, there are many loaves of fresh today bread on display but the shop attendant gives you a loaf of bread with a teeth bite traces on it saying , "ehn sir, it's not the fault of the bread o, it was rat that ate it where I kept it. Or someone stole a bite where I kept it".

What will you feel bro, immediately you'll feel irritated, like WTF! Shey you dey whine me ni? Wether it was rat or whoever stole a bite on the loaf of bread is not your business regardless of how less expensive she wanna sell it.
The bite could be from a rodent or someone who doesn't even brush and it's obviously unhealthy.

Likewise with single moms, whichever circumstance put her in that condition is not our business.
Whether the kid lives with her or with the kid father, whenever she goes there to see the kid, they'll have s*x. We deserve the best of everything bro.


We are not the saviours of the world, if she's a Christian let Jesus come and save her, and if she's a Muslim let Prophet Muhammad (S.A.W) safe her.

nice analogy using bread but single moms aren't cheaper because they come with a lot of expensive baggage. I have a friend a friend whom I really like but been a divorcee at 23 with two kids is a lotbof expensive baggage, it's definitely the new husband that would raise those children and it isn't easy or cheap. Single mothers are for sterile men and their likes. You're also right that no single mother would tell you that she left her husband because the man couldn't provide for her due to hardship, she'll rather tell you a story of how he's the devil in human form.

Nna a,this guy is out for them ladies without fear or favour, they deserve it sha.

Under Buhari, the military have been politicised beyond measure, that statement by the army chief was degrading to his office and person due to it's apparent extreme political undertone. Honestly, I have lost all hope in Nigeria, imagine citizens living in perpetual fear of herdsmen, book haram hosting flags and administering territory in Niger state while the army chief was more interested in playing politics of Nigeria against Igbos.