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Maybe he was doing community service.

Sixfeetbelle:
Some men are so perverted they will still touch a properly covered boobs. In such a scenario, what is a lady to do?

Give the man a hot slap!

These perverts keep molesting people in public places because they know most people would rather suffer in silence than have attention drawn to themselves in a public place.

By keeping quiet you are only empowering them

queenjoseph:
It is possible.

He must have done it to other women that are close enough for him to be able to do so.

You speak as if you don't know men.

Even if he has not done it to any other lady,he must have found something in this lady which makes him decide to seduce her.

He could be an agent of darkness who just saw the righteousness in this lady and decided to tempt her.

Exactly.

And I doubt if this is his first time.

perkyB:
So this beautiful sunday morning I was invited by a friend to a new church, but I came late. So therefore I sat at the back seat with the protocols behind me, I so much felt like a late comer, and the most unimaginable thing happened....

there's an usher right behind tryna give me a shoulder massage or yank my boobs from right behind me like seriously

So guys and ladies what would be your reaction if.

an opposte sex is trying to seduce you in church. How would you react?

"Shoulder massage or yank your boobs from behind"... I'm trying to understand what you wer describe but if the usher was touching your boobs in church, you cud hav quickly used ur fone to take a quick video clip using the selfie camera if u cud hav done this without him seeing ( for evidence) and then given the idiot a proper slap

To all those asking whether her cleavage was showing, una no serious.

Stop giving perverts an excuse to molest people.

AishaYesufu:
What exactly do you intend to achieve? A woman doesn't give you attention, rather than take the honorable path by ignoring her, you elected to waste your time over what is unprofitable to you nor her simply because of your desperation for her attention.

Beside, you talk too much and boring

You read my mind.

@Jerrick: Guy, you get energy and time oh.

I no get time for all of this ur CIA investigations.

tunjijones:
I was in Canada to do my post graduate that year. One Nigeria guy i just met invited me for a party. The guy had too much to drink and he was really misbehaving. He eventually fell on the floor o. Before i knw one girl don call paramedics. It was not upto 2 mins ambulance don land. Them carry am go hospital. I was in total shock... So paramedics dey treat drunk pple too. And i was suprised at the speed them carry respond.

Lmao

Lovethaa:
My mom called me few days back , she gave me a message from our family pastor asking me to embark on a 3 days fasting and prayers and he gave his reasons .I was told to start as soon as possible .

Although I'm not a fan of fasting but I had to do this one because of the powerful reasons attached to it , i decided I'll start the fasting next week but my girlfriend urged me to begin immediately., She even offered to observe the fasting with me .


So I started on Monday , I was asked to pray every 3 hours too and my girlfriend had been supportive, she wakes me up when it is time to pray and cooks my food when I want to break before she head back to her house .

Now on Wednesday which was the last day , as usual I was weak so I slept off around 4pm Just two hours before I finish the whole fasting., While I was sleeping I felt someone trying to put hands inside my boxers ..

I woke up to find my girlfriend ,trying to grab my pr"ck ,I reminded her that I'm fasting but what happened next shocked me ,this babe suddenly turned to a desperate begger asking me to please make love to her ..she took my hands and placed it on her pants and to my surprise the pants was actually dripping of over wetness ,I have never seen her that Hot before ...


She almost tried to rape me ,she even promised to give me head and that was something she hates doing .I almost gave in because my 3rd leg betrayed me and I was already hard too but the fact that this is the last day I just couldn't do it after coming so far .

So somehow I managed to control myself and stood my ground that I can't make love to her atleast not today ..


She got angry and left for the bathroom.. 5 minutes later she appeared like nothing happened ,she asked me what I'll eat , when i told her she proceeded to the kitchen to start preparing it and after she was done ,she joined me in praying and we ate the food together...it was as if nothing happened .

Since the fast was over this babe has refused to come to my house ,I texted her that I'm ready to do what I couldn't during the fast but she told me she's no longer interested ..

This got me worried and thinking and I just don't know what is happening..


Was she possessed Or that was just coincidence.. Did I do wrong by letting her down when she needed me most ?? ..

RUN for your life bro!

gojij:
Presidential cows. Lol

Lmao...

naija4life247:
But without brain

Seconded

Laycon sef...of all girls na CeeC u want... it wud be far better for you to come and find wife here on Nairaland

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Rozcol:
You are right, I'm not good at essay writing but good at sciences but atleast you can comprehend my poor writing lol. Correct me anywhere necessary.Thanks

I was going to reply him till I saw this.
Good response.

It's a similar scenario good looking guys encounter.

Literally every babe that sees me thinks I'm proud and that I'm a player. I'm neither. Over the course of time, I have developed a thick skin to what people think, assume and say.

Something you didn't mention about being good looking that applies to both sexes is that one often comes across people that just refuse to take your "No, I'm not interested in being in any relationship with you." Honesty, it's annoying and can be frustrating. If as a guy I have so many blocked ladies on my contact list ( Truecaller always informs me when they attempt to still call me), I wonder what beautiful women are going through. Some of them are married women oh.

On a final note, I've grown to embrace my looks and physique. And so should you. Cheers.

lemon10:
Another one

They are looking for ready-made men.

moneyshop:
For so many including me, NYSC has done more harm than good to us because it destroyed our beautiful relationships.




That's it. Are you a victim of NYSC relationship brouhaha? Tell us your own story.

No.

But I think I destroyed a few niggarz relationships that sweet service year

NB If your "beautiful" relationship was destroyed by NYSC, that relationship was not actually as beautiful as you thought it was.

PEPPERified:
Imagine the Imam calling him to settle tha matter.

The imam would be like. I slept with your wife but I didn’t cum.

Or I slept with her but Na only 3 rounds I nack am

I thought Nadia was/ is married with kids?

SmartProf:
Thumbs up Canada...the Canadian embassy doesn't grant visas in any guise to wild animals in human skin. If he is looking for other countries that begins with 'C' to migrate to, Chad and Cameroon aren't so far away.

I'm not a Canadian but I am so proud of Canada for this.

They should keep up this sort of good work. Don't admit people into your country with bad histories, questionable links and affiliations.

They should extend this gesture to corrupt Nigerian govt officials and their families.

Yusufisraelj:
@Lovethaa

You are being unwise, foolish and childish.

I know a lady who was raped at age 8 till she was 24, have had multiple partners over 11.

She met a virgin guy who decided to date her, bkos life is not about people's past but what they decide to do with their future presently.

I'm not advocating careless living but my brother if a lady opens up to you and you are disgusted by her past, then walk. it shows you are not emotionally matured to handle certain levels of TRUTH. Mark my words any relationship built on lies will never last, Falsehood was never designed to stand the test of time, only TRUTH does

Words of Wisdom.

Write a book.

I'm serious.

PrimeWatermark:
This is obviously a lie.

How would your girlfriend tell you she would be spending 5days with her ex and you're here asking for people's opinion.??

Please, who raised these men idi0ts?

Corrected

It started with pornn....

And it will end in tears...

Dated an Edo girl once when my head was touching back in the University.

Girl was exciting in bed, hot tempered, very emotional, a serial cheat and from a broken home.

I didn’t know that one of her other bfs at the time was a cultist.

Very damaged somebody.

Everything na fight. Love na fight. Fvck sef na fight.

I was relieved wen that relationship ended.

missiret:
Akara and egusi?

I swear my first thought of the pic was egusi soup

Mamacita007:
llooooolll how can i be in love wit someone ive never met even though he wants to pay me a visit? Its just dat hes always saying i shud disregard most of his posts on nairaland so i wanted to know how pple feel about that

“Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaketh.”

- Luke 6:45

Disregard his NL posts at your own peril.

I can see many fellow Bible scholars have quoted the same verse. Tells you something.

Crystalom3:
Don't bash me please. Abeg no do am

So I'm in a relationship with this girl. I love the girl. That I'm sure of with all certainty.

. But sometimes she makes me question her feelings for me. Yes she says she loves me and all that but sometimes I believe it should be more than just words.

I've told her I don't feel 'desired' in the relationship sometime ago and she said that's not true. But whenever I'm with her that how I feel especially when it comes to sex.

We do not have sex frequently but each time we do, I always put in my best to satisfy her but most times she does nothing.

Not lying like wood. No, She moves and touch and all that but she never puts in any effort to satisfy me.

And once she's OK, it's over for that session. Now that I think about it, I've not even had an orgasm with her before and she will call it sex.

Sometimes, I tend to blame it on her inexperience but I've had it all today and right now the only thing I'm thinking about is breaking up with her.

And just this afternoon I asked her for a BJ after satisfying her. Like the previous time she said she can't/won't do it.

I just got up and pull on my trousers. Though she started pleading with me to come to bed but I've lost interest then and the only thing on my mind is breaking up with her.

I mean she's someone that you typically will beg to kiss and then when she sense you are angry she starts trying to put in effort.

I'm just really tired.

Just putting this out here.

Among the worst frustration you can experience in marriage is sexual frustration.

Sexual incompatibility is real.

Think before you leap.

Klass99:
The Litigator, thankfully you didn't write in that annoying legal language that gives me a migraine.

This was clear and direct communication and I also felt your humanity come through in your words, you lawyers need to keep things simple when communicating.

Now, to the topic. Ordinary boyfriend that time I been wan craze I can't even imagine what it's like when it's a spouse. It was a roller coaster of different emotions;

1. Hurt/pain.
2. Anger towards boyfriend.
3. Jealousy towards the other girl.
4. Feeling insecure, like wasn't I okay or good enough in looks, carriage and all for him to cheat......

Until I grew up and matured some more to understand that, it's just the way of you men.

I agreed with ur entire post up to this point.

Your statement assumes it's always the men who cheat.

Consider my case; We were set to do introduction, I was madly in love with my now ex gf and she went and slept with someone.

She confessed to me and begged for forgiveness. As painful as it was, I forgave her. But she wanted us to continue immediately with traditional marriage plans as if nothing had happened.
I needed time to heal emotionally but she felt I hadn't truly forgiven her so she left the relationship months later.

I hate to think about this incident but it was a turning point in my life.

I can never cheat on anyone because I’ve been on the receiving end and I know how painful it is.

litigator:
One advantage of being a litigator, a student of psychology and a relationship counsellor (Mediator) is access to premium gist.

While most of these discussions are private and privileged, I can say for sure that it's never a pleasant experience to handle a case of infidelity in marriage.

I have always prided myself as one without emotions in matters like this, as I have seen it all. But the last case I handled saw me shedding hot tears when she finally left my office.

I believe the tears simply itself back because it won't be professional to cry in the presence of a client or join in a crying competition. But I couldn't stand a senior citizen cry like a baby.

Whilst I could feel her pain, I could not help but ask what's it like to have your spouse cheat on you?

Ordinary bf and gf matter my distant ex cheated and I wanted to die.

My wife cheat and I find out? Pls God, it shouldn't even happen.