MejiLoyon: I don't blame him....man must nack. But please nack with sense. I put it to you no woman on this earth will give you towtow for free. Even if na your wife or girlfriend. There is always a price. Some are direct some are indirect. I've long mastered the art of nackiology and this is my conclusion. Be wary. Madam Wetin your phone dey do inside room,na phone you come press Abi na nack you come nack. Off ya phone. Watch her every move.
One of my seniors back in the university told me something I'll never forget;
ashacot: When I watched this video this morning, tears ran down my eyes. It is extremely emotional. This construction worker comes back home, exhausted after a whole day at work and meets this surprise put together by his wife and kids. He is a construction worker and his job may seem mean and makes him look dirty, but to his wife and kids, he is the best man on earth. Your superhero may be the richest man on earth or the man who walked on fire. That does not mean he is better than my cleaner superhero.
Be careful how you treat people. Everyone has someone looking up to them. That guard, that gardener, that driver, that trash guy, that mechanic, that man who does the meanest of jobs is someone’s hero. When you disrespect them or treat them badly just because you pay them or you think you are better than them remember that he too is another woman’s husband. He too has kids that look up to him. How will you feel if someone treated your father in that manner? How will you feel if someone disrespected your husband? How will you feel if someone treated you the same way you treat him?
The lady who cleans your home, takes care of your baby, sells by the roadside, serves in the restaurant etc. is someone’s wife and mother. She means the world to someone and deserves to be respected. How will you feel if someone treated your mother the way you treat her? How will you feel if someone spoke to your wife the way you speak to her? How will you feel if someone disrespected you the same way you disrespect her?
The same respect you want to be accorded is the same respect you should give to others. Do not respect people based on their social status. Respect them because they are humans. Just because life offered you a smile does not mean you are better off than other humans.
What f*cking difference does it make whether a man kneels down to propose or not?
So sick of all these BS people thinking not kneeling to propose makes them a bigger man or suddenly increases their penis size by 30 inches.
The sooner Nigerian men realise that a wife is a lifelong partner that is supposed to help and be of counsel through the winding and often rugged and uphill journey of life and not a property bought with brideprice to be treated with disdain, the saner and happier our society will be.
debbydams: this made so sad nd depressed I swear, m weak already nd u did this..if not for the unexpected landlord quit notice I won't b doing this or see this m doing fine with the help God, have I ever posted something like DX before? U made me tired of everything this will b my last comment here ..I joined because I tat I I'll meet a lot of good people nd share up most of the people I met on nl are the reason m sad, anyway God understand
I'm sorry about how my post made you feel.
And I apologise if it came across to you as insensitive and crass.
czarr: it started last year and it is making me really uncomfortable...it seems to be expanding, it started like a small wound like blister. Doctors in the house epp your boy!
WilliamsDeGreat: Hello everyone, i am planning on purchasing a benz c300 because the interior of the car is a killer and very comfy when inside, i fell in love with it after driving a friend of mine's car, so i would like to know from experts here, if this car is good, I heard benz has a lot of problems like electric problem down to some other issues, please advice should I go ahead? What are the pros and cons of this car? Does does it develop fault quickly?
Cc: lalasticlala
I own a 2010 Benz C350.
If you don't have extra money and/or lack the patience for maintenance, extra fuel costs, servicing, etc., pls, buy another brand not Mercedes.
My immediate last car was a 2005 C230 kompressor which I used and maintained meticulously for 4 years before upgrading.
My initial plan was to upgrade to a Benz GL or a GLK, but I also hav a building project at hand.
I live in a City in Nigeria where the roads are very good with only occasional potholes between my workplace and home.
Mobil 1 engine oil is what i use. My car requires 8L or 2gallons. With a new filter and service charges that's about 40k every 5-6months.
I made sure my C350 was not 4matic when it was being bought. 4matic wahalla is too much when you come to change shocks, brakes or the front differentials.
My C350 tyres are the AMG 18 inch low profiles. I never buy 2nd hand tyres. Complete set cost about 200k when I bought the car.
One of my tyre pressure monitors broke inside and the new set costs around 35k.
My point is that if you don't have a steady, and accessible cash to take care of the car, you may consider other brands because Benz no be car wey if something spoil, dem dey carry similar part to "manage am".
My 2cents.
NB: My advice is if you decide to buy a Benz, do not buy a Nigerian used or a previously accidental car. You will regret it. Buy a clean Tokumboh foreign used, no accident history, no flood history.
This is why a lot of Nigerian guys say they don't like to date most Nigerian girls.
A guy asks a girl out to a dinner date.
He's expecting to spend quality time with you. To get to know you. Only you.
But you pack your hoard of hungry friends and bring them along not minding his budget nor the fact that he's not interested in meeting ur friends right now. Smh.
COMPAQ: This is the real issue. The sustainability of Nigeria is up in the air. I know a lot of well to do people that could live comfortably in Nigeria but are still moving. Executive Directors in banks, oil company staff etc.
The main thing that would make me relocate now is security and long term viability of Nigeria cos the country just doesn't seem to be going anywhere.
This is the main reason why I'm also planning towards relocating abroad.
You can't work hard in peace in Nigeria. The insecurity is just terrible.
scofield114: i hv got this sexxy girl to Bleep tomorrow but unfortunately i dont have any money to sponsor it no money for transport no money for hotel room nd no money to give the girls pls help me im so Hot any amount will do just qoute me if u will hellp
Broke as$ f00l. No money but all you can think of is to fvck. Useless fowl.