My cousins is planning to get a wife from the village because he believes village girls are immaculate and unpromiscious. I dont know. Some of my cousins are beginning to rationalize with him.
VICKYGISTBLOGG: What a world�! Four Years after Efe Won BBN2017, SEE What has become of him/full details
Few years ago, Ejeba Efe Micheal won 25million naira including a car, as he emerged winner of the 2017 big brother naija. But ever since then, alot of people have been eager to know his current situation. This might surprise you.
RiyadhGoddess: I have tattoos on my body though I had them before saying yes to Jesus. There's something about tattoos, you get one and then you just want more and more till there's no space in the body to draw. One is never satisfied with just one. That spirit is insatiable. I struggled with it, as in I really wanted more even after saying yes to Jesus not until I was studying my bible one hot afternoon and then the holy spirit showed me the part of the bible that spoke against tattoos. Immediately, the love or passion I have for tattoos died. Till date, no more cravings...
When I preach to young boys and girls in motels, bars and all, they look at my tattoos and wonder why someone with tattoos is preaching and I say oh well, it's just to tell you that I have lived in the world you are living now and I can show you the results., you have theories, I have results... A man with theory doesn't argue with a man with results.
You have tattoos? Interesting.
If I wer born in the US, I'm sure by now half my body would have been covered with ink. I passed through a phase many years ago that I had very strong urges to get tattooed. Thank God that has long passed.
Lifeisnotfair: I hope everyone is having a good day. Here's my story and I'd try to be brief as much as I can.
About four months ago I met this white girl on Instagram and since then we've been talking day in day out. I'm surprised af how quick we both connected in a very short time and to be honest I can tell that she's crazy about me and I'm as well. As a matter of fact she broke up with her ex boyfriend so she could focus on our relationship because according to her she hasn't met someone as sweet as me and I was actually cool with it since no girl has shown me such love in my entire life.
We are both in our early 20s (24 years old) and we 've both promised each other a lot, we plan on seeing for the first time in Nigeria very soon but after last night's conversation, I actually don't feel the same way I felt for her when we started talking.
She confessed to have been with 8 guys after I asked her how many guys she's dated in the past, then she said 9 and later 10 and said she has lost count of how many times she's had sexx. And oh I haven't asked her to be my girlfriend yet though but last night I was about to and after hearing all of her confessions I had to go offline and she's been begging me for forgiveness but I've been ignoring her.
I'm confused and I don't know what to do. I'm deeply in love with her and I see a future with her as well but her past disgusts me so much and I don't feel sexx with her would be something special when we finally decide to get married in the future. Should I continue to lead her on till when I get a green card and just ditch her afterwards or should I just cut ties with her now that I have the opportunity to?
Ps: She's based in America while I'm in Nigeria and for those that would say I'm not a saint, oh well I'm sorry to burst your bubble but I'm still a virgin and haven't had sex in my entire life. I'm not saying she should be a virgin but I feel like 10 guys in the past is a bit on the high side. Please NL members, I need advice on what to do. Thank you in advance.
Update: I've been reading all of the comments and I appreciate everyone of you that took out time to advice me on what to do.
First I'd like to say that my intentions of talking to her was pure and genuine. I wasn't thinking of using her to get a green card. And second I didn't say I was looking for a virgin but it's all good now.
I actually did followed my heart like most persons here suggested and we are both cool now. We hope to see where this leads us in the future. Thank you again.
Sixfeetbelle: Some men are so perverted they will still touch a properly covered boobs. In such a scenario, what is a lady to do?
Give the man a hot slap!
These perverts keep molesting people in public places because they know most people would rather suffer in silence than have attention drawn to themselves in a public place.
perkyB: So this beautiful sunday morning I was invited by a friend to a new church, but I came late. So therefore I sat at the back seat with the protocols behind me, I so much felt like a late comer, and the most unimaginable thing happened....
there's an usher right behind tryna give me a shoulder massage or yank my boobs from right behind me like seriously
So guys and ladies what would be your reaction if.
an opposte sex is trying to seduce you in church. How would you react?
"Shoulder massage or yank your boobs from behind"... I'm trying to understand what you wer describe but if the usher was touching your boobs in church, you cud hav quickly used ur fone to take a quick video clip using the selfie camera if u cud hav done this without him seeing ( for evidence) and then given the idiot a proper slap
To all those asking whether her cleavage was showing, una no serious.
AishaYesufu: What exactly do you intend to achieve? A woman doesn't give you attention, rather than take the honorable path by ignoring her, you elected to waste your time over what is unprofitable to you nor her simply because of your desperation for her attention.
Beside, you talk too much and boring
You read my mind.
@Jerrick: Guy, you get energy and time oh.
I no get time for all of this ur CIA investigations.
tunjijones: I was in Canada to do my post graduate that year. One Nigeria guy i just met invited me for a party. The guy had too much to drink and he was really misbehaving. He eventually fell on the floor o. Before i knw one girl don call paramedics. It was not upto 2 mins ambulance don land. Them carry am go hospital. I was in total shock... So paramedics dey treat drunk pple too. And i was suprised at the speed them carry respond.
Lovethaa: My mom called me few days back , she gave me a message from our family pastor asking me to embark on a 3 days fasting and prayers and he gave his reasons .I was told to start as soon as possible .
Although I'm not a fan of fasting but I had to do this one because of the powerful reasons attached to it , i decided I'll start the fasting next week but my girlfriend urged me to begin immediately., She even offered to observe the fasting with me .
So I started on Monday , I was asked to pray every 3 hours too and my girlfriend had been supportive, she wakes me up when it is time to pray and cooks my food when I want to break before she head back to her house .
Now on Wednesday which was the last day , as usual I was weak so I slept off around 4pm Just two hours before I finish the whole fasting., While I was sleeping I felt someone trying to put hands inside my boxers ..
I woke up to find my girlfriend ,trying to grab my pr"ck ,I reminded her that I'm fasting but what happened next shocked me ,this babe suddenly turned to a desperate begger asking me to please make love to her ..she took my hands and placed it on her pants and to my surprise the pants was actually dripping of over wetness ,I have never seen her that Hot before ...
She almost tried to rape me ,she even promised to give me head and that was something she hates doing .I almost gave in because my 3rd leg betrayed me and I was already hard too but the fact that this is the last day I just couldn't do it after coming so far .
So somehow I managed to control myself and stood my ground that I can't make love to her atleast not today ..
She got angry and left for the bathroom.. 5 minutes later she appeared like nothing happened ,she asked me what I'll eat , when i told her she proceeded to the kitchen to start preparing it and after she was done ,she joined me in praying and we ate the food together...it was as if nothing happened .
Since the fast was over this babe has refused to come to my house ,I texted her that I'm ready to do what I couldn't during the fast but she told me she's no longer interested ..
This got me worried and thinking and I just don't know what is happening..
Was she possessed Or that was just coincidence.. Did I do wrong by letting her down when she needed me most ?? ..