₦airaland Forum

CharisEleos:
You're talking of family of four. I've seen family of 9 in one room. 7 children with husband and wife. Though the man later took the room beside them when the tenant there left.

Some women are the cause of this. You know the condition you live in and you'll still be producing children anyhow..

Ginaz:
They are many. A friend is passing through this , she was a virgin too when she met that useless guy. he treats her like she doesn’t exist despite the so-called respect . roll eyes.

Ladies, don’t kill yourself respecting a guy for a mumu button that won’t add anything to your life .

djsjxjfjdisjdjb:
tufia.. god forbid

DropsMic:
Not one single black person is in their squad

MadeINchenzen2:
I believe a good number of persons out there are just keeping up with all the struggles that comes with dating ... some are just hanging in there until someone better comes along while some want to stick with their partners through thick and tin.


If you get the chance to start a fresh relationship with a celebrity with the condition of abandoning your present relationship, who will be your choice celebrity.

StonedLex:
You don't find her sexually appealing yet you f*cked her? I don't get. Who does that?

QuinModah:
Good morning,

My cousins is planning to get a wife from the village because he believes village girls are immaculate and unpromiscious. I dont know. Some of my cousins are beginning to rationalize with him.


Thank you in advance for your input

Lollittaa:

Lollittaa:
[color=violet]Aww. Poor baby [/color]

Lollittaa:
[color=magenta]Food?? [/color]
[color=deeppink]Sex?? [/color]

Lollittaa:
[color=tan]Eww... That's gross [/color]

VICKYGISTBLOGG:
What a world�! Four Years after Efe Won BBN2017, SEE What has become of him/full details

Few years ago, Ejeba Efe Micheal won 25million naira including a car, as he emerged winner of the 2017 big brother naija. But ever since then, alot of people have been eager to know his current situation. This might surprise you.

See video below.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WkkZQXaBGPE

Onyi22:
He can't even act

Lollittaa:
still his bumbum is not as big as mine

RiyadhGoddess:
I have tattoos on my body though I had them before saying yes to Jesus.
There's something about tattoos, you get one and then you just want more and more till there's no space in the body to draw. One is never satisfied with just one. That spirit is insatiable.
I struggled with it, as in I really wanted more even after saying yes to Jesus not until I was studying my bible one hot afternoon and then the holy spirit showed me the part of the bible that spoke against tattoos. Immediately, the love or passion I have for tattoos died. Till date, no more cravings...

When I preach to young boys and girls in motels, bars and all, they look at my tattoos and wonder why someone with tattoos is preaching and I say oh well, it's just to tell you that I have lived in the world you are living now and I can show you the results., you have theories, I have results... A man with theory doesn't argue with a man with results.

HONESTFACT101:
olodo with no shame
if it no pain am why post this rubbish......signing out

Lifeisnotfair:
I hope everyone is having a good day. Here's my story and I'd try to be brief as much as I can.

About four months ago I met this white girl on Instagram and since then we've been talking day in day out. I'm surprised af how quick we both connected in a very short time and to be honest I can tell that she's crazy about me and I'm as well. As a matter of fact she broke up with her ex boyfriend so she could focus on our relationship because according to her she hasn't met someone as sweet as me and I was actually cool with it since no girl has shown me such love in my entire life.

We are both in our early 20s (24 years old) and we 've both promised each other a lot, we plan on seeing for the first time in Nigeria very soon but after last night's conversation, I actually don't feel the same way I felt for her when we started talking.

She confessed to have been with 8 guys after I asked her how many guys she's dated in the past, then she said 9 and later 10 and said she has lost count of how many times she's had sexx. And oh I haven't asked her to be my girlfriend yet though but last night I was about to and after hearing all of her confessions I had to go offline and she's been begging me for forgiveness but I've been ignoring her.

I'm confused and I don't know what to do. I'm deeply in love with her and I see a future with her as well but her past disgusts me so much and I don't feel sexx with her would be something special when we finally decide to get married in the future. Should I continue to lead her on till when I get a green card and just ditch her afterwards or should I just cut ties with her now that I have the opportunity to?

Ps: She's based in America while I'm in Nigeria and for those that would say I'm not a saint, oh well I'm sorry to burst your bubble but I'm still a virgin and haven't had sex in my entire life. I'm not saying she should be a virgin but I feel like 10 guys in the past is a bit on the high side. Please NL members, I need advice on what to do. Thank you in advance.

Update:
I've been reading all of the comments and I appreciate everyone of you that took out time to advice me on what to do.

First I'd like to say that my intentions of talking to her was pure and genuine. I wasn't thinking of using her to get a green card. And second I didn't say I was looking for a virgin but it's all good now.

I actually did followed my heart like most persons here suggested and we are both cool now. We hope to see where this leads us in the future. Thank you again.

Onyi22:
The kind of men I love