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FamilyRe: Married But I'm Not Connected With My Husband, Hence I'm Depressed by Gudlite: 7:04am On Feb 23, 2020
Girlwhocares:
Yes,have been dating my bf for (15yrs)he was my first nd the only one have ever loved,our problem started when my dad said he witnessed where exhibited an unruly characters to some elders and also cos of the friends he moves with recently as at then and that he wasnt comfortable with our relationship (which i pleaded and made him understand everyone deserves another chance but cos how principled my dad was he insisted he won't consent to our union)
To be candid,this is the guy have share all my life with,he's all i wanted in a man but my dad opinion ruined our relationship.

I think seperation from my husband is all i need just for clarity sake but honestly,the more i try to make the marriage work the more i drift away from him and I dont know how to go about it.

I have visited two marriage counsellors without informing my husband all in my effort to work things but not yielding results as expected
,
Now you said the truth, but you need deliverance of the mind from your former lover
HealthRe: Buba Pupa Village In Ogun State Where Residents Drink Dirty Pond Water (Video) by Gudlite: 12:14pm On Feb 21, 2020
WHERE ARE THE BIG GUYS FROM THIS COMMUNITY,
UNA NO DEY GO VILLAGE

YOURUBA KNOWS HOW TO SHOW OFF IN THE TOWNSHIP,

Some of them will stay 100years and die without going to their village.

do not forget your root, If you make money in township, please go to your village and build

If the big guys in this community are going home to build, they would have enough borehole for the community
RomanceRe: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by Gudlite: 11:46am On Feb 21, 2020
What do you want to hear

To go and start having sex with her in the name of love,

Do not ruin your destiny and that of the girl with your LUST

You are the older one here, give her a good advice that she will be proud of you tomorrow

I repeat Don't go and start sleeping with her,


I love this girl , this girl love me real good and other bla bla bla is nothing but SEX sex sex.
HealthRe: Help: I Have premature ejaculation. by Gudlite: 2:08pm On Feb 19, 2020
Smartchoiiice:
I barely can last 5 seconds while doing kerewa. My girlfriends have cheated, insulted and broken up with me because of this....

Please what can I do about it? It is getting real embarrassing these days.

Advise me please.... and no insults.
Chat me up on

zero seven zero one seven seven seven nine seven one eight
HealthRe: My Addictions To Betting, Masturbation, Pepsi Will Soon Kill Me. I'm Sure! by Gudlite: 4:32pm On Feb 17, 2020
You need prayer for deliverance, go to MOUNTAIN OF FIRE AND MIRACLES MINISTRY.

you can only overcome those things through prayers, otherwise it will destroy you

If you give your life to Christ, He will save you, but if you refuse or commit suicide, you will go to Hellfire


The CHOICE is yours
RomanceRe: Boyfriend Ditches Lady On Valentine's Day by Gudlite: 8:04pm On Feb 15, 2020
Riele:
Who does that ?

Why promise her a date he won't be attending ? .
Same question I wanted to ask,

The guy is irresponsible.
FamilyRe: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by Gudlite: 3:15pm On Feb 14, 2020
Sir, you need serious prayers before your life will be turned upside own.

Is either your wife is bisexual or that both belong to a secret spiritual evil group and have come to destroy you.


The earlier you do something the better for you,Don't take this as normal

There is more to it than ordinary man can understand
RomanceRe: My 34-Year-Old Abroad-Based Boyfriend Impregnated Me. Why I Want Abortion by Gudlite: 11:54am On Feb 13, 2020
My Dear Sister, when you were having unprotected sex with him,what were you thinking?

Don't abort that baby
Learn to face the consequences of the act, even if the man jilts you or not.

Have your baby, and move ahead with your life.

This should be a lesson, You need to know your guys stand in the relationship as soon as possible,if he will marry you or not,

If he says yes tell him what you want him to do as a sign of his sincerity(a kind of commitment with your family) and if he refuses to do it, then know that you have been scammed in the relationship or choose to be his Baby Mama
RomanceRe: My 34-Year-Old Abroad-Based Boyfriend Impregnated Me. Why I Want Abortion by Gudlite: 11:42am On Feb 13, 2020
Preshy561:
I will be the last person to choose a path for her. She knows what she wants though.
You sound so harsh in all your comments, have you been in her shoes before? or were you jilted in a relationship?


Learn to forgive unconditionally, and move on.
FamilyRe: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Gudlite: 8:09pm On Feb 07, 2020
Mr Man, your manner of approach was very very very wrong,
What men fail to understand is that a woman especially wife cannot fear the Lion in her man( that authoritative nature of a man) but a little display from the man on how he loves her will make her surrender everything to the man.If you know you know
PropertiesRe: My Business Started Crumbling Since I Moved Into This Apartment by Gudlite: 5:08pm On Jan 28, 2020
Daumandu:
[b]Can This Lead To The Downfall Of Someone?
I am seriously thinking of leaving the apartment.

Any Advice?
Instead of you to start praying, you want to run away and yet you said you enjoy the grace of God.
Don't you enjoy the grace to Occupy till JESUS come
Wherever your feet shall touch, God promise to give it to you.

If you are a child of light, You ought to chase away darkness except on a special divine instruction to park out.
FamilyRe: Why Are Village People So Wicked? by Gudlite: 1:22pm On Jan 28, 2020
Question for the gods,go and ask Satan/devil their father.

SOLUTION
Give your life to Christ and be in right standing with God,
then resist the devil and his agents including village people and they will flee from you.

Note that distance is not a barrier when village people want to attack.But the attack will always bow at JESUS in you if you have a good relationship with HIM .
PoliticsRe: Boko Haram Bombs Gwoza, Borno Mosque by Gudlite: 6:58pm On Jan 26, 2020
Omooba77:
https://www.thecable.ng/breaking-boko-haram-bombs-borno-mosque/amp
I guess they mistaken that to be church and that was why they attacked it on Sunday. If they actually targeted mosque they would have attacked on Friday
PoliticsRe: Nigerian Soldiers Drinking Dirty Water (Video) by Gudlite: 6:32pm On Jan 26, 2020
CaptainStephen:
I have drank worse water in training, deployment and will still do, the army is not for the weak.

Back to this video, there are supplies provided, of course troops in far remote locations might get delays in supplies depending on several factors.

It is expected to be resilant and make good use of your environment.

So you shove your sensational headline and video down your behind

There are more important things you people can hold the government accountable for regarding the military. Honestly, you sound like a fool.
CelebritiesRe: Bobrisky Denies Being Arrested By Soldiers, Says His Cars Were Not Seized by Gudlite: 9:08am On Jan 25, 2020
Shibaraba:
What if I tell you he arranged for himself to be arrested
So as to make the news.
This guy acts mumuishly (if that's a word) and I don't like his cross dressing but by Jove I love his brains.
He is as smart as the fabled tortoise
And he knows how to use his publicity.

One day una go hear say bros Don get three kids outside, he just dey use us catch cruise.
He dey use us sell market
You know the guy Wella, the guy is a real business man that knows how to advertise his products and get client. All these surgery here surgery there may be fake ,I guess he has his male organs intact and will one day show his children to the world. He is very intelligent guy, I once listen to his interview and from that day, I realized that this guy knows what he is doing and not as foolish as many people taught.
CelebritiesRe: Bobrisky Arrested, His Luxury Cars Seized by Gudlite: 7:24pm On Jan 24, 2020
Mazikic:
What was her offence?
His offence.Lol
FamilyRe: I Am Sex Starved, My Marriage Is Falling Apart by Gudlite: 9:14am On Jan 24, 2020
Davash222:
After the day's toil, a married man needs the wife's cuddle and touches at night. It's essential in every young marriage. Coming back home at night to behold your sexy wife alone with lingerie at your wide bed gives joy and also elongates life's span. Wives should stop depriving their husbands this privilege.
One of the reasons for having children bedrooms is to create provisions for these things.


OP, I understand how you feel. Imagine a 7 month old baby dragging your breast with you.. Breast that you paid for. I know you dont have access to that breast again. Nawao
You are not married yet and all these like for you is from Singles like you.
Theory is not same as practical
PropertiesRe: Rent Payment: Monthly Vs Yearly by Gudlite: 1:58pm On Jan 22, 2020
Keemsleek005:
Since you are a landlord pls let me ask you some questions? What is the agreement fee all about? Why will a landlord demand 150k for agreement fee and 70k for caution fee? Excluding agent fee.
Sir,

You didn't even add drinking money and agent fee oooooo on top of agreement and Caution. Lol

Drinking money is from #15,000.00
and agent fee is 10% of the Yearly rent

Very soon they will add parking space fee. Lol
PropertiesRe: Rent Payment: Monthly Vs Yearly by Gudlite: 1:54pm On Jan 22, 2020
The rent would have been Monthly but open to people that want to pay in advance like 3months, 6 months or Yearly,

To enable people afford an apartment in Nigeria.

Some Landlords can't even accept 6months even to an Old tenant
RomanceRe: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by Gudlite: 8:04pm On Jan 21, 2020
I would not support the idea of forcing a man to marry somebody, any man that is having sex with a lady is not ignorant of the likely outcome and will be wicked of him to destroy the future of the girl after impregnating her. Men hardly marry a single mother.
Our ladies should be matured enough to know what they want in a relationship and not just to have sex.
Forceful marriage is bad and
Single mother is bad too
FamilyRe: If You Were To Marry Again, Would You Marry Your Current Spouse? by Gudlite: 2:58pm On Jan 16, 2020
If you ask me,na who i go ask
The matter wey u see so
Etey wey estart
No be me go talkam
Eheavy for my mouth
CelebritiesRe: Marlians Cult: The Mother Should Be Blamed For Poor Upbringing, Not Naira Marley by Gudlite: 8:51pm On Jan 13, 2020
kiyosaki1:
Am not but, I stand for the truth.
There is nothing like truth here, from your comment,You are yet to be a parent

As a growing child,you were doing many things behind your parents. This era of mobile phone is destroying both adults and children, your phone will make you closer to people that are far from you and far from people closer to you. Many as cult members can be meeting through group chat,
RomanceRe: Woman Attacks Lady At Ikeja Mall For Trying To Snatch Her Husband From Her by Gudlite: 2:43pm On Jan 08, 2020
I don't think this is the best way to handle matters like this.
I can't go and disgrace myself because of one shameless man in the name of marriage
Foreign AffairsRe: This Is How Body Of General Quassem Soleimani Was Flown To Iran(Photos) by Gudlite: 6:59pm On Jan 07, 2020
fairfora:
Too bad. Trump should just apologise, simple .
. Apologize for what
Foreign AffairsRe: This Is How Body Of General Quassem Soleimani Was Flown To Iran(Photos) by Gudlite: 6:54pm On Jan 07, 2020
fairfora:
Too bad. Trump should just apologise, simple .
apologise for what
RomanceRe: Don't Accuse A Lady Of Cheating If You Won't Marry Her by Gudlite:
Relationship ought to be defined. Ladies should know when to quit and not to cheat.same with men
RomanceRe: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by Gudlite: 12:01pm On Jan 04, 2020
Beating her will reset her brain before the counseling,
She will always remember the beating more than the counseling any time she wants to engage in such discussion.
Please save this little girl's destiny from that useless idiot .
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by Gudlite: 12:46am On Jan 01, 2020
Sir,it is not your fault, but what some don't understand is that,a non disabled person can become one tomorrow through accident.
Just continue to pray about it, if she is your wife, you guys will marry but if not,
Please and please there is a wife for you just waiting to connect at the right time Good luck
RomanceRe: Bride In Tears As Husband Cancels Wedding A Day To The Wedding by Gudlite:
This is not fair,
It is a time of true test of love from a matured heart
If truly it was a set up, the man should understand that the aim is to scatter the relationship
Infact I believe it was a set, for people to cover it and send pictures to the man.The man is wicked and heartless to have kept this till a day before the wedding and he is immature
Infact this is just a sign of what the girl will see in the marriage.
The girl should be strong biko, may be God want to deliver her from the wrong person.
CrimeRe: 10 Nigerian Women Who Gruesomely Killed Their Husbands (photos) by Gudlite: 8:58am On Dec 30, 2019
Not a good one at all but there are men who killed their wives too

If you are tired of your marriage , my advice is "Let the marriage DIE"
FamilyRe: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Gudlite: 8:47am On Dec 30, 2019
meobizy:
If you reread his original post this is what he has in mind.


They can do this, which is the right step. Visually they can tell if the man is capable enough to cater for her.


Being the legal father affords him more right over the OP in the child's welfare.
I did not agree with you, i have seen cases like this and the child involved find it very difficult to stay under the same roof with the biological father,also the wife of the biological father made the house unbearable for the child.That the child ran away
Rejecting the pregnancy is a display of his level of Irresponsibility, probably he is asking for the baby out of necessity .May be his marriage has no child or he needs a female child now,
A serious investigation need to be made to know why he is coming for the child. It may be for same selfish reason that made him deny the pregnancy. Shameless men every where
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Just Caught Me Red Handed by Gudlite: 9:33pm On Dec 28, 2019
Cheating is in your blood but was waiting for the right condition to manifest, you only manifested what was lying idle for one year and four months. Go and deal with it because if the girl accepts you back , you will still cheat on her again. And with time you will be Comfortable with it

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