Aderewah: I beat my wife mercilessly again yesterday. It was a total beat down. After I beat her like that, she will go inside and cry for three hours, then wipe the tears come aside and ask us to play pes again. I'll still end up beating her like four zero. Should I let her beat me back? She cant even score..please advise.
proxillin: She has been mounting pressure on me to follow her to meet her parents. We have been in this relationship for a year now. Although she is not the only one I am dating. I am not sure of the other lady, but atleast this one is ready to marry me.
I am not sure if I genuinely love her or not, but a part of me love her..A part of me want to treat her bad, whenever I remember what she did to me in the past.
3 years ago, I started noticing and showing interest in her being my junior sister’s friend. I discussed with my sister who encouraged me to approach her that she had no boyfriend. We were on talking terms before which was an opportunity. So I leveraged on that to get closer to her. When she noticed I was getting closer, she started giving me attitudes, stopped talking to me. Finally she stopped coming to our house. She would give my sister thousands of excuses why she was not chanced to come to our house.
We met at a friends birthday party, to my surprized, she warmed up to me, greeted me. I though she must have repented. While the party was on, I asked her to come to my table and spend sometimes with me, she said “ok”. I waited for hours, she didn’t come. I later saw her in the room with the celibrant. I jokingly said to her “You dey whine me abi”. She just went off, started ranting, she said I should say whatever I want to say now infront of everyone..infront of her friends. “Why do you want me to come and sit with you?” say it now “let the whole world hear”. It was so embarrasing for me. I just said to myself “whats there..are they not aldult?..dem never toast all of them before”.
My sister was there, got angry and left us. She had already warned me to leave her alone. That I am interfering with their friendship. On my birthday, she replied to my whatsapp pictures with love and kiss icons. She went to facebook to like all my birthday pix. Facebook was alerting me as she was clicking. She finally sent me happy birthday..where is my cake..we started gisting again. She apologized for what she did that day, that she was not in a good mood that day (someone who met, joked and laugh with me, even agreed to come sit with me on my table).
We continued chattin for weeks, I made sure I didn’t get intimate with her. One day, my sister was playing with my phone, then saw our chats, read through our chats. She was mad at me. She confronted me and nearly slapped her for disrespect. She later calm down and explain to me that if I knew what this girl said about me on group chat, that I would shoot her if I have a gun. She said she didn’t tell me so that I wont feel bad. She then show me their caucaus group chat discussing me. Tears was just coming out of my eyes. I felt cold. They were just laughing at me. My sister was just fighting for me shutting them off.
This lady said “how come some men behave like he goat. Why can’t he leave me alone?” “am I the only girl on the planet? Oh God I hate that idiot.” “Gosh, I can never be close to such person talkless of dating him” ANOTHER girl said “That’s how those guys are…you need to disgrace him more next time he try something stupid with you. Blahblah.
That’s when I closed her chapter. Blocked her on facebook, whatsapp, instagram. I moved on. My sister did photoshoot for her birthday and some of her friends came. I saw her and just greeted her, minding my business. Then I was dating another girl then, so it’s a win win for all. She stayed behind, when everyone left, she asked my sister to help her beg me. She knelt infront of me started telling me “she was sorry..she was being childish” This was someone that was in her 24 when I was chasing her. I said I forgave due to pressure from my sister. Since then, she will come to my apartment, do my laundary, cook soup inside my freezer. When she is coming from work, she will branch at my place prepare food on my table. At times she offered to sleep overnite, that she cooked till late in the night, which I will refuse.
But one thing led to another, one day, we had sex. And that changed everything. I couldn’t resist her again. But a part of me still hate her whenever I remember those disgraceful moments. Now she is 26, she want us get married. If I marry her, I may treat her bad.
In a dilema seriously and its giving me headache.
I’d advise you not to marry the babe. You’re a king and you deserve not to be disrespected in such manner.
As seen on twitter, the Nigerian pastor was using curse words like god go punish your papa. Just because the listener called the pastor a beggar. But it can be seen that the pastor is exceedingly angry with that man.
success97: Socerer, you need to look deep into yourself first and be satisfied with your own belief. Don't convert the poor boy to atheist just because you are probably an anti - theist.
I would like to tell you it's not rare for Nigerians to listen to such. I have listened to it so many times and it's still on my playlist.
Don't try to twist the message of the song making it look like the song is preaching the believe in atheism. Go back, sit down and understand the song. Dax is simply voicing out his observations about religion in the world to God like any person tired of the religious system in the world. But that doesn't mean he never believed in God.
Take note believe in God is not the same as believe in a religion.
My point is this, don't wrongfully twist the message of Dax in an attempt to convert the poor boy to atheist.
This is the last 2 statements of Dax in the lyrics: I just hope that you know that I'm still a believer So I'll end this all by saying, "Amen" It's Dax.
I hope u understand this. Thanks.
I don't think the term Concerting one to atheism is correct. At best you can use deconverting
UnclePrincipal: Oga fuçk off with your religious beliefs. I wish nairaland have a block option. I'm tired of your comments. No logical or meaningful comments. Always vomiting the same rubbish like a programmed bot.
that righteous guy is the most annoying fellow I’ve seen on Nairaland.
yungmin: @hakeem4 hello bro, please, have you seen the latest staadpro connect edition released this year January 2020. I read the review and it seems to have been very much updated. Please, share if you have a copy.
8 years and the baby didn’t come with primary school certificate. Why does things like this happen in local areas. We hardly hear of miracles such as this in developed countries. Or under scientific watch
delkuf: I am not saying that you are secured financially if you pay your tithe. I am looking at it from the obedience point of view. if you find it difficult to obey God by giving God ten percent of your income, then you will find it difficult to fully obey God.
now I’m saying, since you give god 10% of your income; it means you are capable of obeying all gods law” right?
But I do not see you obey all gods law. All I see you do is cherrypick which one suits your agenda or not.
delkuf: If you can't obey God with your tithe, that means you will find it difficult to fully obey God. those people that are shouting I will give my tithe to the poor and how faithful are they with it. they are not faithful with it. give God ten percent that is not too much to ask now
If you also can’t completely obey the Old Testament then it means mr. Jesus should not help you.
I don’t see you doing the following 1) owning slaves 2) raping women committing genocides Etc and many other barbaric acts commanded of us by the Old Testament.
Why do you cherry pick what to do in the Old Testament. How does paying tithe makes someone financially secured
As soon as you get more exposed to life ...experinces you will realize that wealth has nothing to do with spirituality....
Kobojunkie: Hold what type of ideology? Mother Teresa was a lying thiefing Albanian dwarf? As for suffering being from God, it depends on what she meant by it.
she wanted people to know that suffering is from god. She was a friend of poverty.
Kobojunkie: Good for you! I get it that you don't believe in any God, and I am 100% A-OK with that. But surely that ought not to stop you from taking up the mantle and doing something about the suffering you pretend you care about. Show these people who believe in God that you who do not are not all talk but make more sense through your actions... not more of ramblings on threads that lead nowhere.
It is very hard for me to believe that even so called intelligent people would hold this type of ideology. Atheists also care. At least we are not a wicked as mother terasa the evil, lying, thiefing, Albanian dwarf. Who said suffering is from god
1) it’s either god doesn’t exist or 2) he exists and he doesn’t care about us.
The likelihood of option is high, because there’s no evidence for his existence.
I still find it hard to believe that Some humans would think that a particular god has them in mind. Care for them, make a plan for them (stopping their free will), protect them, mind who they sleep with and in what style and at the end of the day, that particular god would punish you for exercising your own free will.
I have been considering quitting my police job to find something more productive & profitable to do with my life as a result of poor pay & lack of promotion.....
I was enlisted into the NPF since year 2009 at 21yrs, I was single then with big aspiration that someday I will move to the top echelon. While in the job, I struggled to send myself to school and bagged my first degree and through to masters level.
But one thing I have noticed is that there is no upward movement within the NPF unlike the other armed forces and some paramilitary agencies that have internal promotional policies of upgrading their personnel based on academic qualification and merit.
The first and only time this ever happened was five years ago when it was widely reported across all news platforms that the NPF was ready to promote graduates within the force to ASPs, exam was conducted, I passed and was selected to go to Abuja for final interview. It was a rough road for me as it was my first time at the FHQ, Abuja. But after like a week, the process was suspended indefinitely. That was the first time I heard the term MERIT LIST VS NATIONAL INTEREST LIST...the Senators and Reps etcs wanted to replace the list with their candidates and they disagree amongst themselves so the process was cancelled.
I must confess my family is getting larger now and the pay I get can't feed us not to talk of paying school fees. I had to double my hustle with side biz to meet up....
Even the Police academy now turn out graduates ASPs every year who are now superiors after just a few years. So what about us with requisite qualification and experience, don't we deserve to be promoted...?
It is on this note that I want to call it quit and move on...
So I need advice in this regard... Should I call it quit or still hold on a bit...cos I don tire......?
NB: For those of you that will be saying yenyenyen police likes twenty Naira.... I have never received bribe from anyone throughout my 11 years in the job. I am the kind of Police Officer that you would meet on duty and would love to be a police officer....
Please professionals in the house.... Flood my thread with your wealth of experience abeg....
.... Help me do the needed for a wider view....
this is a complicated scenario. You can’t leave this job currently cause you don’t have any other source of livelihood, except your business.
Leaving the police force at this time of an economic crisis would be a bad choice. So remain with it for the main time till you get your self a better opportunity
elated177: Anyone who doesn't see the Ten Commandments of YHVH Almighty as his Salvation is simply delusional. Whoever that has been told that YHVH's Salvation is not his Ten Commandments or is different from his Ten Commandments has been simply deluded.
Anyone who holds a contrary view should scripturally freely share it
YHVH's Salvation...Yahushua the Messiah.
Yahushua the Messiah --- the embodiment of the Ten Commandments of YHVH Almighty.
Politics › Re: Edo Poll: Oshiomole Assures Supporters Of Ize-Iyamu’s "Landslide Victory" by hakeem4(m): 8:01am On Jul 24, 2020
committing genocides
