₦airaland Forum

If I tell you I am disappointed in this list, know I am lying. Round pegs in square holes.

DenreleDave:
If he is not ready for the job.... Will you connect me, bro?

That depends on ur skills.

frozen70:
That man has no future plans and has no focus in life

Nothing borders him and he is ready to remain in that condition because he has already lost self respect and he is willing to receive any kind of insult and embarrassment

Him no send anyone and stop believing you can change a man who doesn't have any plan for himself or his family

Simply put, he is just a liability
His attitude has cost him so many things including his work and may soon cost him his family

Now the main person to handle here is your sister, forget about the man

Since your sister is now with your parents, is a very good idea at least those kids can be attended to by your family

Your sister needs some thing doing so that she doesn't become a problem to you guys on how to sustain her

You guys should seat with her down and find out what she can do, that's if she can't get a job

If you people can train her in the university is good if you can get a job for her is good

If she can learn trade, good

But she has to be wise this time around, not to become pregnant in any careless way

She must be ready to move on with her life, with or without that man

If she is serious about her life, let her regard that the man doesn't exist so that she can find her bearing

That man will soon come back for her and the children, but your sister must be firm that for now, let him get something doing that will generate incomes before she can even look at his side

Because if she looses guard she will go back to square one and that is when her suffering will get to Promax

A lazy man can't keep a woman and children

A lazy woman too can't afford to be in a happy marriage

So any money you people have to support the man give it to your sister to support her while she is with your parents

Thank u very well for ur immense concern. I will take ur advice in high esteem.

The Outstanding in Economics is going to be an issue for him if not released. Especially, if he would go for social or management science.

Greetings fellow Nairalanders!

I don't like to bore people with long stories as we all know. I just need suggestions on the appropriate thing to do on this very matter.

My kid sister married this guy(name withheld) about 4 years ago and since then, there is no sign of seriousness and responsibility in him. First, he married in the same compound where he lived as a bachelor, even when he knew he had earlier promised someone marriage in the said compound. This led to serious quarrel that nearly took the life of their first issue. It took the intervention of my mum and insistence of my sister before he made up his mind to pack out the house. Which is a sign he likes being a victim of issues before looking for a way to help himself.

Secondly, he doesn't plan his life and acts on impulse. Most times, he would always want to have issues with his landlady before paying up his house rent. I don't know if he enjoys embarrassment or he likes being taken unawares. Last year, he was given a quite notice in his apartment due to his inability to settle with his landlord over rent. He then paid for an uncompleted building waiting for the house to be fixed. Lo and behold, the day they packed into the house, it was without window and electricity. They had to look around for the window to be fixed the next day before they could pack in, even without light.

More so, he had problem in the company where he works to the extent that he was suspended for months without telling the wife who has been hoping that the husband was being owed all those while. He allows her to always beg from my other siblings and I, including my mum who has spent a lot on them. Even when she is supposed to be receiving from them especially during omugwo, but no, she has been the one spending.

Finally, things became unrosy for them that my mum asked them to come and stay with her, together with their two kids for over five months now. I have called him and sat him down to discuss with him and he is not showing any sign of seriousness, even when I offered to help him secure another job. I don't know if he has something against him or he felt relaxed because he thinks my parents are assisting them. I can't see myself behaving such irresponsibly.

Please, how do I help my sister out? Ur advice is highly needed here.

O ti mi dogoyaro....... Story for the gods.

What I don't understand is; the story narrated that the family divided themselves in two different motorcycle. If the vehicle all of them in the different bike, then there is more to the death than meet the eyes.

It's even better he withrew cos he has a divisive mindset towards leadership. Such characters should not be allowed to near the cofers of power.

The point here is not about who worked for who. Tinubu even knows that including El-Rufai who openly condemned foreign observation of Nigerian election, a member of several international bodies, will be a dent on his government. So, El-Rufai is like shit upon anybody that embraces him.

LegendHero:
This is the reason why I include the Yoruba. Please tell me if I’m wrong.

—We’ve had presidential election in Nigeria on 10 occasions.
—Yoruba man won the election on 4 occasions
—Hausa/Fulani won the election on 5 occasions
—Ijaw won the election on 1 occasion

Please ask yourself, am I wrong in saying Yoruba and Hausa/Fulani determines who govern this country?

Are u including this last one that is Crystal clear to the whole world whom the winner is? The one of Obasanjo was made possible by Senator Orji Kalu and Chief Jim Nwobodo and both are Igbos. If u are also counting Abiola's own as victory, then u are being more clueless in ur belief that you co-decide the scheme of things in the country with the Hausa/Fulanis.

El-Rufai doesn't fatom what is happening to him despite all his efforts in leaking Buhari's secret to Tinubu. However, rejecting the ministerial slot would be a welcome development for sensible Nigerians.

So you include Yorubas as those that determine who becomes what in the country....... Keep dreaming, it will shock u soon how it will happen and Obi will take over the baton.

LegendHero:
Lol your own delusionn is the worst among you Obidients. Which of the rerun? Rerun in Nigeria or Biafra?

By the way, Tinubu lost in both Kano and Kaduna where Kwakwanso and Elrufai hold sway. Infact, PDP won 2 senatorial district in the last election in Kaduna state.

El Rufai will still be confirmed as a minister and he will work with Tinubu. All this one happening na just normal political gimmick and Tinubu will sort that out as he already met with Malam today. El-Rufai is very important to Tinubu and he is the only man Tinubu had to beg to be in his government. El-Rufai is not brainless like Obi, he knows Jagaban has nothing to do with this confirmation issue.

Lastly, stop expending your time on useless hope. There will be no rerun and Peter Obi cannot be Nigeria president even if he is the only one printed on INEC ballot. Until we Yoruba and Hausa/Fulanis agree to give power to an Ibo person, no Ibo person living or dead will be president.

That Prof. that doesn't understand that leadership is more about liasing with the people will certainly lead the Governor in trouble even as his case of certificate forgery and electoral malpractice are simultaneously in court.

It depends on what the man mean by disobeying court order.

Is like this Tompolo is more learned and wiser than that fat 🐖 that runs mouth anyhow.

For the first time in history, FFK just made a whole lot of sense. Thumbs up oga FFK, but I am surprised you missed in action for sometime now, what happened?

Of a truth, El-Rufai has made several inciting statements and steps against the unity of Nigeria. He doesn't deserve to be cleared as a minister, but then with Tinubu as the C-in-C, it is already a walk in the park for him.

This is why u need to train security personnels both physically and psychologically, before handing rifles over to them. Imagine how that Captain was wasted probably by an officer he trained.

So the battle is about who becomes Governor in the next election. I don't blame them cos greed and selfishness have been the attributes of most politicians. The question they should answer first is, have they delivered all the campaign promises in the last election to Edo people?

This is indeed an advice from a big brother to his kid bro........ Bode George has said it all, the ball is now in BAT'S court.

Some people reason up side down. How could one blame the insensitivity of Tinubu on Peter Obi? Is Obi the reason Tinubu doesn't know that some countries are targeting America through his govt? Make una take una time oooo.

I don't know what is the matter between them both, but Gov. Obaseki from the look of things, appears like someone who doesn't appreciate good deeds. If Philip Shuaibu would betray Oshiomole in order to favour him, why won't he pardon anything he may have committed against him after all, their tenure is already ending.

Well, I don't have much to say, knowing quite alright that the whole mandate is not enjoying the legitimacy of the people and soon, it will go the way of Niger in a democratic pattern. So Oga Festus, don't over rejoice cos time is already ticking.

The Thanksgiving is very necessary as they await the Tribunal ruling in the good interest of all Nigerians.

I am happy he is being sidelined to some extent. I don't know any other appointment that he would enjoy like being a minister.

I think going with Eze Eri n'Agulueri made it more significant.

Codes151:
kudos to Bola for seeing leadership across party lines.

And for your info, dear Ipob. Wike is PDP

No time for ur misconstrued comment/quote. I just typed down my mind and u can go hug transformer if it's not ok by u.

This Wike doesn't have shame at all. So after all the rubbish he talked against APC, he has finally settled for a minister that he was before being a Governor...... Tueh!

Strong man..... Putin. U are a man indeed.

This is the kind of prophecy we expect from Rev. Ayodele and not the prophecy of who wins or loses election.

I don't know why some unscrupulous politicians would derive pleasure in dishing out lies in order to deceive some gullible citizens. It's not as if am in support of the anarchical sit-at-home, but the truth is that it's real as most traders refused to go to open their businesses. Our leaders Know what to do in order to end the sit-at-home but unfortunately, they are busy masturbating on the reality.

One of the shockest news of the year...... May his soul continue to rest.