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Austine567:
I'm just over thinking this for some time now , I know myself to the type that doesn't keep friends, now my marriage is getting closer and am afraid I won't see people to invite as guest, talk more of people to be my groomsmen and best man. I don't know what to do about it.

LadyRosa:
Just avoid buying her a more expensive phone,or anything unisex.Buy her only things a woman can use.

Women!
So if I go 4ck another man outside my mother go tell my husband.Where that one eey happen for Nigeria?



One of the reasons why I love the female possy.E no dey read meter.

Homeboiy:
She aborted it ,went to get pregnant to the next guy,now they have a son .

She's still living together with the guy .

Sukkyy2010:
Foolish question, I have no doubt within me that you never think otherwise to know the reason before you type ask your annoying question. Now let me give some hypothetical reason that probably led the husband not going church with the wife:

What if the husband was away and by dependant nature of woman the wife had to call the husband for the transport arrangement.

I believe your intuition will have given you a rational clue regarding the reason of the husband absence but to gratify your feminine sentiment all you could ask is this foolish question.

Kimiso:
then how did mark Zuckerberg created Facebook,..if he didn't go to school,... highness dey worry you

MoneyGoDrop:
No be lie. I know a Nigerian man is the usa army that his wife use him as rag. This is a lady that's from a very poor background and the man brought her to usa with her mother yet she won't let him rest. My advise to men is visit your girl's family before marriage and watch how her mother treats her dad.

Klass99:
I am absolutely certain, but I choose to not go under the knife for any procedures in my lifetime, if it is not a life or death situation. I prefer the natural course of things in this life. I have also heard of and seen simple procedures go horribly wrong, I'll rather err on the side of caution and not take certain risks with my life.

On Wazobia FM, a female anchor narrated how she was in surgery and being operated on when NEPA took light. The surgeon and nurses were using flashlights on their phones to continue the procedure for some time before the gen came on. A documentary on BBC showed how uncomplicated procedures like laser hair removal, botox/filler injections, resulted to complications and botched up bodies, requiring additional surgery and medication to fix. Some didn't look like they could ever be fixed, at the time the documentary aired and this was in Egypt o.

Mindlog:
Which guilty conscience? Is the Uber's receipt issued to the husband not going to reflect the drop off point, which is the hotel?

soundOsonic:
You didn't read the post.
He is not asking her for money.
She is asking for 3k when about 1.5M is in her account. It's just 3k, she can borrow from it, if the money isn't hers and replace later.
A sensible someone will not put burden on someone she loves that is still struggling to survive.
If she ask and he no give. Fine.

Klass99:
So I hear, but it can't be worse than what I currently experience na. I nearly passed out from the heavy flow of my last period and the pain was so excruciating. I have never had it so bad before.

Corporate2020:
I am a Muslim. I go to the Mosque. My wife is a Christian, she goes to the Church. Check my previous posts, I would have mentioned in this more than once.

Do not blame a man for the action of his Jezebel wife.

Okhuadams:
The world ony sees and here of the female abuse but nobody cares to about the males many wife's beat their husbands while the men are too ashamed to speak out. I have seen women beat up their husband lock up the door and b shouting as if the man is the one beating them. My friend uncle was caught kneeling down with hands up carrying a stool while the wife was holding a cane that was the day the family threw the woman's load out of the house and relocsted the man and his two Children abroad when asked he said the wife has been beating him since they got married for (5yrs). Many men today are facing Domestic violence.

juman:
Women nag.
Their habit.
Ask buhari how much his wife nag, he would answer that his wife nagging is public knowledge.
We read here on nairaland how much tinubu's wife nag.

Favfables1:
Nice write up OP...
Thanks for sharing...

Men go through A LOTTTT...
And most of the time we don't say these things because everytime we try to come out and say these things, we get shamed and called all sort of names ...

You'll hear things like "as a man, you're not supposed to complain about things like this", things like "no dey talk like woman na" or "are you not a man.... real men don't complain" and all sort of crap ...

I'm glad however, that more and more men are voicing out their ordeals...

An advice to men reading this....
PLEASE!!! OPEN YOUR EYES WELL WHEN CHOOSING A WIFE!

Boo.bs and a.s.s won't give you peace of mind!
As important as beauty is, character and manners should be at the topmost top of your priority list when choosing a spouse....

And for those that are languishing under the cruel whip of verbal onslaught, PLEASE!!! LEAVE THAT MARRIAGE, what ever takes away your peace of mind and unsettles your mental health is not worth it!

rickpat:
too bad... humans are now acting like animals

rickpat:
a brand new sexually transmitted disease will soon emerge... SMH