₦airaland Forum

lahizak:
Where you are wrong is that a school first and foremost supposed to protect the student and either you like it or not the girl is a victim. She may be stupid but she is a victim and as far as we are concerned, she did not break the rules of the school. Sex between adult outside a school is not a crime, is not like she steal or kill someone. A video meant for there eyes that got leaked is a violation of her privacy. And either you like it or not her action have no effect whatsoever on the school.
And how will you compare school institution, a place for teaching and learning to work place that pays you salary. So u saying if you and your guy have sex and stupidly make a video and it got leaked, ur office and any other association you know should disown u. Just 4 making a stupid mistake. Na wa oo


Note: lot of feedback 4 what i said. As people we are entitled to different opinions and we all see things differently, on dis ground all responses both negative and positive. However, to me personally, i believe that there is a way controversy like dat can be handled, because a child is stupid does not mean, d child should be cut off completely, lot of situation like dat had lead to suicide. Trust me, d child might even kill herself. Heard her dad is a pastor and if he is like a typical Nigeria pastor, he would av disowned d child. All of dis together might make her do d worst we can imagined. She did d crime of recording sextape, now she is feeling the heat bad bad. I know the skul have the right to expel but trust me, everybody will prefer a skul dat will protect his/her child at her worst. Because i saif d skul shouldnt expel her doesnt mean dat she shouldnt be punished either. Suspension is a better course of action. Futa even suspend dos students beating a fellow student mercilessly. So which is worse between the 2 cases. Lastly, a bad rep like dis on d skul will die down b4 next week, d skul will still be fine. So whats really d need? Y re we supporting d ultimum punishment for a sin dat can be forgotten in days? She did not hurt anybody apart from herself did she?

At the bolded, please can we see the school rule book you are having or how you come into conclusion that she did not broke the school rule?

makydebbie:
I'm just shocked someone can receive all that pounding and keep a straight face without moaning loud, can't be me.

Ehhhh

siegfried99:
I agree with freeze on this..as long it was consecual among adults..shouldn't be an issue.

A suspension/reprimand would have been better.

People do worse things than this behind the scenes..

Ole ni everybody

Go and sleep with a married woman and tell the husband not to divorce her because it consensual.

mobi99:
this is totally unacceptable....that two adults decide to have sex and record it,I think it's no man's business.what happened was a mere mistake and someone took that opportunity to blackmail them,how about the school see it from that angle... besides what Happened was outside school business,or do they school rules and regulations stil abound when one is on holiday in his or her parents house? they talk about reputation as if the victim purposely leak her videos,even word leader Trump has a related case like that yet nothing was done to him, this is peoples private life for God's sake what ever thing they choose to do with it is no man's business as long as he or she there actions have not in anyway contravened any portion of the countries constitution...is high time Nigerians need to grow up and civilized ,have there human right.

Do your own and release it let’s see. I’m sure u are an adult too.

ppogba:
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Good comment.

Emphasis on the words: adult, foolishness, act of shame,semi-lunatic person at the rehabilitation center.
With some of the comments here, it is safe to say that it isn't to late to start weeping for this country.

I tire for this country, we should know that we have culture and value, so we should stop copying the western world verbatim.

KingAzubuike:
Someone breached their privacy and leaked their sextape in an ugly attempt to blackmail them and you say they deserved to be expelled? An incident that even occured outside the God forsaken school premises? So it's a crime for couples to have a sextape for their own viewing pleasure right? Sometimes I just wish a Tsar bomb could be dropped on this goddam country make everybody just die at once.

It is their duty to go and find the person that betrayed them and sure them not the school, the school acted according to their code of conduct.
You call it privacy, no when they decide to allow their sex video into the hand and to the knowledge of a third party,it’s no longer a private issue everyone should know that.

Mynd44:
But imagine if Babcock came out with a press statement saying they will be taking court actions against people who leaked the video and support the lady in question to justice against those who are using it to shame the lady.

Imagine they say although they hold morals in high regard, they also understand that she did it on holidays and they will make sure they set an example of those who are hiding to cause trouble and shame the woman for something that is not a crime.

Not every time try to remove yourself; sometimes shake and break tables. Show support and strength and stand for justice.

Sometimes be remembered for staying on the side of justice instead of triggering your flight emotion

but if they don't, it is still okay. They have a right to protect their name, identity and brand

Oga Mynd44
Did you say support an adult for her foolishness and act of shame with a semi lunatic person at the rehabilitation center �‍♂️, allowed it to be filmed and also allow him to have the video.

Fountainofyouth:
It really beats me that a guy, at the climax of arousal and urge, would really not have the sex raw, no matter the consequences.

It has happened to me on many occasions and that was the decision I took. No matter what I can never have unprotected sex with any girl, I fear std, HIV and unwanted pregnancy.

Divorce, marrying the wrong person and marrying a cheating wife.

LegendHero:
To all the people that love getting angry at Sowore for opposing Jonathan in 2015 and hating on the APC coz of Jonathan. Here is a message for you.

Jonathan himself voted for APC (Lyon). He already moved on from his defeat and the SS is politically sophisticated such that they are not blinded by loyalty to a party that failed them.

Other region should follow suit and vote bad parties out either PDP or APC, and stop the stigmatization of a particular party or showing blind loyalty for a failed party.

A word is enough for the wise!

For your mind you ‘ve made sense abi? They did not vote for APC as a party rather they voted for the candidate. So as it with the other south east states.

brodalikeme:
You're right for demanding that you guys resolve your misunderstanding before sex. Continuing to have sex when all is not well is only piling up issues for the day it will all boomerang and sex will not contain it anymore. But denying her sex is not the best, if she go commit now, the whole world will say you pushed her/ However as a guy, you must find away to settle your issues and not allow it to linger for a long time till your wife initiate her sex moves. From what you are saying and her actions, you guys care less about each others feelings, that is a negative emergency! Try and fix this fundamental defect before one satan sent guy/lady come into the picture

commit because he demanded that they resolve their differences? Na waoo, The op himself is not in control of his family. How can he and his wife be keeping straight face to themselves? Imagine me keeping malice to my wife or she doing so.

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And you think you made sense abi?

BluntBoy:
His petition is certainly weak.

There is no how anyone can make a case against Tinubu as far as the bullion van incident is concerned.

Your comment is part of the reason why Nigeria can not move forward.

They should start with that of Bola Tinubu first.

That shit called madness is really insane

Some Comments here are the reason we can never have good system and rule of law. We always go against mutual agreement. She stated it at on set “no sex until after church weeding” you agreed and now come to claim right that you have done everything. Abeg go and fulfill all righteousness.

Ishigbuo onwegi n’ asi (Aunty you can lie ee)

mercyvivv:
Oga, are you now speaking for Dickson? Let him come out to attach the fund request to "that" project, then that will dispel this suspicion!!

Madam, you don’t ask an adult what he intend using what belongs to him to do before u give it to him. It’s his right and belong to Bayelsa people. Why did Bello has to start requesting for it at this period on election? As for me I will say let the money not be release to either both because we don’t know what the outcome of the election should be. Before the money enter voice mail.

mercyvivv:
Though I'm not taking sides, but let's be realistic, I think the case of Kogi is quite different from this Bayelsa. Bello asked for refund for FG projects undertaken by the state in order to offset the SALARY ARREARS OWED the state workers. To me, that's not vote buying. However, Dickson is yet to state what he intend to use the VAT refund for, this is why the request is somewhat questionable. Just my opinion though...
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You must be a lawyer, so Bayelsa has no project nor workers to pay?

bukatyne:
If I remember correctly, a foreign husband killed an upcoming actress about 2 - 3yrs back.

The luckiest woman choose husbands who love them. Whether from Igbo - Ora or Russia.

God bless you

Ishilove:
There is everything wrong with it. Why must we buy it a high price in the first place? The whole idea of limiting importation of foreign rice is to boost the local production. It makes no sense that we are buying the locally made rice at a higher price when we can buy the foreign counterpart at a lower. They need to give the farmers more incentives to produce at a lower cost instead of making policies that is making life harder than it already is for the average Nigerian.

When has the local rice be higher than the foreign counterpart? The price sky rocketed because of scarcity of the foreign rice and the little foreign one available also increased in price.

larryking540:
Bro how much is minimum wage? then ask urself if Wat u just type make sense,,,, keep on deceiving urself that local rice is more nutritional than the foreign rice,,,,

enjoy ur local rice and visit hospital for Appendix check up by January 1st

Please sir don’t misunderstand me, my question is centered on the “higher price”
Both the foreign and local rice are costly considering the minimum wage, Yes but my concern is making it available and well processed.

Ishilove:
By buying local rice at 18,000?

What is wrong buying our own product at high price?

GrabHisBalls:
They wanted to trend.

Bia who’s ball are you grabbing

UndauntedYOCA:
Lol, Pele baby.

If you are really sorry show me ur pic

I’m still looking for the humiliation there.

BRATISLAVA:
nobody is asking to hear his side of the story. Maybe she's a nag. Maybe she opened legs for another man. It could be that her tongue is acid and the man reacted. These women can make a kitten become a tiger with their mouths. Who knows if she hit him first. She set him up. Where are the men with these questions? Waiting for them.

Is that all you could say? Let’s assume that all you said are truth, so she deserve to die by beating?

GrabHisBalls:
I am now tempted to reply you. What defines a person is character. In Tacha's case, she was kept in a house for 3months and her characters manifested. Though, there are areas they faked some, while there are areas they couldn't. She's boastful, arrogant, lawless, shameless and dirty(all these with body odour). You can now go and kill yourself for all I care.

About me, I am an introvert. At least, not to the extreme. All my life, I have never gone physical on anyone no matter the provocation. If I sense insult/disrespect from people around me, I give them space. That's my own ways of avoiding to fight/quarrel. You have no idea of this Benita you claim to know. Permit me to say, you don't know me. It's not pretending. That's who I truly am. I've known Nairalanders who could tell you what I am capable of. One of my male bestie, I met him here. We've known for 3yrs now.

Don't carry those social media juvenile activities on your head. In my case, it was the opposite of me. Have I corrected that your faulty notion? Bye.

Bestie Bestie! Till he gives you belle

UndauntedYOCA:
Lol, Pele baby.

Pele?
I will only accept your apology when you put ur dp so I can see for myself

UndauntedYOCA:
1- Why are you so quiet?
2- Where have you been?
3- Send me something (This is a statement though) (like seriously people should stop assuming I don't need money as well). I earn #19,800 for Pete's sake.
4- When can we meet, can I see you?
5- Why pimples just full your face? ( bruv service year happened to me!).
6- Why are you not a worker in church?
7-Why are your breasts this small? (Bruv I don't owe anyone big boos, you don't like me like this then go away, my breast aren't measures of intelligence, what I have to offer and how successful I'll be!)
8- When last did you have sex? (Is this one high?)
E plenty but make I stop for here.

I just check your profile to see the size of your breast. Was disappointed because you have no dp

For the first time freeze made a valid point.
That is why people are not buying inoson cars

NwaAmaikpe:



Oga stop disturbing our peace, this is such an easy case because the major issue here is claiming to be Ned's son.

Simply go to a nearby high court and get an affidavit for a change of name from Okpoko Israel to Ned Nwoko, publish this name change in a National daily.
Chikina.

When the matter is taken to court and the judge askes your son his father's name, he'd simply say Ned Nwoko.
Technically and legally, it will be correct and also the truth.

Afterall, the President of my country's certificate is a mere affidavit.

The bolded burst my belle