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LifegoesonE:
HARDDON

See, problem is like this, I have this girl, we been dating for like 8 months now but most time she doesn't call me doo my own worry is dat if she miss my call most time she don't call back.

There was a time she was busying my calls I had to give a break on calling until I met her, she gave her excuse which I told her was not a good reason, I like the babe doo but she doesn't reciprocate not that am asking for extra attention, I called her two times in day like that she didn't pick either called back, called again on her own birthday twice stil could not pick. After two day she replied on whatsapp (thank u dear) didn't reply back doo, even on whatsapp now she haven't reply my me,

For like 2 weeks now I haven't called her cos I decided until she call me first, but am tempted to call her, TELL ME WHAT TO DO.

How cud u have been dating for 8 months wen she isn't even there?

Dude stop wasting ur time n move on with ur life!
Don't u just see she is giving the SHADOW MOVE? Get the memo n move on!

U sound like a first class nice guy!
Kindly read the thread from d first page over n over again until u digest all that I have invested therein on all the pages!

until u do that, dating should be put on hold!

praiseoski:
@ ob..... You bleeped up big time. This is not a cramming episode for you to keep memorizing... its a game. Think of it as a your first time with a game controller(gamepad) U notice that U will find it difficult to locate d buttons without looking at it .. or when preparing for exams , you study and practice d courses that most likely will have a bearing on your future career then cramme d rest ones irrelevant to you in future. This thread ain't about pickup lines it about life changing Tips ..........Same it is in d drill .Don't cram anything,...only PRACTICE, and it seem u've been doing more of cramming than practicing ....
or are u "the king of nice guys"
I was once a nice guy until d day God led me to this trend, I only read d first five pages and my whole game changed. through constant practice ,I became a pro in less than a week....
Advice:Study and Practice
Never cramme and wait

It is called ghost mode.

It feels like a ghost blew breeze across ur brains n blam, blank u went Weak.


Glad I'm reaching the world! Whoopin men from their women slumber.

U r very correct about the practicing talk. I don't wano raise craming robots rather posh dudes where ladies are, irresistable to behold, confident to touch n calcated in talks . men who flow on their feets n have gurls in their fleet sitting @ their feets to learn words of wit n wisdom!

Yea , men above mortals.

And here now I wander!


Btw, why haven't u shared with us ur transformation b4 now? Not kul.
That is the only joy I derive from the sacrifice I put into this thread.

I know there r a lot like u out there n I call on all of u to ball in here and @ d very least, say hello. Your drills works! Daz all.

I DONT NEED YOUR MONEY NOR UR APPRECIATION, JUST YOUR AFFIRMATION THIS WORKS SO DOUBTING THOMASES CAN LEARN!


Tell us ur story n we ain't asking twice

Obiomon:
Harddon has it ever happened to you that a certain time when you were still working on your tricks you just loose your guard, I mean like everything uve been working on and practicing will just disappear and you Would be like wtf is happening to you, all of a sudden you start acting the ways nice guy do.. I know this might sound weird but exactly this shi happened to me this evening,like a few hours ago when I was about going home after feeloing exhausted from playing basketball meh all of a sudden I lost words and everything I learnt from you just disappeared cos their a girl I saw who was cute, wanted to initiate a convo but I just had the feeling not to, and this made me buy two drinks for two girls today that I have been trying to game o.. They came to me when I wanted to get a bike home,. I didn't know it happened I tried rejecting their proposal but the right word to say like if I get them the drink they would take me to a very nice restaurant the next and get me whatever I want and also a nice body massage and blah blah that has always worked for me just vanished!!!(I don't know the magic in it, they would jusst withdraw. Though I add more spice to it that just taking me out).. my Gosh see as I con take de console my sef for my mind as I de pay for the drinks... and I have NEVER in my life bought a drink for a girl whenever she asks me. but I just covered up by saying I only wanted to get them the drink that they ain't the reason am doing it... And right now am so mad at my sef ehhhh. Its making me not talk to anybody till tomorow. So I don't know , is it that its normal to loose my guard at point in time... Or I was just crazy or I was just tired after the basketball game. Has it happened to you before?? How did you get your sef back to bring back the game....


PS I apologise for my LLOONNG epistle I just narrated o. Didn't know it was gon sum up this long

Yea It has happened to me a couple of times while I was still honing my gunning skills.

And I did relate u guys about an instance where I walked pass a sleek 10 of a lady , we both smiled @ each other, Neva said a word, turned n caught her staring @ me after we passed each other, yet I didn't go for her!

I kept going back to same spot , same time for weeks .

Till date, never saw her again! Hated myself.

This why we told u to always live ready!

Nonetheless, the lesson learnt is more important than the moment lost.

Keep honing ur skills, it wud naturally become part of u!

My favorite quote for newbies:

The hunter is frigit with his shots , narrows in n takes out targets no matter how far, but to get to that peek of perfection, he wud miss great kills while honing his skills, if he keeps @ it, experience wud become his life long anchor!

ahaz:
hausas dey fight na yoruba be scape goat.ha! when will dis people learn.

Protecting the psuedo sacred ones n sacrificing the unclaivoyance on d altar of change!

Now hr wud be removed n a psuedo smarter sacred one installed!

Its the North Baiby!

What a weak a33 husby!

He cant satisfy her obviously . he seems not to be financially bouyant too!

He cudnt even confront the h0e he houses rather taking it out on a passer by who probably didn't know she was married d first time b4 he called him.



But guys, keep ur tins from married tins mehn! Too many single ladies for u to do this.

IRIEBOY:
yeah bro.. you are right..she told me she has not really love anyboy since I broke up with her. I have made up my mind to forget about her.. won't contact her again

That wud have been my best ansa to ur question , but since u wanted her enuf to Wify her, I had to find ways tru.

because from the ongoing , she now controls u using d heart break as an effective tool.

Its what she wants that gets done n uve been fooling along

HARDDON:
Brotherly, no matter what, there is something in all these.
U are been blind to undertones . women generally only say 20% of whatz up with them . it is ur duty to decode the 80% unsaid .
She isn't who u knew . she is now cold. Frigit. Probably coin lies now n is feeding u with same. Riding on ur intelligence.
N u can't see beyond ur nose, still blinded by who she used to be, by her smooth seemingly open hearted talk.
By ur having passwords( this is one of them best tools guys like us use in OWNING ladies) . she has u were she want u to be: Pending ....

Wake up n taste d coffee. Do ur due diligence( find out what she isn't telling) for men don't get humble in d jungle!
If not, one day, after making ljv to u, she wud give u her wedding card! #ouch!

Lets ask u some tot provoking Questions:

Do you know that wen a lady that was very loyal to her guy gets heart broken, she can switch into a send less , cold hearted b1tch?
N take it out on other guys? Pretend to Luv them but just generally punish them ? Eat their money n just can't stop breaking hearts?

Do u know that now she doesn't really trust u?
And once a gurl don't trust u, she can actually hurt u? Physically or emotionaly?

Btw, She is always gono pull the : u hurt me so much lines on u, n make u weak n sorry!

Ask her these Question:

1) what happened all these while u guys have been apart? She should tell u in details . As she is talking, listen to what she isn't saying , store what she is saying

Wait a couple of weeks n ask her that same question again. Compare n contrast

2) why did u come back after all d things i did to u?


If u really r serious, make her siblings ur friends or get close to her course mates or co workers .
Find out things

IRIEBOY:
I don't think she is cheating on me,she is so open that she will tell me if she has a new guy..I even have her Facebook password, I have not seen any sign of cheating from her and her best friend knows am the one dating her...she said i have hurt her so much and she still loves me..she just told me I should give her time away from relationship that she needs to be her normal self again.she also said we can date later in the future.s ince we separated all her post on FB and whatsapp has hashtag selflove

Brotherly, no matter what, there is something in all these.
U are been blind to undertones . women generally only say 20% of whatz up with them . it is ur duty to decode the 80% unsaid .
She isn't who u knew . she is now cold. Frigit. Probably coin lies now n is feeding u with same. Riding on ur intelligence.
N u can't see beyond ur nose, still blinded by who she used to be, by her smooth seemingly open hearted talk.
By ur having passwords( this is one of them best tools guys like us use in OWNING ladies) . she has u were she want u to be: Pending ....

Wake up n taste d coffee. Do ur due diligence( find out what she isn't telling) for men don't get humble in d jungle!
If not, one day, after making ljv to u, she wud give u her wedding card! #ouch!

Lets ask u some tot provoking Questions:

Do you know that wen a lady that was very loyal to her guy gets heart broken, she can switch into a send less , cold hearted b1tch?
N take it out on other guys? Pretend to Luv them but just generally punish them ? Eat their money n just can't stop breaking hearts?

Do u know that now she doesn't really trust u?
And once a gurl don't trust u, she can actually hurt u? Physically or emotionaly?

IRIEBOY:
she is hot in bed(nice boobs and ass) I miss her personality,she is a nice babe.i want to marry her but we are still in our early Twenties..I really love her...I understand your last statement..just advise me on what to do now? thanks

It is very likely she isn't been truthful with u right now. Its complicated .

Im 90% positive that u ain't d only one in d equation now

U have to dig d truth up urself , directly or indirectly .

Life-on-the-line !

They wud all be rounded off!


Is poster above normal?

Dr. Tam, stop throwing talks into d air like efcc n APC .

If u got evidence, go to court!

Just fed up with all these talks. Can't bliv even woke hadn't don't any tin bout this

Just gross!

Buh what do u expect wen their big brother is on seat?

Poo of life!

Aibt nothing u can do

From pouting to this ! Don't know where all these craze spring from.


N to think they don't like it wen another lady is wearing same dress/shoe as them, is most intruiging

List warming up

Obiomon:
lol!
I know right!!

Sure u do. U so gud now,
U have 24 hours to meet n mate mnm( I mean a 9ner not some fish seller) If not id hv ur ballz for keeps.

NLjona:
.. lol dude I knw dis tricks already naw.. oya forget

U sounded weak here , sounded defeated!
Resigned n u let him win.

He Bi7ch Bossed u now! Arrrhhh! U let him !

U see how it plays out with gurls too? Once u go asking them out too, u come out @ disadvantage !

I wudnt have u let him jab u like that n u let him after all I've invested in u.
U have to think of a better upper cut response to whooop him.Take him out,

I'm waiting



Wondering why I take interest in this? Well, like I said @ d first page, these drills applies to all facets of life also.

Obiomon:
this one wey you follow me so hope say you no want to de toast me uve gat to impress me first before I follow back

Nice Jab gee!

Checky! Sassy! Sendless!

HARDDON:
Api Sunday Ballful gees!

Asking a gurl for a kiss? Dude where did u learn that from ?
Asking a gurl for anything of such is d bane of nice guys! They don't wano blow it, scared to lose her n basically act Extra Specially Nice!

U ain't worth that pair of balls inbtw ur legs if u go doinv that!
N guess what? U ain't never gono get it! A peck probably if she's nice , but never a Kiss!

U don't ask for kisses, u pull her close, pretend like u wano kiss her, with her expectin, u go pass her lips n peck her! Arrrhhh!!! They hate that! Lol, but i luv it! Just as she was waiting for ur lips to envelop hers, u pull that? . she might make noise that u aint ever gono get it again, its all lies.......bliv me, next time u try kissing her, she wud basically grab ur neck so u don't short change her!

But hey, U must taste d waters to make sure she is in d right frame b4 u scare her away!

There r silent indications ( body language) gurls give off if they want u, we wud be discusing them as we go on.


I have lost a gurl because I lunged in @ d very wrong time when I was still honing my horns!
Guess what? That was d beginning of our end. She started ignoring me. Saw me as weirdo . this is someone that cud tell any lie to be with me, come to family house from school to spend time with me.


2) u r doing it the wrong way! Or she sees u already as a nice a33 guy.
Nice a33 guys can't just wake up n swing sassy . it turns the gurls off.

No matter how u might be master @ thiz, its only God that gives gud wifys

So make sure u go to church today
N ask for a lil leading !

okwypascal:
1) Boss boss, is it right 2 ask a gal for a kiss on our first outing


2) Oga harddon, some gals re taking this I no send attitude as being pompous n some gals don't jus like when u talk bad about their dp, am having serious problem with her nw. Don't even know what 2 do

Api Sunday Ballful gees!

Asking a gurl for a kiss? Dude where did u learn that from ?
Asking a gurl for anything of such is d bane of nice guys! They don't wano blow it, scared to lose her n basically act Extra Specially Nice!

U ain't worth that pair of balls inbtw ur legs if u go doinv that!
N guess what? U ain't never gono get it! A peck probably if she's nice , but never a Kiss!

U don't ask for kisses, u pull her close, pretend like u wano kiss her, with her expectin, u go pass her lips n peck her! Arrrhhh!!! They hate that! Lol, but i luv it! Just as she was waiting for ur lips to envelop hers, u pull that? . she might make noise that u aint ever gono get it again, its all lies.......bliv me, next time u try kissing her, she wud basically grab ur neck so u don't short change her!

But hey, U must taste d waters to make sure she is in d right frame b4 u scare her away!

There r silent indications ( body language) gurls give off if they want u, we wud be discusing them as we go on.


I have lost a gurl because I lunged in @ d very wrong time when I was still honing my horns!
Guess what? That was d beginning of our end. She started ignoring me. Saw me as weirdo . this is someone that cud tell any lie to be with me, come to family house from school to spend time with me.


2) u r doing it the wrong way! Or she sees u already as a nice a33 guy.
Nice a33 guys can't just wake up n swing sassy . it turns the gurls off.

If life was a woman, she still wudnt be fair !

NLjona:
bosss answer me Na..

boss harddon. one of my girls just asked me one of the questions I dunno how to answer.. I've been using dese tips wella on her ever since .. and now I'm creating a lil drama btwn us so it wont gt boring cos we've not quareled before.. we havnt talked since and I don't chat her up wen I see her only or reply her mesgs.. (she's been d one doin 90% of the calling and texting )..
so after not talking for days now she has asked this dreaded question and I don't wanna fùck up with a woozy answer.. she said.. "what really am I to you?".. please help me answer it and possibly futher advice me on it.. thanks

she asked me the questiom online on facebok

Kept u waiting for this reply for a reason : by now , I expect u to grow n start thinking on ur feet and not always run in here!

If you must, F'ing it up should not be your major concern here, you major concern should be to learn fro ur mistakes!

U r walking today because after falling n rolling a couple of times, bruising n crying in d process, u still mustered d courage to give it another go until ur legs became firm on the floor!

Like I said earlier on , a practiced hunter in learning his trade , wud miss great kills! But if he keeps @ it , honing his skills, experience becomes his life long anchor!

U still talk like a peacock on heat! What do u mean by u don't wano f it up?

After I have taught u not to attach to much importance to a lady?
I have tot u how to turn d tension on them n hv them hoping they don't mess it up with u but here now, the boss is scared of f'ing it up with his employee !

I'm totally peeved with u. U have been with me for too long for such talk

Obiomon:
naiicce and I will be like opps wrong message and.... This kinda seem like a new technique to me, haven't heard or used it before. Give me an idea of what to say when I send her the message saying it wasn't for her

U wudnt bother .

Like dah hunter, u set the trap n lie in wait .
The animal wud walk into it n call u or text u.

But u r way off this now. Cos u already broke the ice .

This is an ice breaker

Fedayeen02:
Fashola should STFU and give us light because when our electrical equipment were being sabotaged by vandals during GEJ reign he played politics with it.


Fashola is incompetent

They can give reasons for not been able to meet up with their promised

But got no reason to increased per litre prices even with falling crude prices

No reason for increasing Phcn fees even in the darkness

No reason

Obiomon:
that is you mean I should send it to her on pursose and it was a mistake so as to make it look like it was suppose to be for another girl I met ?? Yeah??

Yips!
Cruel jealousy

Maxineng:
Nigerians can condemn. Its a club not church

Thank u.

The seller must select a spot n be able to showcase her goods open airly !

These guys casting her wudnt hesitate to hvba taste in d secret . infact some r wanking right now with this pix

titosantana:
Op, they are sleeping with each other! It's so obvious unless if one is deaf and blind.


Don't let her take you for a ride.

This should be very easy....simply tell her u wano meet the uncle to thank him for all the help he has been rendering her n also to officially tell him u guys r hooking up soon.... Don't forget to buy a cheap bottle of wine

Pelumih:
thumbs up harddon.

Chai,I've been fvckin up b4 I saw this thread but all d same my nice guy days is OVER for real.


Op,there is dis girl I'm interested in,we attend the same church afta sometym I asked for her number which she gave me,den we do chat on whatsapp after sometyms I asked her out I mean I told her I love her dat is where I f*cked up for real(hit myself so hard) she didn't say no buh she keep givin one silly excuses like she can't date me cos we attend d same church dat pple will be talkin about us buh I said dat doesn't mean anything nd she was acting somehow sha den I just go low cos I was writing my exams, den I saw dis thread d next sunday I didn't even look at her unlike before after service I will go to her and we'd talk but I ignored her,didn't talk to her at all d next sunday too I did d same tin I was just talking to other girls nd act like I don't even know her she msg me online..didn't reply her,called me I didn't pick up she kept calling me buh after sometimes sha I picked d call nd she asked why I've been ignoring/not talking to her I told her nothing she said if she vexed that she's sorry,she apologised to me that she's really sorry and I said Ok...I started applying some techniques which I learnt here wen chatting but I noticed she keep saying I'm harsh..now she said she wanna visit me but I'm staying with my sis,so I'm not alone at home...Pls how do I go about it?? I want dis girl to be mine. or should I just leave her and move on to other girls.... I know say I don bleep up big time..

Glad uve learnt ur lesson about the fact that u shouldn't ask a gurl out!

Itz weak, its wack , its needy, its clingy its SUPER BORING n STALE!

cos no matter how u wud coin it , one boring guy out there has told her that b4

Glad u applied the ignoring Drill to ur advantage! This thing works , doesnt it?
Can just feel the joy in ur heart to see her msg n call.

She says u Harsh now n still wano come visit u? Wow!
Genius u!
That her statement cud mean she is so totally surprised @ some of the ballful statement u r making now compared to when u were a nice lil weakling feeding off the palms of her hands

Or it cud also mean u should spice ur arrogance with a bit more fun.... Analyse ur responses n tune up if u have to. Always analyse ur chats after uv told her gnight this helps u 2 know where u were kul n not so kul n learn to improve .


To you Question, DEFINE UR DESIRE b4 I ansa u. U sound like u just wano bed her. N not for anything serious


U should know this: he who uses bouble barrel Gun to hunt down a house chicken should be prepared to eat it with d feather et all!
Those who have fine minds fathoms

Obiomon:
After we haven't talked for about 2 to 3 months after I have discovered that whenever I call her so we should meet in school or so ever she would be acting weird making me wanna loose my balls by begging her like other guys do(you no na I can't fall for that, not anymore!!! When have gat HARDDON ?? Nah ! Not gon work) nyways back to it.. So I sense what she was trying to to play so ever since then I didn't Call her nor text her (just wanted to clear her thinking that ain't that kinda guy) she didn't call nor text eIther so , I didn't give a fucck either. Well fast forward to today I just felt like braking the cold ice I sent her this. Me: I just had bryson tiller's self righteous(that's cos she told me she loved song very much) and remembered you and was like wtf!!! Really!!! But You try sha, keep the game going gurl!!!! So long you eat well and belle fu. And she texted me few minutes later asking where I was . Knowing you said we shouldn't ans boring questions with boring anwers I gave some time and replied. Me: Right now am in space n watching u . Funny enough she called me just once and I didn't pick (still remembered what you stressed) and she didn't call again, I just laughed . Well I know she was thinking I was gon rush to call her ASAP but nahh I didn't . Am to call her maybe tomorrow or next... So my nigga what do you have to ssay about my poerformance... Is theere any flaws or anything I missed that was suppposed to be done .... Juust tel me your mind. And thanks for the level you made me inprove when it comes to the ladies

Glad some r learning the robes fast. Kul!

Some other lines to break ice are: u send her a supposedly "mistake msg"

Here are examples;

Hi Roy, cud u just tell Jane to stop calling me? I just wants us to be friends but she is asking for a r/ship, I'm not ready for lady's dramas now. Warm Regards.


Or say: wow, u r dah best gurl ! I had mad fun last night! Btw r u human? For Real? Cos gurls that I know wud rather a guy spend on them instead of the other way round! R u @ the airport yet? Hw abt an awesome day? With Luv from Don..

skoloppy31:
soora fun aaja tin o man fi epon paanu

In English?

IRIEBOY:
Bro I have been in a relationship with a girl for about 5yrs,last year we had issues which was mainly my fault due to my ego and insults towards her, so I broke up with her,she tried to reach me but I ignored her,so after 3 months of no calls and messages ,she called me and asked how am doing ? few days after the call I began falling for her and pleaded for her to accept me back,though it took lots of pleading then she accepted me back..Things were moving well again then few months back she sent me a message that she needed time away from the relationship and I asked her what is wrong she said her life is complicated ,she said since I broke up with her last year,her life has been upside down,she told me her family is facing spiritual issues and the pastor told her to keep away from relationship/sex for some time...she said she is not breaking up with me but just needed time away from relationship, so I promised her that I will do away with sex for the mean time so we agreed and the relationship was moving well.. i complained that she was not the babe I use to know(she was not into the relationship like before)then two days ago she still told me I made her life a hell by breaking up with her and I apologize again.we both bursted into tears and kissed eachother,she told me that I should give her time to figure her self out cause she wants to be her old self,she doesn't understand herself ..she said she very much still love me,she doesn't want any relationship for now, and we are not dating now but later we can date when she feel is ok with her.. she sent me a text that she didn't say those words to hurt me,that she loves and cares for me..please what should i do

This is why it is always gud u know what u want b4 setting out to meet any lady!
How can u be with her for 5 years , no qualms then from d blues ur ego overruled?

B4 I say anything, define d r/ship! What do u want?
U missed the way she banged u?
Her personality? Aura? Homely attributes or what exactly?
Do u want to marry her now?

Every other things is secondary . once u know define what u really want!

But I should tell that from the happenings within this her second coming,, the VERY DAY A WOMAN FED THE HOUSE, HUMANITY WAS DRIVEN FROM D GARDEN OF EDEN!
If u have a fine mind, u wud understand that !