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CaesarDon:
We all have a mental picture of what our future partners should be like, or qualities they should posses, they might not turn out as visualized, but that still dosent stop is from desiring or having a mental list.

Beyond the cliche talk of being loving, caring, humble e.t.c they are some weird things best left unsaid that attracts us to the opposite sex, which we consciously or unconsciously take into cognizance.

I have being with a lady that says she loves a guy that beats her and takes charge. , some guys are attracted to nagging ladies, different personalities with crazy weird fetishes .

As regards relationships i really don't care care about what is on my list if it's just a fling, or if i have no plans to settle (my current gf dosent even tick half of my desired attributes), As weird as they might seem I wouldn't tell any gal except if she ticks dem by default like my no 1 below.
some vital desideratum on my list are stated below



1. She must be a first class graduate or second class upper from a reputable federal university.

2. She mustn't be so forgiving

3. She mustn't take sh*t from me (many gals fail this)

4. She must challenge me intellectually

5. She must be super smart with a high I.Q (I don't want dumb kids)

6. She should be gainfully employed (no, to parasitic relationships).

7. She must not take alcohol or have tattoos

8. I dislike ladies that wear many earrings, a nose ring or earrings at the top of the ear

9. I don't like ladies that are too friendly (I'm attracted to harsh ladies)

10. I'm attracted to older ladies (especially when I get to punish them in bedmatics)

11. She must be super calm, collected and talk less.

what are the weird attributes and fetishes that you crave in your potential life partner?

LET THE CONFESSIONS BEGIN!!!.

As much as this is your list n wish from ur own woman, might i technically point out critical flaws in some of dem? ? N i can assure u, u wud grow outa them:

1. Certificate isnt equal Intelligence. N there is a huge difference btw Schooling( this is a conditioned learning under stipulated time frame garnished with Tests n Exams n certificates. Ppl that have this almost always work for d second set) and Education( this is a life long daily personal development tru books and various skill aquisition etc)
If you dont know, there r so many glorified illitrates walking our streets today with first class certificates.

So go for quality content of the cramium rather than the ink of a used quill on a royal piece of paper.


2. Aint nothing like d fury of a scorned woman! Guess u havent experienced this statement first hand. If u have, u wud pray to meet ond that forgives entirely n never refers back to d catalog of ur ills.
If u cheat on d one that isnt so forgiven, be rest assured she might cheat on u back or just slip some rat poison in ur f'ing meal!

3. Just like ur point 2, this is totally parochial as much as it sounds kul. The worst thing u can wish for as a man is a woman who stands toe to toe wit u n challenge every shitty thing u do! Cos try as u may, u wud do shitty!

4. This is good. Just pray she isnt more intellectually sound than u. She is always gono come out right when u have divergent opinions n u wud end up always doing her bidding or live perpetually with the " i told you so!"

7. Instead of saying no to the alcohol thingy, be technical about it. because whether u like it or not, most gurls consume more liquor in an hour dan fishes do water.
N u wud miss d mind blowing wild moments liquor induced luv making session brings!

9. There is a great difference btw been sociable n firm and been harsh n unfirm. Go figure

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brandon180:
damn!
Someone once posted that if u re good with ur flows u can screw a gal without even knowing her name..neva abeleived it sha..bt nw i beleive.
My only regret is that i wasnt with a condom
Tanx man@HARDDON u re a life saver.

Its not just any kinda flow but a sexually inspired kinda flow, minced with the menacing touch of a practiced pro and his ability to blend bed into regular everyday brew( hope you understand that, if you didnt, nida do i)

uw, nonetheless, i take pleasure in this!

WiredLeggings:
go for counseling together and ensure she changes her domineering ways before you tie the knot.

D snow may cover d dark spots of a leopard it doesnt wash it off.


Op go ahead with this Wedding @ your own peril!
If she can stand toe toe or even taller than u now, wen u finally put a ring on it , oh heavens i cant imagine d heart/life aches u wud live with all tru ur life!

While u r thinking of going ahead with this cantekerous woman , do ur self some gud n sign ur death warrant .

Ouch!

temi4fash:
I wanna as a question..

How do married men keep the game up.. Cos i realise once you drop your guard down, the attraction seem to get reduced too.

Is there ever a time in your relationship you lower than you guide.

As HARDDON would say When you finally get that good lady you feel it time to hang the boots how do you keep up the attraction.

Harddon, Still waiting for you thread for Pastors and minister on how to handle woman especially for ministry people...

I keep saying it: this is no game. Only players do Games. This is the way of life of the Superior man. You dont struggle to live, you just do. So whether married or not, You live.
how can u let the witty u tru the roof because you feel you are now married? you must keep feeding her with doses of it no matter how little. keeps the spark in waves.

We dont have any guard( only player do) hence needless lowing them, same goes for the boots. Once you make this part of you, you just live by it seamlessly.

Oh yea, I recall! the thread I promised u: Anointing & Attraction:Pastor Beware . remind me on saturday.
Rich Regards

Shewo:
I've sent You an email. Pls check your box, Datingdrill@gmail.com

Post it here unless itz confidencial

brandon180:
so wen it comes to d hawt ones ur confidence drops, but when u re with the less hawt ones, u flow real good...

thatz because u attach too much importance to the hawt ones. u get so stiff n lose ur thinking cap because u dont wano mess it up!

if there is some one to really display confidence n sendless actitude towards, its d pseudo hawt ones cos they are so fed up with guys kissing up to them n turning sissies around them.

a guy that ball in n make fun of their tiny legs, eyes, head n any freaking thing on their body, sends an attractive wave down their spines.

u must know that that very one u r dying for is some other guy's rag he treats anyhow yet she cant help but love him.

long ago when yours truly just got puffed wit these lights newly, he had so many creamy ones, change them like pair of bumshorts, guys grows green n always ask 3 questions: how do u get these hawt gurls? 2. what do u give to them that make them keep coming back even with the way u treat(cheat on) them? 3. mehn u got this gurl guys r dying for, why do cheat on her?

Answers? CLASSIFIED

Shewo:
Wow.
I must say this thread is a blessing, I think a blessing I saw too late, I saw thread today and I commend the contributors. Here's my story. I met this girl on camp and she's cool and I fell immediately for her, we call( I think I do most of the calling), talk and since camp we have been seeing and just discussing like friends but I want more. So recently, she said something about her bf and I just acted as if I didn't hear her. I visited her today and as we were talking, I think her bf called and It struck me like mad, like the way they were talking and all. So when I got back to my apartment I sent her a text, telling her how I feel and I've not received a reply from her. I'm starting to regret why I even sent the text

oh lawd!

MuyiRano:
*sigh*
i've been an underground follower of this thread but i made a promise I won't make any comment on it until I finish reading from pg 0-144.
Harddon I must confess u are a blessing to the men folks.
You have really changed my life and ways in dealing with dem soft creatures.
Thanks boss... more grease to ur elbow

Underground? More like shadow stalker.

My joy wud be ful wen u send me ur wedding invite

Dont forget to put to praticed all u've gleaned n wud continue to glean. Modify to suit wen necessary, think up lines and be the goD u were created to be.

Rich Regards

Mkbryants:


Mehn!... Nodding my head like that red headed lizard right now. The story ain't confusing, it's for the fine minds, I dig this so well, as I go down on my knees and head bowed down. Please bless me LORD HARDDON​

No more tasteless water, it would be sugar wateeeeerrr hence on.

I hope I don't give them in excess anyways

If i didnt know beta i wud have taken u for that clown in my club.

Btw, i think itz called agama lizard

I am no Lord nor a well groomed god. Im nothing but a voracious reader with a mind drunk in experience n sleek lines.
With words, last night, i painted me a sexy virgin, innocent to touch, shy to luk upon but mind melting to own. I cuddled her in my thoughts hut until d dawn of dis fragile new day stole her away from me.

No, i Got no blessing pAck nida , just my quiet Quill n my fine ebbing mind so bow not ur head.


Lastly, the thing with sugar is that it must be delivered in d right quantum, yes the right dazzling phantom.
Too little n itz meaningless, too much n it leads to diabetics.

Go figure

Smallville10:
Harddon u be boss, i swear! U bad die. Hahahaha... I get ur bird story die... Nice! Thank boss!

Keep your guts Strong
Your ballz up!

klark3:
I value dignity alot & i see it in most of the advise u dish out...
U said something profound in your earlier post to the op about being backup plan for the girl & being in the queue should incase her current boyfriend mess up, op would replace his position...but u went further to say such isn't for guys of your kind...
Honestly i am not looking at this from marital perspective, but self respect, but from your messages on this thread, i thought the thread was all about inculcating in guys some self worth while chasing ladies?
Op is already playing second fiddle, only guys with low self esteem play such role in the lives of ladies? Why be the guy to wait on the queue? Does the girl in question posses gold?
It is possible my wife lied to me about her relationship status when i met her, i am not disputing that, we all do lot of things behind the people we respect, i even do say awful things about my prof. sometimes, but flaunting it at my front bespeaks stripping me off my honour.

If lady tells me she has a boyfriend, not once or twice...i will honourably leave her & go for another...not clingy on her...I think there should be a limit to the extent guys should go when chasing women...

@emphasized,
Nw i get ur drift. But there is something you should know: guys like us never take ladies' talk on face value. If u read my first response.

Some say that to test ur balls. Ur response to these kinda talks is what matters not WHAT THEY SAY.

Hers are beautiful just as i was thinking my sea blue eyes are d ish in africa!

Rita2361:
Women have individual difference. Some will pretend to be angry with you but they are not. She may tell you that so you will not see her as a cheap girl or because of her encounter in her previous relationship. If you want to prove what i just said now go and date her girl friend since she asked you to look for another girl. On the other hand, some ladies that asked for ordinary friendship without any attachment. if your a cool guy definitely the girl is yours. The way care for her will make her running to you. She will be the one that will later start asking you if your not a man. so you don't feel her presence. My advice is to first study the type of person you hooked up with and know the approach to use on her. THE GIRL IS YOURS, PLAY YOUR CARD WELLA for the fact she accepted to come your house.

@ Caps locked, i beg to differ. Do u know that d only thing /worry on a gurl's mind wen she is coming to visit a guy for the first time is THE FEAR OF HIM BEEN LIKE EVERY OTHER GUY N WANTING TO FVCK/RAPE HER on d first visit?
She comes to prove if thatz true or not. If he has his emotions in chk or not.

On some rare occasion, they wish the guy wud be a gud facial expression/ body reader to know when to pick her up n kiss those lips , tasting those nips

But you wudnt fathom

delishpot:
How can you just kiss a woman like that? Too many movies have spoilt you. She clearly resisted the first time. why keep pushing? That is quite disgusting in my opinion.What next? It is not a gentlemanly attitude it shows desperation and lack of self control on your part. Her next visit now she would think you would try to squeeze her ní.pples and remove her pants? And if she resists you will keep trying every 5 mins interval? Young men lack sexual discipline these days sha. Change that attitude. If you want a good girl don't "bẹ"

This is what we've been trying to inculcate into guys!
Be different. But no, the op just playing along with d general script n affirmed nothing but the fact that he is a fvckboy.

Learn to relax n enjoy life how can thatt b possible when the tiny thin inbtw d legs Rules their lives.

Crudely predictable, anoyingly unwitty n sexually unnerving


Must you fvck on da first day? Fvck that u wud be fvcking n wud soon get tired of n start searching for anoda to luv/fvck? Morafvcka!

klark3:
U make me laugh....
If u & d girl are rolling real good, why come here to seek this kind of advise?
Only children will support ur decision, love has beclouded your sense of reasoning...
I know u will gladly kill that guy if opportuned, just to get his girl...U have no shame....

I can now imagine how much u have pestered her....

There is something u should know: a gurl that really luv her guy wud not think about nor have another as bestie. Her guy wud naturally assume that role.
A gurl that is really into her guy wud not b emotionally involved with another.

Just like Solo said, dating/r/ship aint marriage n itz alarming how u wud wear ur marriage goggles in gleaming tru this.
Hard truth but ur wify now was some1 else gurl b4 u hooked her. She might hv even dated a couple of guys.
She might have even lied to u that she had no guy wen u met her @ first b4 u started dating her.
She might have bn two timing. U neva can tell.n hey, b4 u even pull d she-was-a-virgin-line on us, most virgin ass holes/bo0bs bear d brunt of cealed pussy, so down a chill pill.

Do u know how deceptive ppl can be? Do u know if she is nothing but hanging on until she meet a beta gee? Etc?

Yes,

We came fashioned fit for earth, luv n living, highly powered pieces but with no physically documented operational manual ( only our silent voices ) hence we wud date, we wud dart just like a whistling willow to the caress of the wind to diverse extenal sexy souls until we be taken n we go creating others for d youngers ones to take.

Lastly, most r/ship r nothing but goodies/cookies collection arena. N d name r/ship is nothing but a super duper cover to maintain the collection flow !
Why wud a man see his potential wify with another n not defy d gods, burn down the earth to acquire what is duly his?

Not for naughts were we born MEN

HARDDON:
DRILL NUGGET 17:

BLEND D BLISS..... CLOWN NOT

Dont turn a circus man because of some soft bone. If anybody shld be entertaining anybody, she shld be the one entertaining u. Been fun to be wit does not equate been clownish n unmanly. Like we have told u b4, all our lines r geared towards one purpose n one purpose alone!- that is what we really want with her. So b4 u narrow in, know what u want with her n flow in dat accord. Gf? Wm? Ffb? Etc....


That we said women like humour does not mean that we now lose essence of our aim n just start throwing random jokes just to make her laugh. Every fun line we drop drives home a specific point; it cud be a LON( Line Of Note): to engrave our tots in a fresh one's mind. It cud be a fun line to finger her curiosity. N make her go wanting more
.It cud be a mystery fun line to wonder what kinda guy we really r
Or a crazy/sexual line to turn on d naughty gurl in her
We never Tell idle jokes, Nor crack meaningless pranks! No ! Never!
If u r like that, kindly quit this now n join basketmouth n gordons. U r wasting ur talent here.


You must blend the bliss- learn how to balance the d witty u n the manish u.
You must know wen to smile n wen to be serious.
You must know wen to have down to earth/probing talks n wen to fun jab.
You must know where to draw d lines .

DRILL NUGGET 17:

BLEND D BLISS..... CLOWN NOT


Find our feets, we must
On track , back we roll

Biafrareform:
Been chatting with this lady on Facebook for sometimes now. We seems cool. She is in Abuja and am in Ph. She will come to Ph next year.

How can I introduce romance and relationship to our discussion without spoiling our chat

Guys like us live on d hairs of life n on d guts of a broken cod.
We write our life scripts N therein hv our living. No matter how absurd it is to avg guys

We hate straight chats. because we know that most guys out there feed d lady folks wit just that but ladies luv guts, confidence, challenges, adventure, suspense, a guy that can awake d naughtiness in them.
Straight "hello , Ha" chats dont cut thru.

Shrewdly we wade in. But one thing is most needed first: Sendless/Confidence airs.

Deeboiy nland mail is a circus i cudnt wade tru.

Kindly mail: datingdrill@gmail.com

Smallville10:
Harddon! Please is there anyway u know i can turn her attention to me more than d guy... Like a way i can stop being her side chick...

To answer this question, here is a personal story/research:

long time ago, yours truly wanted to find out why pigeons bond so passionately n r faithful n loyal to each other tru out their time on earth n why it was so easy for the male to lead d fam while sharing egg warming /hatching/feeding responsibility with d female. Also of interest is their time keeping acute capabilities .
I wud not bore you all with details of the blistering revelation journey rather I wud like to state here what I discovered in course of my research( totally offshoot)

For a start, yours truly bought 4pairs. Built 16 home cells because they multiply swiftly once they r of age.
Tied their feathers n restricted their movements so they can get used to d farm house( i bought them, wel blended colours, from a far away place so they dont trace their way back, cos they always do)

After the acclamatization period, i let them fly n they always return home, no matter how far they fly, @ night. I had even created a com chanel with dem n i had a way of calling them back home if they r around d vicinity, no matter how far, once they hear my special whistle, they wud fly back home swiftly cos they know itz fud time.
I wud sit at d middle n spread fud around me with water in a big bowl, they wud arrive n start eating. I cud easily catch any n examine em. This continued for 1 month.


Then one day, yours truly got home very late. Dashed to their cage cells to check up on them n noticed, to my horror, that 3 pairs were missing. Only d pair on eggs remained. I was totally vexed n waited if they wud return d morrow. They didnt. 2 days after, i was on my way out , had given up hope of eva finding them, like a flash, i saw them wit another group in my area n i wondered. I rushed home, whistled n they came as usual to eat. I tried to catch em, but i cudnt. They behaved strange n had this stranger awareness spike on them.

Long short, i was able to trace them to d 3rd street from mine after 1wk! They had taken abode somewhere else.

Luckily, the owner of d other pack dey joined was a kul guy. Immediately i told him my birds where taking abode there, he quickly said he noticed some time ago but didnt know to whom they belong but was kinda glad they came cos their colour combo was exotic.
He gave me my birds.

I asked him what cud have prompted the strange behave upon all my special care for my birds!

He said one thing n one thing alone: SUGAR WATER!
I was like "say wor?". He said yea! That he does not just give his birds water, he always add some cubes of sugar!
Little did i know that these wonderful birds have taste bud for sweet stuffs! No teeth if not it wud have been sweet tooth!

Learnt my lesson, got home, tied d wanderers' feathers n sugar water it was hence on!
Did i tell u that 2months leta, there where 8 strange pair in my cage cell that were not mine n i had no idea where they came from?


Hope i have bin able to confuse u wit my birds' story?!

Smallville10:
Harddon! I Didnt Ask Her About Her Guy, it Just Fell Into Our Conversation... She Really Likes Me Though. I Have Earned Her Trust, she Gets Emotional With Me, she Feels Safe With Me... I Have Seen Best friend Who Turn Out To Be Couples. I Would Like To Know... How Do I Convert The Friendship into A Lovely Relationship...

"When she muted that talk, u should hv shut it down swiftly"

if she gets emotional towards u, two things r involved:

she wants u but does not want to part with her guy. So u officially d side guy that might get to hit the cookies on side n u officially have no say wen d guy wants to be wit her but she is wit u. u r officially an undertaker, a witless shadow always lurking @ da background.




secondly, she likes u but not as much as her guy n she is trying to keep u close n on d queue should her guy ever mess up, u cud be promoted!

for guys like us, the two options are not viable

Smallville10:
Harddon greetings Boss! I Need Help Here! I Met This Very Fine Girl, we Been Friend For A Month Now. I want to Date Her But The Problem Is That She has Got A Boyfriend whow She Says She Loves dearly. Just Recently She Wants Me To Be Her Best friend and She Began Telling Me About Her Relationship. PLEASE did She Just Friendzone me? Is There Any Way I Can Still Have Her... WE ARE BEST FRIENDS NOW

We told u neva to ask whether or not they got guys! Ladies always do , even the ugleee ones!

If they ever bring bf bs talks, deflect it soundly n funly.

She: I have a guy
YOu: oh hell? U do? How does he cope?

Or

Ofcos u do! But hey, dont take it too far yet. U aint getting me that cheaply.


The worse thing u can do to urself as a guy is to take ladies' talk @ face value. They say lota things they dont mean so as to put u off balance, turn u to a puppet / maga. U seem to be letting her sip tru easily.

She just manipulated u into submission.

When she muted that talk, u should hv shut it down swiftly!

Itz a difficult situation to come out of. But u can give it a try by ignoring her for a while. Aviod all forms of communication. Get close to another gurl, Then see how she takes it.

ELITE12:
Hello Everyone,Boss Harddon ,Ustec
always still thankful for the drills u helped me with, i came across this drills at the right time
this my service year has been one of the best memories ave ever heard and from hence forth i dey operate on a different wave oooh... even after service....
changed for real thanks to this GREAT FORUM

Long time itz bn Elite the " Hitith"

Hope u aint breaking gurl"s hearts?

sshola:
Haddon,

Why do ladies hate to date teachers? I have a very strong passion for this profession and won't trade it for anything. But I discovered that ladies I meet went to to show dem how much I can impress dem before dey take me serious. Though I don't rush for ladies as my genotype (AS) doesn't just allow me to go on. So I will rada calm down and ask questions well well. Bit from experience, ladies don't fancy my profession. Is something wrong about me or my approach to dem.

Teachers have a way of life that is repugnant to d female folks.
Their pay pack is usually poor n sweat blood wit only one stream of income.
Way of life monotonic, mostly boring
Once u jump into d circle, to break out is onerous

N alot more ish ish

But in ur case, your body language, choice of words/boring questions etc are your undoing.

My Mind wanders yet with the focussed guts of a sexy Sun
With rays that pierces thru d the will of d dark
It Rules d new born dawn with grace n gumption
spreads itz wings to d four virgin walls of a lonely rose
N carress her fair thighs with soft surgical hands
d dawn moans to itz rousing touch
Waves after waves of ecstasy
Jrod Rod Arose

Then Suddenly!
Like a lost human crudely severed from his avatar
I woke with heat on my head
Damn! It was nothing but a dream
Yet my mind, wander, still

A Handler has handed over the handles of handling the Handlers.

On some other handling matters a handler must need handle

A drink to a Handler

No?

SOme rides r not meant for some roads!

Imagine d street took all its gaits, grace n glamour n left it with nothing but dust n dale

iykizzy:
Boss harddon, I'm not ready to leave either of 'em bro... Dats why I came to seek superior advice from d Lords here... Pls tell me how to go about it bro.

Selfish somebody!
While si many guys r on soapy therapy u r here manning two @ a blow!

Xray of d mind of a twisted migget

Benita27:
No one is saying married women shouldn't take a good care of their body after child birth/marriage, but it doesn't guarantee your man won't cheat when he has an itching dick. You dig?.

But you are in d full picture - most dont. N u sounded earlier like one of them.

No man delibrately cheat on his wify except a microscopic few.

Most men go into marriage with d bond words of staying faithful to their wifys.

Alot of factors fight n force that vow tru the roof. Wifys of cheating husbys have major role in this. Dont get me wrong, i dont suffer cheaters but if we were to analyse Why some men do, wify is in it.

N most Cheating Starts from d first pregnance/wife'S Xta
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