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Sleek!

If earthly governors n presidents even kings cud be royally treated, a mouthpiece of the most high deserves better.

khiaa:
I use to tease you for being a nasty boy. , and you thought that I was a freak like youself.

Tease me? Where exactly K? Mah balls or mah heart.

Btw, nasty is sexy thou moda Freaky!

Life must be very hard for him for him to pop botls for IP7

khiaa:
His mother isn't seeing anything that's why she can't give him an answer this is mommy's way of controlling the situation.
Mommy needs to go sit down somewhere and let her son be happy.
Our parents can't live our lives for us neither can they save us from the world, remember mommy was daddy's girlfriend once upon a time and was in this girl's shoes.
Now I said all of that to say *long time no see* how have you been?

@ emphasied, A true leader is one with very gud listening ears , one who can filter through divergent views n make a well informed dicision.

To make new alligence, we must learn which bridge to blow off with wisdom.

What u just advised is nothing but cock n shoot solution. Muscles. But Brains always rules.



@ last statement, how come i can't recall? R u one of those my many secret admirers that Se.un Chased away but returned wearing new sobriquets?

What u get from making a street gurl a wife!

Fallen boobs forming funky because of d beauties of bra!

greatmarshall:
my brother you know what is good for you and what you want... Your mum can not choose a wife for you... Wife her man...she's been with you for nine good years through thick and thin...

Women have six sence men don't.

As much as i wud advise you be ur own man n stew ur own soup, Neva take ur momma's foresight for granted!

This is no war times gee. This is wisdom time because d worst time to make a decision is war times.

Momma don't hate u, she wants d best for u. Yea, given, they reacts most times wen they come to d crude realization that some gurl is gono be hvin d bulk of your luv now that does not mean she wud be this blunt!


Op, take it from a gee that hates momma's awkward inputs into his life, but u can't take this for granted!
The woman is seeing things you n ur dad aint.

Apply wisdom, sweet up to her wen she least expect n try to pick her brains why she isnt down wit your choice.

YOU MUST DO THIS BEFORE U TAKE UR NXT STEP

HARDDON:
DRILL NUGGET 15:

DEALING WITH REJECTION

DRILL NUGGET 16:

NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE

THE DIFFERENT PYSCHOLOGICAL MAKE UP OF MEN N LADIES( ladies experience faster n blow older men, boys grow slower n look to younger ladies)
DRILL NUGGET 17:

BLEND D BLISS..... CLOWN NOT


DRILL NUGGET 18:

BE EXPERIENCED/BALANCED

DRILL NUGGET 19:

M PROPOSAL

DRILL NUGGET 20

GURL TYPES/GRADES

DRILL NUGGET 21

HANDLING LUV & BALLS

DRILL NUGGET 22

MARRIAGE LIGHT


DRILL NUGGET 23

...........
LEARN LINES, RHYMES, PEOTRY, AT LEAST ONE MUSICAL INSTRUMENT, IF YOU CAN, SING!


.........

DRILL NUGGET 18:

BE EXPERIENCED/BALANCED

We rock, here now, we roll, as promised

DavidTheGeek:
I wonder what kinda hitting on her you did.

Well, first thing is you shouldn't ask a girl you just met out.

It's simple logic - NO ATTRACTION YET. So she'll give you an automatic NO.

Second thing is don't take the "lets just be friends" talk too serious.

When she told you she doesn't want a relationship with you, you should have said something like: "That's alright. Save your heart from heartache. I bet we wouldn't make a fine couple. You don't seem like the kinda girl that can handle me."

Now that's a challenge.

Imagine a girl said something like that to you. What effect would that have on you?

YOU WILL BE TEMPTED TO PROVE YOURSELF TO HER. (Same thing, she'll be tempted to prove herself to you if you had said something like that.)

Next time don't make obvious advance at a girl. Lower her defences by going in subtly.

Your options now are:

1. Ignore her statement. Just cuz she said she doesn't want a relationship does not mean you guys can't date. If you're confident you can get her to fall in love with you... you're good to go.
2. Move on to another girl.

Da.mn D! now u think like me!
I had responded b4 i scrolled down to find this fine piece from ur sleek self!
Ur challenge line is even top tek!
If i had read this, there wudnt hv bn need to respond!


Sleek! Very sleek!

ERUDITEE:
i did hit on a girl, she played cool and actually told me that she just wants us to be friends.

and that she doesn't want a relationship with me.

should I forget about her and move on, because I know it is not an ideal thing to beg a girl. how to I go about making my self irresistible to her?


@ harddon and other concerned members.

First, guys like us don't hit on gurls. Where you expecting she was gono say yes? Smh.
30% wud not!
60% wud keep u in a limbo ( frndzone) where they start milking you.

Aint telling what d other 10% wud do.

We rather sendlessly fun jab them!

Now you've conered yourself, two things are involved:
1. We usually don't take gurls ' talk @ face value. So we act a fool to what she just said n use d fzone time to make sure she gets it into her thick trick skull we ain't fzonw material . N b4 she knows it, she is on top of us wondering why she is whyning on us when she set out to just be frnds.

Me: just friends? Is that a way u devised as to avoid bn too forward too soon n appearing cheap? Or
Does that mean you are too shy to admit u want me so badly in ur life but don't know how? Is it so surreal to you? Never tot id ever ask you out even though uve bn wishing it?


2. Or on the other hand we tell them:" you can't afford to be my frnd" n walk d heck on.

osic:
My gf flirted with a guy in my presence and said jokingly "what are you doing here sef" during one of our conversations the same day, so I left her place angry that night, the following day was my birthday, so I called her on the phone to take her out but she didn't answer the phone, after calling and calling, she later did and was acting funny, felt she told her brother to tell me she wasn't around, I didn't call or text her since then, that's 5days ago, my question is should I call or visit her or should I just move on with my life. Thanks

She got d guts to disrespect your balls like that, u gathered d lil glory u got left n balled out only for u to come running back to her like a puppy on a day that is might to be ur bday? A day she is supposed to be the girl u think u got?
How do u guys deal? It was yr freaking birthday! Who is supposed to take who out? Who is supposed to call who first?

Unless ofcos you enjoy been d side side guy, u already know what da heck to bleeping do!

swave7:
Oga I've sent a message na, I need coaching abeg I'm in ruins.

Drop your ish here n there are alota ballers who can help out.

Dedicated ( Executive) Sessions comes with a price tag.

Pacesetters have no ouce of energy to waste on haters.

.......Don


In the world @ large, a man's result speaks for him.. Not d contents of his lips.

.....Don

sarrki:
Ipobs are criminals

Abc

"Those who lack sound arguments result to the most basic of human instincts- insulf & defamation of character.."

...........Don

Here we go again!

N blood Still Rolla Royal Red
Ggmu!

varied perceptions.

Intricate. Care to explain it?

This Inspired sounds is split into the following Modules:

***Anointing & Attraction (this is what inspired this thread)

1. Ministry Money Management
2. Sense of Sight Management
3. Randy Seductive Sisters Management
4. Trustworthiness (Ability to Keep Secrets revealed to you in confidence(based on your office) by church members even from your wifys/husbys)
5. Counseling ( The Right ways to Carry out Counseling )
6. Heart Management (Never forget your source and grow wings when God starts Performing wonders through your hands)
7.

The Bible says :
My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge: because thou hast rejected knowledge, I will also reject thee, that thou shalt be no priest to me: seeing thou hast forgotten the law of thy God, I will also forget thy children.
Hosea 4:6 KJV
Crossed referenced with
Job 36:12,
Proverbs 5:23
Proverbs 10:21

Proverbs 4:7 Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom: and with all thy getting get understanding.

Just like the person of Jesus is different from the Principles of Jesus, so also anointing does not automatically bestow on you administrative knowledge nor wisdom to healthy living , nor principles of success etc . The later must be sort off books and the experience of a mentor / others.


Btw, should you not know, the person of Jesus grants you access to God( in salvation and solemn fellowship. John 1:12; 3:16, Acts 4:12, Colossians 2:14-15, and heaven and answered prayers and you live above things that affects people generally( sicknesses & diseases, misfortunes, evils etc Ephesians 2:5-7) . So giving your life to Christ grants you all these and many more.

while the Principles of Jesus works like Chemical Reactions. Add a mole of Oxygen to 2 moles of Hydrogen and you are bound to produce 2 moles of water. As long as the earth Remaineth,seed time and harvest shall not cease.... cast your bread upon the waters.... Give and It shall be Given..
Believe it or not, Life is to Share, give and solve challenges and those who would really live life to their brim of earthly fulfillment and uttermost design, cant but give and be solutions to mundane bane . You must Give out CO2 to get O2. You must give Defecate to ingest some more. You must give time, Love, resources( Yes! you must use your resources to promote the gospel of Christ through offerings, seeds.... Forget those t etc.
You must give worship to God your maker and touch lives positively while on earth you thread.

Life is for the givers!

Jesus affirmed this: Acts 20:35.

It is with a heavy heart, sad sense and utter disgust i pen these thoughts and hope it sinks down into the deepest part of the hearts of all Anointed men of God( Ministers both in songs and the Word); those that have been called and those that would be called here on.
Let this enlighten and remove every deceptive veil the enemy has been using to blind fold and Blind bolt Anointed Ministers smearing the name of God with shame and disrepute. Rubbing the noses of their family name on the dust of humiliation, losing their high regard and respect, ending their Heavenly Mandate and effectively driving them into the valley of obscurity.

Chronicles of evil ills of so-called pastors( though i cant verify their veracity, there aint no smoke without fire). Nonetheless, we know some go into ministries with wrong motives, most are wolves in sheep's clothing let the true ones learn.

Read and be guided:

http://www.pulse.ng/gist/randy-pastor-ghanaian-apostle-caught-having-sex-with-married-woman-on-her-matrimonial-bed-photos-id5079029.html

google randy pastors. you would be shocked what you pulled up.

Dont, out of stupidity, say this cannot happen to you. so many of them up there said that before they fell.

Wondering what the purpose of this thread is? To enlighten, Inform transform and mold anointed minds in the proper ways of the Word and Wisdom. And avoid the pitfalls of fallen great ministers long gone before you. You must know that most times, to ministers, the devil comes in subtle sexy formats! formats you would never suspect. Unless your spirit man is alive. Most times, he sows seeds into your mind tru the sights of your eyes.

Having said that, Your calling is the very first step. After that, you must study to show yourself approved. Studying does not only involve the Bible. Every Leader must be one step ahead in every knowledge bank. Readers are Leaders in every fields. Ask google. Every great man have a reference point. A mentor. Someone you can ask those silly questions, someone that understands them and have proven track record. Buy their books and tapes. You must find one!

After Your calling, your next step; go to a Bible believing Church and enroll in their Bible School. You would not only learn how to pass across the Word you have been called to its mandate, you would also learn church management skills and most aspect of ministry's administration would be revealed to you therein.

tosyne2much:
They can't as well blame us. Every bad guy has been maltreated by ladies

You get the jeck gee. And the ratio is astoundingly alarming in favour of them soft dolls .

Besides, some of them are bearing the brunt of their sisters misgivings. Eating from d burnt pot their sister cocorted.

Nonetheless, we advise guys to live above such mortal paybacks.

tosyne2much:
There are still few of us who can easily be trusted

If you cannot place absolute confidence in a man then what's the essence of allowing him to be your partner in the first place ?

Everyone one has at least been betrayed once which marked the end of whatever bond that hold us closely. It makes us feel bad and at the same time strength us

But I don't subscribe to the general norm of "trust no body", instead, I believe in giving everyone that crosses my path an unmerited privilege to prove himself/herself instead of categorizing every man as your ex you bridge your trust for him

Succinctly said.

That plane fly and crash does not mean we should fly no more.
And because of the intricate n illogical weaving of the heart, she can struck gold in d most untrustworthy mines.
Go figure

Come what may, we would take to the skies and engrave our initials across the sexy smile of the beautiful sun.
We are no mere men.

And by default, guys like me came fashioned with trust packs. No matter what, ladies can't but trust us. Not our faults. Its left for us to chose what lane we lean.

@Lekekoko

NLand mail is a circus and i cant filter tru:

mail : datingdrill@gmail.com

NB: only private and sensitive messages only. Post general questions here.

We are on a transitional mode hence the infrequent updates. but this would end soon. By Friday 1st September, we gong Hu and resume our mandate of freeing guys from the shallow claws of mediocrity and neediness.

So help us God.

Regards
Don

if you may, drown her in a thousand Roses of Romance
Kill her with care
however you may, never let her know!

That was a move to unsettle n make things difficult for Osinbajo, we saw tru it! Now that their tyrant is back, they quickly withdraw it huh?

Smh!

Drown in Roses of Romance

Enamoured in Rivers of Rhymes

Pelted with Prime aplenty

Robed in Royalty

Flavoured in favour

Garnished with Grace

The air attest

ehlote:
@Harddon you have saved a life thank you so much i appreciate let me just stop here for now

Deep!

Nland mail is a circus : mail: datingdrill@gmail.com

Common rats could unsit d general yet he comes blowing hot air about he would decisively deal with......

Shame!

So many fights on so many fronts: he is fighting

Some Disease
Boko boys
Militants
Hunger
Economy
Age
Cabal
Kwaruption
His wify
The east
Well meaning Nigerians
And a host of others

Lil wonder he wud rather be out there chewing his kworo n siping his kunu

StrawberryGloss:
That kiss looks too passionate to be sisterly

Mmmm, introspective. extrapolative. Wata mind.
As for Me, i don't know why two sisters wud Eva think of locking lips

Btw, if it's truly urs Bday, A raise a fvcking glass to u