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FamilyRe: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by harjay1986: 12:19pm On Jan 01, 2024
Vinnie2000:
Same thing with all Doz Students Re-union Parties. sad

If you no Get Money, just pem for one side or DON'T attend at all. undecided
Bros i understand re-union but family especially siblings noooo noo, that family is Mess up big time, even if people wan talk say this one get money pass this let that come from outsider
FamilyRe: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by harjay1986: 12:16pm On Jan 01, 2024
adioolayi:
Avoid and remain poor na..

You think anything on earth beats human resource and quality of relationships you have with other peoplehuh

You think someone that is termed "poor" because he or she doesn't have money don't have other ways they are indispensablehuh

There are problems money cannot and won't solve..quality relationship can do.

If you think you are poor...make sure you are useful in other ways...with that, luck and fortune can smile on you
Thank You bro you dey avoid your own family just because you no get reach them no worry now when then begin to trust outsider past you no ves naa soo... I think you getting invovle will make your sibling to reason your matter to be equal with them except if the family glorify riches irrespective of who first get
HealthRe: I Am 39 Weeks And 5 Day Pregnant. What Do I Do To Induce Labour Naturally by harjay1986: 9:38pm On Dec 30, 2023
samwash:
I nor kwn where the Op they rush dey go, why not allow natural cause to take it place.
Las Las the baby good still come out by him self.
I don't kwn why some pple there days dey opt for CS.
Some of our mothers gave birth natural to 5-6 Babies why our generation come different.
My wife is an example of the Hebrew women
Forget our mother try to reduce their urge for food, you see these set of ladies ennh, them fit eat a whole elephant, them go come put the husband for tight corner, of him they take the calcium supplement regularly if she take inducement drip within some hour everything go dey alright I pray
HealthRe: I Am 39 Weeks And 5 Day Pregnant. What Do I Do To Induce Labour Naturally by harjay1986: 9:32pm On Dec 30, 2023
uyogabie:
Be a little patient ma'am.

You can take a very long walk though or climb the staircase up and down.
Sometime naa just waste of time, my woman just take inducement injection or drip early this month and withing 24 hour the baby and the mama the do well
CrimeRe: Shocking Moment Man Agrees To K*ll His Mother For Rituals (Pic/Video) by harjay1986: 2:18pm On Dec 30, 2023
Sccarrr:
Igbo kwenu , another Audio billionaire wan use hin mama...no b new thing over there tho undecided
Just let this stop this year abeg, ahhhnnn, naa everywhere the thing dey oga forget which one be Igbo again, let think the way forward, not ethnic gas gbos, una no dey taya
CelebritiesRe: Ola Of Lagos Busted By A White Man Over Fake Price by harjay1986: 10:31am On Dec 29, 2023
LaIabobo:
To those saying Ola was given the price by the seller dont want to be truthful.

Ola should understand that he’s now a brand and people are influenced/would buy things based on his advert.

His followers would expect better from him and not feeling scammed after buying something he advertised to them
Just because you are a celeb, now I go give a niche to promote you go dey mention your own price just because you want to be fair abi,
Nairaland GeneralRe: Don't Enter 2024 With Your Addiction.. by harjay1986: 5:17pm On Dec 28, 2023
Dexy4yah:
Please do whatever it takes to drop that your addiction in this 2023.

Are you not tired of being a slave to it??

Let 2024 be your year of new beginning.







You can do it🙏🏻
Says who?
Naa your addiction?
BusinessRe: Ebenebe Residents Trooped Into Blord's House For Christmas Gifts (Pictures) by harjay1986: 12:12pm On Dec 27, 2023
LordBiden:
Which billionaire?
The same crypto that is dipping everyday with losses.

He only uses crypto as cover up for his main hustle,never trust an anambarian when it comes to money things.
Yes the crypto dey deep everyday to new investor not to people wey don buy when bitcoin is 10usd per one
PoliticsRe: EFCC Uncovers N37B Fraud In Humanitarian Ministry, Indicts Sadiya Umar-Farouk by harjay1986: 8:22am On Dec 24, 2023
Satazaa:
absolutely correct, In Nigeria there's an unwritten code among our past leaders that no sitting president should probe an ex-president, but can probe thier appointees, and believe me those appointees are always the ones that pillage our commonwealth mindlessly, Deziani is hundred times richer than Goodluck, Umar dikko than shagari, late Chief Fasawe than obasanjo, then buhari was the worst of the lot, his appointees like Malami, Emefiele, Sadia Faruk, Isah Funtua, mamman Daura, even including Aisha the wife stole so much that their great great grandchildren will never know poverty again, even Bubu is now in complete shock upon realizing what happened under him while just answering Mr president Commander in chief of federal republic of nigeria
To me is like these thing are intentional, assuming you are the sitting president and you want to embezzle you can as well use me been one of your loyalist and minister since if everything bust you will be outside to work my release while I will be in custody knowing fully well that once the whole saga is down my compensation from you is enough for all my children
PoliticsRe: EFCC Uncovers N37B Fraud In Humanitarian Ministry, Indicts Sadiya Umar-Farouk by harjay1986: 7:14am On Dec 24, 2023
searchng4love:
https://punchng.com/efcc-uncovers-n37bn-fraud-in-humanitarian-ministry-indicts-buharis-minister-contractor/?amp
I don't know the kind of Law we practice in Nigeria, in sane country, you can't be arresting Ministers and co and leave the President that do the final authorization alone, We should just remove that immunity, let everyone face the charges against them, for instance Emeifele own, shey Buhari will say he know nothing capital No
Also bargaining plea should be cancel a thief is a thief nothing more
FoodRe: Which Is More Economical For A Large Family by harjay1986: 5:57pm On Dec 13, 2023
lonelyatdtop:
Please let's rub minds, which is more economical, with this harsh economy and weather conditions, one cannot do without bathing with boiling point water, And cost of everything has skyrocketed, a bag of charcoal is above 5k, 1kg of gas is above a thousand naira and kerosene is also nothing to write home about, so please, I'd like to know how you cope with your families this season, which do you use and why?

1. A charcoal 2. Gas 3. Kerosene 4. All or none ?
Thanks for your input.
If you have constant light get electric burner or inductor
FamilyRe: Home DNA Test Kit - Is This The Expected “Apocalypse”? by harjay1986: 10:17pm On Nov 29, 2023
Coolsat:
Knowing what I know, this will break a lot of homes.

No matter how you trust a woman, please secretly conduct a DNA on all your kids.




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I don't have a seconds to doubt my woman never, sometime no be everyone get luck for marriage
PoliticsRe: Ogun State: Emerging Industrial Hub Of Nigeria (Pictures) by harjay1986: 8:31pm On Nov 26, 2023
INDOMIE9090:
it won’t be bad if OGST, build new cites in areas close to Lagos.
This will enable people live in the those new cities and work in Lagos.
Something like this should be done in OGUN.
egypt
There is something like this along lagos - ibadan express way after Sagamu interchange
PropertiesRe: My Family Now Homeless - Man Whose ₦300m Mansion Was Pulled Down In Lagos by harjay1986: 9:11pm On Nov 24, 2023
CoronaVirusPro:
Even in your homeland, if you do not do proper verification, you can still fall in same shoes.

The point you should be emphasizing about is, doing due diligent investigations before venturing into real estate investment.
My own be say head must roll, all the land seller like the estate builder must be brought to book
TravelRe: The Shelter Where Some Nigerians Are Living At Mississauga In Canada by harjay1986: 11:12am On Nov 24, 2023
optionalY09:
Go home or get help from Nigeria community in canada. Black people need to fix their character and start loving each other. Those who have accommodation should assist the people that do not have.

Love yourselves before you start asking others to love you - Use your brain
Good point but some Nigerian are just not good to be help, some years back when christ embassy pastor say make those people wey get motor the assist who no get when ever service end, before you know it Naa armed robber you jam so
PoliticsRe: West Africa’s Largest Ship Berths In Lagos November 27 by harjay1986: 7:50am On Nov 20, 2023
Xhuntra:
Always sounding off
Why are you bitter, the man is actually advertising his Region, if you can't do the same the keep shut
TravelRe: The Only Type Of Nigerian Who Will Enjoy The Japa Lifestyle Of The West by harjay1986: 6:58pm On Nov 18, 2023
sukkot:
bro stop capping. The country is a shithole for a reason. Even your senators all go to the chambers to sleep. The only thing that motivates a Nigerian is money and even at that he will try to cut corners. The ones who are doing well have to be put in white systems and white countries under heavy white supervision
That means you cut corner too
Music/RadioRe: Nigerians Have Bought The American Market - Ghanaian Music Executive (video) by harjay1986: 6:43pm On Nov 18, 2023
Thinktwicemybro:
Ghanaian sings with their language that's why they don't make it that far in music. Use English
Nope, Asake sing with Yoruba, and some other artist in Nigeria sing with local dialect yet we can still control many space... forget if you are good you are good nothing more they should up their game there is time Jamaica rule with Raggae but thats getting low now
Christianity EtcRe: 'Vanity Upon Vanity' - Pastor Tobi Shows Off Fleet Of Cars On His Birthday by harjay1986: 9:38pm On Nov 14, 2023
Thundafireseun:
There will be three surprises when we get to heaven. Some of the people we thought would be there, won't be. Some of the people we never thought would be there will be. And surprise number three, we will be there.

Bear it in mind that you might see General Sani Abacha, Tinubu, Lie Mohammed , Asari Doukubo , Wike , to mention a few in Heaven

While pastor’s like Pastor Reno Omokori …Pastor Tobi , Odumeje might not be in heaven with me
And who tells you there is heaven in the first place??
TravelRe: South West Regional Railway Will Link 44 Cities -DAWN by harjay1986: 6:38pm On Nov 05, 2023
DeLaRue:
huh

Nigerian politicians like to deceive the people.

44 cities ke? Where is the money going to come from. And where is the need?

Ondo, Osun, Ekiti can barely pay salaries. Pot holes everywhere in their intra city roads. General hospitals with 5 or less doctors.


Yet, politicians who can't fix these basic needs are promising railways that the populace don't need, and which the governments can't afford to build or maintain.

Many SW politicians are so deceitful.
This is not from government, we hope BAT get us to regional government
FamilyRe: Friends Defend Nigerian Lady Who ‘divorced’ Her Husband At Airport In London by harjay1986: 6:09pm On Nov 04, 2023
Tokotaya:
Microsecondnews Reporter 5 mins read

Friends defend Nigerian lady who ‘divorced’ her husband at Airport in London upon arrival

The dramatic case of a Nigerian man, Henry Osah, who arrived in the United Kingdom with his kids to reunite with his wife but was dumped at the airport by the wife who only took the kids with her is continuing to generate reactions.

Even as the lady in question has spoken up to defend her actions, a number of her friends are also speaking up in her defence.

At least one of the friends, Peace Obule, felt so strongly about the case that he prayed that the man would be deported back to Nigeria, adding that even then it would not be enough for what he did to his wife when she was with him in Nigeria.

The story was broken on an online community for Nigerians in the UK by a lady with the Twitter handle @jayydubby.

She wrote:

“Hello everyone,

A family friend of mine is in urgent need of a job with sponsorship. Last month, he arrived in the UK with his children as dependents and his wife went to pick them up at the airport and asked to see their children’s passports, which he handed over without any suspicion. She then told him that their marriage was over and wanted nothing to do with him. She took their children and abandoned him at the airport. He just come to the UK for the first time to join his wife, who came last year to study. He helped pay her fees and sold off everything he had to join her.

Today, the Home Office sent him a letter saying that he has until 1st of January, to return to Nigeria. He has nothing to go back to and may never see his children again.

I am pleading with anyone who can help him with a job referral so that he can stay and fight for his children. If you know of any job openings or can put him in touch with someone who might be able to help, please reach out to me. I would be incredibly grateful. 🙏🏼😥.”

Letter from the Home Office to the estranged husband. He must leave by January next year unless he finds a job.
Many netizens reacted to the post with cynicism, insisting that the marriage must have broken down before now for a woman to take that action.

JayDubby responded:

“For those saying it’s unbelievable, these are some of their chats before he travelled. They never quarrelled. She feigned happiness and was even asking which soup he would like to eat.
A Twitter user with the handle @tiffanyibeh responded with some venom, accusing JayDubby of not telling the whole truth.

She wrote: “A family friend of yours ?? And you want to say you Donno how he beats up his wife back in Nigeria?? He’s been beating her up for years!! And coming to the UK was her chance of getting freedom! She did what she did just to be with her kids again!”

When JayyDubby tried to rubbish her version of events, @tiffanyibeh responded:

“Do u want to see evidence of bruises? Do you want to listen to some recordings?? Long before he came those evidences got to the police already! Are you also aware he tried to hurt her at the airport again too huh My dear you are no family friend if u donno this story.”

@Jayydubby again wrote: “Lol. So that idea of her going to the airport in clutches was because of this?”

@tiffanyibeh: “She broke her leg! Evidence dey!!! No dey cap!!!”

@tiffanyibeh: “If you say you are a family friend and you don’t know this story then you are a liar! If you are not married yet may you marry a man like him.

Everyone is very much aware of how he hits his wife, down to his siblings and parents and they keep saying he’d change for years now! My dear you’d do exactly what she did if you were in her shoes.

Another friend @peaceobule also spoke up. He wrote:

“This Family friend named Henry Osah is a serial wife-beater and a manipulative husband. I’m deliberately not getting involved with this but if I’m pushed I will share receipts of his wickedness. Your family friend deserves everything that came to him. I hope he is deported to Nigeria.

How can Henry Osah use the kids as a bargaining chip with his wife. She struggled to go to the UK and since then you have held her to ransom. You deprived her access to the kids because you said if she doesn’t also help you to the UK, she wouldn’t see her kids.

The matter long.
https://microsecondnews.com/index.php/2023/11/04/friends-defend-nigerian-lady-who-divorced-her-husband-at-airport-in-london-upon-arrival/
In as much as we disagree to agree, have made up my mind that anything that make me slap a woman am dating hmmmmm thats the end of the relationship... beating woman is a no for me and right now I don dey inject the same to my children.. you must defend them just that women a stupid but anyway just let go of that stupidity and move on
PoliticsRe: Reasons Why Lawmakers Rejected “Made In Nigeria Cars” With Chinese Material by harjay1986: 5:29pm On Nov 03, 2023
MICHEALADEX:
I can't risk buying a copy cat with my money


Innoson has copied almost every durable brands including Mercedes Benz gwagon
Thats a lame excuse, we have a lot of Chinese Yuan unspent with CBN that we can as well use for currency swap. This is not the time for choosy attitude, them wan buy you car and you still dey choose brand.. how many of them, can afford such car with their hard earn money
PoliticsRe: Local Crude Producers Demand Payment In Dollars by harjay1986: 7:32am On Nov 03, 2023
ajailer:
I am sure when the FG sold d oil fields licenses to the oil companies, d payment was made in dollar and nobody saw it as being wrong. The equipment were mostly bought and imported into the country through dollar transactions while these companies have lots of expatriates whose salaries they pay in dollar. Now that the companies are saying they want their payment to be in dollars, we are now waking up to say it’s wrong. Patriotism should start from the FG then the citizens won’t have any choice than to fall in line.


The level of unpatriotic doings by everyone is mind boggling, no wonder why our currency is struggling against the dollar but when are we going to wake up and start doing the right things by making sure all things Nigerian come first?
Best expo so far, you nail it
PoliticsRe: Local Crude Producers Demand Payment In Dollars by harjay1986: 7:29am On Nov 03, 2023
Baba4kinatu:
Crude Oil is an international transaction, not matter how local you see it.

Why should i sell to you in Naira, when my business spreadsheet and expenditures is calculated in dollars
No matter how international it maybe, there is always equivalent of the transaction in Naira, we can't be struggling with paying other country in dollar and also be struggling the same thing inside
BusinessRe: N1m Shares My Dad Bought In 2002 Is Now Worth #11,561.46, How? - Craze Clown(vid by harjay1986: 6:21pm On Oct 29, 2023
TruthsFM:
Hmm 🤔. Na huge inflation in the economy caused it

1 million naira stock my dad bought for us in 2002 is now valued at N11K” – Craze Crown cries out

He said that in 2002, their father, concerned about their future, decided to buy shares with the expectation that they would appreciate and convert into a large sum of money.


“You have failed as a mother if your son prioritizes you over his wife” -Skit maker Craze Clown

Craze Crown, a popular comedian, regrets the discovery that the one million naira stock his father purchased for them 11 years ago is now worth only N12,000.

The legendary comedian made the announcement on his Instagram page while lamenting the country’s current state.

He said that in 2002, their father, concerned about their future, decided to buy shares with the expectation that they would appreciate and convert into a large sum of money.


Unfortunately, this was not the case, as the currency had devalued to 11,561.46.

He was furious at how worthless it had become and questioned what he was supposed to do with such a small sum of money.


https://www.gistlover.com/1-million-naira-stock-my-dad-bought-for-us-in-2002-is-now-valued-at-n11k-craze-crown-cries-out/
The same 1million naira on bitcoin as at 2010 is now around 20 billion naira plus, always do research before you invest
CelebritiesRe: Mr. Ibu: Bukola Saraki Foundation Clears Bills Of Ailing Actor by harjay1986: 7:36pm On Oct 20, 2023
Taylor94:
Great one from Bukola


While Isaac FAYOSE and his rest of Yoruba brethren made it a political issue asking Peter Obi to pay his bills like say if Obi send money he will come announce to them


South Southerners who followed Yoruba to do Justice for Mohbad Shebi una dey learn


Tonto Dike wey be Rumuokwuta daughter carry Mohbad for head even when Yorubas was insulting her


Can the Yorubas carry any PH artist like that?



Enough said



If you like call me tribalistic, yes I’m tribalistic and na una teach me am for this Nairaland

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For those of you shouting Bukola is a yoruba man yen yen yen


Oga Bukola is from Kwara and the last time we all checked Kwara no be Yoruba land no let Fulani own


No let Fulani hear una say Kwara na Yoruba oo
At least naa muslim man do am watin your Christian brother do .....
CelebritiesRe: Mr. Ibu: Bukola Saraki Foundation Clears Bills Of Ailing Actor by harjay1986: 7:28pm On Oct 20, 2023
sholikay:
Good gesture...God blessings upon the foundation...

Abeg which foundation fit gimme too money to support my wedding coming up next month?...

God surprise me too ooo...
Naa by force??
PoliticsRe: Tinubu Approves ₦35,000 Wage Award To Civil Servants by harjay1986: 1:34pm On Oct 20, 2023
babaRUNtinz:
Lol,we wey dey private sector nko? We no be Nigerians abi?
NLC only fight fir the federal worker nothing concern them with us wey dey work with private firm.. some private firm dey try sha... like mine now it get as them do am which am happy with
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Will You Accept This Job Offer Or Turn It Down To Travel Abroad by harjay1986: 12:56pm On Oct 16, 2023
ednut1:
No oil company paying 350k a month give’s company car. Make una stop all these imaginations.
Even common oil servicing company that I work with pay more than that for lower employee
PhonesRe: Why Your Family Should Know The Password To Your Phone -nigerian Woman Tells Men by harjay1986: 5:11pm On Oct 15, 2023
obembet:
If someone gets hold of your phone or tablet the thief suddenly has access to everything on your device. While some of your apps will require passwords and multifactor authentication, many apps, like your photos and notes, typically do not.

Also, if you don’t log out of your social media or email accounts on your devices, the thief can have a field day pretending to be you.

For this reason, you should have a lock screen

installed on your device, and it should be difficult to get past.

My take: whenever you lock you phone, make sure that at least one trusted person of your family know your password especially your wife

According to X user @BilkisAlao who share how woman running up-and-down looking for a way to transfer money and save her husband life.

Here is what she wrote

If not for anything, At least for the sake of that day that you may not have the opportunity to access your phone, let two or three people know your password .Wives are running helter-skelter here at general hospital, wanting to unlock their husband's phone to transfer money for his hospital bill, but they can't, till the man give up 😰......And another one, he was hit by hit and run driver, non of his siblings or wife knew his password and he's in coma

Source : BilkisAlao
Every mallam with hin own kettle, my wife know my password, my atm pin and I know her own, she even know some of my side chicks so watin I won hide
Forum GamesRe: What Can You Say About This Photo by harjay1986: 9:11pm On Oct 13, 2023
Peledonomy:
Let me go first.
1. Know your limits
2. Look before you leap
3. Some opportunities are traps
4. You must not win all fights
5. Stay in your area of strength


Add yours.
Sometime the risk we see are just mirage, they are not real, leap to achieve your success, you only have one life
Foreign AffairsRe: "You Ruined This Country" Angry Civilians Yell At Israeli Minister (video) by harjay1986: 7:37pm On Oct 12, 2023
Never4getU:
Shut up n stop allowing religion becloud ur sense of judgement. Who is going to be happy to have strangers take over his or her land at gun point, dispossessing them of their ancestral inheritance of landed property and still take away their liberty because they are powerful. Don't u think someday, monkey will go market and ceases to come back home? That's what happened to Isreal. Though they pound Hamas but they will also feel the effect of their actions.

I don't support terrorists actions as they have no justification but cheating isn't good
Some people like associating themselves with anything... even Israel don't even give one inch respect to Christianity, and the last time I check the key to the Christian holy land in the same Israel is with a Muslim Family

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