Nazgul:
This is a case of misplaced priorities. All these banning isn't important, who go fúck go still fúck. They should focus more on improving the learning conditions of their students. Punish lecturers who threaten female students with an "F" if they don't have sex with them, go online so that if as a lecturer you can't make it to the classroom you can lecture your students wherever you are and give them assignments which they'll do and submit online.

American and UK universities don't have all these dressing restrictions yet they're among the best and most advanced universities in the world. What's wrong with us the African Continent.

Divine081:
Abike is a bigot. Her bigotry came into play with her comment. She insulted the whole Nigeria thinking she was insulting and obedient or even maybe an Igbo youth. May God heal her hateful heart.
Also young people should understand respect is important and know they can always pass their message without insulting people.

Womanwoman:
Hello guys, I recently opened this account solely for this purpose. It's going to be a long read, please bear with me. I need very sincere and mature advice(s), please.

My husband and I have known each other for 11 years, (I was 16 years old and a university fresher. He's 3 years older). We've been married for 5 years, and have two boys. He's a very adventurous person whose job necessitates him to travel frequently. I always accompanied him on his numerous journeys while we were single. I am a freelancer and have my time to myself, provided there is light and internet. Throughout the time we courted, we travelled, explored strip clubs, parties and all..including churches..lol. I have never had him cheat on me….well, not until we got married and had our first child.

At that time, my hormones got messed up and I had a very low sex drive. I was overwhelmed with having to cater for my baby owing to the fact that I live in a different state from my mum - she came over and spent a short while with me when I had my baby. I had a help come over thrice a week solely to clean the house, while I attend to my baby. My husband, as usual, travels interstate for his work. He also performs his responsibilities and I really appreciate his sacrifice for the family.

I complained to a gynecologist who prescribed some medications to balance my hormones. I'll tell you that I even had to use the regular aphrodisiacs alongside. It finally balanced about a year and half and everything went fine. A year after, I conceived of my second, and the hormonal imbalance and everything that happened with the first, happened. This is with me trying to find my way around it.

Well, I found out my husband employed the services of escorts on about 3 occasions especially when he travels. I confronted him sternly and I even made jokes about it - I didn't want to be too harsh, and I wanted him to open up to me completely. I didnt want my actions to push him outside further. He mentioned that I sex starved him, and he didn't want to make me feel any worse by being persistent. We resolved it, and I mentioned never to go through his phone again.

He employed a new staff in February this year, and I was part of those in the selection process. I wish that never happened. I wish I was against her employment.

In April, the kids and I had to travel to another state (where his small company is located) just to say hi. He comes home frequently, and sometimes spends a considerable time at home, but this time, the kids were on holidays so we travelled.

It was there that I found out that he was having an affair with his staff. I confronted him, he cried, begged, and promised it won't happen again…talking about how much his staff respects and is scared of me, bla bla. Again, I let it slide. Whatever he had with his staff continued, and they became extra careful about it, but in one way or the other, I found out again - in june-, and as usual, he begged (this is with me being as civil as possible. Before we got married, I used to be the type that before he says A, I'll have said A-Z). But overtime, I intentionally stopped that attitude.

I forgave him and everything became normal, not for it to happen the third and fourth time with him begging each time. During these periods, I have been careful not to involve family because I feel they can be biased with each party supporting their own, coupled with the fact that the situation will linger on, especially in the mind of my family members even though my husband and I reconcile. They might cause them to have a resentment towards him.

The wahala now is that this thing has happened again, and he has been begging. I have asked him to sack her, but his excuse is that it will affect his work as it's a contract job. He said he'd relieve her once the contract is over. He has promised one last time, but I told him that I find it hard to take his word. This time, I really raised my voice with my old Margaret Thatcher's attitude…lol. I lashed him severely with unkind but very choosy words such as "a liar from the pit of hell, and hitting him hard about how unable he is to control his libido. I was hurt. He has promised and reneged countless times, and I now fear that the trust in my marriage is broken.

Even though I am hurt, I don't want to be separated from my family. This is because my parents were separated when I was little, and I knew how tough it was, growing up. Due to the separation, I don't have a good relationship with some of my siblings because the four of us were separated with two being with my dad, and the remaining two of us being with my mum. I never had a single fatherly love. None.

I don't want the same to happen to my kids. What can I do, Please? I still love him, but I am seriously heartbroken and do not trust him anymore because he'll still have to continue working with the said girl.

I am currently on family planning and at the same time trying to balance my hormones. I'm tired.

Freestainworld:
That is civilization for you, When they fail to employ civilized people to do a work and opted for touts.

Rosyflower:
Rant! Rant!! Rant!!!

The pressure is getting too much for me.

I don't know how much more I can stay celibate.

Been separated/practically divorced for about 3 years and all this while, I never had anything to do with any man.

The sexual urges comes monthly and it has been the grace of God that I haven't given in to self pleasure or actual s@xual contact.

I am in my late 30s, a mum with a very high sexual Libido which I have been controlling but it is getting too much and I can see myself giving in already but I don't want to.

Almost 3years of no sex is not a joke.

I can barely keep up

Last night I slept with my pu##y throbing wet and my niqqle erect looking for who to practically chew them.

For how much longer will I hold out.

I have been able to build my spiritual life to a level but my flesh is getting too weak.

My body needs s&x

I need to get laid

I need my back bonned out till I am gasping for breath.

Yet I don't want to sin against God.

I have begged that he destroy the s@xual feelings in my body.

I want to be married properly before having s3x (yes, i am definitely remarrying).

Two years ago, I bought a little bullet vi brator and a pu33y sucker but I never used it. It's still there brand new.
I am tempted to dig them out and pleasure my self.


Ha!!! God help me

Cyntie55:
I know you feel so heart broken seeing your mother in such situation but you shouldn't have brought it to a public forum.

Do you know the emotional pains that woman is also going through? You just stated that your grandparents don't want her visiting home again. That means she already had issues with them.

Again, she already had failed marriage/relationships that I can't judge whether she was the one at fault or not. That alone shows she's really going through a lot.

No matter what! she's still your mother and she still care about you. If your mother disclose to you half of what she's going through, you might hate Life generally.

I'm not saying prostitution is a good alternative But all I'm saying is that Life is not fair to anyone.

obo389:
But why now?
The offensive attack by our security agencies has been tremendous.
Is it because of the coming campaign?

Great2017:


The bold is a massive lie

Davidave:

DO NOT bring children into the world if you know you cannot give them a decent life, a good education, if you know you will not have enough love and willingness to take care of them properly, a child should not come to this world to go hungry and suffering. Children should not come to the world to pay for their parents' misery. Be responsible and don't just think of yourself.

Lamanii22:
I’m a mom of one and I decided to become fit and trim but it has been the other way round, I’m getting chubbier when I’m supposed to be losing fats. I’m very much dedicated when it comes to my exercise routine, my food has totally reduced as my tummy has really shrunk so I don’t eat much, I dont Even eat dinner. It’s just disheartening for me when I’m not losing weight…. Or maybe there’s something I’m not doing right you guys can give me some tips that has worked for you… thank you.

mrrandomguy:
I sat in a rickshaw one afternoon with two boys on an errand to deliver charmed waist beads, anklets and armlets. I asked the older boy the price of the waist beads. He said ₦300. Many destinies worth ₦billions have been destroyed with a ₦300 item.

I remember what a lady said about her waist beads. She said any man who touches it will close his bank account on her head. Even if he is married, their wife will become irritating to him. She had about 24 strings. Two of it disappeared during the prayers.

I was once addicted to women's waist beads. But I thank God for delivering me.

Some say it is for fashion, it is a big lie. 98% are actually spiritual snakes.

Romanoff:


Show me your mama own fes. Make we know if na the one wey them give her before them born you she still dey use.

Bastard child of a hoe.

Romanoff:


Yes o. Your mummy is our comrade, your sisters too.

Wonderful colleagues we all are.

Romanoff:
From Vawulence HQ, if you know, you know.

Militant1:
I will try to be brief and straight to the point.

My wife stays up late (11pm -12 am) every blessed day.... That's the problem.

We live in Lagos and have 2kids, 3yo and 8 months. My wife was working before but left the job when she gave birth. There is a job waiting for her when the baby is 1y6mnths, therefore she is a stay at home mom.

We live on the mainland but I work on the island so I live home as early as five. In our house we have all the amenities you can think of; 24 hrs light (NEPA plus inverter), running water, gas, 2 washing machines etc to make a home 95percent comfortable but my wife can't seem to cope and it started when we had one child.

She doesn't wash my clothes, my office shirts and suits are given to dry cleaner to arrange while my other laundry I do myself every weekend with the washing machine.

When I get home by 7pm or 8, that's when she now starts rushing to bath the kids and prepare dinner, so we eat by 9 or 10. Before the kids play play and play, by 11pm we are still awake. Sometimes I go to bed by midnight and have to wake up by 4am to go to work again. It's impacting on my health and my work. She will sleep by 12 am and wake up by 8 or 9am the following day.

I have tried to beg and appeal to her. If I eat out and come home to just sleep, she go dey vex. If I just come home shower and sleep the kids who have passed their bedtime will be playing and when madam is ready to sleep they won't agree to sleep. She will beat them, guess who they will come crying to- daddy that just started sleeping and has to wake by 4am, I will now pet and pet till 2am before kids sleep.. I have advised her that kids have a bedtime(8pm). When I man up and off the tv by 9pm and tell everyone to go to bed, she says I am disrespecting her. She reports me to her mum.

Worse still our sex life is horrible... We have sex like once in 2 month.. At 35 I am in my sex prime and can Bleep everyday but she doesn't seem to care about me because she is always tired am I pity her so I don't demand sex so much.

I fully understand stay at home is not easy and I help her when.

I tried to create a schedule for her.

Wake up by 6am
By 7 she suppose don clean finish
By 8 breakfast should be ready for her, kids
9-10am bath herself and the kids
10-12 do any other stuff in the house
12-3pm rest, watch movies, chill
3-5pm... Do whatever she likes
5pm boil water and bath the kids
6pm she don bathe and bath kids
7pm... Food don done... Everything dey freezer
8pm we eat
By 9 everyone goes to bed and we knack 1hr

I throw the trash every day
Na me dey go market buy foodstuff
On weekends I clean the house
I wash my all my clothes
I provide all the finance in the house
I satisfy her on the bed when we naka. She begs me that she's tired
I buy her gifts, drop 3k for her everyday
Why should we have a house help when she is a stat at home mum (for now)

So what's the problem..


Mothers, are my demands too much?
Mothers, please when do you close your kitchen and go to bed?
Are you still awake by 11pm every blessed day.
Am I crazy?

Please advice me.

I have begged her, pleaded, shouted, done everything. Sometimes I intentionally come home late (10-11pm) thinking that the kids have gone to bed but my first child will be watching cartoon.

Please advice me. I am going crazy, Lagos is stressful

chatinent:
What of we who suffered from small ourselves?

misano:
1. So are you saying, we in the SS are waiting for Wike's approval before knowing what we want? What kind of insult is this?

2. Stop making North & SW feel special. Goodluck in 2011 didn't win states in SW or even NE and NW before becoming president. Were you born yesterday?

Buckeyemedia1:
Then we stick with APC, same statement I make to Confused Obidients & hungry Labor Parry members.

Better the devil you know, but mind you I am not supporting anyone, but I have a very strong notch that Tinubu & APC will retain power, they have no plans of leaving Aso Rock.

Buckeyemedia1:
Return to same Atiku representing PDP today, that brought APC to power?

Rekhina:
this tinubu follower shut up
I know Arrewa ,he has strong position in Arewa forum and you ,who are you ?

During election yorubas will hear from the north .

Arrewa:
The Hausas have the tendency of forgiving and forgetting at any given time!!


But not the JALLOS!!!


We have the records, the videos and all the comments supporting the killing of innocent Northerners on behalf of southern unity.

The killing of innocent Niger migrants, the killing of innocent Northerners!! We all have the records intact!!!

Mammangaddafi:
Na Nigerians cast not Nigeria

Abdul05:
It seems they have ignored the fact that APC is still the ruling party .,


To defeat APC they think it is a joke...

DontBullshitMe:
Is that make-up not too much?