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Sweet couple.
HML

ogawisdom:
Happiness is a choice

Money brings comfort, provides almost all ur needs. U will feel better crying in a range rover than crying treeking under the sun. money answereth everything

U will be more likely to be happy with money than without money.

The way I smile each time I receive a credit alert is priceless, it can increase lifespan.

Money pays bills, life is impossible without money

My dad used to tell me something similar and it's true.

Gmajor:
Most people are saying spear the rod and spoil the child, but let me ask you, did you watch the video?
This form of "discipline" is excessive and over the top. This is the type of discipline that breeds resentment and hatred on the mind of a child.
We have so much normalized abuse in our society that people look at abuse and they see nothing wrong in it.

Stockholm syndrome.

Zoie:
Those of you applauding abuse and the idi.ot who uploaded it, after all the beatings and slaps your parents gave you, why are you still struggling?
Many of you are fraudsters, both male and female. You doubt me? Try doing any business with any of these folks. You'll never see your money again. Some of you use juju to hoodwink others, some of you steal from your workplace, fvvck other people's spouses and do all sorts of evil.
Some of you paid your way through school, never sat for exam with your brain. Some of you do drugs sell drugs that have destroyed lives. And many of you are as dumb as fvvck.
Your parents beating didn't do sh8t for you, poor, dumb clowns. Miserable, abuse - loving louts.

Too harsh but very true.

Stockholm syndrome is a psychological condition that occurs when a victim of abuse identifies and attaches, or bonds, positively with their abuser.

magicminister:
What do you mean bro? We have terrorism, kidnapping, pervasive rape culture, corruption and so much more!!

Clearly, our style of upbringing is not working!!!! Come on!! We have to try something different. Average Nigerian kid only complies with their parents cos they don’t want to get whipped. That is slavery!!! Then when they leave the parents home, they turn into the very deceptive monsters the parents turned them to.

They go to church, cry to God and smile at every one then go back home and rape a child, then kidnap someone, then loot billions, then bomb people.... then ...

The way Nigerians justify this kind of upbringing with 'we have all turned out so well' would make you think that the country is full of saints.

Insecurity is a bitch.

Babanlagenius:
Honestly I had an experience with a lady I dated for 3 years. We sang together, made love and we thought we would get married but one faithful day I told her I wanted to move on cause I was broke and I needed her to start a new relationship with someone that was willing to satisfy her needs and also ready to get married.

She abused me, cried and begged me to come back that she would wait no matter how long it takes. Albeit, I didn't change my mind.

Few months later, I noticed how I started missing her and always wanting to call her but pride wouldn't allow me. How did she cope without me? How did she forget about me so easily? Is it common for ladies to forget their exes so easily than men?

Please I want to know from you guys cause this is really crux to me.

Maybe she followed your advice and found someone 'better'. If this is the case, forgetting was very easy.

And they filmed it and even uploaded it on social media. No wonder their daughter behaves stupid. In this family, like parents like child.

SirBen90:
Thanks dear.

Our world is so full of hate, strife, and competition. You'll be surprised to find that a small act of love, a few words of kindness, can heal a broken soul.

I love it.

SirBen90:
I wish OP didn't have to bear the emotional trauma alone. If only the guy responsible for the pregnancy had stood by her.

When two grown-ups decide to have sex with each other, they should be prepared for the two most life-altering outcomes: pregnancy or STDs. But it is human to err, and the deed is done, so OP, I personally want you to forgive yourself, and use this occurrence in your life as a reminder to extol responbility and calm consideration before taking any action.

Don't look down on yourself, or deprive yourself of success. Rather, be prayerful, be purpose-filled, and get into a platonic relationship with someone who really loves and cares for you.

You're still young, and before you get sexually involved with anyone again, be sure it's with your husband.

I do not know you, but I'm rooting for you.

Become a successful, prayerful, happily- married woman, and live life to it's fullest.

God bless you.

This is so kind of you. Lovely!

Come back when it's time for no. 3. I might apply.

Maybe he is simply content with his life the way it is.

Juliusdaughter:
One of my exes just had a baby, we were unable to get married because of parental consent.
I have kept my distance since then, we are not fighting, he calls and text.
I do wish to go and visit the baby but I dont know if it makes sense.
Will you allow your ex visit your home cos of your newborn?
No FP please. Just few responses are okay

Why?

xynerise:
The MAIN purpose of marriage is companionship.

Procreation can be done without getting married

You can have companionship without marriage too.

It depends ...

The psychological motivation is to derive a sense of stability and feelings of security. This is what marriage vows 'till death do us part' are mainly about, to have someone until you are no more, someone you can depend on. Then the couple start a family and create a micro-community, have children who they hope will look after them in old age. This amplifies the feeling of security. There is more to it psychologically but I believe that the need to belong and feel secure is the main driving force in all of it.

From a religious angle, people get married to 'legalize' sex.

From the sociological perspective people get married because they have been conditioned to believe that this how it is done. It's a convention, the norm. We all know what happens when people put off marriage for 'too long' or refuse to get married altogether.

From the legal perspective to make the union lawful which contains a pragmatic aspect since it determines inheritance rights etc.

It depends on the individual which purpose is of greater importance to them. I guess having a sense of security is what is most important to most people. Feel free to disagree.

mariahAngel:
If you're not going to help someone who's possibly in need, don't give others reason not to help the needy.
Give others the chance to come to their own conclusions.
It is for your own good. You might genuinely need help someday ( not necessarily financial), you wouldn't want someone to prevent others from helping you right?
In every situation, before you react, ask yourself "how would I want to be treated if I were in this situation?", then act accordingly.
Nobody can survive as a loner.

I swear I love you.
I have noticed that I disagree with you on some issues but you have such a good heart it is easy to respect your opinions.
Keep it up nne.
And let the naughty lioness out whenever needed too.
I will get you a new electric chair if needed.

ojoj:
Yes yes yesYes yes yesYes yes yes 100%. I am 15 yrs in d union with kids. I always thank God for the blessing of my wife. She is a blessing to me, a supporter of good things. In my next life, I will choose her again. I am using this opportunity to thank God.

I love to hear stories of bliss.
It's a blessing indeed.
Not everyone will receive this blessing and be able to say what you can say after 15 years.
Lucky man.

Prestonn:
You can have everything....Nessun problema

You are the best!

Romangalactic:
You're right, old people don't flirt with women. They ask them straight up to marry them once they acknowledge them as the best.
Sexual flirting is for women you don't want to take serious.

So how many marriage proposals have you gotten from nl?

Good night kiddo.

Ariza:
Lol... Most of these guys know nothing about what they claim. One minute they are Kings their next post, you wonder if they are Kings of clowns. Lol , it is well.

And the way they explain themselves online? So entertaining!

The king of clowns maybe?

Romangalactic:
Lol, I'm the one giving her my attention, not looking for it.
Ask Maria if anyone flirts with her here the way I just did.

Or even you, has anyone ever flirted with you on nl?

The more you write the more of your inferiority complex you reveal. Who cares about flirts on NL? Least of all someone with unlimited opportunities. Oh boy! This is why I asked you how old you were.

Romangalactic:
Exactly. Approval and encouragement are not synonyms

Ariza:
This....
No boys don't chase me, I'd die of embarrassment. Lol

Please enjoy your"rude sexual flirting" nah your type dey claim ENTANGLEMENT

The man with unlimited opportunities is looking for 'attention' online.

Romangalactic:
Pssst.

Proving I am confident by posting my personal photos on an anonymous forum to make you feel better, is not confidence at all. That is called seeking approval and kings don't do that.

Send me a mail if you're serious, I'm waiting.

Kings don't need approval but they needed your encouragement.

Romangalactic:
Is any of that a lie?

Awwww, she called me mean. Now I see what the problem is, I hurt your feelings. You ladies can create a thread for yourself, this one is for Kings

You are too young to understand but let us see your pictures first. A king should not be ashamed of himself.

Romangalactic:
Send me a mail. nothing you type will make me post any private photos of myself or my Queen here.

Not so confident after all.

Romangalactic:
How did I put women down?

You reasoned that women's declining desirability is what gives men leverage. Only weak people feed of other people's (assumed) disadvantage to feel stronger. You are not a king, you are a mean little troll.

Romangalactic:
Lol.

MariahAngel I like your guts in demanding for respect You're fiesty and I like it. I'm going to bring out all of your fiestiness if you free yourself with me

The man with unlimited opportunities has been put in his place. You have been in this situation several times hence such threads. I am starting to feel sorry for you.

Romangalactic:
Which horn did I toot? That men should not settle for less or that men are kings?

Why does this hurt you

You were trying to uplift men by putting down women. It does not hurt me, it disgusts me.

Romangalactic:
If this is what you desire, you for just talk since na
Send me a mail, you don't expect me to post private pictures here

Since you are Mr Confidence post them here. Are you ashamed of your Royalty?

Romangalactic:
Na wah o. What do u want me to show u? Food pictures like you?
Cos this is the only thing you are showing on this website na

I am not the one tooting my own horn here so I have nothing to prove.