Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Hathor5(f): 4:40pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
Akposy: Thanks. I bought it...I think it is made with rice, sugar and yeast I will google the recipe. Thanks for the inspiration.  |
Family › Re: Two Woman, One Child , One Pregnant What Should I Do ? by Hathor5(f): 4:39pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
*sighs* I wish you had someone to advise and guide you before your got yourself into this mess. And it's obvious your first relationship could not have led to something solid right from the start.  I don't know where you are located but you can't marry two women everywhere. I also don't know the nationality of your foreign girl but she might consider you crazy (literally) when you tell her of your desire to marry two girls. Whatever you do, make sure to be a good father to both children. One of them will suffer from your absence anyway. |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Hathor5(f): 4:30pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
GboyegaD: Lunch: Rice, Beans, and Plantain with a side of Mixed Veggies, and Chicken.
Dinner: Baked Potato Wedges, Greek Salad (substituted Greek Ranch for Titsazki(not sure of the spelling), Meatball, and Meatloaf. Yum! I feel very hungry now. |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Hathor5(f): 4:29pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
Akposy: Masa sprinkled with yaji I want to try those. They look extremely delicious. |
Family › Re: A Warning To Career Girls | A Gonzalo Lira Video by Hathor5(f): 4:27pm On Jul 29, 2020 |
Belafonte: This is interestng. Did she give any insights on what she considers as a worsening of her life? Gestation itself? Childcare? Covid? Care to share? The pregnancy was difficult in the last two months. She mentioned the sleepless nights, the fatigue, the fact that she is at home all the time (had a busy social life before with many hobbies), total drop in the libido, painful intercourse, no time to take care of herself even though her mother lives next door and helps (of course everything revolves around the baby) and that she misses her job. She has found a business opportunity which would allow her to work from home which tells me that the fatigue is not her main problem.  |
Family › Re: Married Men Who Cook For Their Wives Have Lost Their Dignity by Hathor5(f): 11:17am On Jul 29, 2020 |
J111333: You think he is just being stupid? Nay, I believe he is mad for making such a statement. Again, I respect his rights and ma'am biko be careful not to be sued for tampering with human rights. Mek una allow the young man to enjoy his weed-induced madness in peace. Your need to indirectly bring up a completely unrelated topic has impaired your ability to reason logically. |
Family › Re: My Wife Cannot Cope With My Sex Needs by Hathor5(f): 8:30am On Jul 29, 2020 |
EastanPower: My wife is complaining that I demand too much sex. Personally I can have sex every day as I value it even more than food . She is saying that I want to kill her. What work do women do during sex? Is it not just to lie down at the very least while I sort out the rest?
What can I do as I am determined not to cheat on my wife but I am being denied. I am confused.  Every day is a lot to ask for. bold Are you sure you are married? You don't seem to know much about the female anatomy or about sex in general. |
Family › Re: A Warning To Career Girls | A Gonzalo Lira Video by Hathor5(f): 8:28am On Jul 29, 2020 |
I met a friend last week for dinner who had had a flourishing career before she got pregnant last year. She delivered the baby in February. She said her life has changed for the worse.
Women should know themselves and not be guided by self-proclaimed experts on womantology. |
Family › Re: Househusband? How Does It Feel Like by Hathor5(f): 8:26am On Jul 29, 2020 |
Casemiro: so you would prefer a househusband who does more chores at home, provided you earn more.
Would the table turn around if he begins earning more Him earning more would not make me enjoy sitting at home all day long more but it would be better for our finances for him to be working. |
Romance › Re: Nigerians Are Hypocrites When It Comes To Sex. My Experience At Shoprite by Hathor5(f): 11:18pm On Jul 28, 2020 |
Prevention is better than cure. Keep buying condoms. The people in the shop were behaving like overgrown babies. |
Family › Re: Married Men Who Cook For Their Wives Have Lost Their Dignity by Hathor5(f): 11:14pm On Jul 28, 2020 |
J111333: I don't understand why they are attacking the young man. He is simply exercising his right to madness so people should respect that. He can exercise his right to madness be stupid and people are free to exercise their right to shred him for it.  |
Family › Re: Married Men Who Cook For Their Wives Have Lost Their Dignity by Hathor5(f): 11:08pm On Jul 28, 2020 |
bukatyne: The responses on this thread na die!
Bros has spoken his own. 
On a serious note, it is funny how Iwe Ego is receiving backlash for expressing his opinion because it doesn't seat well with 'popular opinion' at this end.
There is no freedom of choice afterall.  There is a huge difference between choosing not to cook and insulting those who do. And it's highly laughable that you often think yourself to be on the side of the 'unpopular opinion'. |
Family › Re: Why Are Some Parents Like This? by Hathor5(f): 11:03pm On Jul 28, 2020 |
nazablossom: Thank you very much. I did my best to help. I pray that the poor boy got healed You really did. Update us if he does. The pain he must have suffered ...  |
Family › Re: Why Are Some Parents Like This? by Hathor5(f): 10:43pm On Jul 28, 2020 |
How I wish I didn't open this thread. I feel so sad and angry at the same time but I will not speak from anger. Nazablossom, I find comfort in the thought that there are people like you in this world. May you be blessed abundantly.
This story shows that children need to be protected, sometimes even from their parents. We need offices for child welfare. |
Family › Re: Married Men Who Cook For Their Wives Have Lost Their Dignity by Hathor5(f): 9:36pm On Jul 28, 2020 |
Anything to attract attention. |
Family › Re: Househusband? How Does It Feel Like by Hathor5(f): 9:28pm On Jul 28, 2020 |
pocohantas: They can twist logic on its head sha. Anything to counter their feminism.  The things I learn on NL. Truly impressive.  |
Family › Re: Househusband? How Does It Feel Like by Hathor5(f): 9:27pm On Jul 28, 2020 |
Unnerve: I wouldn't know. Is it?
What I do know however, is that feminists are never happy with women who chose to be completely submissive, to worship, and to grovel at the feet of their husbands.
It's possible that this freedom of choice in feminism is strictly limited to only those choices already deemed appropriate in the feminist handbook. You seem to know many feminists and how they always or never feel so you should also know that feminists can choose whichever roles they deem fit in their families.  |
Family › Re: Househusband? How Does It Feel Like by Hathor5(f): 9:00pm On Jul 28, 2020 |
mariahAngel: Well, for me, I'm very traditional. I do not fancy a man being a househusband at all.  It's good you know what works for you. |
Family › Re: Househusband? How Does It Feel Like by Hathor5(f): 8:48pm On Jul 28, 2020 |
Unnerve: This is the definition of a househusband, and if feminism and gender equality should ever be taken seriously, then there's nothing wrong with a househusband going by the above definition.
It's a brave new world and I recommend that all feminists (in staying true to their belief) ought not to have any issues with househusbands, and may also ensure they are married to such. I love women who can walk their talk. Isn't feminism about the freedom of choice? |
Family › Re: Househusband? How Does It Feel Like by Hathor5(f): 8:43pm On Jul 28, 2020 |
mariahAngel: Who wants a househusband?  Me! I hate chores and I don't enjoy playing with children all day long so I'd rather work than change diapers. So unless it doesn't make sense financially for him to stay at home because he makes more money than I do, I don't see why turning traditional roles upside down should be a problem. It would be for a limited period of time anyway because I don't see why anyone would want to sit at home when the kids are old enough to be at nursery. Most mothers I know have resumed work, even if only part-time, once the kids were old enough to visit nursery. Though I enjoy cooking, I imagine the husband to be waiting for me at home with the kind of meals the gentlemen from the food section prepare.  |
Family › Re: Househusband? How Does It Feel Like by Hathor5(f): 7:05pm On Jul 28, 2020 |
Casemiro: It is known that some men prefer housewives who are always at home.
Now let's look at it from a different angle. What about househusbands? How does it feel like to be one.
By househusbands, I don't mean a man who sits at home washing the dishes, cooking, and doing the laundry while the wife is out there doing one business or the other to bring food to the table. If my job brings in more money, this solution would be highly welcomed. By househusband, I mean a man who makes his money passively and doesn't need to go out everyday to bring food to the table. He probably has a business that fetches him money, maybe he is into real estate, works online as a freelancer, has many shops with boys, or any other source that gives him ample time to stay at home.
such men prefer staying at home than hanging out all day.
So, how does it feel like to be a househusband?
Your input is highly appreciated I am suspicious of this solution and I don't want a man who hangs out all day even if he can afford to. |
Family › Re: 73-year-old Woman Gives Birth To Twins by Hathor5(f): 7:02pm On Jul 28, 2020 |
I heard that IVF in some countries is only allowed to be performed until a certain age and I think it is sensible to have an age limit. |
Family › Re: "Mummy Calm Down" - Boy Negotiates His Way Out Of Beating By His Mother by Hathor5(f): 6:56pm On Jul 28, 2020 |
Finally got to watch the video and I find it very disturbing. How can a small boy be so scared and desperate? The kneeling part was heart-breaking. |
Family › Re: Wife Fight Mother-in-law Over Who Will Sit In Front Of Her Husband's Car (video) by Hathor5(f): 6:55pm On Jul 28, 2020 |
cococandy:

Imagining you on the roof And I sing to myself what a wonderful world ...  |
Family › Re: Wife Fight Mother-in-law Over Who Will Sit In Front Of Her Husband's Car (video) by Hathor5(f): 10:42am On Jul 28, 2020 |
cococandy: I have no idea why this is an issue.I can’t relate
I Will gladly sit anywhere there’s space in the car. Seating in front doesn’t mean you’ll form the husband and wife bond stronger.
Mind blown by the things that continue to be issue to some people women.
Who entered their kitchen. Who opened their pots. Who sits where. Who called them by their birth name.
Petty issues.
While tolerating real serious and astounding disrespect in other areas of life and acting like this serious issues are how things are meant to be  Childish behavior of people who have nothing meaningful going on in their lives. I would even ask her where she prefers to sit. As long as I don't have to sit on the roof or in the trunk, I am good to go.  |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Hathor5(f): 10:40am On Jul 28, 2020 |
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Hathor5(f): 10:40am On Jul 28, 2020 |
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Family › Re: The Negative Side Of Growing Up In A Family That Aint Yours by Hathor5(f): 2:28pm On Jul 27, 2020 |
Klass99: I hear Lanre Olushola is a really good therapist but he doesn't come cheap either. Perhaps, in a covid era he may have promo rates.
I'm touched by your story and childhood experience. Your biological parents shouldn't be having children at all. Considering the way they both abandoned then neglected you, moving on to start new lives and new families, as if you never even existed - that part actually stung and I am not even you.
I'm reading a book by Dr Joseph Murphy, it came highly recommended by a close friend, so far it's been a good read. I think it may help you, it's titled 'The Power of Your Subconscious Mind' do check it out.
The audio version can be downloaded for free from YouTube. You'll have to download via the site savefrom.net
Sending you good wishes and hoping you overcome your dilemma. Same here. |
Pets › Re: Can I Be On 75K Salary And Still Own A Dog ?? by Hathor5(f): 2:25pm On Jul 27, 2020 |
pocohantas: Cc; Jornwhite, read the comment of a sensible human who understands independence in this context . Lmao @ days. Where would it be in those days?
I would be very concerned if I don’t see my dog or zmpp for days o. Maybe a truck has crushed her or someone has killed her because cats are witches. You don't let a dog run around freely though we used to have a dog we found hurt on the street when I was little and helped recover that stayed with us after his leg healed. We would still let him roam the streets freely because this is what he was used to. If by any chance he would not show up in the night, he would wait in the morning to take me to school. until one faithful day ... I still miss this dog.  Cats go out to hunt, play with or fight other cats, mate and enjoy nature.  Sometimes they accidentally get locked up in an abandoned building and die if nobody returns to open the building on time or get crushed by cars. That's why I have taught my cats to walk on the leash.  Ok, only one of them has accepted the leash. I am still trying to convince the other one.  |
Sports › Re: Joseph Yobo Plays Football With His Wife And Kids (Photos, Video) by Hathor5(f): 1:50pm On Jul 27, 2020 |
Three kids. Cute and a whole lot of work. |
Family › Re: The Negative Side Of Growing Up In A Family That Aint Yours by Hathor5(f): 1:49pm On Jul 27, 2020 |
Telling you that you can still do better is what many biological parents tell their children too and I understand how it can affect their self-esteem. What I find more interesting about your story is that you have not mentioned your biological parents' complete absence as a key factor in the development of your self-esteem. |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Hathor5(f): 1:41pm On Jul 27, 2020 |
Prestonn: Village kitchen
Camp life
Meat time You are the God of food.  |