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MrBrownJay1:
yes being an unemployed parent is easy because kids are at school/kindergarden all day long.... so you technically have nothing to do all day but becoming an expert in TELEMUNDO!

Acidosis:
Hathor, are you for or against pre-marital sex? Also, I'll like to understand your reason. Thanks

OLAADEGBU:
I agree that she did not reference her research but I do know that Europeans have taken up sexual lifestyles that prevent procreation but promotes sexual pleasure as opposed to third world countries who attach great importance to procreation after marriage.


From experience and observation, premarital sex is primary for sexual pleasure and not for increasing population hence the prevalent use of contraceptives and abortion.

It is equally true that premarital sex can lead to single parenthood but this does not necessarily increase the working population.

MrBrownJay1:
no it certanly aint, but we do know that today's kids all have one gadget or the other to take their focus away...hell, if you send them to a fancy school, most the studies are done on tablets and computer, and although it aint so good for the eyesight, it's better than having them carrying tons of books etc.

this is the 21st century lifestyl... how many kids do you see playing outside today, compare to before? also, with all the dangers of today out there, i'd rather my kids stay home in a safe environment than out there surrounded by pedos and mad people!

OLAADEGBU:
I believe she based her research on Eastern European countries but with my experience I can safely include the Western European countries.

One of the reason Germany allowed a large population of refugees from Syria was to fill in for their dwindling working population. They had a low production rate due to their selfish lifestyle.

Africans and Asians have a large production rate. They bear more children. The do not see sex as being for pleasure alone, they genuinely see their offspring as their pensions - thus increase the working population.

OLAADEGBU:
Is No Sex Before Marriage Out-Dated Or More Important Than Ever?
12 JANUARY 2022

Research suggests that the number of unmarried Christians under the age of 35 who are having sex, has risen from 20% in 2008 to nearly 60% in 2021. Author Carrie Lloyd discusses abstinence and why we shouldn’t give up on it.

Even if I was an atheist I’d be abstinent at this time. We’re completely misusing sex. We’re chucking quite literally away diamonds.

If you look at the fecundity rates (the ability to produce an abundance of offspring) in Eastern Europe, which is an area that is highly sexually liberal, it is now around about 1.3. In order for a community to repopulate the fecundity rate has got to be around 2.2. It just shows that our sexually liberal ways are not repopulating the planet.

We’re not just having more sex, people are doing weird stuff that doesn’t actually impregnate anyone. Some of the sexual activities that I’ve had to pastor people through in the last few years have made me think: ‘Wow that’s a new choice. I’ve not heard that one before.’

Source

OLAADEGBU:
How and why did I make it difficult?

MrBrownJay1:
just because men have decided to focus on bringing the cheddar and paying for everything, does NOT mean we are bad at this particular subject... many men out there who are fulltime fathers, aint suffering, as i have always said that being an at home housewife is the EASIEST JOB IN THE WORLD....especially today where most kids are more interested in their Ipads/gadgets than anything else!



true, but that certainly doesnt mean we are bad at "looking after children", is it? also, in today's world, the gender role in families has greatly evolved, and a father can easily cater for the family while mummy is at work slaving 18hs per day!

LettyLayo:
With the advent of social media, this young ones have information at their finger tips

What would you advise your teenage kids as regards dating?

Thank you for sharing your thoughts

We4all:
E be like say you get amnesia. She is famous, a millionaire, and her influencer. Should I go on or stop and help you to find your memory?

We4all:
Ok. So, her mom and Rita Dominic are age mates? By the way, Regina Daniels has always been destined to be great. I’m glad her mom did a great job on her.

saintbillion:
haven't u read on this same forum how a woman was the landlady to the house she and her husband was living? The husband was paying rent without him knowing the wife is the landlady lol

saintbillion:
don't look at it that way dear. Why do people get divorced after marring thesame woman

daddytime:
Situations could have changed in between their marriage, the time of the secret building, and ultimately his death time.

People and situations does change in marriages hence, separations and divorces.

saintbillion:
Depends on the type of woman sha

daddytime:
You are very right oh my brother.

I didn't look at it from that angle...

nrexzy:
Well it shaaa depends on d kind of wife him get shaaaa.....

No b everything woman suppose know...
Tell ur family e get why....

saintbillion:
some women ain't worth to be married

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Very..stay blessed big woman..

Farfalla:
With all her wahala, a man somewhere is drafting a strategic plan on how to woe her, now that she's single.

All those men castigating her will marry her in a heartbeat. Forget the noise and tantrums they make online. Sandra and Tonto na their type.

I pity women who try to understand this "logical" set of human beings.

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Hope you are doing great?

FERNANDEZISBACK:
All these adult kids that keep bringing their private life to social media tho...
Still trying to understand why people do that nonsense..

vickydevoka:
Lie. When he marries another wife. What do you think will happen. Unless the man is Rich

easzypeaszy:
it can't be Oga..we men are somhw..som1 like me if I stop loving der mother n we divorced I won be free wt d kids n may not visit sef..I fit dey send money..unless d kids r undr my watch..Men most attach feelings to wht dey see not hear

HacheNoire:
You will be fine!

Trust me!

But your kids growing up without a fatherly figure, will forever have a psychological impact on them.

The brunt of divorce is bared by the kids. You and their father will be fine.

BRATISLAVA:
Red pill guys on the forum will begin experiencing heartburn.

Odinaka00:
Rape has nothing to do with how a lady is dressed… kids of 3-5yrs old are raped… Do these kids wear seductive clothes? No. Old women in their 70s re being raped, do these women wear sexy clothes ? No…. Rape is a mental disease

heniford2:
you can wear pants and bra and move to slum areas alone too and say its men fault, Rape is bad but i have come to understand that 70% of Rape cases are caused by female