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ShaqFu:
that's the keyword, not full time. Remember newborn won't stay newborn forever.

ShaqFu:
women with entitled mentality. That is how I see them.

eazzzy1:
It would be a privilege to retire early and be a stay home dad aka househusband. I would really love to be very active in the life of my kids. Drop and pick them from school, take them to their games, have a hot plate await them when they return from school etc.

I won’t want to be a househusband without money though because women do not treat kindly men without money. I think we will see more men willing to be househusbands when more women are willing to provide for their families without a grudge.

To get the average woman to contribute 50% for the upkeep of their families is still a tug of war talk less of being the sole provider. If a woman has to solely provide for her home she doesn’t need the man and she will show him clearly in words and in deeds.

efficiencie:
If she is earning well enough to provide funds as I am, wow, I would love to be a househusband...no be to do housework? I will do the housework and pursue my dreams while I am at it. Learn another high level language, delve deeper into AI, learn Hebrew and Greek so I can study the original manuscripts, spend time cracking the tough questions in BD Bunday and Mullholand and even take a shot at Reimann...mehn do countless intellectually, spiritually and psychologically rewarding stuff while my wife busts her head night and day making money for us. sweet deal!

ShaqFu:
baseless assumptions, this is what this post of yours is all about.

Learn to back whatever you say with concrete fact/proof.

PS: Come to think of it. It'll be nice to just lay back and relax and ask the wife to buy you the latest phone, latest ride, latest clothes and the likes and also, you get to chase the family of the wife away anytime they come knocking.

Afterall, the privileges of the housewife should be extended to the house husband, isn't life beautiful.

dingbang:
Thank you for sharing Hathor5


God bless you

DoggoneDogg:
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Yet you responded to the gibberish...

DoggoneDogg:
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This means you have nothing sensible to say.
Move away make intelligent life comment abeg.

DoggoneDogg:
What harm is coming to the unborn child bar preferential treatment?

Please state.

DoggoneDogg:
I don't understand the hypocritical sympathy afforded to pregnant women if they weren't raped.

Bennysam:
Check my picture and see who you're calling hungry man, I'm not angry I'm just telling you the truth

descarado:
The thing is this, laila is a morrocan and there, polygamy is normal. Regina was never a threat. But when she was constantly ignored by the husband, she has to find her way out. They were surprised she has moved on. She never said something bad about this man but look at what Regina wrote there( it was obvious Regina and her people) concocted those to make her look bad. Go to ned Instagram account, from what I read, it was only Regina and her child. We wonder if this so called billionaire don't have other kids. I still ask what he does for a living and who gave him the billionaire status( the way we call people billionaire in Nigeria is mind blowing anyway).
I applaud this Lady's maturity. After ten years of marriage, she now become bad mum in the so called London trip.
Regina can holiday with her husband and nanny but this lady was seen with 3 kids without husband and nanny. Regina can go to club with her husband but this laila can't. I saw a video where she was dancing close to the man and he kinda pushed her away. That was her birthday. Ned sent birthday wishes we love you to her but for Regina it was I was I love you. This petty epistle endeared lots of people to her and who knows what she has been enduring. I really never cared about them but that letter was joke taken too far. She was even told to delete her Instagram for peace to reign. She should continue killing them with silent treatment.

And these small hungry kids that are ready to wash laila's pant if she looked their way as long as she grease their palms are having erection. Man's greatest undoing is denial.

Bennysam:
I'm not but i find out that foolishness runs in your family

Magnoliaa:
Nairaland Bureau of Statistics. Ask Poco, she knows where their headquarters is at.

Bennysam:
You are as stupid as i thought

Zao19:
More than 70% of married men face this type of problem including my self, if u are yet to married pls stop talking rubbish, u are yet to experience such.

Gaggii:
I must confess, the only challenge in my marriage is sex, I was not a masturbator as a bachelor because I have girls around me, if one no come another go show, but as a married man have turned a chronic masturbator because my wife is always complaining that she is tired.

I would gotten a side chick, but I had a second thought because the consequence will affect my home financially.

Am just so fed up.

If you are married and in same shoe, how have you being coping

GboyegaD:
He kept insisting on the bank balance and perhaps did not ask if they could go make withdrawal. If she buys him something anytime she goes out, she does appreciate him. I think what they need is more communication and Bros needs understand that he isn't owed as his reactions in my opinion feels so.

GboyegaD:
Oga, no wound yourself ooo. Money for bank different from cash for hand ooo. If you do not forgive, it's on you. It is eating you deep and not her.

Bennysam:
Nigeria women must find a way to blame men , even the educated ones

Mille:
And what should someone do if you have talked and there is still no changes?

jacoik:
may God and our ancestors bless you for this truth

9japarts:
You can make your opinion known without insults.

You are way smarter!

9japarts:
Men should sustain their role as providers.

If you had read the write up without bias, it encourages men/husband to take care of the home and be more responsible.

It is also largely against the new concept of sharing chores, which transcends from just being a choice, to a duty. It is not the duty of men to do chores. Will their dicks shrink, of course not. Should men know how to cook or do dishes? True manliness requires that!


The point is, men should focus more on their duties of being providers. If your wife complains of too much chores, the next action shouldnt be, let's divide chores, but rather, how do I make this easy for her. Should I get an help, or whatever will bring less pressure on her.

My opinion as to how husband should run their home, is necessary and counts. This conversation is important to bring a more balanced view. For men that will run with this , it reduces the number of sissies in our communities !


Now, if after this summary, you still don't get it, then forget about it.