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Chibydinho:
I doubt if its better sex because she gets much more from me ( not bragging though)... The main issue is that I noticed the other guy has been spending his life savings on her... That's scary because I can't see a reason why a sensible man should be that extravagant... I'm considering opting out honestly...Thanks.

Your brain tells you your girl is playing games, but you are listening to your emotion.
The others guy has given you free expo, freeeee, but you are still listening to your heart.
we all know it's difficult at this stage, but you have to do it the hard way..... Don't give this girl those attention you use to at all, spend less than 1min 30sec on the phone if she calls or you call, excuse yourself with one work or the other, just try as much as possible to meet new people, leave that new guy to spend his entire money till he goes broke and your girl sees his real identity.
Just try to detach yourself if truly you want out, when she realizes you don't even care yo know where/how she is in 4-7 weeks, network will start coming back to her head.
Finally, don't even attempt self pity like Tonto... upload a picture where you are laughing or smiling like Buhari is begging to meet with you, you can upload the pictures of your new buddies too.

Above all, you can disregard everything we are advising, because we all were not there when you simply walked up to her to start your love life..... and we all don't know the girls part of this story.
The ball is in your court

greatnaija01:
get another girl

tag her in your romantic posts on facebook.

take the other girl out and snap it as you dp

then find a third girl to be friends with you.. BE THE PLAYER...

NICE GUYS GET THE WORST GIRLS.... NICE LADIES GET THE WORST GUYS


So switch the game... dont ask her about her guy o... dont sleep with her or buy her anything....JUST MOVE ON without break up...This makes the girl feel guilty after some time... but now i can assure you that the other guy is giving her better sex, money or fun more than you and the other guy too aint a nice guy.... she is only his side chick.

PEOPLE NEED TO UNDERSTAND THAT PLAYERS CREATE BETTER PLAYERS.... its nt usually the first to cheat that wins... but the revenge cheat thats d one that SLAYS...


Let this your lady visit you and meet the third or second girl in your crib

let her call you and one of the two girls tell her you are busy... change her contact name to KID-SIS or DAYO MOTHER or somthin no one will hesitate to reply.

GIVE IT 3-6 MONTHS BRO.... she will be running back to you... BUT ONCE SHE COME BACK.. DUMP HER.

This is the assassins way to deal with such ladies... YOU LOVE HER TOO MUCH IS SIMPLY INSECURITY THAT YOU MAY NOT FIND ANOTHER BETTER GIRL... thats not true... FOLLOW THIS AND YOU WILL DO THANKSGIVING IN CHURCH SOON.

OMG!!! has the guy paid?
This is clear expo you are giving out cheaply

TrueHeart365:
guys these days are ultimate fcukboys and it's really annoying how you submit to these hoes whose love for you is only for the goodies you give them.

lemme tell you from my experience. i used to be this foolish for love until i learnt that humans will always take for granted what they can easily get.

my girlfriend of 8 months wanted to play that game with me and even though i fell for it at first, thank God for my mum and sisters who sat me down and thought me what i used to tame her.

bro, that you care about someone doesn't mean you have to give her your dignity and pride. she sees how submisive you are and will continue to take you for a ride until you become a side nigga.

invite her over(don't make the mistake of goung to her place), be a man and prepare for the worst while you ask her to chose between you and the new nigga(cos it's obvious she has developed feelings for him).

be the alpha male and set some rules in your relationship. which mumu love you dey talk about.

no woman, i repeat.. no woman will ever respect or stay loyal to a weak man. they want you to take control and the moment you can't they take you for a ride.

please enough of this silly "i love her so much" talk, it's no excuse to be the doormat in the relationship.

confam info you just gave out without charging fee...

This lady should go back yo the dictionary to understand the word "brutalize" instead of just showing that.
When you are with nysc, you are fully no longer your parents, and must obey the clarion call.
Moreover, almost 85% receive oversize kits, so I still don't understand this lady.

Since the beginning of time, till the end, men will always be attracted to those in bikini, dimply because the sensitive parts have been exposed for view.
It's just like saying one will be more attracted to a phone in its carton than the main phone unboxed, or a woman will be more attracted to a struggling man than an already made man.....
Moreover, when you see those Arabian ladies in veil (not hijab) one still gets very attracted, but still can never beat those in bikini, the hijab serves a purpose, the bikini too.

Man's best friend... I so love dogs

BaesDiary:
Thank you jare,
Hope you won't start drama 'on my head' afterwards too.

drama as how?

SalamRushdie:
Your assertions that anybody that finishes with a third class is not mentally sound is very poorly thought out ,there are many reasons apart from intellectual deficit that might make a person finish with a lower degree than others ..In the course of life I have worked with many people that finshed with lower degrees that were actually a lot more proactive and smarter than those that finshed with higher class of degrees which is one of the reasons dropouts and so called third Class people tend to do better in life than those that finish with better degree. They tend to become creators, pathfinders , innovators and game changers while those who finish with higher degrees achieve very little after getting a good job because they are quick to feel entitled that the world owes them alot just because they made higher grades at some school and truly the world owes them nothing but a Job and nothing else .

Going by you premise people like Tony Elumelu, Gani Fawehini, Ulysses Grant , Jack Ma and many other trail blazers who the school system considered dull should have been thrown away and left to waste... Your Certificate is only there for you to compete in the work place and that's why people like Dino are Senators today while their course mates are still grinding it out in one Bank or the other. Examinations have never been a true test of the capacity of any being

A very educative post for the op.... The op sounds like a course mate of mine in undergraduate days, who I seriously pray life doesn't bring close to my path.
Some people seriously believe in 1st class and so on as the test of intelligence.

This is very crazy...
Can't imagine how this all happened, and how long it actually took the snake to swallow the human.

Yeye guy, how much did he spend to behave like a kid? I dey owe that babe 3 bottles of Smirnoff, for her sharpness.

SalamRushdie:
From experience I am sure the OP is a lot more intelligent than you are

Perfect answer.
some people can be funny sha

This is not a cobra na, can't we try to identify again?
The other day, it was a Lion that was called a Tiger.... They also call turtle tortoise here too, na wa o.

So true.. Well said

Run Run Run... I have received it countlessly

Yimu Yimu....
that was how Kachikwu told Nigerians they will buy fuel as low as #100 in 6 months when fuel was increased to #145

Statsocial:
well do you know that CU alone is better than 3000 US tertiary institutions according to the last webometric ranking(which measures based on academics/research)
so don't run down Nigerian universities. It doesn't have to be white to be right

Please, can you give us the list of the 3,000 ?
And check those who brought about webometric, are they not whites? so how come they are right to you?

This is not a Tiger na, can't we differentiate Lion from Tiger again?
Tigers are not even in Africa anymore according to NatGeoWild.
And those asking where it will be, The oba's palace has a zoo, so it is interesting visiting the palace.

Wonderful wonderful wonderful

Who is he? Is he another one about to jump into the lagoon?
Everybody just looking for attention...
Why will a man give all his earnings to a girl? Even God only ask for 10%, so what on earth has the girl done/created to want all salary?
Any man that attempts such has no ambition or anything to do in life.

No matter how good you are, the man will someday get tired.

Make this man go find seat jare.
He had the chance to silence the old man that replaced him, yet he just ran things anyhow and allowed us give this "change" a chance to destabilize us.

God, what was my previous life offence that actually brought me to Nigeria?
If doctors are complaining of no jobs, then what can others talk about? Who will then help to treat the sick?
I just tire for this country that doesn't believe in planing for the next generation

NatureBoy91:
Just mention 1.

You know when you just don't have just one, because you just love football.... but one that I can mention aside them is Kaka....

Pele, Maradona & Ronaldo....
The 3 most important names in football, CR7 has increased the popularity of the last again

Part of this write up tallies with how Egyptians revered cats, and worshipped an image then.....
But seriously, if you love animals, you just can't hate dogs, forget our religion. Dogs have very similar behaviours with humans, my Muslim friends keep telling me Dogs are dirty, and I keep asking why we eat cows, goats etc, knowing they are dirty too (he doesn't have an answer till date).
God created all these animals before man, he gave all animals their roles to play, for an animal to be dirty that means God created it that way......
moreover, all animals don't shower, so only pigs rank higher in being dirty.

Lastly, these restriction given to the Muslim section should be given to others.... you can't put a restriction by making one declare being a Muslim on this post, their should be fairness at least. Nairaland.com shouldn't be biased abeg

Nonsense.... what is this world turning?

This is not new na...
The quality of the feed given to the birds determines this at times, I have eaten it well, I mean well well

Wetin post utme and utme do people ehn, even today alone no fit explain am finish.
And after this determination, you end up meeting the age barrier in the job market, this is pure wickedness in this Nigeria

Olboy....
I read just half, and can't hide my smile.... the guy should not waste what should be donated, abeg.

The man's mind is not stable right now, and the wife is not helping.
These kind of experience scares one away from settling down without having a sure business that brings steady income