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I can't laugh, the op must have had enough of their excuses.

It all depends on who you have, though don't put yourself in trouble for them.
Few are still wonderful being to be with in sorrow and happiness

It all depends in who you have, though don't put yourself in trouble for them. Few are still wonderful being to be with in sorrow and happiness

I just wonder why there is no restriction for people before commenting on the christian topic, there shouldn't be a bias concept, seriously, it will only bring more bashing....
To the topic, I really don't know why some Muslim girls get intimidated by this bikini of a thing, the hijab is not for you to look attractive, it is for modesty sake.
Those using bikini do that to show off their body.....
Moreover, when I went through pictures of other Arab countries, I realized they make use of scarf which is so good on them, very attractive I may say.

If they say church is a business place, some people will start taking things personal.
Is Teresa May not a Christian? was she expected to worship in a Mosque before? so why is this making headline?

The thing tire me.
I wonder why people are backing this govt, when all they do is blame the past.
Two years now, refineries not working as they claimed it will be, bag of rice, electricity bill.... If only things could be a little stable as it were in 2014 Nigerians won't feel bad

rogovo20:
Hi Nlanders,

Happy Childrens day to all the daddies and mummies. Quick one, my wife and I are 6 years into our marriage with 2 kids, from the inception of our marital union we have always had issues that stems on trust, we both have that issue, and when I say trust, it has
to strictly do with her bickering into my phone and finding somethings not worth shouting or condemning me for, rather for communication, but she does otherwise. In her own case, it had to do with her ex she always talked about when we courted for a short period before marrying. She told me she called him to seek advise and confide in him, told her to stop and threatened fire n brimstone, but later found out that she saved the guys number with another name, gave me excuse as to the reason she did it.

One faithful day, a year after marriage, 5 years ago to be precise, she had gone to the school she worked as a teacher, there also she takes my dauther who resumes at the day care there. 2 hrs later, she called me crying over the phone that there was an accident, I asked what happened, she said my daughter of 9 months old then had a severe deep cut on her lips that I should rush down. Immediately, I left and branched at the clinic where she was being stitched, I felt for the poor baby, because at that age with such injury was not nice. Immediately, I told her that we'll leave for home for the day. The clinic was not far from the school where she parked her car, so I asked for the key so I could go ahead and pick the car so we can all be going home. On reaching the car, I saw her wedding ring kept in the glove compartment. Was surprised because she always wear it, and wore it out to work. At that moment, was more worried about my daughter.

We got home, and I asked her why her ring was in the car instead of her finger,she said the reason why she removed it was because last Sunday I was staring at a girls ass and she was mad about it. In which I did, but didnt do it deliberately or seemed too obvious, I use style look, and it was more of a reflex, I am human. I apologized that very day, but to think after then, she decided to remove her ring because of that? RED FLAG. I kept my mute. Once in a while throughout the years, when we still have arguments, I ask her that I still wonder why she removed her ring, that it cant be the issue of ass staring that would make it that bad for her to do that. She kept on saying it was the reason. 5 years into the marriage now, we were having a deep discussion, then she started saying things about what happened during our early stage of marriage, that she called her ex, because that was the only person he knew as a bf then, reason why she confided in him, that he talked about leaving his wife too with two kids and run away to Canada with her bla bla bla. But the major thing about her point was that, she discussed the issue of me stearing at another womans ass with him, that was when the guy started packaging some stories that entered her head, which was the reason why she removed that ring on that faithful day. Wow! She now stated that she noticed he was trying to seduce her by seeing her, that he went to the extent of saying, if I should come and see u at that ur place of work, I might be forced to kiss you, stating that was when she knew he was trying to use words to have him come around, so he could have sex with her. I told her that whats the probability that they have not been seeing, she said NEVER. But then I reminded her of the day we had issues, she came back from work late, and I asked where she had gone, she replied by saying, I went to go and have sex with someone that has a bigger joystick that urs. She later denounced that it was a joke to get at me, its possible,, and it could be true.

Nlanders, sorry for my long story, if i dont put it down well, u wont know my stance on this issue, I wont say am a saint when I started this marriage, but I have changed, this woman up until now has not, I have another post to share right after this. Now my question here is, I WANT to keep my family regardless of whatever, but is it wise to Bleep that ex up? Because of what she told me he said, to me hes trying to spoil me to get into my wife, thats if he has not, because I one way or the other found this her ex wife number. And I have evidences to prove that she has been in communication with my wife. Or should I just let God judge? Cos as I bad reach b4 I marry, I have never, and will never sleep with a married woman, nor will I ever try to sleep with an ex who is already married. Sincere opinion needed.

Olboy, see advice upon advice....
someone mentioned you calling the guy up, which I support.

We are talking about your family, and some men will go any length to have their family intact.
Maybe you should call his wife, put it on speaker and let your wife know she is having a good life without problems in the marriage. Then call the ex, man to man, give a strict warning , the kind that brings the brain from the dead, because he is trying to scatter your family and keeping his own intact.

How do these girls think sef? This isn't attractive at all

Our sky is not as blue in reality, as what the picture shows.

goodlifehyd:
last census according to google shows 17 million and its increased to 21 million by 2016 while Ghana according to google is 27 million

My brodaaaaa, last time we conducted census was 2006 under OBJ, the figure stated Kano as the most populous state, and there is always an estimated growth.
That was why I mentioned, no where in the world can the population increase to over 100% in less than 12 years. How can Lagos have 9million + as at 2006, and 21 million + as at 2016?
No be money o.
We are still estimating and estimating, till we conduct another census. But Ghana is more than Lagos, no sentiment in that

goodlifehyd:
Just confirmed it and its 6million difference which i believe must had been halved if not covered with the rate at which people troop into the state daily

My brodaaaaaa, it is not near o.
The last census conducted in Nigeria puts Lagos as below 10 million, while that of Ghana is above 27 million. All we keep doing in Lagos remains estimate estimate estimate, there is a difference between fact o. Even if people troop in Lagos, it can't be up to half of the difference, some countries are not up to 3 million for you to understand how population is.
This is not money o, it is population, as long as Nigeria has not conducted another census, the population of the last one will always be used, and no where in the world will you have more than 100% of your last population figure in less than 12years. So that figure they keep claiming on TVC is mere speculation

goodlifehyd:
Ghana as a whole ain't upto Lagos in population, thou those phcn dude or whatever purposely skipped some places so they can still run their illegal shii

Did you checked the population before confirming what you stated?
Really, let's stop these many misconceptions

What Lanre Gentry can do, a woman can do better. abi no be so una don see am?

I don't know what he faced from his first woman, but can someone open this guys eyes to his career?
He is not relevant in football again, and this is not how to revive career at all

number5:
More often than not, I’ve seen people getting mixed up between crocodiles and alligators. While they both belong to the Crocodilia order, they are members of two quite separate taxonomic families. Besides, alligators DO NOT live in Africa!

The following highlights the major differences between the two species.

Overview

– You can’t see an alligator’s teeth when its mouth is closed; its lower teeth fit snugly into pits in the upper jaw. In contrast, a crocodile’s lower teeth are always visible.

– Alligators have a broad snout, while crocodiles have a thinner snout.

– Alligators tend to be grayish black in color, whereas crocodiles have a olive green or brown appearance.

– Alligators can only be found in the southeastern United States and in some parts of China. Crocodiles can be found all over the world


A more contrasting mix up found especially here on nairaland is the mix up between monitor lizards and alligators, especially owing to the fact that one of our most loved admin here loves his reptilian fantasies

As already stated, alligators are not found in Africa, so my beloved nlanders, anything you kill that looks like a big lizard , is a monitor lizard and not an alligator, and anything you kill that looks like a crocodile is actually a crocidile and not an alligator .

Read more below:

http://www.livescience.com/32144-whats-the-difference-between-alligators-and-crocodiles.html

Also check out some pictures below

seriously, this is educative as I am a lover of animals. But no one is talking about Cayman/Caiman as most Nigerians will call them Crocodile if they come across one, Infact it is really difficult for a Nigerian to differentiate between Croc, Alligator and Cayman, we call them all Crocodile.

YahuBoi:
thanks for this advice... but again, I can't tell God to bless you because he might end up not blessing you.

I've received a lot of blessings from men of God but not even one has reflected in my life

Do your thing with God, leave these men of God aside.
Just try something new, you will definitely get better result

YahuBoi:
I would've said that God should bless you for this comment, but I don't even know if God exist talk less of him blessing you as I've said. some stupid people here don't understand what I went through in the name of God will do this for you, he will do that for you... last year taught me a very big lesson and I will never in my rightful sense believe in anything called prophecy again.

If this year doesn't work, I won't bother myself thinking of going to school anymore.
I need money now not school

let prophecies rest abeg

See, God exist in everybody, God just likes working in mysterious ways, just to prove to us that he is God.
I also don't believe in prophecies, ahhhh, I got series of heartbreaks then when I was in your shoes. I simply poured my heart out to God in prayer then, and I told him what I will do in return if he could help me out, God did help me, and I had to play my part of the deal also, things worked out.
So, make your methods flexible, don't look at university alone, you will do better in these I.T firms, and you could run other part-time programs when you have money.
Really, you have a phone, you eat daily, you have loved ones, while some people are having it worse somewhere and still believe in God, so please just pour your heart deeply to him in prayers.
At times when God delays us we think he doesn't want the best for us, but he has a better plan for us, we only end up realizing at the end of the victory.

This reminds me of a lady that told me her husband was chosen by God, yet the marriage didn't last more than two years.

OP, the way God works is kind of difficult for man to understand, I feel your pain, been there, passed through a tougher route (in fact your own still good).
University degree is not the only way to be great, seriously registering for computer courses in these IT companies will make you a better programmer than a computer science graduate, in most cases.
Do other programs, and you will see that God will bless your hard work.

This people know how forgetful Nigerians are, and how gullible some are....
This same man told us fuel will sell as low as #100 in six months, way back when it was increased to #145, please has he achieved that?
Now, he has calculated when Dangote will be ready to reduce the importation, and talking as if Dangote is President or FG, I just weak for this country.

Bible was man made, it has the history of a lot of people that existed, even Mary mother of Christ, and Mary has a whole chapter in the Quran.....
OP, Let's not contradict ourselves jare....
Whichever rows your boat, follow, when it is time for Muslim festival I go celebrate with them, and when it is Christmas I celebrate too.
The main thing is to live well

The main one I can point to is the cow aspect, I remember Taraba camp, how can you kill a big cow and then serve people the equivalent size of a seasoning cube?
It was terrible

I believe they don't know batch A is just heading to camp MAY 23, else they won't talk about this ....
In fact, it is Muslims heading to camp that won't listen to all these they are saying, after many delays, they want to delay again

kimbra:
And you don't think some men should be also be mindful of what they say to their wives as that could bring out the beast in them?. Couples should know when to walk away when an arguement is heated.

Anyway, any man that'll beat me, I'll just divide his head into two and send one part to his family.

I wish they could counsel couples more, about walking away.
It's just a different ball game when we are in, than when we are not yet in the marriage......
And then, while courting the guy, once the lady realises he uses words anyhow (washing her), really, why not just stay far away from settling from such man.

Most ladies should please learn what to say and what not to say, as this triggers the beast in most guys.
Men react by what they hear

If some ladies like, they can follow these steps and fake all they like, divorce will not elude them.
You can't fake things and go into marriage, you may succeed to wed the guy, but the marriage will evict you, as things will show who you are.
Better you appear real, if the woman likes you, fine, if she doesn't, then forge ahead, faking all will only make the marriage an enduring war ground......

samyomz:
Nigeria should be scrapped

I can't laugh abeg, chaiii, Nigeria should be scrapped o

No be small thing o.....
I understand the fear of your cousin, that type of fear that you face, when your girlfriend is introduced to your siblings and extended family, and you just keep praying the question session should be a yes/no, else na die o.

A girl I know of, once faced this challenge, she even opened up to me that the moment she stopped watching Africa Magic Yoruba and those Yoruba movies, she improved drastically, whenever she watches American movies or nollywood, she is more interested in listening to sentences, instead of what the movie is about. Though she makes little mistakes, but since I wouldn't listen to her in her dialect unless she speaks English, she improved and gained confidence in speaking well, right now Dictionary is the main app on her phone after the other social ones.

If this girl is homely as you said, your cousin should just explain why she should be able to express herself well in English, as well as her dialect. We always can't have it all like oliver twist o

Her certificate language is in English, her country's official language is English, her phone's settings is in English, so bro don't mind those telling you who English help.

It has reduced na, unlike last year when they had about 4 Indian soap operas, it was crazy then......

All these pastors can easily confuse the gullible that refuse to read the bible, I don't blame them, money must be made.

Many girls around, yet we created a robot? I fear what marriage will mean in this generation, divorce will be so high soon

izzou:
You couldn't even see the sarcasm in my comment, instead you decided to show the world how frustrated and depressed you are

I pity your girlfriend,that if you can even walk up to a girl sef.

It's so sad that a grown up man like you doesn't know what humour sound like in a statement.

You better don't think of having kids. You may just club them to death because of your straight,depressed and frustrated life.

Mtcheeww

I wonder why people can't take a joke when they see one, or is it the present situation that is causing this?
Nice reply, you replied without insult which is so good.

Yet people will be insulting themselves for these people.